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RE: What standards do we want or is it no standards at ... - 5/15/2007 6:33:16 PM

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So. if I am reading this correctly, your 'complaint' is that you don't like the way you are 'spoken to' by subs/slaves on the board?

HEY!!!! Ease up there bud....I don't appreciate your approach here!

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RE: What standards do we want or is it no standards at ... - 5/15/2007 6:45:22 PM

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It's okay for a submissive to complain or bitch online.
But I avoid those that call themselves {a submissive or slave}and attempt to nag, complain or bitch
me to death.
In fact not only do I avoid them, I run like hell.
Don't deal with them, problem solved.
That will be $100 for the advice.

Can't say that I totally disagree with this stance...and find much to admire in it...

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RE: What standards do we want or is it no standards at ... - 5/15/2007 8:47:16 PM

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Faramir maybe I'll take time to contemplate what you wrote when you learn how to spell or at least use spellcheck at which point you may graduate from the 7th grade. Take a chill pill "dude".

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RE: What standards do we want or is it no standards at ... - 5/15/2007 8:54:56 PM

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Faramir maybe I'll take time to contemplate what you wrote when you learn how to spell or at least use spellcheck at which point you may graduate from the 7th grade. Take a chill pill "dude".

That was a snappy comeback brother. I mean, prior to that, you had succeeded in completely humiliating yourself with this thread. But now? Brother, you have covered yourself in glory. I think too, posting to this thread and bumping it up, you know, giving yourself a little more skyline, was brilliant. Fucking coup bro, a coup.

Further, I suggest posting again and again in this thread, you know, to help keep it alive, and keep making yourself look so good.

HAVE FUN CONTEMPLATING WITH TEH SPELLCHKR!!!

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RE: What standards do we want or is it no standards at ... - 5/15/2007 8:59:19 PM

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And your the one talking about rude remarks. Wow! How silly you must feel. You get back what you dish out. You got bashed in your thread don't take it out on those that have blatent honesty and call it like they see it. Let the thread die a dignified death.

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RE: What standards do we want or is it no standards at ... - 5/15/2007 10:32:41 PM

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Greeting to all the Masters, Dominants, Dommes and Tops. I've been reading on this site as well as others and in my humble opinion I've been aware of a growing level of bitchiness from those that self identify as slaves and submissives. We all participate for different reasons, me to add facts if they are lacking and positive outcomes.
Diversity of ideas is not welcomed, rampant bitchiness, a lack of discussion is this the standard that we want as our means of exchanging information and maybe making new friends. So what do we say?

You don't sound very humble. Quit your bitching and leave if you don't like it. What "facts" do you believe you add to anything? How is any of this post "positive"? Why is there a double standard in diversity for you? I thought diversity meant accepting of all. I say you are full of it and should move along.

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RE: What standards do we want or is it no standards at ... - 5/15/2007 10:39:33 PM

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If this were myspace or you tube or some other general public boards all of what has been said in disagreement would be correct. And maybe my expectations are to high. But this a BDSM site with slaves and submissive interacting with Dominants and Masters where I would expect a certain amount of decorum and defrence.

You are fucking crazy dude. This is an internet forum, mostly comprised of people who's dicks/pussies get engorged over beatings/bossings. That's it.

Not a conclave of Philosopher Kings, no peers of Charlemagne--Qui Chang Kane isn't here to "speak...haltingly. Dispensing tidbits...of wisdom."

"Being able to use the interweb" isn't a very high bar for entry there, TOTALMASTER4YOU!! Any douchebag who wants to proclaim themself MASTERFUCKINGSO&SO can post here. I mean comon, people here range from a couple of maybe smarts to like oodles of dopes. Do you understand you, persoanlly, write at a Flesch-Kincaid reading level of 8th grade? Did you think having your dick get hard when your sweetie lets you hold the flogger made you wiser, more ethical, imbued with the Three Jewels of Taosim???

Comon dude.

Hot. I should probably be offended on some minor level...but how can I be? That was simply hot, Faramir. Well done. *hopes I'm not an oodle *S*

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RE: What standards do we want or is it no standards at ... - 5/16/2007 4:44:38 AM

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at which point you may graduate from the 7th grade.

This seems odd coming from a total master who stands behind a cartoon character.

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RE: What standards do we want or is it no standards at ... - 5/16/2007 6:02:31 AM

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Fast Reply -

If you'll indulge me a moment, I'm going to hijack this thread a bit to mention a book that I've been reading lately that does speak to a standard that, in my opinion, could be a universal one.

The name of the book is Choosing Civility: The Twenty-five Rules of Considerate Conduct authored by P.M. Forni. I'm reading as part of the training that my girl and I are engaged in with etiquette and protocol.

The reason I bring it up here is that the author puts forward that a common standard that he feels we (as humans) should share is civility.

(Note: I, in no way, imply that anyone hasn't been civil - in fact, I often hold the mirror to myself most of all in judgement of my own actions, and hold others to the standard of courtesy and honesty most often. My words here are for general thought.)

"And yet we still need to be able to say yes to some things and no to others as a matter of principle and with enough conviction.We still need to believe in something that will give us our vital daily dose of meaning and motivation. As we grapple with the complexities of our age, I suggest in this book that we agree on one principal: That a crucual measure of our success in life is the way we treat one another every day of our lives."
PM Forni.

It's a smallish book, available at the library.

It's interesting that many people that I speak with on a daily basis will allude to the general lack of manners, the lack of courtesy, respect and civility to one another. It's mentioned enough that I try to hold a mirror up constantly to think about how I treat others - and I'm sorry to say that I've lacked in that area quite too much. My point of this hijack is to say that yes, I believe in common standards of how I would like everyone to interact, as I believe they would be welcome.

I also note that this is probably NOT what the OP intended, but I'm going to deliberately go off-key here, with my apologies to the OP.

Regards.

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RE: What standards do we want or is it no standards at ... - 5/16/2007 7:55:16 AM

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So. if I am reading this correctly, your 'complaint' is that you don't like the way you are 'spoken to' by subs/slaves on the board?

HEY!!!! Ease up there bud....I don't appreciate your approach here!

I didn't post for your 'appreciation'!

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RE: What standards do we want or is it no standards at ... - 5/16/2007 8:39:36 AM

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That was a snappy comeback brother. I mean, prior to that, you had succeeded in completely humiliating yourself with this thread. But now? Brother, you have covered yourself in glory. I think too, posting to this thread and bumping it up, you know, giving yourself a little more skyline, was brilliant. Fucking coup bro, a coup.

Ah Mr. Faramir why are you so good at dealing with bags of douche who consider themselves to be masters? Teach me your great and wonderful wisdom.

I agree with earthlycouple, you emasculated that whiny man with a panache that was nothing short of sexy.

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RE: What standards do we want or is it no standards at ... - 5/16/2007 12:47:57 PM

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Ah Mr. Faramir why are you so good at dealing with bags of douche who consider themselves to be masters? Teach me your great and wonderful wisdom.

I agree with earthlycouple, you emasculated that whiny man with a panache that was nothing short of sexy.

I would like to publically thank TOTALMASTER4U!, for repeatedly hurling himself on my swordpoint.

Bro--you need to post more often. Maybe you and the guy doing the thread on the "inconstant" (sic) subs who don't open his little missives could do some kind of tag-team effort? Maybe something like, "Subs Make My Winkie Feel little!" or along those lines?

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RE: What standards do we want or is it no standards at ... - 5/16/2007 1:14:24 PM

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It amazes me that anyone who has been reading these forums for at least a month would think that any post that goes "Hey why doesnt everyone do things this way?" is going to have more than an ice cubes chance in hell of surving here.

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RE: What standards do we want or is it no standards at ... - 5/16/2007 1:23:27 PM

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It amazes me that anyone who has been reading these forums for at least a month would think that any post that goes "Hey why doesnt everyone do things this way?" is going to have more than an ice cubes chance in hell of surving here.

It's people like that who have confirmed the existance of masochistic dominants to me.

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RE: What standards do we want or is it no standards at ... - 5/16/2007 1:32:19 PM

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WE all come to the boards to express our opinions,some good some bad but so be it.I get beat up on occasions but take it like the man I am...I don't go whining like a little bitch,when you bitch so much your words tend to fall of deaf ears and Man you may have something important to express some times and it shall be like the tree falling in the forest who will be there to hear you, so chill..bounty

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RE: What standards do we want or is it no standards at ... - 5/16/2007 1:32:56 PM

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My label (and one I wish I could take credit for) for this sort of behavior is.......public humiliation kink. A specific form of masochism. And a somewhat enjoyable one to witness.

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RE: What standards do we want or is it no standards at ... - 5/16/2007 1:59:27 PM

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There certainly needs to be standards in alcohol and recreational drugs. If you are laying out the egg for a lid, by god you want a lid. Paying to be higher than a hippy in July? Let's measure that and get some feedback. All else? Fook it!!!!

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