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RE: What are your biggest turn offs? - 6/27/2007 6:14:19 PM

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People who polute the lifestyle by saying they are who they are not. For example a slave who is simply just a kinky sex bedroom slave, but claims to be and or want 24/7.

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RE: What are your biggest turn offs? - 6/27/2007 6:19:11 PM

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For My particular mood at the moment, I would have to say the following:

1. People who are too afraid of getting away from their computer screen, and getting out into the community/scene. (No follow through on their wants/desires.)

2. Those who slap Master/Dominant/Top on their profile without a lick of experience.

3. Submissives who have nothing better to offer than the "Do Me" approach.

4. Lack of intelligent conversation.

What can I say? I'm in a mood.

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RE: What are your biggest turn offs? - 6/27/2007 6:44:51 PM

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Physical: Well, I guess I'm going to be the exception to the rule- I really don't mind fat (within reason. If it's a problem to their health, then yes, it's a turn off) nor do I mind smokers. No, I think my main turn offs, from experience, are body odor, and people who have issues with sex in general... to the point they feel they have to be drunk or high as a kite to enjoy themselves.

Mental: Overly religious is a concern to me. (I'm not just talking about calling out to God as they approach orgasm, either.) To me, it's a sign that they just aren't using their brains. Sorry, hope that's not offensive to some of you... but remember, I'm talking about folks who are fanatical. People whom you fuck, and suddenly they assume that it's the "romance of the ages" can be a major drag... I guess it all adds up to folks who delude themselves, one way or another.

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RE: What are your biggest turn offs? - 6/27/2007 6:59:26 PM

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physical: dirty nails, greasy hair, body odor, yellow teeth

mental: bigotry of any kind, intolerance, small mindedness, ignorance, no sense of humor

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RE: What are your biggest turn offs? - 6/27/2007 11:17:11 PM

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smoking is numero uno - just yuk
those who don't bathe regularly
dirty finger and toe nails in either gender
inability to make a commitment
those who are incapable of establishing and enjoying real intimacy and can only do "friends w/ benefits" types of relationships. I find this pathetic.
And finally...
domineering, bullying type control-freaks (these are intimidated people who must get the last word in and must control everything, who also insist that they know everything and you know they're a freaking nutcase!)

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RE: What are your biggest turn offs? - 6/27/2007 11:55:15 PM

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To name a few of the worst.......

bad body odor, obesity, dirty ill fitting clothes/shoes, smokers, heavy drinkers, drug users, multiple tattoos

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RE: What are your biggest turn offs? - 6/28/2007 12:15:19 AM

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hate

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RE: What are your biggest turn offs? - 6/28/2007 12:26:30 AM

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I've read through all these responses nodding my head, but I've met immaculately groomed, trim, polite, well washed non smokers who turn me right off, and it usually takes me a while to figure out why. It always boils down to one thing - lack of a sense of humour. I can overlook a lot of other faults if at least we can laugh about them. (I've never yet met someone with a great sense of humour who was unintelligent - the two things seem to go together)
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RE: What are your biggest turn offs? - 6/28/2007 12:54:08 AM

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Denial of reality. (*edit: especially when it takes significant effort to maintain it)

I have no time for someone who can't accept how things really are. Sure, everyone is entitled to their opinion, and some of mine may even seem to contradict this statement, but then I have both been proven wrong (hey, it happens, and when I am *proven* wrong I accept that reality), and been proven right on occasion by people who have vehemently denied that I was (hence my intense dislike for their denial).

Have to add this: Terrible spelling and grammar. You're reperesenting yourself, don't represent yourself as an idiot. Read over what you typed. If you aren't a 14 year old chatting on msn or in an online game, "dont typ l1k3 u r".

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RE: What are your biggest turn offs? - 6/28/2007 1:00:23 AM

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Threads asking what turns me off....LMAO just kidding...

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RE: What are your biggest turn offs? - 6/28/2007 1:42:34 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lordskitten

..being 20 pounds over the 'recommended' height/weight chart is considered obese.

>< Those things never take large cup sizes into account.

Physically : Bad hygene in general, but especially a shaggy face(not against facial hair, just the unmaintained stuff)- love seeing strong men in suits and the two don't work well together. :(
Small or wimpish hands and arms- I like a guy with grip ^^
And double chins...

Mental turn offs: Guys who ask me if they can kiss me on a date- so nice of you to be so sweet :) shoo now...
Men that are scanty touchers even when being greedily begged.

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RE: What are your biggest turn offs? - 6/28/2007 6:23:55 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy

And maybe one of those pussies with labia so huge and extended that you think you are visiting a deli when ever she removes her undies.

LOL...you are one crazy man. My turn offs would be poor hygiene, excessive body hair, sloppy fat, no chemistry, stinginess.

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RE: What are your biggest turn offs? - 6/28/2007 6:45:24 AM

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Bringing her trainer along to meet me, would probably do it for me.

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RE: What are your biggest turn offs? - 6/28/2007 6:50:32 AM

Ayanaev717

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I don't like someone who isn't working and making their own money. I don't want to be a babysitter and paying for every damn thing.

I don't like someone who isn't intelligent. Who cannot hold a conversation. Who cannot think before asking a question.

I don't like someone who is unstable, mentally ill, emotional disturbed, and eager to serve. Was that all the same word. LOL

I definitely don't like DRAMA.

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RE: What are your biggest turn offs? - 6/28/2007 6:54:39 AM

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doms who don't understand my profile clearly states - submissive not slave when searching for a slave.

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RE: What are your biggest turn offs? - 6/28/2007 7:38:25 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: trixxitrash

hate

Great answer, Trixxi !

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RE: What are your biggest turn offs? - 6/28/2007 7:50:32 AM

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People who breath new life onto a thread after it has been put to death over a month ago....I have said this before....No thread should be resurrected after laying dead for more than three days....Just like our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ..

But since the damage is done why not add a thought or two...

Women with big mole(s) on their face with hair coming out of them....Really any place on the body that might harbor this sort of growth is obscene.

A woman who talks like a little girl.

Chicks who don't eat pussy.

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RE: What are your biggest turn offs? - 6/28/2007 8:12:07 AM

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I think it is mostly a general consensus about body oder. Smoking doesn't bother me much, though not in my house or car.
those who assume a persons role after only 5 min. of talking to them. (was at a munch, there was a Dom who kept insisting that I was meant to be a slave. grrrrrr.) People who don't want to have anything to do with the local community,(I don't have anything against such people, BUT!) Egotistical,closeminded,liars, so over weight they have jowls,(it's cute on a dog, not a person!)

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RE: What are your biggest turn offs? - 6/28/2007 3:09:43 PM

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i remembered the other one. i feel kinda bad about it, BUT

some accents. there are some places around maryland that have accents that make me insane, same with jersey/new york. sorry guys, it's not you, it's me, i admit it. I guess it evens out with the uk and carribean accents that make me wet

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RE: What are your biggest turn offs? - 6/28/2007 3:31:52 PM

LadyHeart

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quote:

ORIGINAL: hereyesruponyou

i remembered the other one. i feel kinda bad about it, BUT

some accents. there are some places around maryland that have accents that make me insane, same with jersey/new york. sorry guys, it's not you, it's me, i admit it. I guess it evens out with the uk and carribean accents that make me wet

Eee by eck luv.... I hope my strong Lancashire accent is causing you great wetness...

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