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My current master has taught me well and promised to end his current relationship,

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ORIGINAL: Quivver

I have an un popular view about ~love~. 
I do not see it as multi dementional.  It's something you give, it can be accepted, but it can not be taken.
If it is not returned or returned in the fashion you want it to be, the love you give is still there.  It doesnt go away because you've made a poor choice, or because you want it to. 

Now with that said.........  it seems you've gone and gotten yourself involved with someone who in some way is attached.  I'm not going to lecture you about the wisdom of your choice.  It happens.  But I feel your mistake was believing more could come from this relationship.  You chose to believe ~words~. 

Walk away?  You can distance yourself physically.  But there is no switch for emotion.  You can not un-do yesterday.  All you can do is build and better yourself.  Take the knowledge you've gained from this experiance and keep it in the forefront as you travel the path your on so you dont make the same mistake over and over again.  And hold precious the fact that you ~loved~ and wanted to give even if it didnt turn out the way you wanted it to. 

.................. Hugs

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ORIGINAL: bustysubmissive

My current master has taught me well and promised to end his current relationship, but after 6 months im still waiting and have realised it will never change. I have grown and become strong and my submissive side has even suprised me, my need to submit has gone beyond being satisfied from a few snatched hours when master can sneak away. I told him the only reason ive hung around waiting for him is that he promised he would end his relationship early on as there was nothing left, but hes still there!
I cannot go on deceiving myself and his partner, this isnt what being submissive is about for me im looking for a ltr which he promised, but reality has hit me and i need to decide if its time to move on? any genuine advice woukld be good as this is so difficult as i love him dearly which ive told him , he says he loves me but im struggling to cope with this situation.

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ORIGINAL: pinksugarsub

i'm terribly sorry yr in this position, but try to focus on the one thing you do know about Him: He lies to get what He wants.  That kind of Man isn't good enough for you.

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ORIGINAL: domiguy
Ooooh, before I forget,  here is the important part...When we say that we love or care about "you".....In this case whenever you hear the word "you" always remember to substitute in it's place...."your cunt," "your mouth" or "your tits and ass".... etc ..And this way you will have at least a better understanding of just how important "you" are and deeply and strongly we feel about "you."

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ORIGINAL: mistoferin

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ORIGINAL: domiguy
Ooooh, before I forget,  here is the important part...When we say that we love or care about "you".....In this case whenever you hear the word "you" always remember to substitute in it's place...."your cunt," "your mouth" or "your tits and ass".... etc ..And this way you will have at least a better understanding of just how important "you" are and deeply and strongly we feel about "you."

Are you trying to say that what these men are really saying is that when they say they love you "deeply" they really mean on average about 6 inches "deeply". (Of course, taking into consideration the "domidong", we would have to considerably up that measurement for you)

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ORIGINAL: puella

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ORIGINAL: pinksugarsub

i'm terribly sorry yr in this position, but try to focus on the one thing you do know about Him: He lies to get what He wants.  That kind of Man isn't good enough for you.

I do not mean to seem snarky, but I really do think that it is important for this person to realise that she is a liar and a cheater too, and that this 'position' she is in is one she knowingly put herself into (unlike the wife who is getting fucked over unknowingly by the both of them).  He is not the only liar in this relationship, and until she decides to import more integrity based standards for herself, he is about as good a man as she deserves. 

You reap what you sow.

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ORIGINAL: bustysubmissive

My current master has taught me well and promised to end his current relationship, but after 6 months im still waiting and have realised it will never change. I have grown and become strong and my submissive side has even suprised me, my need to submit has gone beyond being satisfied from a few snatched hours when master can sneak away. I told him the only reason ive hung around waiting for him is that he promised he would end his relationship early on as there was nothing left, but hes still there!
I cannot go on deceiving myself and his partner, this isnt what being submissive is about for me im looking for a ltr which he promised, but reality has hit me and i need to decide if its time to move on? any genuine advice woukld be good as this is so difficult as i love him dearly which ive told him , he says he loves me but im struggling to cope with this situation.

 
I'm new to all this, but he sounds to me, to be a man that just wanted to have an affair without the responsibilities of a real relationship. He made promises to you and failed to live up to them, he doesn't have your best interest at heart. Not very "Dominate" if you ask me. If it was myself in your situation... I'D DUMP HIM  and find a real Dom. He sounds like another dirtbag to me. *sheepishly bowing my head and hoping this is not taken the wrong way.*
Be true to yourself first.

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ORIGINAL: puella

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ORIGINAL: pinksugarsub

i'm terribly sorry yr in this position, but try to focus on the one thing you do know about Him: He lies to get what He wants.  That kind of Man isn't good enough for you.

I do not mean to seem snarky, but I really do think that it is important for this person to realise that she is a liar and a cheater too, and that this 'position' she is in is one she knowingly put herself into (unlike the wife who is getting fucked over unknowingly by the both of them).  He is not the only liar in this relationship, and until she decides to import more integrity based standards for herself, he is about as good a man as she deserves. 

You reap what you sow.

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ORIGINAL: bustysubmissive

My current master has taught me well and promised to end his current relationship, but after 6 months im still waiting and have realised it will never change. I have grown and become strong and my submissive side has even suprised me, my need to submit has gone beyond being satisfied from a few snatched hours when master can sneak away. I told him the only reason ive hung around waiting for him is that he promised he would end his relationship early on as there was nothing left, but hes still there!
I cannot go on deceiving myself and his partner, this isnt what being submissive is about for me im looking for a ltr which he promised, but reality has hit me and i need to decide if its time to move on? any genuine advice woukld be good as this is so difficult as i love him dearly which ive told him , he says he loves me but im struggling to cope with this situation.

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ORIGINAL: lovewithoutfear

"My current master has taught me well and promised to end his current relationship"

But what has he taught you, that it's OK to be out of integrity with someone one has made promises to?  That in his frame of reference deceit is acceptable?

Yick.  How can you trust him?

JoyfulYes