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slaveluci -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/4/2007 1:55:48 PM)

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ORIGINAL: mbes
There's a vast difference between those who are racist and those who don't like a particular religious group

Hmmm...that's funny.  I always thought ignorance and hate was the same thing no matter who it was directed toward.  Not liking an ENTIRE race or an ENTIRE faith is pretty much the same...pretty much involves the same level of idiocy to me.

If I don't like someone based on the color of their skin, that is based on something ephemeral and has nothing to do with who they are as a person. If I dislike someone based on their belief system, that has to do with the choices they've made and is, I think, a valid basis for "judging"

I was speaking of "rationalizations" above in this thread and boy is this a fine example of one.  Why, pray tell, do you feel it is acceptable to "judge" anyone based on their faith or their race?  You've basically said "I won't judge you for being black because you can't help it but if you choose to be Muslim, THAT I can and will judge you for."  Yeah, that makes a lot more sense[image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m22.gif[/image].  And, saying that someone's race has "nothing to do with who they are as a person."  I'm still pondering that one...lol...Trying to find "valid" reasons to judge others - especially for something as intrinsic to them as race or faith - is probably not a real well-thought-out concept.  Just my 2 cents...........slave luci




mbes -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/4/2007 2:40:34 PM)

I appreciate what you're saying, and I understand it.
However, someone's race is something they are born into (I'm saying this as someone born into a specific "race" and therefore expected to embody particular traits that I don't embody). Presumably someone's religion is something they've been introduced to, and something they've decided to embrace. I was raised in a religious group. I left because I don't accept what I was expected to embrace. That would make religion a conscious choice, as opposed to ethnicity which is given at birth.
As for judging, don't we all judge what is acceptable to us? I couldn't say that any other skin color is unacceptable to me, but I have no problem stating that certain religious philosophies are unacceptable to me. Doesn't everyone say that every time they attend their own church rather than another?




JerryInTampa -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/4/2007 3:29:38 PM)

The Bible, especially the OT and Paul, are extremely male-dom-women-as-submissive-property (who should wear a mark of authority).
The Quran, which draws *very* heavily from the OT, gets even more codified: requiring men to beat their wives (litely) if they are insubordinate.




UKEvolutionary -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/4/2007 3:53:08 PM)

Sorry, but all of these people quoting the Bible, and passages from It is the MAIN reason I keep away from religion. There is not a scripture you can't take out of the Bible to justify something that YOU believe to be right, to back up YOUR opinion, and it  SOOOO contradicts itself !!
Though shalt NOT kill ------- An eye for an eye, is just one of MANY.
And if we were all to "Follow" the Bible, why don't we all take more than one wife ? such as Abraham, Moses and David to name a few !! sorry, but the Bible and D/s , BDSM ........ For ME, forget it, for those that believe, find what comforts you in your faith but keep it to yourselves eh ?




slaveluci -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/4/2007 4:04:25 PM)

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ORIGINAL: mbes
I appreciate what you're saying, and I understand it
Good......
However, someone's race is something they are born into (I'm saying this as someone born into a specific "race" and therefore expected to embody particular traits that I don't embody)
See, here's where we differ.  I don't agree that there are "particular traits" that anyone in any given race is "expected" to "embody."  That would mean everyone in a certain race is basically the same and I don't subscribe to that.  I'm sure if we all think about it, we can come up with a laundry list of assumptions about various races that are assumed by racists to apply. 
Presumably someone's religion is something they've been introduced to, and something they've decided to embrace. I was raised in a religious group. I left because I don't accept what I was expected to embrace. That would make religion a conscious choice, as opposed to ethnicity which is given at birth.
That all makes sense, yes............
As for judging, don't we all judge what is acceptable to us?
I guess I differentiate between deciding what is acceptable FOR me and what is acceptable TO me.  Even though I don't choose certain paths, that doesn't mean I judge them as unacceptable for others.
I couldn't say that any other skin color is unacceptable to me, but I have no problem stating that certain religious philosophies are unacceptable to me
Again...many are not FOR me, but not unacceptable TO me.
Doesn't everyone say that every time they attend their own church rather than another?
Attending one church over another, to me, does not mean the others are "not acceptable."  They simply aren't suitable for me.  More power to those who choose to attend them or to those who choose not to attend any.  The problem I always have is when the ones who attend a different one than I or ones who attend none decide to tell me how wrong I am.  That is what is "unacceptable" in my book......slave luci




slaveluci -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/4/2007 4:07:58 PM)

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ORIGINAL: UKEvolutionary
for those that believe, find what comforts you in your faith but keep it to yourselves eh ?
No....not on a discussion board when the topic has come up.  I am open about my feelings on the subject but I have NEVER expected someone else to believe what I do.  When the topic is raised, I say what I feel without evangelizing.  Those who so oppose Christianity sure don't "keep it to themselves," so I certainly have every right to add my opinions to the mix.  I'll keep my thoughts on it silent when they do, eh?.........slave luci




slavegirljoy -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/4/2007 4:13:50 PM)

As one who was raised as a Christian, and still reads her Bible and prays but, doesn't attend a church, i don't quote the Bible to justify my actions.  i quote the Bible to give examples of the teaching that i was raised with.  If you don't prescribe to those teachings then don't use them.  The question was about Christian Domestic Discipline and that way of life is based on the teachings of the Bible.  No one needs to accept it, unless they choose to.  No one is forcing it on anyone.  i would hope that simply reading the words that are in the Bible would not be seen as a terrible thing.  They are just words, you can take them or leave them.  Knowledge is not a bad thing and that includes learning about a religion that many people believe in and follow.
 
Also, do not judge Christianity based on the actions and character of some Christians.  Judge Christianity based on the actions and character of Jesus.  That is what the religion is based on.  Any teaching or any philosophy can be twisted by people who want to take advantage of it.  That's why i stick to what the Bible says, not what people say.
 
slave joy
Owned property of Master David




slaveluci -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/4/2007 4:40:32 PM)

Amen, slavegirljoy[:)].........slave luci




fadedlace -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/4/2007 4:42:48 PM)

slavejoy, you posted here, exactly what I was thinking when I read the thread...only more eloquently.  It's a thread about Domestic Discipline which is Bible-based, after all, at least to all those I know who practice it.




severetorture -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/4/2007 4:52:11 PM)

I agree with slavegirljoy.I am as anti-Christian in terms of belief as I can be,but I agree that those who choose to follow Christ should do as he said,and follow his example.I have serious doubt as to the myth surrounding Christ and his works,but there is no denying his message as a positive force if followed properly.It is and always will be his supposed "followers" who destroy and pervert his message.
I am also still amazed at how many learned people still cling to organized religion of any sort.There is no greater source for evil in this world.




Level -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/4/2007 5:07:53 PM)

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ORIGINAL: UKEvolutionary

Sorry, but all of these people quoting the Bible, and passages from It is the MAIN reason I keep away from religion. There is not a scripture you can't take out of the Bible to justify something that YOU believe to be right, to back up YOUR opinion, and it  SOOOO contradicts itself !!
Though shalt NOT kill ------- An eye for an eye, is just one of MANY.
And if we were all to "Follow" the Bible, why don't we all take more than one wife ? such as Abraham, Moses and David to name a few !! sorry, but the Bible and D/s , BDSM ........ For ME, forget it, for those that believe, find what comforts you in your faith but keep it to yourselves eh ?



I find it "funny" that you want others to "keep it to themselves", and yet you have no problem butting in to this thread. Maybe that keeping it to yourself should work both ways........




Level -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/4/2007 5:11:16 PM)

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ORIGINAL: severetorture

I am also still amazed at how many learned people still cling to organized religion of any sort.There is no greater source for evil in this world.


You're painting with far too broad a brush. There is a huge amount of religious people in this world that do tremendous good, and it's not just because they're nice folks. Much of it comes from the demands of their religions.




severetorture -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/4/2007 5:17:10 PM)

Yes,but strength in numbers justifies the problem in the eyes of the world.Inherently,a person is smart,it's people who are stupid.You may be a very nice person,committed to righting the wrongs of the world,but as long as you are a part of those who do the opposite you do in the name of the same religion,it's kinda hard to defend it.You of course can defend yourself.And you have and for that you should be commended.
I don't see the need to bring organized religion into your life if you already have the goodness and drive in your heart to do good.Be your own person and be strong in your desire to help others.




zumala -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/4/2007 5:17:26 PM)

I personally suspect that a lot of the problems with 'Christianity' occured when it was somehow aligned with politics.  I was raised Christian and taught that the Republican party equated to preserving Christian ways.  I reached adulthood, saw what Bush did, and used my mind.  I am still a believer in Christ, but I am NOT a Republican.  I make my moral choices based on both the Bible and logic as best I possibly can.
 
As with all groups, do not attack the whole, lest you slay the good with the bad.  Just because someone believes in a thing does not mean they blindly buy into every little detail that is dictated to them by others.
 
zuma




JerryInTampa -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/4/2007 5:26:55 PM)

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ORIGINAL: UKEvolutionary

Sorry, but all of these people quoting the Bible, and passages from It is the MAIN reason I keep away from religion. There is not a scripture you can't take out of the Bible to justify something that YOU believe to be right, to back up YOUR opinion, and it  SOOOO contradicts itself !!
Though shalt NOT kill ------- An eye for an eye, is just one of MANY.
While the Bible can indeed be contrary, it's equally common for people to find false contradiction.

Your example here is a good one. The Bible never forbids killing, certainly not in the OT. The law you are speaking of is "don't commit murder", which is "killing in violation of the law".

"Tooth for tooth" is punishment and, if done according to the law, an execution would not be a murder.

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And if we were all to "Follow" the Bible, why don't we all take more than one wife ? such as Abraham, Moses and David to name a few !!
I'm not certain that Abraham nor Moses had multiple wives, and David was chastised for his many wives and concubines... that said, the allowance changed via Papal edict.

A better question would be "why do Christians divorce".




Level -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/4/2007 6:29:11 PM)

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ORIGINAL: severetorture

Yes,but strength in numbers justifies the problem in the eyes of the world.Inherently,a person is smart,it's people who are stupid.You may be a very nice person,committed to righting the wrongs of the world,but as long as you are a part of those who do the opposite you do in the name of the same religion,it's kinda hard to defend it.You of course can defend yourself.And you have and for that you should be commended.
I don't see the need to bring organized religion into your life if you already have the goodness and drive in your heart to do good.Be your own person and be strong in your desire to help others.


I don't find it hard to defend Christianity at all, because I don't see hateful, uncaring people as Christians, no matter what they say.
 
Christians are Dr. Martin Luther King, and Mother Teresa, and countless men and women whose names the world will never know, but who gave of themselves repeatedly.
 
The "need" to have organized religion in one's life, is from a belief in God; this doesn't mean one has to be part of organized religion in order to be religious, but obviously some find solace doing so.




thornhappy -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/4/2007 7:36:39 PM)

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ORIGINAL: JerryInTampa

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ORIGINAL: UKEvolutionary

Sorry, but all of these people quoting the Bible, and passages from It is the MAIN reason I keep away from religion. There is not a scripture you can't take out of the Bible to justify something that YOU believe to be right, to back up YOUR opinion, and it  SOOOO contradicts itself !!
Though shalt NOT kill ------- An eye for an eye, is just one of MANY.
While the Bible can indeed be contrary, it's equally common for people to find false contradiction.

Your example here is a good one. The Bible never forbids killing, certainly not in the OT. The law you are speaking of is "don't commit murder", which is "killing in violation of the law".

"Tooth for tooth" is punishment and, if done according to the law, an execution would not be a murder.

quote:

And if we were all to "Follow" the Bible, why don't we all take more than one wife ? such as Abraham, Moses and David to name a few !!
I'm not certain that Abraham nor Moses had multiple wives, and David was chastised for his many wives and concubines... that said, the allowance changed via Papal edict.

A better question would be "why do Christians divorce".


At the time "a tooth for a tooth" was an improvement over multi-generational blood feuds.

And true, there are laws that permit multiple wives and concubines.  2 creation stories.  Several giving of the commandments.  Contradictions in the Synoptic Gospels.

I try to look towards the behavior of the person nowadays, not their religious label, but I've not had many good experiences with fundamentalists of the "all Paul, no James" (law/judgement vs mercy) school.

thornhappy




Kirata -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/4/2007 8:00:06 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Faramir

Their kink is framed as reflecting a transcendant authority, but then again so does Gorean....

Huh?
 
K.
 




Kirata -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/4/2007 8:05:38 PM)

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ORIGINAL: slavegirljoy

Also, do not judge Christianity based on the actions and character of some Christians.  Judge Christianity based on the actions and character of Jesus.


Oh no, I don't think so. Judge Christianity based on the actions of Christians and character of its doctrines. Jesus is the fellow who said (in two separate Gospels) "I will have mercy, not sacrifice." No connection, obviously.
 
K.
 




Sinergy -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/4/2007 8:12:28 PM)

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ORIGINAL: JerryInTampa

The Bible, especially the OT and Paul, are extremely male-dom-women-as-submissive-property (who should wear a mark of authority).
The Quran, which draws *very* heavily from the OT, gets even more codified: requiring men to beat their wives (litely) if they are insubordinate.


If I objected to her being insubordinate, why would I pleasure her with beatings to teach her not to be insubordinate in the future?

Wtf?

Sinergy




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