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SimplyMichael -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/4/2007 8:42:52 PM)

Funny how many Christians are so quick to dismiss ANYONE who does something bad as "not Christian" and yet all to many of them are all to ready to lump all Muslims, all Mexicans, into one lump and half of them would throw gas on them and a match. 

I think Christians like Jimmy Carter are worth looking up to but he is clearly a VERY VERY SMALL minority of Christians.  Most are happy enough to walk around breathing through their mouths and mumbling about intelligent design, "curing" homosexuality," voting republican, and in general shitting on any and every tenant that Christ espoused and in fact would beat the record held by the Roman's for killing another Christ for being an annoying radical.




mythi -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/4/2007 10:09:44 PM)

Funny how I only hear these things from non-Christians...

And btw, as someone who usually votes Republican, I'm in the minority of most Catholics.  Altho thanks to the Democrats that's slowly but surely changing.  The vatican and numerous Cathlic leaders have also shot down intelligent design, a majority of Mexicans are Catholic, and we pray every Sunday for peace in the Middle East. 

I do however breath out of my mouth a lot during allergy season. [8D]




slavegirljoy -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/4/2007 10:37:56 PM)

This is one of the most hate-filled, disrespectful and biased pieces of *writing* i have ever seen.  Are you really filled with this much hate?  i feel sorry for anyone with this much hatred inside him.
 
i'm a Christian, not because i follow a doctrine but, because i follow the teachings of Jesus and i accepted Him as my personal saviour.  i have never said or thought or wanted anything remotely similar to what you have asserted that Christians want and i have never heard of any other Christian wanting all the Mexicans and Muslims set on fire, either.  It sickens me to read this sort of hate speach.
 
i have been a Christian my whole life.  i was baptized, at age 12, by a MEXICAN minister in a MEXICAN Baptist church in San Jose, CA, where i grew up and where at least half of my friends, including my very best friend, were Mexicans. 
 
Oh, and in addition to being a Christian, i have been a card-carrying, registered Democrat since i turned 18 and have voted in every election since then, even by absentee ballot when i was stationed overseas, although i have never voted the "party line" and always vote for the person, not the party.  So much for silly stereotypes, huh?
 
i have never heard of any Christian group saying that Mexicans should be set on fire.  That is the worst and most ridiculous thing i have ever heard anyone say about any group.  Hello!  MANY, MANY, MANY Mexicans are Christians.  And, which Christian groups have called for all Muslims to be set on fire?  Where did you hear this? 
 
Aside from that, this was a thread about Christian Domestic Discipline, not about Christianity.  If you are not a Christian and don't believe in Christianity, then why would you have any interest in a discussion about Christian Domestic Discipline?  Or, do you just look for any opportunity to spew anti-Christian hate?  Is that what you consider a worthy use of your time?
 
slave joy
Owned property of Master David
(He's a Christian, too, and doesn't want to burn Mexicans or Muslims or anyone else -- other than His slave when He feels like endulging in some fireplay)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

Funny how many Christians are so quick to dismiss ANYONE who does something bad as "not Christian" and yet all to many of them are all to ready to lump all Muslims, all Mexicans, into one lump and half of them would throw gas on them and a match. 

I think Christians like Jimmy Carter are worth looking up to but he is clearly a VERY VERY SMALL minority of Christians.  Most are happy enough to walk around breathing through their mouths and mumbling about intelligent design, "curing" homosexuality," voting republican, and in general shitting on any and every tenant that Christ espoused and in fact would beat the record held by the Roman's for killing another Christ for being an annoying radical.




Valentyne -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/4/2007 10:59:03 PM)

**Fast Reply** 

Michael, I have admired your sensibility and intelligence in many other areas, right now I would encourage you to use those skills to ponder the possibility that something has tainted your view in this area.  The people you describe, while they may claim the title, are NOT Christian by any means...  If you want to know real Christians, go see how the rebuilding of the gulf coast is going... 80% of the workers are volunteers from churches all over the country, people who give tirelessly of their time money and energy to help others in need without expecting anything at all in return.  There are many goodhearted people in this world who identify as Christians, but you don't get to hear about them because there is nothing sensational in being good, kind, caring, generous, and helpful.  As with any group of people the ones who get attention are the crazies screaming in the streets who do not represent the majority opinions... 

Sorry to go off topic, no flame intended...




stella40 -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/5/2007 6:05:27 AM)

I don't mean to cause anyone any offence, but here I have my own theory.

Jesus so far has been the only leader of a sect to take on mass organised religion and win. As a leader of a sect he was unbeatable, unstoppable, he could perform miracles, he could magic fish and bread out of thin air, he could cure sickness, and also turn water into wine. What with all that bread and wine Christians must have had a lot of fun, the Last Supper must have been such a party, you can see this just by looking at the paintings and you see them having to hold onto the table to keep their balance.

No other sect leader can ever hope to compete, Jesus was incredibly intelligent, he was a fantastic teacher, he had his head screwed on right, he WAS the example, and he spoke the truth. Now he could have just turned to his disciples and said 'hey guys, why don't we just cut the BS and give it to the people straight?' But he couldn't.

You see at the time you had King Herod, who from what I can gather was a bit dim and an advocate of taxation. You also had the Jews with their many gods, and not only that - just like today the Iraqis have to put up with US and British soldiers - they had the Romans to deal with. Jesus couldn't just come out with the line 'this is all BS, there is one God and you do it this way' or they would have had him much earlier.

And this is why Jesus spoke in Aramic, and also told stories and parables. The message was no longer straightforward, you had to think to get the message. This helped the authorities to perceive him as some sort of harmless religious nutter who went round, preached, performed miracles, and so on. But all the time he was preaching the message, 'there is but one God', he was converting people, he was pioneering what many perceive today to be modern religion. He was changing the way people looked at religion.

He never said (as far as I am aware) "BDSM is the way, the truth and the light, no one gets to heaven except by way of a munch."

He said, "I am the way, the truth and the light, and no one gets to heaven except through me."

And I'm sure he never said, "Husbands pick up Thy floggers and smite Thy wives whenever they show disobedience."

There is nothing which states that Jesus was into BDSM or not. Most likely he wasn't, it just didn't float his boat.

But not everyone agreed with Jesus. And he was getting popular, something of a real celebrity, and this worried his critics. It was starting to worry the Jews, because Jesus was about to show just how much crap they were talking, and so animosity towards him grew. Had Jesus had had access to television and the Internet he might have got the message across much quicker but we are talking 2,000 years ago. Jesus was becoming a threat to the Establishment. And so, when Judas took the cash and snitched on him, they took him and gave him a mock trial and executed him by crucifixion. But Jesus did foresee this, and he did tell people 'I am suffering for the sins of others'. (Some people have taken this to mean 'I am being killed just so you can sin' but I doubt this is what he really meant).Upon death on the cross Jesus Christ became God.

But maybe he intended to get round to writing the New Testament or getting others to write it. Who knows? He might have wanted to change the format of the Bible and give it to people straight. But it didn't happen that way. No, the Gospels were written in the form of stories, in the same format as Jesus told them, probably verbatim, and this formed the New Testament.

Now this is the way the Bible is - it is a collection of stories. It appears contradictory in many places, it requires reading and interpretation, and thinking. Now most Christians know this, they do think, and they have worked out the message which Jesus wanted and they base their lives on his values.

But many haven't. And this is where I have an issue with Christianity, as I have with Islam - they appear to be the only two major religions which still have an issue with the equality of the sexes and with modern society.

A Muslim husband has the right to chastise and punish his wife, for it is written in the Koran. We can also consider what happens to a Muslim woman if she decides to cheat on her husband in a Muslim country. We can also consider what happens if a Muslim man chooses to cheat on his wife in a Muslim country. We can also compare the significant difference between the two fates.

I view DD in Christianity in quite the same way. This is the big issue I have with both Christianity and Islam - too much is based on the books and not enough on the core values. Don't have to look hard to find someone prepared to quote the Bible to justify something. In fact quite regularly I receive long e-mails from a woman with extracts cut and pasted from the Bible telling me how I am so going to burn in Hell when I die.

Okay, so why don't I just judge everybody else on the basis of The Complete Works of Charles Dickens? Why not? It's full of stories like the Bible, it has a message just like the Bible. Even better, why don't we base our system of government on The Complete Works of Dickens?

It makes me laugh when I hear Christians telling me you don't have to believe everything, you can accept what you want and reject what you want. This appears to be so true it seems when it comes to the Ten Commandments. What is the deal here, 'Pick any five from ten'? And how does the Catholic Church manage to justify its attitude towards gays and lesbians when Jesus clearly said 'love thy neighbour'? Why, by quoting from the Bible of course.

And no doubt DD in Christianity is taken from the same source.. the Bible. Just as some may condemn people for practising BDSM.. because "it says in the Bible.." You can justify or condemn anything by quoting the Bible.

I am not anti-Christian. I am not a hypocrite. I was raised a Scottish Protestant, but since the age of 17 I have been a Theravada Buddhist, a liberal form of Buddhism with values not unlike the 15th Century Catholic Church, but obviously I adapt my beliefs to my life and modern society.

However I don't pick and choose the core values, I live my life according to the Five Buddhist Precepts, I tend to keep my religious beliefs to myself and I don't foist it on others. I don't go round quoting the Pali Canon, the Kama Sutra or the Dhammapada, I don't judge others and I don't condemn people for living or believing differently from me.

But what I have given here is MY interpretation, MY perception and MY view.

And my view is I take a dim view of anyone who perceives women to be inferior to men if it's justified on the grounds of religion and that belief is based on something which is written in a book.




SimplyMichael -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/5/2007 6:58:54 AM)

Some here need to look up the word MOST.  I have no trouble with followers of Christ, hell if the guy came back I would consider joining him.  The UnChristian right is who I have an issue with.  If you support denying PPV vaccine to kids because you would prefer they risk cancer as punishment for being sexually active (as Bush and the Republicans along with their Christian allies) then yes, I "hate" you.  If you believe ignorance about sex is what we should "teach" our children, then yes, I "hate" you.  If you believe that science is anti-religious then yes, I "hate" you.  If you think AIDS is any sort of punishment from god I do think you are evil.  If you opposed distrubuting condoms and providing sex ed in Africa is wrong, then yes, I think you are a fucking nut job.

Again, as I have already said, if your idea of a good Christian is Jimmy Carter or his ilk then I think you are probably a damn fine human being.




SirDominic -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/5/2007 7:30:21 AM)

Getting back to the OP, the issue for me with christian "domestic discipline" is the hypocrisy. They cannot under their religion admit to their desires for kink, so they find a way to justify it by playing word games.

I believe this is the basis for what SimplyMichael is ranting about, and I do agree with him. He holds up Jimmy Carter as an honest christian. I agree. So is Bill Moyers. The Unchristians he is talking about are the masses of blind followers who talk the talk, but don't walk the walk. Some surveys have found that christians stray outside the marriage in about equal percentages to nonchristians. They preach one thing, then do another. On top of that they condemn anyone else who have behaved inappropriately even as they continue to do so themselves.

Dishonesty and hypocrisy are not good qualities, no matter what your religious beliefs are.

Namaste, Sir Dominic




darkinshadows -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/5/2007 7:42:14 AM)

I believe you have to first understand a religion or spiritual belief before you can condemn it as hypocrytical.
Else you just perpetuate hypocrisy.
 
Peace




SirDominic -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/5/2007 7:47:25 AM)

I don't agree dark. When people proclaim one way is right, then act a different way behind closed doors, then condemn others who are doing the same thing - that is hypocrisy. It doesn't matter whether we are talking about christians, or someone in the fetish community. Hypocrisy is hypocrisy.

Namaste, Sir Dominic




Faramir -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/5/2007 7:54:58 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

Some here need to look up the word MOST.  I have no trouble with followers of Christ, hell if the guy came back I would consider joining him.  The UnChristian right is who I have an issue with.  If you support denying PPV vaccine to kids because you would prefer they risk cancer as punishment for being sexually active (as Bush and the Republicans along with their Christian allies) then yes, I "hate" you.  If you believe ignorance about sex is what we should "teach" our children, then yes, I "hate" you.  If you believe that science is anti-religious then yes, I "hate" you.  If you think AIDS is any sort of punishment from god I do think you are evil.  If you opposed distrubuting condoms and providing sex ed in Africa is wrong, then yes, I think you are a fucking nut job.

Again, as I have already said, if your idea of a good Christian is Jimmy Carter or his ilk then I think you are probably a damn fine human being.


You are a truly hateful human being--anyone who disagrees with you you despise, and you can only accept people within a narrow homodoxic range that matches yours.  You are willing to condemn whole groups of people: complex, multi-faceted human beings who can never be summed up in neat categories like "Christian Conservative," "Liberal Christian," "Jew," "Gypsy" or "Homosexual."  What's it like to look out at other human beings, and instead of seeing people in the same boat, other fallible, mixed up, complexly constructed fellows, see things you can hate hate in mass group-think hate?  What's it like to be a hate-monger, to pin stars on people?

You would have been good at the Wannsee Convention.




darkinshadows -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/5/2007 7:56:33 AM)

But then you are still looking at the person, rather than religion itself.  The hypocrisy isn't the religion, it is the person you are metaphorically speaking of.
Someone could be claim to be a dominant - and 'be' in the BDSM way of life - yet not live to it's expectations.  That's not 'BDSMs' fault.
 
Christian BDSM is no more hypocritical than TPE BDSM or Ms BDSM.
You get one true wayism in all parts of society and that is the hypocrisy not the 'society' itself.




Faramir -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/5/2007 7:58:39 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SirDominic

I don't agree dark. When people proclaim one way is right, then act a different way behind closed doors, then condemn others who are doing the same thing - that is hypocrisy. It doesn't matter whether we are talking about christians, or someone in the fetish community. Hypocrisy is hypocrisy.

Namaste, Sir Dominic


Oh, the rich, rich irony of someone with namaste as their salutation condemning a whole group of humans--failing to recognize the divine in them--I love it!

Hypocrisy is funny [:D]




SirDominic -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/5/2007 8:24:50 AM)

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ORIGINAL: darkinshadows
But then you are still looking at the person, rather than religion itself. The hypocrisy isn't the religion, it is the person you are metaphorically speaking of.


I have heard this argument many times to separate the worth of a religion as separate from the people who practice it. I don't swallow it. The people that make up a religion are that religion. How the majority acts is a testament to what that religion is really all about. It is not some divine set of principles that defines a religion, it is the people practicing it, or not practicing it as the case may be.

Faramir, you may think what you will, but I would appreciate it if you didn't deliberately misinterpret what I said to form the basis for your conclusion.

Firstly, I mentioned both christians and BDSM as but two examples, so I wasn't condemning any one group of anybody.

Secondly, I didn't condemn anybody at all, I simply stated that hypocrisy is hypocrisy. Now if you consider that a condemnation, that is your issue, not mine.

Thirdly, I can find the divine in all people and all things. That doesn't mean I have to approve of how they behave in this reality. They may be divine, but nobody gets carte blanche.

Namaste, Dominic




darkinshadows -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/5/2007 8:33:42 AM)

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It is not some divine set of principles that defines a religion, it is the people practicing it, or not practicing it as the case may be.

But by this reasoning, then all the hate and mailiciousness that the media or other hate groups do to portray  'BDSM' relationships in a negative light  - because of the behaviour of one or two individuals, are correct in their assumptions?

Now this I don't buy into - you cannot reasonably claim hypocrisy of an entire religion, spirituality or 'Lifestyle' choice just by a handful or a single persons behaviour or statements.  Because in that way, you are buying into the hate yourself and becoming it.
 
Peace




Bearlee -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/5/2007 8:37:41 AM)

Fast Reply...to no one in particular:

Christians I like; people who follow the EXAMPLES of Christ.
 
The Christian Reich, (as I am fond of calling Falwell and Bush's brand of religion), I cannot abide.  There disparity is so great, I'm surprised they get away with using 'Christian' in their advertising!  There outta be a law...something about truth in advertising or something!!!
 
beverly




SimplyMichael -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/5/2007 8:40:37 AM)

So Faramir,

You would condemn the Jew for hating a nazi or a rape victim hating the rapist?  By your standards if I saw a woman being raped you wouldn't intervene especially if she was being raped by a group of men?  Same goes for a "group" committing genocide?  One wouldn't want to discriminate now would we?  Sorry, that may work for you but to me it violates a rather core bit of my humanity.

There ARE good people and bad people in this world.  You speak of ambiguity in another post, apply it here.  I think as a society we need to wring our hands over why people do bad things but as individuals and when dealing with other individuals we need to wring their necks.

I understand and even on some level sympathise with the men who flew airplanes into the world trade towers.  I would have had no problem shooting them in cold blood however to stop them.




stella40 -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/5/2007 8:57:09 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SirDominic

I don't agree dark. When people proclaim one way is right, then act a different way behind closed doors, then condemn others who are doing the same thing - that is hypocrisy. It doesn't matter whether we are talking about christians, or someone in the fetish community. Hypocrisy is hypocrisy.

Namaste, Sir Dominic


Precisely, but I wonder how many people I wonder see President Bush as doing exactly the same as Timothy MacVeigh?

Isn't it an example of the same thing, reading stories, following a right wing ideology and bombing innocent people?

How come one gets to be executed and the other gets to be President?

Or am I alone in seeing the hypocrisy here?




MistressSassy66 -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/5/2007 9:03:42 AM)

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ORIGINAL: BondageTopJere

http://christiandomesticdiscipline.com/Home.html

Kinda interesting.  Didn't read everything but at first glance it looks like santized D/s relationship info.



I believe in God and try to live as He would like Me too...
BUT...no way am I gonna let some guy spank Me...I dont care if he is My husband.
Thankfully the good Lord made Me Gay so I dont have to worry about getting a spanking.
I have a really awesome book called "The Lord is my Sheperd and He knows I'm Gay" by: Reverend Troy Perry founder of the MCC




darkinshadows -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/5/2007 9:05:12 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: stella40

quote:

ORIGINAL: SirDominic

I don't agree dark. When people proclaim one way is right, then act a different way behind closed doors, then condemn others who are doing the same thing - that is hypocrisy. It doesn't matter whether we are talking about christians, or someone in the fetish community. Hypocrisy is hypocrisy.

Namaste, Sir Dominic


Precisely, but I wonder how many people I wonder see President Bush as doing exactly the same as Timothy MacVeigh?

Isn't it an example of the same thing, reading stories, following a right wing ideology and bombing innocent people?

How come one gets to be executed and the other gets to be President?

Or am I alone in seeing the hypocrisy here?

Personally, I believe Bush should be charged with war crimes.
But his behaviour should not reflect on christian society in the same way that Bin Laden and his croonies should not reflect on the whole Muslim society.
 
Peace




Faramir -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/5/2007 10:09:30 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael
You would condemn the Jew for hating a nazi or a rape victim hating the rapist?  By your standards if I saw a woman being raped you wouldn't intervene especially if she was being raped by a group of men?  Same goes for a "group" committing genocide?  One wouldn't want to discriminate now would we?  Sorry, that may work for you but to me it violates a rather core bit of my humanity.


I'm not here to condemn anyone, brother--I do disagree however.  A Jew who hated Germans, or a rape victim who hated men, would indeed be engaged in Othering, and I reject that utterly.  The rape victim example is topical for me--as a researcher in feminist utopian fiction, I write criticism of a lot of lesbian seperatist and counter-colonial theory that uses victim status as a basis for hating and advocating the oppression of men.  Writers like Sally Miller Gearhart and Joanna Russ use the fact that they personally, and women indivudually, have been raped by men as a basis for hating men.  Their solution is gendercide or sexcide in works like The Wanderground and The Female Man

Here's why your spiteful, hateful posts really hit home with me and bothered me.  My best friend in the world right now is over in Iraq, really suffering.  Today would be the 3rd birthday of his son, J.W.  On Nov. 27 of last year, his wife killed herself and both their babies--she suffered from post-partum depression both pregnancies, and despite everyone's best efforts, she took her own life and both her children's.  May 27th was a rough day for my friend J--, and today is a crushing day for him.  In his own words, outside the wire on patrol he has "a laser focus," but when he is back, he just wants to crawl into hole and close himself in.  I can't communicate here in text the depth of his suffering, the depth of the well my best friend is in.  He's in Hell, and I can't do anything to make it better.

He is a very conservative, evengelical Christian--he's not a Jimmy Carter Christian, to use your phrasing.  He advocates all the policy that you find so objectionable--he's one of the people you hate.  Ok fine, you hate my friend for his policy stake.  What do you want to do with that hate?  Do you want to kill him?  Do you want to smash his face in?  Do you want to silence him, lock him up?  Do you want to just say something nasty to him, hurt him in some way? 

What do you want to do to my friend with your hatred?  Because I don't hate him.  I love him.  I love him despite the fact that we disagree on all those policy issues, despite the wide divide we have between us politically, philosophically and religiously.  I think we each frustrate the hell out of each other at times, but we love each other.  I see in him, and especially now in his suffering, my humanity mirrored in his.  They way I talked about his current situation--I believe it is in the commonality of our suffering that we connect as humans, that we can see self, in other.  No matter how strongly we disagree, I will never hate him.

I'm ashamed for you as my fellow human, that you hate him.  I hope you think carefully about the implication of hate, and reconsider what you are making yourself by inculcating hatred. 




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