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SimplyMichael -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/5/2007 10:31:14 AM)

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I'm not here to condemn anyone, brother--I do disagree however.  A Jew who hated Germans, or a rape victim who hated men, would indeed be engaged in Othering, and I reject that utterly.  The rape victim example is topical for me--as a researcher in feminist utopian fiction, I write criticism of a lot of lesbian seperatist and counter-colonial theory that uses victim status as a basis for hating and advocating the oppression of men.  Writers like Sally Miller Gearhart and Joanna Russ use the fact that they personally, and women indivudually, have been raped by men as a basis for hating men.  Their solution is gendercide or sexcide in works like The Wanderground and The Female Man.


There is a vast difference between condemning all men as rapists and condemning rapists.  Somehow, despite all my caveats you hear me condemning "all" which I clearly don't, I condemn the specific ones who do what I despise.

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What do you want to do to my friend with your hatred?  Because I don't hate him.  I love him.


I want to oppose people like your friend from occupying another persons country and killing them because they object.  I want to oppose people like your friend from outlawing abortion.  What I want to do to them is show them the error of their ways, but no, I wouldn't do to them what they would be more than happy to do to me, which is imprison, outlaw, beat to death, sterilize me, etc

So please forgive my outrageous behavior in "hating" them.. 




stella40 -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/5/2007 10:32:42 AM)

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ORIGINAL: darkinshadows

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ORIGINAL: stella40

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ORIGINAL: SirDominic

I don't agree dark. When people proclaim one way is right, then act a different way behind closed doors, then condemn others who are doing the same thing - that is hypocrisy. It doesn't matter whether we are talking about christians, or someone in the fetish community. Hypocrisy is hypocrisy.

Namaste, Sir Dominic


Precisely, but I wonder how many people I wonder see President Bush as doing exactly the same as Timothy MacVeigh?

Isn't it an example of the same thing, reading stories, following a right wing ideology and bombing innocent people?

How come one gets to be executed and the other gets to be President?

Or am I alone in seeing the hypocrisy here?

Personally, I believe Bush should be charged with war crimes.
But his behaviour should not reflect on christian society in the same way that Bin Laden and his croonies should not reflect on the whole Muslim society.
Peace



I was making the comparison between Bush and MacVeigh, not between Bush and Osama Bin Laden.




Bearlee -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/5/2007 10:37:29 AM)

I realize I should prolly not jump in here like this; but I must say, Faramir, you missed Michael's point.  Please go back and re-read his post just before your long one (#56) where he says:  "I understand and even on some level sympathise with the men who flew airplanes into the world trade towers.  I would have had no problem shooting them in cold blood however to stop them. " 
 
As long as your friend was not condeming others, injuring others, inciting people to rise up against others... I cannot believe Michael would have a problem with him.  It is when people DO such things, in the name of religion (or whatever) that he seems to have a problem!
 
I'm sure he can speak for himself, but I couldn't let this pass without a comment.
 
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domiguy -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/5/2007 10:41:23 AM)

I dunno about all of this....Christianity is supposed to be about the teachings of Christ......And yet when the topic of same sex marriage comes up people quickly point to that Jesus said that marriage is between a man and a woman....However they easily dismiss the fact that Jesus stated that marriage is for life unless the wife has cheated.  Why should we let people who divorce remarry?  It's fairly clear that the J-man would be against this practice.

We live in a world where all too often the self proclaimed Christian leaders....Bush, Falwell, Robertson, Jackson, Sharpton ...etc....Tend to be huge hypocrites...Their Christianity is proclaimed loudly yet their actions are anything but that of the teachings of Christ.

When I read the bible I am often moved by the words of Christ....But then there is always this underlying gnawing that the bible didn't have the foresight to recognize the importance of women....Or that Judas had to be acting on the orders and blessing of Jesus.....Or the ability to at any time talk about something unknown at the time of his life...These are all serious shortcomings of a book that was assembled by man as to what the message as well as the content should be.

I do think that far to many people who identify themselves as Christians are living a life in total contrast to their proclamation.





Faramir -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/5/2007 10:57:40 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael
There is a vast difference between condemning all men as rapists and condemning rapists.  Somehow, despite all my caveats you hear me condemning "all" which I clearly don't, I condemn the specific ones who do what I despise.


That's the heart of the matter: you despise people who don't agree with you.  This group hates that group, that group hates this group, "all [social identity group] are evil," etc.  You aren't talking about condeming an act, like rape or murder, you are condeming people who are different then you, and that's the basis of all human evil.  How the fuck is that any different than an Islamic Radical who hates Westerners, or a conservative who despises you for your beliefs?  What, it's different because your right?  Because you have a special claim to innerrancy that makes you categorically different than every other person who hates based on identity politics?  Dude--everyone who hates on that basis is just as sure as you are that they are right.  None of them has a shred of doubt--they all know in a bedrock way they are righteous, justified, and that therefore they are worthy to judge.

You sound exactly, exactly like a right wing Christian nutter.  You're just left-handed.

I am glad however to hear that you don't advocate acting on your hate.




darkinshadows -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/5/2007 11:03:41 AM)

I know.
And expounding on your statement and I made the comparrison between other beliefs.
Makes no odds, because it comes down to the same thing.
McVeigh, Bush, Bin Laden, Griesacker - makes no odds - they are still promoting genocide or death.
A religion/country/goddess/lifestyle shouldn't be seen as a reflects of that entire community and that was (as stated) my personal belief.
 
Peace




Aswad -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/5/2007 11:19:21 AM)

velvetears,

I know someone who follows the taken-in-hand approach to D/s. He's definitely kinky, and also very clear on this point.

Not all the TIHsters are the same. Some are kinky, some not. It's less formal than much D/s, but frequently very similar.






SimplyMichael -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/5/2007 11:22:04 AM)

Faramir,

My basis for passing judgement is how people treat others, they treat them in a way I define as "bad" I will not only pass judgement, if I can, I will act on that judgement.  So yes, I have no problem casting the first stone despite living in a house built of sin.

That said, you need to step back from this argument because you are projecting something on to me that is clearly NOT in my writing.  You might ask someone who's judgement you trust to give you a bit of perspective because yours isn't working.




Lockit -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/5/2007 11:41:12 AM)

And this is how wars are started and prolonged....




Aswad -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/5/2007 11:46:46 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

[...]I am sorry that I and others find christians as a rather sickening concept in general.


Thanks for the, ahem, compliment. Not all of us are the same, SimplyMichael.

Now, if you look down you will see a very large soap box, why not climb down off of it while you engage in your whining.

[:D]

This particular Christian (or, if you prefer a more complicated, less common denomination; neoabrahamic pseudognostic) does not rationalize or sanitize his kinks, or his lifestyle. He does maintain an integral view of both his faith, his kinks and his lifestyle. He does not find them to be in conflict.

As I've said before, to me, one of the fundamental tenets of the Abrahamic faiths is that free will is the gift above all gifts, and that it follows that submission is a sacrament in its own right. The consummation of a relationship is another sacrament, in whatever form is natural to oneself and in agreement with the other tenets of the faith.

I don't delude myself to think what I'm doing isn't D/s, or that it isn't kink.

Does nephandi submit? Yes, and I consider that the greatest gesture anyone can make.

Do I dominate her? Yes, and I consider that a divine calling, perhaps even a duty.

Am I kinky? Hell, yes.

I'm a sadistic kinkster with more kinks than most people, even in some parts of the BDSM scene, have even heard of. And I indulge in the majority of them. Frequently. I love the smell of bruised skin in the morning. I adore the idea of using a human as a urinal. I enjoy unreciprocated sexual gratification. Et cetera ad nauseam; just mentioning the common, non-esoteric ones.

Are there things I abstain from due to my faith? Yes.

For instance, I have not yet had the time to sit down and think carefully about the meaning of the prohibition against homosexuality. It seems likely that it can be chalked up to a case of defining the Jewish culture in terms of opposition to, and distinction from, the Canaanite culture; Leviticus prohibits just about everything the Canaanites did. But I haven't had time to consider the theology of it yet, so I turn down offers from male subs and switches who want to play.

Are there things I would abstain from in the absence of my faith? Hell, yes. For one, I do not think I would practice my Dolcett-style kinks, even if local legislation permitted it (which it doesn't), and even if the partner in question had a complete mental work-up and professional assessment of informed consent.

Do I reject those kinks, on moral or religious grounds? No, they're part of me, whether I like that fact or not. My morals and my religious beliefs, along with my sense of empathy for other beings, are things that tell me quite clearly that these kinks aren't for me to explore in real life. And I'm sure we can all agree that's just as well; as it should be, even.

In short, coming down from the anti-religious soapbox, take a moment to consider that not all Christians are sheep.

And that some non-Christians are sheep as well; it's not a matter of faith, it's a matter of who you are.

Sorry for not conforming to your expectations of what my religion says about me.

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The mere fact they have to rationalize and sanitize it (and those ARE the correct words) it shows their utter lack of self-awareness.


Many people have to rationalize and sanitize it; it's not a religion thing.

In fact, there's some amount of sanitizing implicit, I'd argue. The use of consent, for instance, while a great number of BDSM'ers I know would, on a sexual level, quite possibly derive satisfaction from indulging their kinks with non-consenting partners, whether they admit that to themselves or not.

And there's occasionally a bit of rationalization going on. People who generally subscribe to the prevailing morality of their society, which rejects BDSM in most cases where common western morality is concerned, rationalize it as OK because the other party enjoys it.

Fuck that. I enjoy it because I enjoy it.

Do I also concern myself with my partner(s)? Yes, absolutely. Their safety, well-being and contentedness/happiness/fulfillment is unspeakably important to me. Especially so for nephandi, who also happens to be the one I love, the light in my world and the reason for me to exist in my current format.

But, unless you were raised to believe these things are completely okay, don't talk about rationalization, because that's just saying something is okay for some reason or other, which is implicit in accepting and internalizing BDSM for the vast majority of the people I've spoken to about it.

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Yes that is judgemental but I feel rather comfortable making that judgement.


Fine by me.

You might want to consider that you may have been wrong, however, whether in the content of what you said, or in the causes you ascribe to the things that you find objectionable. And that your judgment is no different in that regard than that of those you have judged and found wanting.




Aswad -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/5/2007 12:05:23 PM)

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ORIGINAL: JerryInTampa

Your example here is a good one. The Bible never forbids killing, certainly not in the OT. The law you are speaking of is "don't commit murder", which is "killing in violation of the law".


Very definitely. There's a significant distinction in the original text, which is blurred in translation, and lost in colloquialisms.

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"Tooth for tooth" is punishment and, if done according to the law, an execution would not be a murder.


Actually, I'd take it a bit further.

The statement "a tooth for a tooth, an eye for an eye, a broken bone for a broken bone, a slave for a slave" (yes, thus) is not just an admonition to let the punishment fit the crime, it is much more fundamentally an admonition not to go beyond the crime in the punishment given. A statement of justice, perhaps, but in spirit also an "end to the spiral".

Contrast this to the prevailing sense of justice at the time, where being tortured to death would be acceptable for stealing.

The bible must be seen in terms of a difference from a societal norm in the time and place of its origins, and this vector, or direction, can be carried out to a line into infinity. Following that line as far as you can, is the spirit of the thing, in my opinion. Do not apply the standards of ages past, but use the guideline instead.

If the bible said "You can't have slaves", nobody would have listened, and G*d would have had to go pick another group of people to coddle, possibly (depending on how you read the Bible) wiping out the Jews before leaving.

But the bible doesn't say that, it says "You must treat your slaves like this: [...]", and that, people will listen to. Which is an improvement over how slaves were treated before that. In that sense, it does something good at the time, in saying something that goes as far as people can accept at the time, and relying on people to figure the rest out for themselves.

Of course, that didn't happen. People didn't really figure it out for themselves.

So then comes Jesus. And he reiterates: we must strive to be better; we must not be content to follow the letter of the law, but its spirit; we must go above and beyond. He is not saying "screw the Old Testament", he is saying "read it, get it, forget it", and he is saying that there is a difference between knowing the rules and understanding the spirit in which they were written.

He's telling us that when we were led by a path from one place to another, we should not settle down permanently in that new place, but instead continue walking along that path, and keep doing so until we have achieved true enlightenment, and are able to make the rest of the path for ourselves.

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A better question would be "why do Christians divorce".


Actually, the question of why does anyone find multiple wives (or husbands) objectionable would be apt.

The question of divorce makes sense, though.

It is pretty clear to me that the Bible points out there are many difficulties in marriage, and in the relations between men and women, and that these difficulties will take a lot of commitment and hard work to resolve and make it through, but that a marriage is a pointless thing if one isn't willing to go the distance and make it work. I've yet to see a marriage, or any other long-term relationship, work by itself; they all require a lot of maintenance, but the investment is worth it.

Just my 2 cents.




Lockit -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/5/2007 12:23:47 PM)

Which part of the apple is the most important part?  The tree that provides the apple, beauty and wood... the skin filled with vitamines... the flesh so sweet and juicy... the core because it is the core and provides new birth?  If we pick a certain part and believe it to be the most important and do not look at the whole we often miss out on the worth of the whole for we only have a part rather than a whole.

Do you spit the seeds out?  Do you cut off the skin?  Do you mash it all into sauce?  Your personal value of the apple and it's uses are found only within you and to devalue the worth or usage it might have to another, rots the whole apple if you ask me.  But then that is my personal opinion and that is worth about as much applesauce as I could stomach.

Okay... I'm nuts, but I am also taking the whole tree... greedy eh?




mythi -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/5/2007 12:26:51 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

Some here need to look up the word MOST.  I have no trouble with followers of Christ, hell if the guy came back I would consider joining him.  The UnChristian right is who I have an issue with.  If you support denying PPV vaccine to kids because you would prefer they risk cancer as punishment for being sexually active (as Bush and the Republicans along with their Christian allies) then yes, I "hate" you.  If you believe ignorance about sex is what we should "teach" our children, then yes, I "hate" you.  If you believe that science is anti-religious then yes, I "hate" you.  If you think AIDS is any sort of punishment from god I do think you are evil.  If you opposed distrubuting condoms and providing sex ed in Africa is wrong, then yes, I think you are a fucking nut job.


I am the Christian right. And I'm in favor of PPV vaccines. I believe in basic sex education in school including birth control. (I also believe in more thorough sex education at home.) I believe that mathematics are the language of God and that the laws of physics were set by Him. I think AIDS is a terrible disease with a physical basis, and when my time has been freer I have volunteered at my local AIDS center, including qualifying to answer the hotline and comfort those who suffer. I think the problems in Africa go WAY beyond anything a few condoms can fix, but that any effort that might help is an effort well made.
 
I am the Christian right, and I'm far from being alone in my beliefs. Don't assume you know anything about what a 'group' of fully-faceted people believe based on the pronouncements of a few self-serving, and occasionally self-appointed 'leaders', who are being funded by the fringe groups you waste your time and energy hating.  As the saying goes, follow the money.
 
mythi, basking in the warm glow of SimplyMichael's hate




Aswad -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/5/2007 12:53:56 PM)

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ORIGINAL: stella40

No other sect leader can ever hope to compete, Jesus was incredibly intelligent, he was a fantastic teacher, he had his head screwed on right, he WAS the example, and he spoke the truth. Now he could have just turned to his disciples and said 'hey guys, why don't we just cut the BS and give it to the people straight?' But he couldn't.


~nod~

Though identifying as a Jew, Albert Einstein was immensely fascinated by "the Nazarene".

Noam Chomsky made an interesting comment along the lines of what you said. I'll use the WP quote, which goes as follows: "Prophet just means intellectual. They were people giving geopolitical analysis, moral lessons, that sort of thing. We call them intellectuals today. There were the people we honor as prophets, there were the people we condemn as false prophets. But if you look at the biblical record, at the time, it was the other way around. The flatterers of the Court of King Ahab were the ones who were honored. The ones we call prophets were driven into the desert and imprisoned."

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or they would have had him much earlier.


You may want to consider the position forwarded in the Gospel of Iudas.

Basically, the notion is one of two options:
  • Jesus, seeing that he'd gone as far as the people were able to follow at this point, offered himself as a martyr in order to immortalize his own teachings, and thereby start a movement that the Romans could never extinguish. In this, he had Iudas to help set the Romans up by proclaiming to betray him; pity, the others lost a lot of the gist of things, which did not seem lost on either Iudas, Thomas or the Magdalene, for instance.
  • Being a divine being trapped in a physical body, as all souls are, Jesus sought release and a return from this prison to where he belonged. The Gospel of Iudas speaks of how "You will be the one to free me from this body I wear." This is one of the Gnostic positions on the matter.
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And this is why Jesus spoke in Aramic, and also told stories and parables. The message was no longer straightforward, you had to think to get the message.


Kind of like koans, zen riddles and so forth. Some might say Fight Club, and Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, qualify as the same. Many Objectivists claim that The Sword of Truth is similar in that regard. When the message is cleverly wrapped in a different guise, the mind has to work to unwrap it, and the result is that it is accepted more easily and more profoundly.

I would also say it is one of the defining properties of Art.

Basically, good Art, to me, is something that (a) conveys something that cannot be conveyed directly, and/or (b) captures something fleeting or not often experienced. Its aesthetics are beside the point, an entirely a different axis. "I just call 'em as I see 'em", some people say. And a good Artist, to my mind, does just that: sees something that the vast majority of us do not see, or at least do not fully perceive, and presents it to us in a manner which captures the essence of it.

In that regard, the Bible is Art. To consider it a collection of commandments and prohibitions, along with a bit of history, is absurd in the extreme. I doubt it was ever meant to be any of those things, except to those who lived at the time when it was made and did not have the ears to hear what was truly being said (for whom it would improve things over the status quo then, but not now); instead, I am confident that the Bible is meant to capture the spirit of the faith, much as other Art, and convey this to those that have the ability to discern it.

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And I'm sure he never said, "Husbands pick up Thy floggers and smite Thy wives whenever they show disobedience."


No, but Paul, the guy who essentially founded the mainstream organized religion that came to be the Catholic church, and (later) its derivates, probably did. Repeatedly. A lot of writing establishes him quite clearly as being outright misogynistic, and also as being highly jealous of the Magdalene.

I read a doctoral thesis about the notion that the Magdalene was the infamous Beloved Disciple, and that the Gospel of John had been redacted to obscure this fact. The line of reasoning was fairly persuasive, and it built on well established work. Essentially, there are several breaks in the narrative flow, several inconsistencies that do not appear in the rest of that Gospel, and some breaks in the linguistic flow, mostly around where it deals with the Magdalene and where it deals with the Beloved Disciple. There are, at the time, no legitimate reasons for hiding the identity of the Beloved Disciple, and a lot of good arguments that it would be the Magdalene.

Indeed, if you accept some of the non-canon Gospels as well, like the Gnostics do, then Jesus purportedly said to them that "Where your understanding burns as a candle, hers is like that of the Sun." I can easily picture a misogynistic second-rate disciple as harboring a great deal of jealousy over that, and carrying a grudge.

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There is nothing which states that Jesus was into BDSM or not. Most likely he wasn't, it just didn't float his boat.


You never know [:D]

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Upon death on the cross Jesus Christ became God.


That part is not universally accepted, even among the organized religions. Some say he is distinct, some say he was already consubstantiate with G*d all along, some say other things still.

One thing is for certain, though, and beyond even the unorganized religious aspect of it, and that is that, regardless of any spiritual immortality he may have gained, he certainly did gain a different kind of immortality; that of his teachings, with him as the example to illustrate them, being firmly embedded in the minds of many, and eventually growing to become embedded in the minds of about a billion or so at this point.

Whether he'd be pleased with how some have been going about "honoring" his legacy, though, is rather doubtful. For instance, as a good Jew, I doubt he would approve of people praying to him and to Mary; that's flirting with idolatry at best. To say nothing of what some churches have done in his name. If he really is consubstantiate with G*d, then some of the stuff that's gone on in his name amounts to no less than desecrating / defiling that name, and would be blasphemy, as such.

People who accept the miracles of the stories sometimes try to posit a time for his return.

Personally, if I were him, I'd be a bit disappointed, and would try giving serious thought as to whether a third time around of trying to knock the message into people's heads would work or not, and whether it'd be worth it. Especially given some of the things he purportedly said about what will happen upon his return, which would be rather clearly catastrophic if he doesn't make at least one more "intermediate" return first, and doing that would hardly be likely to cause people (locked in their preconceptions about what he will and will not do) to assume he was actually back. That, and there's this whole thing about "some of us who live now, will be alive when he returns" or somesuch. Bit late for that if the Big Guy hasn't changed his opinion on the 120 years thing and a few budding Metusaleh-like people were in the lot.

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No, the Gospels were written in the form of stories, in the same format as Jesus told them, probably verbatim, and this formed the New Testament.


Err... not quite.

The Gospels were written down at some point, possibly by the people who lived it, quite possibly not; probably in the format Jesus told it. And then there was endless bickering, and fighting. Some texts were lost. Some destroyed. Some were hidden, for instance in the caves at Qumran.

Either way, there is evidence of significant tampering with the texts, even prior to the point where churches sprang up.

Which then brings us to the New Testament. The gist of it is, people sat down and debated which texts should have what status in the New Testament. Several texts were rejected, some banned, some destroyed (again). Some were included as apocrypha. Some were considered Canon(tm). In the end, the dust settled, and we were left with a predigested blending of the original material. Sure, it's probably less confusing that way, but it is taking away the opportunity for each person to hear and decide for themselves, which is essentially what Jesus himself did.

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But what I have given here is MY interpretation, MY perception and MY view.


~nod~

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Aswad -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/5/2007 12:57:35 PM)

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ORIGINAL: stella40

How come one gets to be executed and the other gets to be President? Or am I alone in seeing the hypocrisy here?


Different thread. This one is bound to attract fire. You're not alone, though.




Aswad -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/5/2007 1:07:10 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

There is a vast difference between condemning all men as rapists and condemning rapists.  Somehow, despite all my caveats you hear me condemning "all" which I clearly don't, I condemn the specific ones who do what I despise.


Personally, I would paraphrase what a priest once said to me about "sin", a concept I don't put much store in, but the paraphrased version should do quite nicely: "I don't hate rapists, I hate rape."

I may disapprove of individuals' beliefs, choices and actions, and I'd like to think that I'd intervene in the case of a rape, but it is the act I hate, not the rapist. If I could stop him/her without doing harm and incurring additional risk for myself and the "rapee" (there's got to be a better word than "victim"; anyone?), then I would do so, even if I know perfectly well how to snap a neck, sever major arteries and otherwise kill, or how to incapacitate through blood chokes, breaking bones and tearing out eyes.

It's the act I'm trying to stop; the actor is incidental to the act. And it's the act I hate, not the actor.

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So please forgive my outrageous behavior in "hating" them..


Hate is a strong word, identifying a strong emotion, one that is a vital cog in the wheel of all that is shit headed for fans.




Aswad -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/5/2007 1:48:10 PM)

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

Why should we let people who divorce remarry?  It's fairly clear that the J-man would be against this practice.


~nod~

And Catholics can't remarry, as far as I know.

Which is one of the reasons why many Catholic churches require a premarital course before wedding a couple.

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We live in a world where all too often the self proclaimed Christian leaders....Bush, Falwell, Robertson, Jackson, Sharpton ...etc....Tend to be huge hypocrites...Their Christianity is proclaimed loudly yet their actions are anything but that of the teachings of Christ.


Such is also the case for many churches, including the Catholics (just so I'm clear on that; no rosy mirrorshades here).

But that's one of the reasons I like the Catholic church.

They have done some fucked up things in the past, as recognized by pope John Paul II, in his Mea Culpa address, where he claimed personal responsibility for wrongful atrocities of the church and asked forgiveness. Now that point should not be lost on anyone familiar with the Catholic church. The doctrine holds papal infallibility; the Pope, according to doctrine, is not wrong. Yet John Paul II took a stand and basically said "The Popes before me have committed terrible mistakes. They have been wrong. I am culpable for this, as current head of the church; this rests on my shoulders." He went as far as one can go in saying "We have gone astray, and forgotten the teachings of Christ" in the Vatican without meeting an untimely demise.

I kid you not, one year saw no less than four popes.

But despite all the fucked up things they've done, and all the fucked up things they do, they are the one fairly mainstream church that owns up to its beliefs. (Don't cry Episcopaleans, I'm not dismissing you.) It is the one that says "Well, we may be wrong, but this is how we see it, and we don't give a shit if it's politically correct, legal or otherwise in line with anything else; it's our faith." That takes a bit of integrity, and a bit of balls. If they can only add a few more popes like John Paul II, and start seeing things a bit more my way, I'll be overjoyed.

By contrast, loosely quoting one British Protestant clergyman when asked whether a belief in Jesus was required to be a Protestant, the answer was along the lines of "Well, I'm not sure. It seems to be an open question these days."

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When I read the bible I am often moved by the words of Christ....But then there is always this underlying gnawing that the bible didn't have the foresight to recognize the importance of women....


Actually, I think that's something you can ascribe to redactions and so forth. There were great struggles- ones over the faith, ones over power, and personal ones- in the years after Jesus died. A lot was lost, and a lot was edited. Some things remained hidden.

In the Gnostic Gospels, which come from the tradition that was prevalent at the time Jesus died, but slowly grew more or less extinct as Paul and his followers gained power, women are given a place, and some even speak of a complementarity of gender in the godhood, essentially a God and Goddess who, along with the Holy Spirit, could be viewed as the proper Trinity, with Jesus as a prophet, or even a Messiah, but not as consubstantiate to G*d.

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Or that Judas had to be acting on the orders and blessing of Jesus.....


The Gospel of Iudas was recently recovered, in rather poor condition, and the guy working on it expects to spend the rest of his life working to reassemble the fragments (it's a puzzle by now, that bad) and translating the Coptic language it is written in.

In this Gospel, it is implied that Iudas was the foremost of the disciples, at least foremost among the male disciples, and it is said quite explicitly that Iudas is being asked to deliver Jesus to his captors, something he is reluctant to do, but willing to do, in order to free Jesus from the prison of the flesh so that he may realize his ultimate potential as a free spirit.

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Or the ability to at any time talk about something unknown at the time of his life...


Hmm? This sentence didn't parse for me. Could I ask you to repeat it in a different way?

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These are all serious shortcomings of a book that was assembled by man as to what the message as well as the content should be.


It wasn't assembled by a man.

The Canon of Trent became the selection of books accepted as doctrine.

This, mostly, is what eventually became the Biblia Sacra Vulgata, the Common Holy Book of the Catholic church.

Most of us just know it as The Bible, or somesuch, generally in our native language. As for me, I have a copy of the Latin version of the vulgate, but I have not yet gotten around to learning enough Hebrew, Aramaic, Greek and Coptic to start going to the original sources. It's definitely on my TODO list, though.

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I do think that far to many people who identify themselves as Christians are living a life in total contrast to their proclamation.


Definitely.

And most Protestant Christians that I've encountered tend to have gotten the general gist of a lot of what is said, but are missing some of the subtleties; in essence, they get the beauty, but not the Art. Which is a vast improvement over the Bible-thumpers who quote the Bible literally and selectively in support of their arguments, admittedly.

But it is very similar to what I've observed in a lot of Neo-Pagan communities (my nephandi is pagan, not so much "neo", and we live in the "Wicca capital" of Norway), where some know a lot about their faith, its foundations, and even sometimes its history; but most just know the parts that some have- affectionately, not condescendingly- dubbed "goodie-goodie-paganism" or "fluffy-bunny-paganism".

There's several sides to the stories of Jesus, and none recount the original story in whole. There are also several layers to it, with the most commonly perceived one being the message of compassion, which I got from Bushido, and the others being related to various matters of the faith, and spirituality in general. Understanding a single layer is good; understanding several may not be better, but it's what I'm aiming for. And it's not as common as I'd like, in my experience.

Either way, I don't care if people take it as a secular piece, a religious one, or a spiritual one, or all of the above.

Just another 2 cents... as you (domiguy) will no doubt point out, I should save my money for beer and chill. (That was a playful jab, not a spiteful one.)

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Aswad -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/5/2007 1:52:05 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

Okay... I'm nuts, but I am also taking the whole tree... greedy eh?


I'm nuts too, so that part I get. The rest of the post, I'm afraid, I did not understand.

Sometimes, metaphors and parabels don't work quite as intended. If meant for me, that one did not. It's probably a language barrier thing, or a culture barrier thing, or a "I haven't been sleeping well for a few days" thing. Could you rephrase your post?




Lockit -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/5/2007 2:08:47 PM)

Aswad Sir, it was not intended for you.  I look forward to digging in to what you have written here!  Thanks!
Lockit




velvetears -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/5/2007 3:03:06 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Aswad

velvetears,

I know someone who follows the taken-in-hand approach to D/s. He's definitely kinky, and also very clear on this point.

Not all the TIHsters are the same. Some are kinky, some not. It's less formal than much D/s, but frequently very similar.





TIH is different than Christian DD, obvioulsy one is all faith/bible based and the other doesn't have to be but many in the TIH site are.  Then general commonality between them though it that spanking is punishment - not to be enjoyed and used to improve relations between man and woman/husband and wife by correcting the wife to improve her behavior... The male is the HOH - never the other way around, and the woman while they find satisfaction in being punished by their HOH, because it's a testament to his love and concern for her wellbeing, they do claim to really despise the pain, humiliation, etc that it entails. 

i just find that all a bit hard to swallow. i think it is an erotic exchange for them on some level and they just don't want to admit it.  When they mention bdsm or kink it is usualy with some kind of disdain, even if only to say - that does not represent me or what i do, we don't enjoy it, it's not fun for us, its a dynamic we need to balance the relationship and make things run smoothly.  They always feel the need to seperate themselves like anyone who enjoys spanking must have cooties or something lol.  i guess it would topple their little kingdoms and make their house of cards come crashing down. 




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