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RE: i deserve scorn - 6/9/2007 4:15:06 PM   
truesub4u


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Status: offline 		at first you don't succeed... hide all the evidence that you even tried.... LOL

No seriously... for some... we have to fail in order to succeed. Don't take it to heart... learn from it. 

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RE: i deserve scorn - 6/9/2007 4:18:22 PM   
KatyLied


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quote:

we have to fail in order to succeed.


For some it's not our failure.  We try and the other person fails us.
In that case I don't consider it a failure on my part....just a learning experience.


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RE: i deserve scorn - 6/9/2007 4:20:19 PM   
MagiksSlave


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Status: offline 		Im really confused why does your profile say you are a dominent sadist and such then, if you want to searve and what not???

Im confused and sad that I wasnt invited to this pity party

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RE: i deserve scorn - 6/9/2007 4:21:59 PM   
MistressDoMe


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Status: offline 		I agree, many of us like the drama.
That is why a lot of us come here, isn't it?
:)

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RE: i deserve scorn - 6/9/2007 4:22:58 PM   
truesub4u


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quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

quote:

we have to fail in order to succeed.


For some it's not our failure.  We try and the other person fails us.
In that case I don't consider it a failure on my part....just a learning experience.



We have a BINGO!!!!!

Sometimes the words just don't  come out the right way.. but at least someone else thinks like I do... to a point....somewhat.... some of the time.... .LOL

(didn't want to frighten you Katy...lol)

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RE: i deserve scorn - 6/9/2007 4:30:23 PM   
LadyHeart


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Status: offline 		It must be something in the air today. The first post I read today is this off the wall wail. Then I get this in my mail box from someone in Hobart, Australia. I'm going back to bed...

"Due to circumstances surrounding my health I am no longer in a position to maintain my owned slave beast of 14 years duration. It is a well trained and very experienced beast. I want it to be transfered to a new ownership  who will treat it the same or worse than I treat it. Please view my profile to get more information? If you discover that what it contains does not interest you then kindly do not bother to respond back because it will achieve no useful purpose whatsoever.

In all the english speaking world there have existed for a thousand years or more certain statutes. These statutes govern legal power exchanges between thestate and individuals or one person to another person. Such statutesrange from power of attorney, revocable/irrevocable through to adult adoption and up to adult guardianship. Mostare cheap and easy to enact. Adult guardianship can be time consumming andexpensive depending upon the circumstances. I have aquired three power exchange arrangements along the way over the years. I am sure that Nederland beinga liberal nation will have broadly similier statutes. Often one state will recognise another states statutes with little or no modification under their own law. Also quite often if a foreign national takes residence although subject to all the laws of the host nation, any pre existing legal status can still remain without challenge and be legally recognised. Both I and my beast are canadian citizens. We just happen to reside stateside at the moment.

kind regards,"

:((
LH

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RE: i deserve scorn - 6/9/2007 4:36:36 PM   
MagiksSlave


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHeart


"Due to circumstances surrounding my health I am no longer in a position to maintain my owned slave beast of 14 years duration. It is a well trained and very experienced beast. I want it to be transfered to a new ownership  who will treat it the same or worse than I treat it. Please view my profile to get more information? If you discover that what it contains does not interest you then kindly do not bother to respond back because it will achieve no useful purpose whatsoever.


:((
LH


Someone who will treat it the same or worse?? What a great Master!!! LOL sounds like you found yourself another attention getter! I mean who just gives away a slave after 14 years oh well it must be a full moon or something.


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RE: i deserve scorn - 6/9/2007 4:43:42 PM   
thetammyjo


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Status: offline 		Give yourself time to think and process things, kirby104. Maybe once those two people also have time to think and process you can all sit down and take a look at things.

I'm not saying you'll get back together or than you even should try. But as someone whose little dom heart has been stomped by a sub or two I can say that over time I got over it and today I think I could have a more objective heart to heart with them. At the very least I learned about myself and has helped me with later relationships.

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RE: i deserve scorn - 6/9/2007 4:47:04 PM   
Emperor1956


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quote:

LadyHeart:  It must be something in the air today  (snip)


Continuing with LadyH's hijack...

I'm trying to figure out if this is a new version of the Nigerian Slave Scam.  How does this go, now?  If you express an interest in purchasing her "beast" is the follow up a request for a "good faith" financial deposit?  Or perhaps she needs your Aussie equivalent to what in the States would be a key document for stealing your identity:  A social security no.  How fun.

We now return you to your regular drama filled hyper whine of the week.

E.



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RE: i deserve scorn - 6/9/2007 4:53:29 PM   
kc692


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Yep I see female dominant on your profile, maybe this is the problem with you providing service?

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This is only MY opinion. If it's not yours, let's agree in advance to agree to disagree, OR, you can just get the fuck over what I had to say:)

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RE: i deserve scorn - 6/9/2007 4:56:05 PM   
MagiksSlave


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Status: offline 		Kc I thought I was the only one that looked and saw that!!


Magik's slave

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If you’re going through hell keep on moving
don't slow down
if you’re scared dont show it
you might get out
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RE: i deserve scorn - 6/9/2007 5:03:41 PM   
kc692


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Status: offline 		Nope I saw it too, noone else must have glanced at the profile, smiles.

edit to add:  Now let's see if the OP answers us, lol!

< Message edited by kc692 -- 6/9/2007 5:04:28 PM >

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Anyone can overpower; not many can INSPIRE.....

This is only MY opinion. If it's not yours, let's agree in advance to agree to disagree, OR, you can just get the fuck over what I had to say:)

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RE: i deserve scorn - 6/9/2007 5:09:48 PM   
michaelOfGeorgia


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quote:

ORIGINAL: kirby104

At the point where I was unable to even think clearly, I was despairingly frightened. I didn't seem to be worthy or helpful. I REMOVED MY OWN COLLAR. In this lifestyle, it is damnation.

I will pay for the rest of my life for this.

Any personal issues aside. I completely failed at service.

I failed two loving people because of my fears and insecurities.

I lost their trust.and their love.

I did not know how to serve. I'm sorry.

The world should know of my ways, and I warn them of people like me.



i requested to be released from a collar of a Mistress due to the distance and only met Her once for about a couple of hours for lunch. nothing ever happened between us, so there was not that much of a link between us, even though we knew eachother online for years.

so, don't feel bad


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RE: i deserve scorn - 6/9/2007 5:42:11 PM   
robertolapiedra


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Status: offline 		Hello kirby104. Your profile seems to indicate you are a female dominant? Is this right?

In that case, I really do not think taking off your collar poses a problem. RL.

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RE: i deserve scorn - 6/9/2007 5:48:13 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		I have been trying to scorn you all day, but I get a website not found........

 don't think this is real, at all.

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RE: i deserve scorn - 6/9/2007 6:15:47 PM   
KatyLied


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quote:

(didn't want to frighten you Katy...lol)


No fright here.  It took me a while to get to the place where I understand that if I do the best I can in a relationship, being open, honest, having integrity and best intentions, and it fails or goes no where -- I'm not going to own it as a failure, because I did the best I could with what I had.


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RE: i deserve scorn - 6/9/2007 6:20:19 PM   
frazzle40


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Status: offline 		Sorry havent read all the replies,  checked profile of OP.      you claim to be a Dominant sadist,   so why collared and why confused that you cant submit.
Or is this a, lets post a thread for attention, having forgotton which lies i put in profile???

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RE: i deserve scorn - 6/9/2007 6:46:49 PM   
domiguy


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Status: offline 		The people on this site can be sooo judgemental and mean...Some have called you a fake, others have questioned your profile...I read your post and I immediately felt your pain as well as your complete honesty.....None of this would have been possible if you had chosen to omit the photo,in your profile, of your perfect ass.

I will help you learn to submit.....The picture of your ass has nothing to do with this offer.

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RE: i deserve scorn - 6/9/2007 8:13:12 PM   
Griswold


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quote:

ORIGINAL: softness

STOP WITH THE DRAMA

first thing i *really* learned about service was the need to be calm and pleasing ... think about what it is to BE pleasing .. not doing pleasing things but being a pleasing person.

I learned that wailing, self indulgence and the ego-centric nature of self flagellation ... was extremely displeasing.




I so totally agree with you.

Having seen your photo...can we have sex?

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RE: i deserve scorn - 6/9/2007 9:05:05 PM   
Sinergy


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quote:

we have to fail in order to succeed.


"Why do we fall, Master Wayne?  So we can learn to pick ourselves up again."  Michael Caine, Batman Begins

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