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Teroh -> wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 2:05:43 AM)
Hey I've been digging around in this lifestyle for a while now and I'm starting to get aggitated. I'm just after a hot female in the area for pretty much any of the 'sub-fetishes?' listed or whatever they're called...I don't care. However it seems that doesn't exist, and appears as if everybody is taken or well just not something I'd be interested in. I'm not an extremely picky person but I take care of myself and just want to find somebody else (opposite sex) who thinks this stuff is erotic..advice? tips? I'd appreciate big time, thx

rollinonward05 -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 2:36:15 AM)
Well it certainly sounds like you have been "diggin" around a lot. Seems like you know a lot about just what the lifestyle is to all of us, and all about our little "sub fetishes". Sorry but many of us see this lifestyle as more than just a fetish, so perhaps you should go dig a little deeper and find out just what this kind of lifestyle is about. I am not saying that you won't find someone who suits you to a tee and is all you are looking for , i am sure they are out there. Just there is more to it than just always fun and games. To many of us. rollin

LadyHeart -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 2:43:14 AM)
Your profile says you are 18. You must have been "digging around" for a l-o-n-g while.... :)) LH

MsLadySue -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 3:15:57 AM)
All your profile states is that you're looking to get laid any way you can. Collarme is not a dating site for teenagers/anyone who thinks a fetish equates to kinkysex. Do you understand the meaning of the term 'switch'? Perhaps you should do some serious studying on the subject of bdsm then come back to collarme when you actually have a clue what the people here are all about.

windchymes -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 4:25:53 AM)
Ah, school's out. We'll be seeing these until September. They're on other message boards in other sites, too.

Slavetrainer2007 -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 4:29:49 AM)
You need to do a little more studying first before you go jumping into this. Your trying to play with fire and you havent even read the instructions on how to light the match yet. BDSM isnt some twisted version of Six Flags where you go to have fun and get your rocks off. This is a serious ALTERNATIVE lifestyle. You should do a little more research in the concept behind the "sub-fetishes".

SadisticMan -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 4:47:16 AM)
Maybe you should start out as a submissive first and learn about the lifestyle. You missed the one little "fetish" most of us have, we like partners who understand the lifestyle. And no, I don't want to touch your abs or any other part of you.

AquaticSub -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 5:39:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Teroh Hey I've been digging around in this lifestyle for a while now and I'm starting to get aggitated. I'm just after a hot female in the area for pretty much any of the 'sub-fetishes?' listed or whatever they're called...I don't care. However it seems that doesn't exist, and appears as if everybody is taken or well just not something I'd be interested in. I'm not an extremely picky person but I take care of myself and just want to find somebody else (opposite sex) who thinks this stuff is erotic..advice? tips? I'd appreciate big time, thx Clearly we do exist but got to say, with the options I had open as a single sub, I probably wouldn't go for the one who said " 'sub-fetishes?' listed or whatever they're called". I also wouldn't be interested "bisexual, same personality type, a switch, and extremely hot + intelligent", but that's because I avoid men who want me to sleep with other women (I prefer monogamy thank you). Switches aren't uncommon, but it means you aren't looking for just subs and some subs aren't interested in a guy who is interested in switching. My advice: Learn more about this lifestyle. Pick up "SM 101" and give it a read through.

michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 5:42:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Teroh Hey I've been digging around in this lifestyle for a while now and I'm starting to get aggitated. I'm just after a hot female in the area for pretty much any of the 'sub-fetishes?' listed or whatever they're called...I don't care. However it seems that doesn't exist, and appears as if everybody is taken or well just not something I'd be interested in. I'm not an extremely picky person but I take care of myself and just want to find somebody else (opposite sex) who thinks this stuff is erotic..advice? tips? I'd appreciate big time, thx welcome to the club of the disillusioned

AquaticSub -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 5:47:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia quote: ORIGINAL: Teroh Hey I've been digging around in this lifestyle for a while now and I'm starting to get aggitated. I'm just after a hot female in the area for pretty much any of the 'sub-fetishes?' listed or whatever they're called...I don't care. However it seems that doesn't exist, and appears as if everybody is taken or well just not something I'd be interested in. I'm not an extremely picky person but I take care of myself and just want to find somebody else (opposite sex) who thinks this stuff is erotic..advice? tips? I'd appreciate big time, thx welcome to the club of the disillusioned Yes Michael. It couldn't have anything to do with that fact that he doesn't understand this lifestyle, or at least demonstrates no understanding of it. I don't fault him for not knowing. But from what he's demonstrated, I'm really not surprised that hot subbie girls aren't beating a path to his door.

michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 5:49:12 AM)
i know, i've been around too long, just in a depressed mode today... please excuse my outbursts

susie -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 5:52:02 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MsLadySue All your profile states is that you're looking to get laid any way you can. Collarme is not a dating site for teenagers/anyone who thinks a fetish equates to kinkysex. Do you understand the meaning of the term 'switch'? Perhaps you should do some serious studying on the subject of bdsm then come back to collarme when you actually have a clue what the people here are all about. I agree with this. You have much to learn particularly after your quote "well I'm not a physically abused child who is trying to mimic," That is so far off base and a totally unnecessary comment.

AquaticSub -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 5:54:09 AM)
I wasn't even going to touch that one. [:'(]

michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 5:55:06 AM)
i better not touch that in my current state-of-mind. i would get into alot of trouble

AquaticSub -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 6:07:51 AM)
Probably. Particularly since there are a lot of us who weren't abused as children or later in life, and if you take the current, and very sad, average number of people abused of course there is going to be spill over into a social subgroup where people are very open about their sexuality and experience. Positive or negative.

MHOO314 -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 6:08:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Teroh Hey I've been digging around in this lifestyle for a while now and I'm starting to get aggitated. I'm just after a hot female in the area for pretty much any of the 'sub-fetishes?' listed or whatever they're called...I don't care. However it seems that doesn't exist, and appears as if everybody is taken or well just not something I'd be interested in. I'm not an extremely picky person but I take care of myself and just want to find somebody else (opposite sex) who thinks this stuff is erotic..advice? tips? I'd appreciate big time, thx *Ok, please note that once upon a time with this post I would have filleted your ass into tomorrow, but since I am about to become a writer, I feel the need to be somewhat ahem kind--* "digging around a lot"--ok so at 18 that means your crotch and magazines--and you are "inspired" because yiu have an erection--first as a great Domina friend of Mine instructs--jack off every two hours for 20 hours--when you are done--your head is out of your ass for a few--go to the L-I-B-R-A-R-Y and buy a B-O-O-K---there are several in the "alternative section"--jack off every two hours for 20 and when you are done, begin to read the book. *Next--get rid of the highschool wrestling pic--what the hell does that have to do with this Life? opfftt* *Next----change that profile--at 18 there is SO no way you could have done tons of research--clothed and erection free---so be honest--hello world, I am a newbie---* Next--find a local group--attend a munch ONLY after you have jacked off every two hours and are completely dry and devoid of any sexual fantasy--I am sure after that you will be able to comprehend what this means.

michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 6:16:00 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub Probably. Particularly since there are a lot of us who weren't abused as children or later in life, and if you take the current, and very sad, average number of people abused of course there is going to be spill over into a social subgroup where people are very open about their sexuality and experience. Positive or negative. you wouldn't believe how many times i go to bed and hope i do not wake up the next morning, yet sigh i always do

AquaticSub -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 6:20:07 AM)
You know my response to that. The boards aren't a therapist and emotional problems aren't going to get better here.

SadisticMan -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 6:20:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub Probably. Particularly since there are a lot of us who weren't abused as children or later in life, and if you take the current, and very sad, average number of people abused of course there is going to be spill over into a social subgroup where people are very open about their sexuality and experience. Positive or negative. I actually had quite a normal childhood, one that many would be envious of, small town, intact family, no fighting, no abuse, maybe some old fashioned spanking and brow-beating by a career military father, but that's all normal in an Irish family. That has nothing to do with interest in this lifestyle. Former abused children exist in all facets of life, some are better or worse for their expereinces. Though I have a great interest in bdsm, for many many years, sex is still somewhat normal..... mmm, go figure

SimplyMichael -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 6:25:36 AM)
Michael, If anyone ever writes a parody of BDSM, you could stand in as a parody of a male submissive without a single change. That isn't meant as an insult even though it is clearly one. You almost seem to strive to offer nothing and expect everything. Imagine yourself in someone else's shoes shopping for a male submissive. Who would want a self absorbed whiner?

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