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michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 6:27:35 AM)
at this point in time, i don't expect anything. i don't even know any more what i have to offer...everything's lost in turmoil and transition...i'm at the point i don't care any more

SadisticMan -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 6:36:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia at this point in time, i don't expect anything. i don't even know any more what i have to offer...everything's lost in turmoil and transition...i'm at the point i don't care any more michael, really frustated today eh? You know, that the search for what one wants and needs doesn't happen over night, or even in a calendar year ..... I admire you and your girlfriend's arrangement, honesty does count. but you seek a very specialized arrangement, Pro's don't do much for me personally, but maybe in your situation a good Pro and friend may be just what will work for you... Most of them are very real and nice and you can develope a good friendship with one. just my 2 cents to help you out some. This is a community and it is all of our social responsibility to make it work.

AquaticSub -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 6:58:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia at this point in time, i don't expect anything. i don't even know any more what i have to offer...everything's lost in turmoil and transition...i'm at the point i don't care any more Life only gets better if you do something about it. See a therapist. Talking about it on the boards doesn't do anything.

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 7:57:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Teroh Hey I've been digging around in this lifestyle for a while now and I'm starting to get aggitated. I'm just after a hot female in the area for pretty much any of the 'sub-fetishes?' listed or whatever they're called...I don't care. However it seems that doesn't exist, and appears as if everybody is taken or well just not something I'd be interested in. I'm not an extremely picky person but I take care of myself and just want to find somebody else (opposite sex) who thinks this stuff is erotic..advice? tips? I'd appreciate big time, thx such a contradiction in your opening statement so how have you been searching, junior, since freshman year? perhaps you should try adultfriendfinder.com because (like what others have stated) this is definitely not the place for you.

sleazybutterfly -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 8:16:12 AM)
I would agree that adultfriendfinder would be a great place for you. There are plenty of girls around your age that are into kinky sex on that site, so you could probably find someone to explore with. I don't think you really want to get into bdsm or anything like that, it seems the kink factor is what you are looking for. You have to pay a little bit, but you will no doubt be able to get your rocks off more easily.

Teroh -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 8:18:38 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl quote: ORIGINAL: Teroh Hey I've been digging around in this lifestyle for a while now and I'm starting to get aggitated. I'm just after a hot female in the area for pretty much any of the 'sub-fetishes?' listed or whatever they're called...I don't care. However it seems that doesn't exist, and appears as if everybody is taken or well just not something I'd be interested in. I'm not an extremely picky person but I take care of myself and just want to find somebody else (opposite sex) who thinks this stuff is erotic..advice? tips? I'd appreciate big time, thx such a contradiction in your opening statement so how have you been searching, junior, since freshman year? perhaps you should try adultfriendfinder.com because (like what others have stated) this is definitely not the place for you. wow I totally agree...I'm sorry that I chose to make my first post when I got drunk last night damn...but seriously I'm hella amused it caused a flame war...schools out? are you kidding me I'm in college as a chemical engineering student...those statements don't contradict each other, please read them again....I am free to look for whatever I want on this site as far as I'm aware of, and whether that's a casual friend with benefits or something more serious (what I was actually after) that's MY CHOICE not yours...I was asking for advice on how to contact people in the BDSM 'lifestyle'...wow you guys could be a religion with this kind of zealotry...do you honestly think your that superior? kek...wow yeah I really did make a mistake coming here...I'm sorry but this explains a lot...to be honest usually a community has more social graces...

earthycouple -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 8:23:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Teroh quote: ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl quote: ORIGINAL: Teroh Hey I've been digging around in this lifestyle for a while now and I'm starting to get aggitated. I'm just after a hot female in the area for pretty much any of the 'sub-fetishes?' listed or whatever they're called...I don't care. However it seems that doesn't exist, and appears as if everybody is taken or well just not something I'd be interested in. I'm not an extremely picky person but I take care of myself and just want to find somebody else (opposite sex) who thinks this stuff is erotic..advice? tips? I'd appreciate big time, thx such a contradiction in your opening statement so how have you been searching, junior, since freshman year? perhaps you should try adultfriendfinder.com because (like what others have stated) this is definitely not the place for you. wow I totally agree...I'm sorry that I chose to make my first post when I got drunk last night damn...but seriously I'm hella amused it caused a flame war...schools out? are you kidding me I'm in college as a chemical engineering student...those statements don't contradict each other, please read them again....I am free to look for whatever I want on this site as far as I'm aware of, and whether that's a casual friend with benefits or something more serious (what I was actually after) that's MY CHOICE not yours...I was asking for advice on how to contact people in the BDSM 'lifestyle'...wow you guys could be a religion with this kind of zealotry...do you honestly think your that superior? kek...wow yeah I really did make a mistake coming here...I'm sorry but this explains a lot...to be honest usually a community has more social graces... way to go from bad to worse, little boy. 18 and college does not make you a man, nor does getting drunk underage and typing a message on an alternative website. I did read your statements carefully and your profile and you do contradict yourself. you are picky picky little boy (she should be bi, born in the same decade, hot,.....blah blah...) Your leaving by no means bother us since we are so "superior." Superior no...but intelligent about this life and know a horny boy when we see one, yes. Hey! What a great idea...a religion....Can I be the head high all exhaulted one in charge of ministry to the poor and damned?

thetammyjo -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 8:26:25 AM)
Get into the local bdsm community nearest you. Look for munches and organization where you can talk to others and learn from others. Now let me warn you. If you go into these events just looking for sex you are very unlikely to find it. If you go looking for information and looking to make friends you are very likely to get both. If you just want kinky sex, most people are not that opposed to a little light bondage or spanking during sex they just don't want to call it kinky or bdsm or SM. I'd just look for open-minded folks interested in hooking up casually in that case. You're in college you have to know how to do that! If not, try taking classes about human sexuality whether they are in the psychology, sociology or other departments. People tend to either be open-minded before they take those courses or they walk away more open minded. You also might want to look at the student groups on campus. There aren't many but there are some BDSM or alternative sexuality groups on campus in the USA.

Teroh -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 8:27:54 AM)
out of curiosity does anyone here check their posts? or is the general rule to make yourselves sound assanine at every given oppertunity...I was referring to the 'schools out' comment...my profile again does not contradict itself, TOO picky...notice that one key word please...I'm a horny little boy huh? well what does that make you? This is like fighting a tax cut for the rich in a republican national convention...and I don't expect to win any arguments...but maybe pointing out what you guys sound like to other people will help you realize exactly how absurd it is...do you think calling names makes you a bigger person? PS. big thankyou to Tammy for being the only person to answer my question rather than flame...that is definitely a rare find from what I'm seing on these boards... calling somebody ugly doesn't make you any prettier cutting somebody down doesn't make you any taller cursing a person doesn't make your life happier most of you would do well to remember this....note that I'm supposed to be the immature one in this 'group' yet I'm the one refraning from flinging retorts to more than a few rude comments

MHOO314 -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 8:34:06 AM)
hmmm horney little boy, that makes US lifestylers with tons of experience--you came here and asked for advice---be careful what you ask for--and you got it--aww not to your little boy liking? tsk tsk--so why don't you put that little boy back in his pants and toddle off to the library as was suggested and get some education before you start throwing stones.

susie -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 8:35:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Teroh out of curiosity does anyone here check their posts? or is the general rule to make yourselves sound assanine at every given oppertunity...I was referring to the 'schools out' comment...my profile again does not contradict itself, TOO picky...notice that one key word please...I'm a horny little boy huh? well what does that make you? This is like fighting a tax cut for the rich in a republican national convention...and I don't expect to win any arguments...but maybe pointing out what you guys sound like to other people will help you realize exactly how absurd it is...do you think calling names makes you a bigger person? No. But all your posts have done so far is to make you sound childish and petulant. People on these fora have a wealth of knowledge about the lifestyle and what it entails. You so far have come across as "a horny little boy" as someone else put it. What do you know about this lifestyle? You have been on this site for what? 2 days? You can learn so much from the people and postings on this site but from what I have seen so far of your postings you are not really interested in that. If you are here for kinky sex then it is probably the wrong place for you to search. If you are here because you have some interest in the lifestyle then stay around and learn from those around you and stop being such a child.

Teroh -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 8:40:25 AM)
is anyone even reading what I'm writing? I'm refraining from insulting yet I'm called a horny little child and petulant....and somehow this make you more mature than me? My original post was to ask a question on how to meet people which Tammy answered...who do you think you are to cast judgement? I see that being calm, thinking before typing, and being mature and diplomatic are not the ways things are done around here so I will bid you all goodbye, because I refuse to lower my standards of communication

earthycouple -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 8:43:56 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Teroh out of curiosity does anyone here check their posts? or is the general rule to make yourselves sound assanine (asinine) at every given oppertunity (opportunity)...I was referring to the 'schools out' comment...my profile again does not contradict itself, TOO picky...notice that one key word please...I'm a horny little boy huh? well what does that make you? (I'm an adult dominant woman who is married and owns a slave. Read my profile, I read yours.) This is like fighting a tax cut for the rich in a republican national (wow what a run on sentence) convention...and I don't expect to win any arguments...but maybe pointing out what you guys sound like to other people will help you realize exactly how absurd it is...do you think calling names (pretty sure calling you a horny little boy isn't name calling, but an accurate assessment made from reading your profile and posts) makes you a bigger person? (oh no? Am I bigger? I hope I've not gained a pound or two from this...damn it....well off to work out when I'm done here) PS. big thankyou to Tammy for being the only person to answer my question rather than flame...that is definitely a rare find from what I'm seing on these boards... (Tammyjo was not the only person to try and be helpful, you simply didn't want to hear what others said.) calling somebody ugly doesn't make you any prettier (no one said you were ugly) cutting somebody down doesn't make you any taller (cutting down to size is exactly what you need.) cursing a person doesn't make your life happier (no one cursed you. To hell and damnation with you is cursing someone.) most of you would do well to remember this....note that I'm supposed to be the immature one in this 'group' yet I'm the one refraning from flinging retorts to more than a few rude comments (this whole post was a retort) Did I miss anything ladies?

susie -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 8:45:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Teroh is anyone even reading what I'm writing? I'm refraining from insulting yet I'm called a horny little child and petulant....and somehow this make you more mature than me? My original post was to ask a question on how to meet people which Tammy answered...who do you think you are to cast judgement? Someone who is older and yes more mature than you. Each time you post you show your immaturity. I see you have failed to answer the question of what it is that you know about this lifestyle. What is it that interests you in it? Perhaps you would like to give us a sign of your maturity by answering the question.

kyraofMists -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 8:45:52 AM)
You are in Tulsa and they have a wonderful Leather community there. Our family met many of them on our vacation last month. Go to a munch and get active in your community. Don't go expecting sex or play but go to meet like minded people and make friends. http://www.tulsadungeonsociety.org/ Your profile is only two days old and you are already here complaining about not meeting people. Frankly your post is a dime a dozen, we get several of these a week. Many people search years, decades to find compatible partners. Getting aggitated after a couple of days makes you sound immature and impatient. Not a good quality in a potential partner. Knight's kyra

Teroh -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 8:47:21 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: earthycouple quote: ORIGINAL: Teroh out of curiosity does anyone here check their posts? or is the general rule to make yourselves sound assanine (asinine) at every given oppertunity (opportunity)...I was referring to the 'schools out' comment...my profile again does not contradict itself, TOO picky...notice that one key word please...I'm a horny little boy huh? well what does that make you? (I'm an adult dominant woman who is married and owns a slave. Read my profile, I read yours.) This is like fighting a tax cut for the rich in a republican national (wow what a run on sentence) convention...and I don't expect to win any arguments...but maybe pointing out what you guys sound like to other people will help you realize exactly how absurd it is...do you think calling names (pretty sure calling you a horny little boy isn't name calling, but an accurate assessment made from reading your profile and posts) makes you a bigger person? (oh no? Am I bigger? I hope I've not gained a pound or two from this...damn it....well off to work out when I'm done here) PS. big thankyou to Tammy for being the only person to answer my question rather than flame...that is definitely a rare find from what I'm seing on these boards... (Tammyjo was not the only person to try and be helpful, you simply didn't want to hear what others said.) calling somebody ugly doesn't make you any prettier (no one said you were ugly) cutting somebody down doesn't make you any taller (cutting down to size is exactly what you need.) cursing a person doesn't make your life happier (no one cursed you. To hell and damnation with you is cursing someone.) most of you would do well to remember this....note that I'm supposed to be the immature one in this 'group' yet I'm the one refraning from flinging retorts to more than a few rude comments (this whole post was a retort) Did I miss anything ladies? the edit was meant to be a moral lesson, honestly I don't care about my spelling and grammer, Tammy was the only person trying to be helpful that Im aware of, the rest were just doing exactly what the moral lesson was meant ot instruct not to do...I don't care if your dominant and own a farm of slaves because I judge people by WHO they are based on their actions not what they have...

susie -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 8:49:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Teroh quote: ORIGINAL: earthycouple quote: ORIGINAL: Teroh out of curiosity does anyone here check their posts? or is the general rule to make yourselves sound assanine (asinine) at every given oppertunity (opportunity)...I was referring to the 'schools out' comment...my profile again does not contradict itself, TOO picky...notice that one key word please...I'm a horny little boy huh? well what does that make you? (I'm an adult dominant woman who is married and owns a slave. Read my profile, I read yours.) This is like fighting a tax cut for the rich in a republican national (wow what a run on sentence) convention...and I don't expect to win any arguments...but maybe pointing out what you guys sound like to other people will help you realize exactly how absurd it is...do you think calling names (pretty sure calling you a horny little boy isn't name calling, but an accurate assessment made from reading your profile and posts) makes you a bigger person? (oh no? Am I bigger? I hope I've not gained a pound or two from this...damn it....well off to work out when I'm done here) PS. big thankyou to Tammy for being the only person to answer my question rather than flame...that is definitely a rare find from what I'm seing on these boards... (Tammyjo was not the only person to try and be helpful, you simply didn't want to hear what others said.) calling somebody ugly doesn't make you any prettier (no one said you were ugly) cutting somebody down doesn't make you any taller (cutting down to size is exactly what you need.) cursing a person doesn't make your life happier (no one cursed you. To hell and damnation with you is cursing someone.) most of you would do well to remember this....note that I'm supposed to be the immature one in this 'group' yet I'm the one refraning from flinging retorts to more than a few rude comments (this whole post was a retort) Did I miss anything ladies? the edit was meant to be a moral lesson, honestly I don't care about my spelling and grammer, Tammy was the only person trying to be helpful that Im aware of, the rest were just doing exactly what the moral lesson was meant ot instruct not to do...I don't care if your dominant and own a farm of slaves because I judge people by WHO they are based on their actions not what they have... Exactly what we have done young man. Actions speak volumes.

octavia -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 8:50:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia at this point in time, i don't expect anything.... i don't care any more You do. I have a favorite saying and people never get it until they get it. "If nothing changes, nothing changes." If you want change in your life, you will have to make it happen. Works for me every time. peace out, octavia

Teroh -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 8:51:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: susie quote: ORIGINAL: Teroh is anyone even reading what I'm writing? I'm refraining from insulting yet I'm called a horny little child and petulant....and somehow this make you more mature than me? My original post was to ask a question on how to meet people which Tammy answered...who do you think you are to cast judgement? Someone who is older and yes more mature than you. Each time you post you show your immaturity. I see you have failed to answer the question of what it is that you know about this lifestyle. What is it that interests you in it? Perhaps you would like to give us a sign of your maturity by answering the question. I had another profile on this site but I changed my email recently and sadly lost the password so I had to make a new one. I'm interested in the lifestyle because I find it highly erotic...not just 'kinky sex' but I like the idea of having somebody on such an intimate level that you can trust them to do the things areformentioned in such 'kinky sex'. I think giving up control completely and/or taking that from someone else by their grant is a revolutionary exhibition of trust and that's one of the qualities I'm all about...any other questions?

earthycouple -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 8:52:22 AM)
well your actions speak louder than your words since you vowed not to continue to post yet you are indeed still posting.

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