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earthycouple -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 8:54:32 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Teroh

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ORIGINAL: susie

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ORIGINAL: Teroh

is anyone even reading what I'm writing? I'm refraining from insulting yet I'm called a horny little child and petulant....and somehow this make you more mature than me? My original post was to ask a question on how to meet people which Tammy answered...who do you think you are to cast judgement?


Someone who is older and yes more mature than you. Each time you post you show your immaturity.

I see you have failed to answer the question of what it is that you know about this lifestyle. What is it that interests you in it?
Perhaps you would like to give us a sign of your maturity by answering the question. 


I had another profile on this site but I changed my email recently and sadly lost the password so I had to make a new one.  I'm interested in the lifestyle because I find it highly erotic...not just 'kinky sex' but I like the idea of having somebody on such an intimate level that you can trust them to do the things areformentioned in such 'kinky sex'.  I think giving up control completely and/or taking that from someone else by their grant is a revolutionary exhibition of trust and that's one of the qualities I'm all about...any other questions?


Oh great...what is the name...it will still be here...we'll go check it out so we can apologize for being wrong about you.



Teroh -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 8:58:24 AM)

I never vowed not to post, but stated that I would not sink to the level of flaming.  You judged me based on my profile without ever even talking to me.  Thing about text is, it so often fails to give the full meaning of an intent.  I haven't even judged any of you despite your limited actions, in order to really gauge who somebody is you need more experience with them then reading a profile on an online site.  Note that the only thing I've said was that the way in which you are approaching this is rude.



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 8:58:45 AM)

Thanks Tammyjo.

I find myself imagining how differently this thread would have run were it a heterosexual female who posted originally.



kyraofMists -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 8:59:10 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Teroh
I think giving up control completely and/or taking that from someone else by their grant is a revolutionary exhibition of trust and that's one of the qualities I'm all about...any other questions?


Actually, it is not so revolutionary at all.  Authority transfer relationships have been occuring since the beginning of time and trust is not always a factor in them.  There many motivations for people following the will of another and not all of them incorporate trust.

Knight's kyra



Teroh -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 9:00:23 AM)

Yeah it should be still here, the name was SmileyKing1.  And in my oppinion there would have been a vast amount of difference, but I don't like to play the sex card personally.



SadisticMan -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 9:00:42 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Teroh
wow I totally agree...I'm sorry that I chose to make my first post when I got drunk last night damn...but seriously I'm hella amused it caused a flame war...schools out? are you kidding me I'm in college as a chemical engineering student...those statements don't contradict each other, please read them again....I am free to look for whatever I want on this site as far as I'm aware of, and whether that's a casual friend with benefits or something more serious (what I was actually after) that's MY CHOICE not yours...I was asking for advice on how to contact people in the BDSM 'lifestyle'...wow you guys could be a religion with this kind of zealotry...do you honestly think your that superior? kek...wow yeah I really did make a mistake coming here...I'm sorry but this explains a lot...to be honest usually a community has more social graces...


Yes, you are free to look for whatever you wish, we are free to say whatever we wish.
Problem is, this isn't a site to find just hot, young kinky sex starved girls.
It's much more than to many of us.
And maybe we all do get a bit zealous in our responses.
But in our defense, I've been in this lifestyle for nearly 30 yrs, as have many others
here that are not young and hot.  The education here is swift and aggressive, sorry.

In the responses, some harsh, is a message, do you get it?



DrkJourney -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 9:03:32 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Teroh

is anyone even reading what I'm writing? I'm refraining from insulting yet I'm called a horny little child and petulant....and somehow this make you more mature than me? My original post was to ask a question on how to meet people which Tammy answered...who do you think you are to cast judgement?

I see that being calm, thinking before typing, and being mature and diplomatic are not the ways things are done around here so I will bid you all goodbye, because I refuse to lower my standards of communication


I am posting this under the guise that you really "do" want advice.  Not going to flame, but share some knowledge..which is why you said you posted. 

First, when you post, especially in the manner that you did, you have to expect such things....you take what you need and discard the rest.  You got offended easily...to post on these boards you have to have thicker skin than that.   And, not slamming your profile...but speaking of insults, although you probably didn't mean them that way....there are a few comments in there that might be considered such.

I know you are looking for a specific body type and age, but the thing is not to put it so bluntly, or don't put it at all, and simply weed out the ones that don't fit what you are looking for.   Do not lie by any means, you should state what you are looking for, but, if a profile is a little more tactful, you might get better responses, and have a better selection.

There are plenty of people looking for casual and with a little tweaking you just might find them.  You state that you need training...since you are looking for casual any way...it might help if you found a "hot" older (doesn't have to be that much older) woman to train you.  I don't know many 18 year olds that know what they are doing...

You think some of these post are mean, actually, in their way, they are looking out for you.  A religion...maybe...I know I take it very very seriously, if I don't, then someone could get hurt.  What if you believed in something, were serious about it, and someone approached it in a casual manner.  Like it was a joke?  People here believe in this and they take if very seriously...they have too.  So try to look at it from that angle instead of getting angry. 


This is a dangerous lifestyle for just filling a fantasy...you have to be careful...especially if you are looking for someone your own age.  I've seen some, one was an ex, end up in the hospital, not because she was inexperienced, she could've been, I don't know...but because he was new at the time and didn't want to take time to know her, and he really didn't know what to look for, and ended up with a nut case that thought this lifestyle would be a good way to deal with her vendetta against all the men in her past that hurt her.

Be careful, be safe......and don't lose your temper.  As I said, take the advice, and leave the other by the wayside.



Missokyst -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 9:04:14 AM)

Try Craigslist in your area.
Seriously, you will find more people open to explore with a stranger than you are likely to find that here. 
Kyst



kyraofMists -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 9:06:16 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

Thanks Tammyjo.

I find myself imagining how differently this thread would have run were it a heterosexual female who posted originally.


LOL  Lots of males with dominants in their profile lining up to give her what she needs?



earthycouple -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 9:06:29 AM)

 This is the profile for SmileyKing1.  I stand corrected.  You have a whopping 3 months of experience and hence are not a little boy but a big boy now. (Joined 3/13/07)  I bolded some stuff simply to point out how very big boyish you are.
 
Hello I am kinda new at this whole thing but am willing to try just about anything.

I am a local college student here in Tulsa, and looking for a relationship or just something on the side, I don't really care.  I feel that the ability to develope feelings shouldn't be so limited to one person as we percieve it to be.

Contact me if you are an attractive female...or group of =D and interested in messin around.

I have a very athletic build, am an ex-wrestler, am extremely intelligent, loving, brave, and loyal.

Make no mistake I don't think as seems to be the common oppinion with this type of activity that people are inherently property or can be considered as slaves, but I am very curious as to the aspect of human nature that this deals with such a conception, namely power and why we are so drawn to it...either dominantly or submissively...I am very curious

I act and thank many ways like a puppy I suppose =D train me plz lol...wow haha



Faramir -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 9:14:05 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Teroh
wow I totally agree...I'm sorry that I chose to make my first post when I got drunk last night damn...but seriously I'm hella amused it caused a flame war...schools out? are you kidding me I'm in college as a chemical engineering student...those statements don't contradict each other, please read them again....


Ohh, did someone have too many big boy drinks at their first phrat party?



kittensmailbox -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 9:16:43 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyHeart

Your profile says you are 18. You must have been "digging around" for a l-o-n-g while....
:))
LH


~LOL~ and he is been a member for a whole two days....



SadisticMan -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 9:21:01 AM)

The forums would be so boring without the occasional drunken poster !



earthycouple -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 9:21:53 AM)

LMAO no kidding...methinks he's still hung over too...poor boy.



beargonewild -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 9:24:10 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Teroh

Hey I've been digging around in this lifestyle for a while now and I'm starting to get aggitated.  I'm just after a hot female in the area for pretty much any of the 'sub-fetishes?' listed or whatever they're called...I don't care.  However it seems that doesn't exist, and appears as if everybody is taken or well just not something I'd be interested in.  I'm not an extremely picky person but I take care of myself and just want to find somebody else (opposite sex) who thinks this stuff is erotic..advice? tips? I'd appreciate big time, thx


Greetings Teroh, if I may suggest that another approach you could try is to also read as many books you can on the BDSM lifestyle and talk with others who have knowledge to share? As you probably have seen, for many of us, we have made some and/or all aspects of BDSM an intergral part of our way of living. Whereas a "fetish" is generally defined as an activity used to enhance sexual pleasure. Yes many people do use BDSM strictly in a sexual sense, yet many do not as this is also a way of life or lifestyle. No matter if a person is a "beginner" or "experienced" we all learn and grow from each other in one way or another. The best piece of advice I read from a amember here (don't recall who said this, sorry) is learn all you can and only use what you applies to yourself and discard the rest. None of us are supreme experst but we do have our own knowledge and experience which we gladly share openly without compensation. Learn and grow.



sambamanslilgirl -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 10:58:35 AM)

oh junior, please and let an adult school you for a second - you first state "i'm looking for a hot a female" which is fine your preference. then you state "i'm not an extremely picky person" - but ah you are ...you're looking for a hot female someone close to your age - which makes you *omg* picky! ...and what you define as hot may not be hot to someone who's close to my age.

hmmm - BDSM is highly erotic that equates to "i found out about this lifestyle while watching porn at a frat house"

yes you can say this is a "religious" cult but don't expect any of us ladies to drop our knickers for you because most of us don't treat BDSM as a sexual fetish of the month.  oh i do think the giggly girls on adultfriendfinder are looking for you.

class dismissed!



sambamanslilgirl -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 11:08:00 AM)

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ORIGINAL: earthycouple

 This is the profile for SmileyKing1.  I stand corrected.  You have a whopping 3 months of experience and hence are not a little boy but a big boy now. (Joined 3/13/07)  I bolded some stuff simply to point out how very big boyish you are.
 
Hello I am kinda new at this whole thing but am willing to try just about anything.

I am a local college student here in Tulsa, and looking for a relationship or just something on the side, I don't really care.  I feel that the ability to develope feelings shouldn't be so limited to one person as we percieve it to be.

Contact me if you are an attractive female...or group of =D and interested in messin around.

I have a very athletic build, am an ex-wrestler, am extremely intelligent, loving, brave, and loyal.

Make no mistake I don't think as seems to be the common oppinion with this type of activity that people are inherently property or can be considered as slaves, but I am very curious as to the aspect of human nature that this deals with such a conception, namely power and why we are so drawn to it...either dominantly or submissively...I am very curious

I act and thank many ways like a puppy I suppose =D train me plz lol...wow haha


sounds like junior's looking to explore the kinky side to sex to me



earthycouple -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 12:43:03 PM)

^5 sambamanslilgirl



michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 12:50:00 PM)

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Life only gets better if you do something about it. See a therapist. Talking about it on the boards doesn't do anything.


i already know all the BS that therapists are gonna say before they say it, seen more than i can count in all my year.

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ORIGINAL: SadisticMan

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ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia

at this point in time, i don't expect anything. i don't even know any more what i have to offer...everything's lost in turmoil and transition...i'm at the point i don't care any more


michael, really frustated today eh?  You know, that the search for what one wants and needs
doesn't happen over night, or even in a calendar year .....
I admire you and your girlfriend's arrangement, honesty does count.
but you seek a very specialized arrangement, Pro's don't do much for me personally, but
maybe in your situation a good Pro and friend may be just what will work for you...
Most of them are very real and nice and you can develope a good friendship with one.
just my 2 cents to help you out some.

This is a community and it is all of our social responsibility to make it work.



i refuse to pay for a "pro" even if i had the money, i am seeking someone more personal, not a paid professional



favesclava -> RE: wow this isn't working lol (6/10/2007 1:18:44 PM)

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ORIGINAL: earthycouple

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ORIGINAL: Teroh

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ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

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ORIGINAL: Teroh

Hey I've been digging around in this lifestyle for a while now and I'm starting to get aggitated.  I'm just after a hot female in the area for pretty much any of the 'sub-fetishes?' listed or whatever they're called...I don't care.  However it seems that doesn't exist, and appears as if everybody is taken or well just not something I'd be interested in.  I'm not an extremely picky person but I take care of myself and just want to find somebody else (opposite sex) who thinks this stuff is erotic..advice? tips? I'd appreciate big time, thx

such a contradiction in your opening statement

so how have you been searching, junior, since freshman year? perhaps you should try adultfriendfinder.com because (like what others have stated) this is definitely not the place for you.


wow I totally agree...I'm sorry that I chose to make my first post when I got drunk last night damn...but seriously I'm hella amused it caused a flame war...schools out? are you kidding me I'm in college as a chemical engineering student...those statements don't contradict each other, please read them again....I am free to look for whatever I want on this site as far as I'm aware of, and whether that's a casual friend with benefits or something more serious (what I was actually after) that's MY CHOICE not yours...I was asking for advice on how to contact people in the BDSM 'lifestyle'...wow you guys could be a religion with this kind of zealotry...do you honestly think your that superior? kek...wow yeah I really did make a mistake coming here...I'm sorry but this explains a lot...to be honest usually a community has more social graces...


way to go from bad to worse, little boy.  18 and college does not make you a man, nor does getting drunk underage and typing a message on an alternative website. 

I did read your statements carefully and your profile and you do contradict yourself.  you are picky picky little boy (she should be bi, born in the same decade, hot,.....blah blah...)

Your leaving by no means bother us since we are so "superior."  Superior no...but intelligent about this life and know a horny boy when we see one, yes.

Hey!  What a great idea...a religion....Can I be the head high all exhaulted one in charge of ministry to the poor and damned?

can i help out with the inquisition part ? dont want to be in charge just come in from time to time and help tighten something  or adjust the rope tension.ok pretty please, i'm a quick learner?



the collar is stronger than the ring



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