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RE: Are you prepared to lay down the Law or not. - 6/20/2007 8:21:41 PM

slavegirljoy

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i'm glad that we could clear up this misunderstanding.
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I am very happy to read that... thanks for responding

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RE: Are you prepared to lay down the Law or not. - 6/22/2007 10:35:14 AM

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This post is some food for thought esp. for those of us fairly new to the lifestyle. I know that I have yet to even sit down and ponder a list. I can see were actually taking the time to have a list would be inherintly better than posting this on the fridge ...
"Rule 1. Master is always right!!!"
"Rule 2. See rule one."

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RE: Are you prepared to lay down the Law or not. - 6/22/2007 3:02:28 PM

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I don't have a printed set of rules that I go by. People change, lives change, responsibilities change; it's important to be able to bend with the realities that come with living life.

However, I always knew exactly what kind of relationship that I wanted and was/am willing to work my hardest to accomplish that. The first time I met melissa, I made sure that she knew exactly what kind of relationship we would eventually have. So, I had goals that were set in stone; but not rules.

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RE: Are you prepared to lay down the Law or not. - 6/22/2007 7:36:17 PM

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I have a pretty good idea of what I want in each kind of relationship I enjoy. Once I ascertain that a person would be compatible with me, I tailor the general role-template to the person's individual skills and desires. I do prefer to articulate rules and obligations for relationships--d/s and otherwise. It tends to reduce hurt feelings.

So, in other words, contracts, covenants, whatever, get articulated, but the agreements that are articulated are revised to fit the particular person with whom I am entering a relationship. And yes, they typically change over time, usually because we've reached Goal 1 and need to move on to something else.

Incidentally, even if the wonderful slave girlie falls out of the sky and submits in a day or two, that doesn't mean that I've dominated in a day or two. I'm somewhat a pain-in-the-neck sort bent on getting my way (dare we say, a dominant personality?), and so I like my relationships to proceed at my pace.

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