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Kirren -> RE: why do MISTRESSES ask for tributes ? (10/26/2007 6:31:45 AM)
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It is the job of the sub to make sure that all needs of his/her Dominant are met and attended to. Period. If that is financial, then so be it. I know of several female subs that work so that their Dom's can go back to school, sit at home and watch foot ball, what ever. So I ask...wheres the fight for their cause? Do you hear them bitch and complain? I havent heard word one from any of them. And I dont think I ever will.
It is in a womans nature to be more giving than it is in the nature of a man to give even a little. True male subs are impossible to find.
Yes, asking for tribute is a way of weeding out the flakes.
But, In reality, even under the exterior of Female Supremacy is a woman wanting to know that she will be taken care of. That just being near her is enough of a pleasure and enough of joy that she will be treated as a Queen. You want to bitch about having to pay, heres a lil secret for you, Financial Domination is on the rise. Men want to give that control to women, they realize that as the actual weaker sex that they are given to impulse buying and spending trends that need control. Also for a man to give up control of their money is much harder than it is for a woman. In times gone past it was nothing for a woman to give all of her money to a man, be he Dom, or what have you...But men as subs want to limit the control they give, then say that they are into TPE...not likely.
Honest to God, knowing that subs want to bitch about giving ALL control to their Domme's makes most of us, well me anyway, hesitant to take any form of control.
Male Doms expect women to give over Mind Body and Soul, to bend and break to do the smallest things, from licking feet to anal sex, the most humiliating tasks that they can come up with, which is fine all well and good. Because that is what fem submissives want. I dont hear you whining about that? Wheres the complaint for the women that never have a kind word said to them, yet get ass raped about 100 times a day? Wheres the pleading for their cause?
My advice? 1) Get a job. 2) Realize that if you want to bitch about the amount of control you give, decide that you may in fact be a switch and not a sub/slave. 3) Know that a woman expects to be taken care of, Even in a vanilla relationship...and 4) Get over it. You made the choice to be a sub. You may sit back and say well...I knew since I was 2 that I wanted a woman in control over me...Obviously you want to limit that and there by only limit yourself.
Oh yes and 5) Understand that one persons kink may not be your kink and you can negotiate your terms and you always have the CHOICE to walk away. This life is about choices.
But then there is always some one in the bunch that has to bitch because they didnt get what they want, which in general means they didnt follow thru...they met some Domme that they just couldnt be with out and when she said...Give Me this or Get Me that...He said....wait...I cant...and when she said...well...then..go on...He wanted to resort to the lowest form of insult he could find..."Well youre nothing more than a hooker"
Typical. Men see sex as a weapon and use the term prostitution to try and get what they want...lame. Really.
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