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MuscleCuteClever -> RE: why do MISTRESSES ask for tributes ? (10/23/2007 4:10:40 AM)
Right I'll really be off now, been nice knowing you all over the years! x

MuscleCuteClever -> RE: why do MISTRESSES ask for tributes ? (10/23/2007 4:38:10 AM)
quote: RE: why do MISTRESSES ask for tributes ? - 10/22/2007 6:10:13 PM I'm copying & pasting my usual answer here lol.......it could easily be added to on what Mistresses do.........." What do Dommes do? They learn to do what They love by reading books, magazines, internet sites, watching videos, going to seminars, going to BDSM clubs and events, talking to other Dom/mes, taking classes, buying the expensive corsets and clothes and shoes and everything W/we all love, spend lots of time to look extra sexy, learn about safety through everyone from other Dom/mes to body piercers to doctors, buy toys and furniture and equipment, learn how to use strange contraptions safely, and practice, practice, practice so that We can have our fun with your pathetic selves. And what do subs do? Crawl around like slugs and take orders. You have to fully appreciate all that your Domme does to create mutual fun in a safe environment." I agree, there is little/no motivation for a male submissive to research / invest to such an extent knowing that largely they are the buyers on the market place of the service sector whereas Dommes would naturally have more motivation, although some subs will research / invest but more often than not as something other than the service sector seeing as otherwise is non-productive, to make such effort to learn all that then pay someone for it would make little sense, I know that no Domme in her right mind would, such as for instance paying money for a course on needle play so that she can pay a sub to fullfill his needle play desires so you have a very good point. I would not want to expect something for nothing from such an environment if it was one I chose to be involved with so its an equal exchange when you think about it, service and money or else no point. I think you hit the nail on the head! I noticed that post, there arent any others im my memory so I wont bother looking and really dissapear now!

Goddess20 -> RE: why do MISTRESSES ask for tributes ? (10/23/2007 5:39:56 AM)
Because some of us are Pro Dommes and thats what we do! I only do 'real time'. I won't ask you for a tribute for talking on the net. And as someone said on the first page rubber and dungeon furniture doesn't grow on trees. If you wanna see me, you gotta pay! you mailed Me, I told you what I do, if you don't like it then never mail Me again, I won't harass you, find a freebe!

ladyleopard945 -> RE: why do MISTRESSES ask for tributes ? (10/23/2007 6:25:06 AM)
As with openmindedslave put it right on the head I am so over all of it ....it is my time my experience amd my stuff if you dont serve you will pay! The minute it even reads what can you do for me in any way it is over! I no longer have patence! MIstress

FullfigRIMaam -> RE: why do MISTRESSES ask for tributes ? (10/23/2007 10:48:07 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LotusSong quote: ORIGINAL: FullfigRIMaam quote: RRafe The moment you ask someone for something-you grant them power over you. Really? So let me get this straight: telling him to clean the bedroom/house, wash the dishes, pay for these things for me while we're shopping, or "go lick" this or that "and don't stop until I tell you" gives them power over me? Who knew? I'm even nicer than I thought, sharing so much power, lmao. M FullfigRIMaam- I just LOVE your post here :) (i.e. well said!) Thank you. [:)] quote: MuscleCuteClever Right I'll really be off now, been nice knowing you all over the years! Oh quit teasing us will yah?! You know very well you're not going anywhere, and if you do, you'll be back. I'm addicted to collarme, but it's clear you get a lot more pleasure from posting on these threads. M

luciousmaria -> RE: why do MISTRESSES ask for tributes ? (10/23/2007 10:50:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: wldchld I suppose the age old saying "you get what you pay for," really wouldn't apply much would it? hehe I liked that. [:D]

kittensmailbox -> RE: why do MISTRESSES ask for tributes ? (10/23/2007 10:53:44 AM)
because ppl are willing to pay it...

cyberdude611 -> RE: why do MISTRESSES ask for tributes ? (10/23/2007 11:47:34 AM)
Why? Because they want to make money off their kink... Duh...

domiguy -> RE: why do MISTRESSES ask for tributes ? (10/23/2007 3:20:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cyberdude611 Why? Because they want to make money off their kink... Duh... Not exactly....It is because they can make money off of some poor pathetic subbies kink....It would be interesting to know how many pro's do it only for the check?....No attachment....In all practicality they all might be dykes....What difference would it really make?

unforegvn -> RE: why do MISTRESSES ask for tributes ? (10/23/2007 3:52:02 PM)
Let's look at it in simple terms have you ever paid for say guitar lessions, golf lessons, piano lesson, tap lessons, been to see a doctor lately - everyone get a tribute! When I was a little girl I was always told that I was sitting on a GOLD MINE... I am a little short this week...Take all the money out of your wallet - scan it and email it to me. Let it go - if you want to pay them pay them if not move on... NEXT!

cyberdude611 -> RE: why do MISTRESSES ask for tributes ? (10/23/2007 4:32:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: unforegvn Let's look at it in simple terms have you ever paid for say guitar lessions, golf lessons, piano lesson, tap lessons, been to see a doctor lately - everyone get a tribute! When I was a little girl I was always told that I was sitting on a GOLD MINE... I am a little short this week...Take all the money out of your wallet - scan it and email it to me. Let it go - if you want to pay them pay them if not move on... NEXT! But that's the reason many dont like it. Its more of a business relationship. You are paying for a service. Its a cold relationship where there isnt much emotion invested on either side. Cold hard cash is what is keeping it going. That makes it no difference than when I pay the nice lady to cut my hair. And it isnt a good business model anyway. Many times dommes want money before even talking. That's like giving money to the store before even walking in. And I know the arguement is that dommes feel a need to make sure the sub is serious. Well, how is the sub supposed to know that you are serious? For all he knows, you could be a scammer and take his money and run. And a number of newbies have said that has happened to them right here on CollarMe. Some people have to learn the hard way to never give money online to people you dont know....

unforegvn -> RE: why do MISTRESSES ask for tributes ? (10/23/2007 4:41:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cyberdude611 Some people have to learn the hard way to never give money online to people you dont know.... You said it exactly right. Be responsible, don't give money to someone you DON'T know. :o) A lesson is repeated until it is learned...

domiguy -> RE: why do MISTRESSES ask for tributes ? (10/23/2007 5:02:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: unforegvn Let's look at it in simple terms have you ever paid for say guitar lessions, golf lessons, piano lesson, tap lessons, been to see a doctor lately - everyone get a tribute! You are giving Dommes credit for something that the majority do not possess....and that is a skill....I can live with all of it....I'ts a form of prostitution,If not out right. I don't necessarily harbor bad will towards prostitutes other than they have reached a position where they feel the best way to provide or supplement an income is to rely on the lowest common denominator which is their tits, ass, and to be ably to garnish a strap a gag and a strap.....Big deal!...This is all it takes and voilà! They are in business.

BLKMADONA -> RE: why do MISTRESSES ask for tributes ? (10/23/2007 5:27:27 PM)
You should have said "some" Mistress..because not all do. I for One, do not. It goes against My ethics. If u are going to tribute...then tribute to the things needed for service, i.e. new crops(mine always get broken..lol) lovely hotel room...just things in general needed.Never cash money in My hand....Id much rather hold a subs balls in My hand instead and squeeze them n twist them......oh...sorry...got carried away..heheh Blkmadona

goddessblaze -> RE: why do MISTRESSES ask for tributes ? (10/23/2007 5:57:43 PM)
If I am going to take 2hrs out of my day to give subs/slaves what they want, then why shouldn't I get what I want. I dont ask for hundreds of dollars but when I am done kick someones ass it is nice to go get my feet done or nails. Of course if they become mine then I will insure they learn to do my feet and hands along with other things I like.

FullfigRIMaam -> RE: why do MISTRESSES ask for tributes ? (10/23/2007 7:20:56 PM)
quote: I don't necessarily harbor bad will towards prostitutes other than they have reached a position where they feel the best way to provide or supplement an income is to rely on the lowest common denominator which is their tits, ass Sure sounds like you do harbor ill will, or are jealous... [:'(] M

domiguy -> RE: why do MISTRESSES ask for tributes ? (10/24/2007 5:42:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FullfigRIMaam quote: I don't necessarily harbor bad will towards prostitutes other than they have reached a position where they feel the best way to provide or supplement an income is to rely on the lowest common denominator which is their tits, ass Sure sounds like you do harbor ill will, or are jealous... [:'(] M Jealousy wouldn't apply....I wouldn't on my worst day choose to make a living based solely upon the fact that somebody would be willing to pay me because I possess the Domidong..... "Harbor Ill Will?" Quite possibly....But I believe it is more on the lines of pity with a tinge of disgust.....That a woman can only see her value as the sum of her holes.

Jasmyn -> RE: why do MISTRESSES ask for tributes ? (10/24/2007 10:36:01 AM)
lol what a load fucken codswollop ... do you think you would have gotten as far as you have gotten in your life without the domidong ... you have a penis .. accept it ... the fact you have one has molded your life and your life's experiences ... to pretend nothing in your life has being influenced by the fact you have penis is pathetic ... yes you too, you with the cock .. have being brought ... like anyone ... Put on a dress and try to pull off the "I've never being brought for the sum of my holes" ... but you have being brought for the sum of your cock. At least, me as a pro dom and happy with my life and my profession, as well as my other business I run, do it because of the sum of experiences I have had with my Vage ... I'm not going to pretend my life existed without it ... the moisteness I get each time a submissive willingly parts with another hundy or two to experience domination at my hand ... makes me revell in the fact I was born with an inny and not an outty ... Fuck penis envy ... you boys have fucken VAGE envy in spades... my advice .... LET IT GOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. ...unless you want to chop your boy off .. there ain't much I can do about the fact you have one ... For FARKSake STAND UP AND LET YOUR COCK BE COUNTED ... and don't moralise bullshit that it hasn't played a part in who you are now ... or professions ...yet moralise a woman's cunt is going to play a part in who she is ... When a lot of prostitutes are fucked, molested, abused, raped before they join the profession and told they are worth nothing but being a cum receptical by the men in her life ... don't moralise that she should be some holier than though princess who should know better ... When the world stops treating women like shite ... women might stop saying 'ah ah ... that's two dollar sucky sucky" ..and if she doesn't... more fucken power to her ... and boohoo to the boys in the hood ... your penis is not some kind of sacred cow ... lol ...for farksake ... plenty of men have whored out their cocks for $$'s ... god bless em ... lol christ ... a recent survey on sexuality stated of their respondents ...more men had been paid for sexual favours than women.. yet, here we go again .. blame the bitch with the slit ... the Whore, the slut ... how dare she put a price on her own body ... yet when there is a fucken 'nother tribute/pro domme thread .. .you boys are out in force, beating your pathethic women are whores for selling their holes line ... Yet no mention of the boys whoring themselves to the masses ...or do you guys pretend boys don't do that ... like the world use to pretend women didn't orgasm unless a penis was inside her ... Fuck you guys make me laugh ... stop treating women like shit and demanding they live their life to your pathetic, limiting and oppressive ideals ... If she wants to be a Whore ... go for your fucken life babe ... be the best Whore the world can get ... Ps .. .don't ask for clarification ... if you can't work it out .. then more fool you ... What's that saying ... if it quacks like a duck, then it is a duck ... quack quack ... try thinking like a swan ...

FullfigRIMaam -> RE: why do MISTRESSES ask for tributes ? (10/24/2007 11:36:51 AM)
I'm so glad I missed the opportunity to answer, because I know I wouldn't have put it this well. [sm=applause.gif] [sm=banana.gif] You rock Jasmyn! M

domiguy -> RE: why do MISTRESSES ask for tributes ? (10/24/2007 1:38:07 PM)
Boooo Fucking hoooo!!!....Let's hear it for the empowerment of woman to feel great about themselves for selling the very holes that the majority of women seem to possess....How Special!!! .Nothing like getting by on simply the holes that you were born with....Too bad there isn't a way to have your brain removed to allow you another space to harbor some cock. Damn! Think of how we could fix the education system if we would only concentrate all of our resources on the males....Why would a woman even want to waste her time with making herself something more than a walking, fuckable mouth and vagina? I'm sooo stupid...But I have seen the light!!! I will immediately sit down with my daughter and explain the wonderful virtues of becoming a stripper a prostitute or a Pro Domme..... GOD DAMMIT!!! Little Domigirl!!!! What are you doing trying to learn to read??? Get your ass up and back on that pole!!!! Both men and woman who have chosen to make their living off of the sex trade I have little use for....They tend to be incomplete...Missing something essential....Something special. I can't explain it any further....You don't possess that certain something that would allow you to understand. It actually is rather sad....But you should feel fortunate that you are unable to see it. Maybe in this case ignorance is actually bliss.

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