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Would you rather be loved, respected or feared? - 6/26/2007 5:20:26 PM

Vendaval

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Would you rather be loved, respected or feared?

Choose as many as you like and rank in order of importance.

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RE: Would you rather be loved, respected or feared? - 6/26/2007 5:27:50 PM

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Loved of course!
When little kids here call me "Mr. P....." it just makes me feel old!

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RE: Would you rather be loved, respected or feared? - 6/26/2007 5:35:36 PM

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"Oderint dum metuant."

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RE: Would you rather be loved, respected or feared? - 6/26/2007 5:48:13 PM

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Translation?

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So in this gray haze we'll be meating again, and on that
great day, I will tease you all the same."
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RE: Would you rather be loved, respected or feared? - 6/26/2007 5:49:31 PM

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Do you just tell them to call you by your first name then?

I don't like being called "ma'am" for the same reason. lol

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So in this gray haze we'll be meating again, and on that
great day, I will tease you all the same."
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RE: Would you rather be loved, respected or feared? - 6/26/2007 6:00:19 PM

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I'd prefer to be feared, as in god-fearing; revered, which would include love and respect. So, all three! Do I have to choose??

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RE: Would you rather be loved, respected or feared? - 6/26/2007 6:01:25 PM

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1. Loved
2. Respected

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RE: Would you rather be loved, respected or feared? - 6/26/2007 6:01:28 PM

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Loved.

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Fake the heat and scratch the itch
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Let go it's harder holding on
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RE: Would you rather be loved, respected or feared? - 6/26/2007 6:04:16 PM

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i think if im loved, im respected also........at least i have to respect someone to love them(not including family).

as for feared.....hahahahaha....no way

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RE: Would you rather be loved, respected or feared? - 6/26/2007 6:04:30 PM

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Love has nothing to do with this,fear no, for it freezes the sub.slaves development in my view,,RESPECT lots if it...

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RE: Would you rather be loved, respected or feared? - 6/26/2007 6:10:42 PM

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Google it. ;-)

You've probably seen a movie based on the life of the originl quoter.. if not, and you want to see Marina Sirtis' breasts and/or Malcolm McDowell fist someone using butter for lube, that's the one for you. ;-)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Vendaval

Translation?

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RE: Would you rather be loved, respected or feared? - 6/26/2007 6:17:05 PM

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Interesting question, I think I agree that love and respect go hand and hand.

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RE: Would you rather be loved, respected or feared? - 6/26/2007 6:33:20 PM

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loved, with respect.
then just respected. then I wouldn't need to be feared, not that I care to anyway.

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RE: Would you rather be loved, respected or feared? - 6/26/2007 7:14:24 PM

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I believe that respect is the foundation for love. I respect and admire a great many people and care about them.
But a deep, personal love is a separate and special experience.

Fear is not what I normally hope to install in others. However, when dealing with a malicious or menancing person(s),
fear is a useful emotion in one's arsenal.

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"Beware, the woods at night, beware the lunar light.
So in this gray haze we'll be meating again, and on that
great day, I will tease you all the same."
"WOLF MOON", OCTOBER RUST, TYPE O NEGATIVE

http://KinkMeet.co.uk

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RE: Would you rather be loved, respected or feared? - 6/26/2007 7:20:47 PM

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Respected and loved by my sub. Toss in trusted and its a perfect mix as far as I am concerned. I would never want him to fear me as I see that could be detrimental to the relationship.

~Lashra

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RE: Would you rather be loved, respected or feared? - 6/26/2007 7:35:15 PM

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......remembered......

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RE: Would you rather be loved, respected or feared? - 6/26/2007 7:48:34 PM

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loved, cherished and respected.....

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RE: Would you rather be loved, respected or feared? - 6/26/2007 7:54:07 PM

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for me it is loved, respected....i never wish to be feared, i see that as a sign of miscommunication most times. If i had to choose others, remembered, mentioned earlier is good as well.

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RE: Would you rather be loved, respected or feared? - 6/26/2007 7:55:39 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: instynctive
You've probably seen a movie based on the life of the originl quoter.. if not, and you want to see Marina Sirtis' breasts and/or Malcolm McDowell fist someone using butter for lube, that's the one for you. ;-)

Caligula, but I think you meant to say Helen Mirren.

"Let them hate, so long as they also fear."

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RE: Would you rather be loved, respected or feared? - 6/26/2007 8:05:16 PM

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Love and respect are intertwined for me.
There are times when being feared is desirable.

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