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RE: Why do you not mention a dom by name? - 7/3/2007 3:50:57 PM   
MyMasterStephen


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ORIGINAL: dogobedience

Why do somepeople say they have a dom, but do not list there name on there profile.   



Why do some people use a name on their profile and then ask to be called something else?

If people referred to each other on here by something other than their screen name, there would be chaos.  If you don't like your screen name, get a new one.  If you don't want a new one, then answer to the name you have given yourself.

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RE: Why do you not mention a dom by name? - 7/3/2007 3:51:34 PM   
AquaticSub


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ORIGINAL: dogobedience

I agree somewhat


I just wonder you believe they have something to hide. As Valyraen just said "What reason do I have to show?".

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RE: Why do you not mention a Dom by name? - 7/3/2007 3:52:09 PM   
dogobedience


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Status: offline 		I question of mine also.

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RE: Why do you not mention a dom by name? - 7/3/2007 3:52:14 PM   
sambamanslilgirl


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Status: offline 		simply because it's a personal prefernce of the person.

i chose to wear part of Daddy's name and state i was collared by Him even though He's not an active member of this site.

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RE: Why do you not mention a dom by name? - 7/3/2007 3:53:07 PM   
catize


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Status: offline 		Because he hasn’t even revealed his name to me? 

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RE: Why do you not mention a dom by name? - 7/3/2007 3:53:09 PM   
AquaticSub


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ORIGINAL: dogobedience

One reason is to contact other dom's who actually have living breathing bottom's (to cover all types). I like to meet those who are living this lifestyle.


I would guess that if they wanted to be contacted by random people they would be on here. Since they aren't, my guess is they don't. Not everyone feels the need to talk to others living this lifestyle.

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RE: Why do you not mention a dom by name? - 7/3/2007 3:55:39 PM   
dogobedience


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Status: offline 		My name is Tiger, the only name I have been called since birth ( Japanese mom thing I guess), it is not a made up one, though not my legal one.
Dogobedience, is how I feel toward those in my charge. 

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RE: Why do you not mention a dom by name? - 7/3/2007 3:57:34 PM   
stef


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ORIGINAL: dogobedience

One reason is to contact other dom's who actually have living breathing bottom's (to cover all types).

Perhaps this is also one of the reasons they dont.

~stef

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RE: Why do you not mention a dom by name? - 7/3/2007 3:59:35 PM   
dogobedience


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i chose to wear part of Daddy's name and state i was collared by Him even though He's not an active member of this site.
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A proud one you are !!! 

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RE: Why do you not mention a dom by name? - 7/3/2007 4:01:01 PM   
texancutie


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Status: offline 		Well, I don't list my Dominant's screen name, and he does not list my screen name in his profile.  If we had a couple's profile I guess we would do that.  I don't really think it is that important for strangers to know, and I imagine neither does he.  Our friends know who we are, and that is what is important.  If anyone really wanted to figure it out they could, because we are both very local to each other, and our journal entries kind of match up.  But, we do tell people that want to meet us locally, who we are...and friends that ask us as well.  Its not a big secret, but there are also a lot of strange people online, and who wants all the drama and games that sometimes come along with that either. 

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RE: Why do you not mention a Dom by name? - 7/3/2007 4:01:13 PM   
imthatacheyouhav


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ORIGINAL: kittensmailbox

What i don't understand is when the sub DOES mention the Dom's name and how much she loves and adores him, so you look up the Dom's profile, there is not even a mention of a sub any place in his profile....

I also have noticed this, and I don't get it either.


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RE: Why do you not mention a Dom by name? - 7/3/2007 4:04:16 PM   
dogobedience


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Status: offline 		Was always wanting to understand.......great replies, opening my eyes, thanks

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I hope I am an intellectual instigator, making people think and or laugh and nothing more.

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RE: Why do you not mention a dom by name? - 7/3/2007 4:04:58 PM   
subinside


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quote:

ORIGINAL: dogobedience

My slant, I am proud to own kali, and have no reason to not let everybody it. So my profile and hers state it. Nothing to hide, not married to someone else, attempting to search without her being cognizant(others would quiclkly see my name or hers on the profile), currently president of the planet :), or whatever.  

I ask for a myriad of reasons, and will expand as replies continue.


Funny You would mention that.  When i was collared and engaged to CreoleCook, He wouldn't let me put his name on my profile, wouldn't put mine on his, or discuss me by name in any of his posts to the forums.  Why? He said it was cause he didn't want former "relations" harassing me.  The truth was cause he was still trolling.... so much so, that he found his newest one here, cheated on me with her... and she had no idea i was anything more than a friend from Canada.. even though i visited him monthly.

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RE: Why do you not mention a dom by name? - 7/3/2007 4:06:28 PM   
dogobedience


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Status: offline 		SADLY one of my main points, the cheating dom.

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I hope I am an intellectual instigator, making people think and or laugh and nothing more.

Tiger, proud owner of kali aka Tigerproperty

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RE: Why do you not mention a dom by name? - 7/3/2007 4:08:12 PM   
BitaTruble


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quote:

ORIGINAL: dogobedience

Why do somepeople say they have a dom, but do not list there name on there profile.   


Are you talking about their screenname or their real name? I have Master's screenname in my profile, I've used his real name several times on the forums and I'm pretty sure he's got my screenname in his profile though it's been a while since I looked at his. For us, both out, it's not an issue for screennames to be there (or real names either, though neither of us list those in our profiles), but I could see where others desire more privacy. Once in a while Himself will get an email from someone who's read my profile asking if he wants to share me or sell me but he takes it all in good fun and doesn't go crazy about it. Mostly, we just get a good laugh from it.  Some people though, just wouldn't want to deal with trollers or wankers asking about such things.

Celeste

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RE: Why do you not mention a dom by name? - 7/3/2007 4:10:50 PM   
dogobedience


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Status: offline 		Screenname.

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I hope I am an intellectual instigator, making people think and or laugh and nothing more.

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RE: Why do you not mention a dom by name? - 7/3/2007 4:11:32 PM   
texancutie


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Status: offline 		Sorry to read that.   That is why I am all about being local, but then again, that does not stop some people either. 

He clearly states that he has someone in his profile, but that we are open to meeting others, over coffee or lunch of course...but together only...not alone.  His journal also reflects his feelings for me and for that I am very grateful.  I do the same in mine.

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RE: Why do you not mention a Dom by name? - 7/3/2007 4:30:20 PM   
spankmepink11


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Status: offline 		If i were involved with a person who was not on this site, i would have no reason to refer to him as other than "my partner".     If he were on the site, I'm sure we would refer to one another  by our CM names.  Even then,....we wouldn't necessarily use one another's name in the profile, just that we were involved.  If he chose not to state in his profile that he was "involved" then the relationship would not be likely to last.

As Aileen stated (thats not your real name!!!) .  I don't use my name here either, why would i use the name of my S.O.



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RE: Why do you not mention a Dom by name? - 7/3/2007 5:08:50 PM   
dogobedience


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Status: offline 		More from those who do not "share" the others name (screenname) and why.

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I start and/or reply to posts to further my abilities and share my experiences in this fantastic lifestyle.

I hope I am an intellectual instigator, making people think and or laugh and nothing more.

Tiger, proud owner of kali aka Tigerproperty

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RE: Why do you not mention a dom by name? - 7/3/2007 5:09:12 PM   
feelingrisky


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Status: offline 		Because some of us do not use scene names so we find listing our partners name irrelevant. 
Or, because our partner is not on collarme or any other site and therefore listing the name is irrelevant. 
Or because our owned or not owned status might be something we want to mention, but don't really expect anyone to track our family tree (ds wise) back to determine what kind of mate we might have.

Really it all comes down to this:
Because it is our own business.

quote:

ORIGINAL: dogobedience

My slant, I am proud to own kali, and have no reason to not let everybody it. So my profile and hers state it. Nothing to hide, not married to someone else, attempting to search without her being cognizant(others would quiclkly see my name or hers on the profile), currently president of the planet :), or whatever.  

I ask for a myriad of reasons, and will expand as replies continue.


< Message edited by feelingrisky -- 7/3/2007 5:14:33 PM >

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