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RE: Why do you not mention a dom by name? - 7/4/2007 5:13:51 PM

BeingChewsie

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ORIGINAL: dogobedience

My slant, I am proud to own kali, and have no reason to not let everybody it. So my profile and hers state it. Nothing to hide, not married to someone else, attempting to search without her being cognizant(others would quiclkly see my name or hers on the profile), currently president of the planet :), or whatever.

I ask for a myriad of reasons, and will expand as replies continue.

The man I belong to isn't a collarme member and has never been a member of any BDSM community and rarely reads any BDSM oriented website or forum, and only if I point out something I'd like an opinion on. So what would be the point of listing his real name? I don't even use my own here.

One more thing ownership isn't a big huge deal to him, he may be proud to own any number of things he owns but I don't think he keeps a running total on them for the world to see, I imagine he'd be much prouder of some of his other accomplishments than simply enslaving a woman...in the grand picture of his accomplishmnets its pretty low on the totem pole.

< Message edited by BeingChewsie -- 7/4/2007 5:25:58 PM >

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RE: Why do you not mention a dom by name? - 7/4/2007 5:46:58 PM

jmslilbytch

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If He wanted it there it would be. I nor He thinks it is pertinent information to be on this site, or any other for that matter. The fact that I am owned should be enough for any D/M to see. Not that none can reply to my posts, but none need send messages as they will not be replied to, not by myself at any rate.
Your assumptions about hiding something is unfounded, it is called privacy. For one, who would really care who owns another? Unless, by chance in your search to expand your household, you do not believe that we un-named owner sub/slaves are really owned?
If you wanted to converse with other D/M's in the lifestyle who are R/L then why not start a thread in the ask a Master forum? Not why we don't name our D/M in our profiles and then make insinuations.
Puts people on the offensive, or is that something you were looking for?

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RE: Why do you not mention a dom by name? - 7/4/2007 6:29:35 PM

Celeste43

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ORIGINAL: dogobedience

Interesting replies, giving light to why this is done. I use this site to search, and to hear from those in this lifestyle (24/7, parttime, fantasy role play, kinky sex bedroom BDSM, or cyber play).
My view, and corroborated, though tainted, is the dom who continues to attempt to search. All the while gathering girls who are not cognizant of the other(s). They are everywhere, ripped off girls from liar men. That pollutes the pool for those who are upfront and honest about this lifestyle like myself. (no I am not perfect, but never do I lie). Those who understand, will, those who do not, will never ( perhaps I am one of those).

That's one hell of an assumption, that because he isn't listed by screen name here he is actually here without me knowing it, looking for other subs.

I'm here because I'm a forum addict. I'm here, I'm on b.com and before that I used to spend a lot of time on ezboard and a gardening site.

He's not interested in just chasing tail, he's busy enough with real life and the woman he has. I have more free time so I'm online more.

As far as him listing me on his b.com profile, he did so after about a year when I asked him why he hadn't. He did so for me, but said that it didn't matter if he updated his profile or not since he's never gotten an unsolicited email from an unattached female interested in meeting him. In the three years since then, he still hasn't gotten an email from an interested female.

As far as why I list myself as taken upfront, it's because I, like every other female on the site, do get unwanted and unpleasant unsolicited email from HNGs. I find it cuts down on the spam to a degree.

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