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RE: pain afterward - 7/13/2007 8:13:57 AM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		What is thr big thing about pain?  Maybe it is me as i do not like pain.  I wouls also say ice at frist then a nice long shower.  I had bruises once (from a former Master) and the ice helped speed the healing and reduce the swelling.

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RE: pain afterward - 7/13/2007 8:46:37 AM   
viperess


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Status: offline 		Greetings,
i also would have to say arnicia..but for me when the next day come and i am sore and the pain is there it just makes me want to beg Master for more of the same as i know it will be even more intense..then again being a pain slut what would you expect.
But if the pain bothers you then within a couple hours of play ice down to help keep the swelling and bruising to a minimum. Then the next day soad in a hot bath with epsome salt and just relax.

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RE: pain afterward - 7/13/2007 9:22:38 AM   
silvermuse


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Status: offline 		Arnica is a god send, not just for after play but for general aches and pains as well. The tablets work great, also the stick, spray and ointment. (I tend to buy a lot of homepathics from a place online) For deep bruising if you have a dom that will stay for that level of aftercare, the arnica massage oil is great.

Warm bath before you call it a night after the play. This works for some, but not for all, epsom salts in the bath. Not a good idea if there are any open cuts, but if it's just ache it can help.

If you suffer from pms type cramps after play try pulsitilla. I've also found it can help with the moodiness and mood swings that can follow sub drop.

muse

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RE: pain afterward - 7/13/2007 11:50:06 AM   
Troubledangil


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Status: offline 		Others have said everything I could think of at first... but then I drifted off to another subject for a minute & then came back to this one.... I had tried the ice, warm baths with epsom salts, OTC medications for pain.  But what really has helped is just taking better care of myself before hand, in day to day life. I get more exercise, drink more water, lay off the caffeine and such.

But I am still one who likes that fact she may have to sit gingerly the next day, or if there is a spot I can touch discretely during the day at work .....it all brings back the sensation of how I got these wonderful marks!

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RE: pain afterward - 7/13/2007 12:08:49 PM   
BoiJen


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Status: offline 		Hot showers often help speed the healing process but can be painful on open cuts. The other thing that helps me is to let the Lady know I'm in pain. She might choose to tweak a nipple or poke a bruise and Her enjoyment is then again flared. And the pain more worth it. I also don't have as much issue with being in pain. Make sure you have enough iorn in your system to help healing with burises and tender spots. Having a healthy system helps with the healing process more than anything.

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RE: pain afterward - 7/13/2007 12:45:42 PM   
hana20


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Status: offline 		i can tell that although i don't like after pain, i can stand it because i recall all the nice moments i had during the session.. My nipples are a bit sensitive though ,so i usually have a week off between the sessions.

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RE: pain afterward - 7/13/2007 7:34:14 PM   
angelsub642


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Status: offline 		When i got a hard spanking and had a hard time sitting the next day, than i know that my Dom cared for me

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RE: pain afterward - 7/13/2007 7:50:21 PM   
mythi


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Status: offline 		The only thing I'd add is adequate protein and vitamin c...as you need both of these in order to heal and rebuild soft tissues, especially if any muscles or other connective tissues have been pulled.  The vitamin c also helps your body utilize more of the iron you ingest either in your diet or from supplements.  And what better excuse to indulge in some strawberries this time of year?

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RE: pain afterward - 7/13/2007 8:39:39 PM   
sjacket


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Status: offline 		Yaaaay painsluts!  For me, afterpain is the gift that keeps on giving.  We do a good bit of knife play and there are few things quite as wonderful as a nice hot shower the next day.  I can feel every cut and scratch all over again. 

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RE: pain afterward - 7/14/2007 6:12:21 AM   
IvyMorgan


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Status: offline 		I'd add a good bra.  Just watch where you put the straps if your shoulders have been bitten lots.

Being very aware of your body, knowing how far you can push it afterwards.

Meditation can help.  Not with healing any faster, but with filtering out your experiences so you can function.  (I'll admit, this takes practice :P)

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RE: pain afterward - 7/22/2007 4:33:09 PM   
tobeme20


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Status: offline 		i am new to the lifestyle but my first big purple mark from an intense spanking left me to relish looking at it every chance i got and loving the sensations as i sat down and remembered it was at the hand of a cherished Sir. I love it but if you dont as much plenty of icyhot lol

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RE: pain afterward - 7/22/2007 5:51:20 PM   
subsweetkitty


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Status: offline 		I usually think of the "after pain" as erotic reminder of what was done.  Often the day after or the day after that my nipples are aching and I get the feeling of wanting more nipple play.  But the all wise common sense  usually wins and the nipples get a week off.
LMAO- Amen to that! I even take pix to send Him of the bruising and scratches. It does help if there is aftercare (salves, aspirin,etc) but much better to be fit for punishment (loads of hydration, regular exercise, proper diet and lots of vitamins)..

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RE: pain afterward - 7/22/2007 6:02:59 PM   
sweetnurseBBW


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Status: offline 		Well I personally enjoy the pain for a few days. I relish in it. For breast and clit pain a little ice and ibuprofen help. Enjoy it! I do!

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RE: pain afterward - 7/22/2007 11:25:42 PM   
charlotte12


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Status: offline 		I think i like the afterpain even more then when it's being done. I too will touch bruises or just sit and look at them. I don't really have advice on how to make the pain go away because i never try though i will say arnica works wonders for me with unwanted pain (it's one thing if i was bitten and another if a clothing rack at work attacked me hehe)

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RE: pain afterward - 7/23/2007 12:47:19 AM   
ownedgirlie


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Status: offline 		I enjoy it immensely.  My mouth was once sore for a week and it was wonderful.

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RE: pain afterward - 7/23/2007 12:49:43 AM   
CarinaKitty


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Status: offline 		Well, I have no suggestions on getting rid of the pain, but how I handle it partially depends on the reason for it.  If it is a pain that I don't want, and I recieved as punishment, I generally think of the afterpain as a reminder to be good, and not dissappoint my Master anymore. Don't get me wrong, I still play with them, I just think of them differently. lol

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RE: pain afterward - 7/23/2007 2:59:40 AM   
julietsierra


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Status: offline 		heh...

My real question is how do I make the pain LAST?!

pain - love that keeps on loving - long after the loving is done

Damn! There's a kinky country song in this somewhere!!

juliet

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RE: pain afterward - 8/6/2007 6:48:21 AM   
hurtmepls


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Status: offline 		I agree, after pain is wonderful. It brings my thoughts back to it. I smile when ever I feel my sore nipples under my shirt. We don't get to play very often so I like it to last.

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RE: pain afterward - 8/10/2007 1:49:32 PM   
SubJordanTyler


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Status: offline 		I love the after pain, as it's a reminder of what had been done to me.  My cock and balls will ache for days from the beating they took and my asshole will be sore for even longer from the strap-on that was used inside me.  It can make it difficult to sit the first day or two, which can lead to some interesting questions!!  I just usually say I fell or have a bad lower back that just makes it hard to sit sometimes.

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RE: pain afterward - 8/10/2007 6:50:24 PM   
AquaticSub


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Arnica, Arnica, Arnica


lol, you beat me to it! It's something I was introduced in college as a way to get rid of *ahem* interesting bruises on my neck before my parents showed up. I swear by the gel and you can even get pills. I don't know how well they work though.

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