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ORIGINAL: domiguy

I don't expect this to potentially go anywhere.  I've been out here for awhile and these subs never write back....Fuck!!!!....lol.

Okay...Topic at hand...I've been out here awhile and I was wondering whether there is loathing when it comes to Doms/Dommes and their relationships or feelings towards women/men?

Are there women and men haters out there that have brought them into this arena?  What a better place to go shopping for someone that might allow you to actually physically harm or engage in various types of degradation 
and thereby filling a need to damage the "person" that you despise.

This is not all that of an easy topic...It came about after a discussion with a Dom woman who made that observation about her counterparts and it is something that I have always questioned after hearing so many accounts from male and female subs alike.

As I type this I realize I'm playing into the hands of those who think that everyone who participates in this is inherently fucked up....Tough titties.....Any thoughts?

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ORIGINAL: domiguy
I don't expect this to potentially go anywhere.  I've been out here for awhile and these subs never write back...

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

I don't expect this to potentially go anywhere.  I've been out here for awhile and these subs never write back....Fuck!!!!....lol.

Okay...Topic at hand...I've been out here awhile and I was wondering whether there is loathing when it comes to Doms/Dommes and their relationships or feelings towards women/men?

Are there women and men haters out there that have brought them into this arena?  What a better place to go shopping for someone that might allow you to actually physically harm or engage in various types of degradation and thereby filling a need to damage the "person" that you despise.

This is not all that of an easy topic...It came about after a discussion with a Dom woman who made that observation about her counterparts and it is something that I have always questioned after hearing so many accounts from male and female subs alike.

As I type this I realize I'm playing into the hands of those who think that everyone who participates in this is inherently fucked up....Tough titties.....Any thoughts?

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I don't look at the male doms but I seem to see this a lot in dommes who are especially feminist. Being a feminist and a domme doesn't mean a woman hates men but a lot of women who have this mix can be a bit suspicious in their ways. No offense.

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I don't look at the male doms but I seem to see this a lot in dommes who are especially feminist. Being a feminist and a domme doesn't mean a woman hates men but a lot of women who have this mix can be a bit suspicious in their ways. No offense.

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Interesting observation.  I've noticed a lot of women who think of themselves as feminists also have "issues" with men.  In my personal experience they are either supersensative or they have a general anger toward men.  In my personal experience, feminst groups seem to be the "she woman, man hating clubs" of our generation. 

I say this because I've yet to meet anyone who considers herself a feminist who could honestly acknowledge and discuss men's issues as they relate to gender or womens issues.    In my mind, that's a pretty good indication that someone has unresolved issues.  The same can be said for extreme liberals and conservatives or even many religious groups. 

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ORIGINAL: Tristan
In my mind, that's a pretty good indication that someone has unresolved issues.  The same can be said for extreme liberals and conservatives or even many religious groups.

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ORIGINAL: Tristan

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I don't look at the male doms but I seem to see this a lot in Domme's who are especially feminist. Being a feminist and a Domme doesn't mean a woman hates men but a lot of women who have this mix can be a bit suspicious in their ways. No offense.

Interesting observation.  I've noticed a lot of women who think of themselves as feminists also have "issues" with men.  In my personal experience they are either supersensative or they have a general anger toward men.  In my personal experience, feminist groups seem to be the "she woman, man hating clubs" of our generation. 

I say this because I've yet to meet anyone who considers herself a feminist who could honestly acknowledge and discuss men's issues as they relate to gender or womens issues.    In my mind, that's a pretty good indication that someone has unresolved issues.  The same can be said for extreme liberals and conservatives or even many religious groups. 

Tristan

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Not at all about tearing down men but raising up women to be on equal status from a human rights standpoint.

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And trying to be gentle here - but, there does seem to be a thread of anger underlying your post...perhaps due to your  personal experiences??? I welcome clarification.

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Hi Michael!
Have you seen our new 12 step book, The Story of X, how to stop hating men and love yourself? It's only $49.95..

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Does anyone remember the "He Man Woman Hater's Club" from the Little Rascals?

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You should be ashamed. I know you aren't, but...... you should.

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ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia

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You should be ashamed. I know you aren't, but...... you should.

nah, i'm not ashamed of myself. hate men, love women...problem?

(GRINZ)

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Depends on how you define problem. Actually hating of all men is probably lowering your chances of finding a domme. Most women I know love their fathers, have male friends who they respect and love as a friend, some have brothers they love... so on and so forth. Those women, some dominant, some submissive, couldn't be bothered with a man who hated all men.

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ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia

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Depends on how you define problem. Actually hating of all men is probably lowering your chances of finding a domme. Most women I know love their fathers, have male friends who they respect and love as a friend, some have brothers they love... so on and so forth. Those women, some dominant, some submissive, couldn't be bothered with a man who hated all men.

ok, allow me to narrow it down a bit then. i dislike the typical, sports-minded, weekend hunter and "god's gift to women" types, also, i don't care much for the drunkards aout there either...oh, and then there's the wife-beaters (non-lifestyle related beatings)

does that help some?

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ORIGINAL: JimmySlattery

, a whole lot of psychoanalyzing

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ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia

most everywhere i go, someone's always asking me about the score of some damned game or other. since when does every male alive know such stupid things?