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RE: submission a gift or a need? - 7/29/2007 3:05:28 PM

chey

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Um actually Stephan I agree with Domiguy so since we do not have differing opinions on the gift vs. need thing you are really only agreeing with one side. I think his words are dead on to what is going on in my own head, he just says it much better than I do! Or is it that he says it more bluntly? (Is bluntly a word?) I was simply saying that people are going to feel what they feel and if they feel it is a gift then I hope they find the dominant who also feels it is a gift.

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RE: submission a gift or a need? - 7/29/2007 5:11:10 PM

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Stephann,

and interesting position to take,

thanks for your input!

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RE: submission a gift or a need? - 7/29/2007 5:12:32 PM

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for me, submission is a state of mind and a part of who i am. not sure if it's a gift or a curse

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RE: submission a gift or a need? - 7/29/2007 7:29:30 PM

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Michael, I know you catch a lot of shit out here.....Some sub sent me a nasty message about not being nice to you.....I don't know if when you post if you are trying to be funny or you are truly as pathetic as you sound?....But, I gotta tell you, You are one of my favorite posters....I have no idea whether I am laughing with you or at you...but every time I look at that Goddamn cat with those big fucking eyes and then read your post....I can't help but to smile and laugh.

Are you trying to be funny or pathetic?

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RE: submission agift or a need? - 7/30/2007 8:00:47 AM

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Ok If submission is a gift , I dont get it , Why is My Dominance not a gift then ? Thats Like saying My gift is better than your gift to Me . Without each other we will not exist right ? And Yeah I do think that many many think that they can exchange the gift or get a refund way to easy . Just My opinion.

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RE: submission agift or a need? - 7/30/2007 9:06:07 AM

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i have a need to serve.
i give the gift of my service only to certain people. just because i serve, does not mean that a Dom has the right to insist i serve Him/Her. who i serve is my choice, therefore it is a gift i give to the One i wish to have it.
i have been this way my entire life, so i cannot say that it is a culture change.
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RE: submission agift or a need? - 7/30/2007 9:16:25 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: HardnRuff

Ok If submission is a gift , I dont get it , Why is My Dominance not a gift then ? Thats Like saying My gift is better than your gift to Me . Without each other we will not exist right ? And Yeah I do think that many many think that they can exchange the gift or get a refund way to easy . Just My opinion.

Your Dominance IS a gift for Your sub, just as Your sub's submission is a gift to You.
i agree that without the one the other could not reach it's maturity, but it DOES exist. i serve my child, immediate family, tribe and community, to E/everyone's joy and appriciation.
it is the callusness exhibited by some Dom's ( and, i am sure, some subs) that indicate They think because They are Dom, that all sub's should bow down to Them or that because one is submissive they have no viable thoughts in their heads, wants or desires.

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RE: submission agift or a need? - 7/30/2007 4:51:03 PM

CelticPrince

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Hard,

The simple answer to that isssss, that it is a gift! You take on alot of responsibility with your gift of dominance.

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RE: submission agift or a need? - 7/30/2007 4:53:36 PM

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apettiger,

Well for me I agree that you can withhold it when you chose to and then find another dominant, but I do not know that it is a gift as described.

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