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RE: Dick and a Paycheck - 6/29/2005 1:38:48 PM   
Lordandmaster


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Actually I'm on your side in this one, but "ya sound like my ex wives" is exactly the kind of statement that will keep people from taking you seriously.

Lam

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ya sound like my ex wives.


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RE: Dick and a Paycheck - 6/29/2005 2:05:26 PM   
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Lonewolf,

Actually I'm on your side in this one, but "ya sound like my ex wives" is exactly the kind of statement that will keep people from taking you seriously.

Lam

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ya sound like my ex wives.





can't help it Sir.......it's that typical frame of mind.


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RE: kc692 - 6/29/2005 2:09:24 PM   
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ORIGINAL: onceburned

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ORIGINAL: lonewolf05
if i get the next one, i will come in here, find your name, and send it to you. maybe you will all start believeing me then?

i cannot believe ma'am you ladies do not know about these money dommes. wow.


Actually, I am curious too. I keep hearing guys complain but I have never gotten any email such as you describe. Could you post the next unsolicitted demand for money here in the message boards. I think many people (myself included) are curious to see what those emails are like.



yes i most certainly will lil bud..just coz ya asked so nice.
they come in spurts..sometimes i get em 4 and 5 at a crack and then it gets quite..and then i get em again.
like i say, last one? she says,,buy me something from my wishlist to prove yourself..
i said are you nuts? i dont even know you lady....but ah well sorry.....

i will sure do it though..bye for now bud.


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RE: kc692 - 6/29/2005 2:39:53 PM   
kc692


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Status: offline 		Thank you. It isn't that we think anyone is lying at all, I would just like to see what one of those looks like, like everyone else. No one has accused anyone of lying.

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RE: Dick and a Paycheck - 6/29/2005 4:55:32 PM   
LadyAngelika


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whew enough ok?


I wish it was. But I have a feeling we have not seen the end.

For the record, I would appreciate it if you refered to me as LadyAngelika and not girl or gal or whatever little nickname you want to come up with for me.

- LA

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RE: Dick and a Paycheck - 6/29/2005 5:46:19 PM   
MaitresseEden


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Status: offline 		I've seen them too.. unsolicited requests for money from Dommes, sent to male subs. It is similar to all those emails Dommes get from other dominants telling them they are really just subs. Half the subs I know can't believe I actually get emails like that, until I show them to the person. Or the email I got from some 18 yr old punk the yesterday demanding that I dominant him now on webcam. People can be rude regardless of their manners and that is a topic for another thread. But it does happen, and I don't agree with it, and the way I see it a person as two options. Counter back with a witty reply, and hope it does suck you into a vortex of smart ass dialog, or click the ignore button.

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RE: Dick and a Paycheck - 6/29/2005 5:53:03 PM   
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Counter back with a witty reply, and hope it does suck you into a vortex of smart ass dialog, or click the ignore button.


Exactly Eden. But for the love of whatever you believe in people, do not start a thread about it or highjack other threads whining about it!

- LA

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RE: Dick and a Paycheck - 6/29/2005 7:44:56 PM   
Anelize


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ORIGINAL: Understudy
I discovered very early on that relationships are as complicated as we choose to make them. Some people are just not happy if their life doesn't resemble a soap opera. They thrive on the drama and then deny it when asked if they want the drama in their lives.

So in many aspects my life to many is now boring. I am married and we actually like each other. With the exception of a few moments when I am of course always right. There is very little drama to our lives. So to many vanilla outsiders my life is dull dull dull.


How very true. My dom/husband and I got our respective houses in order before we met each other. Neither one of us had any desire for drama and we were shooting for a long-term, compassionate, comfortable, grow old together kind of relationship. One that stands the test of time...of course, mind you, firmly grounded in D/s. Very little protocol by choice, but still, D/s. It may, like you said, look dull, dull, dull, from the outside, but our marriage is something that makes me smile, as I watch others flail about in their craziness.

~Anelize

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RE: Dick and a Paycheck - 6/30/2005 1:30:01 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

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I absolutely love intelligent Women that stand up and fight everyday. The more fight they have the more attractive they are.


Ah yes, the every day battle. Some days I'm all up for it, and some days I wish I didn't have to. You know, it sucks always having to be on our guards.

When a man speaks his mind, he's assertive. When a woman does, all of a sudden she is perceived as aggressive. I have my aggressive moments, sure. But overall, I am assertive. But that isn't how it's perceived.

I guess what I'm trying to get at is that I can understand how you can find it attractive, but to be quite honest, I'm not finding it so damn sexy anymore when it seems that I'm always fighting and not gaining much ground. Doesn't mean I'll ever give up... just means it's not making me hot ;)

- LA



There's something sexy about a woman who gets up everyday and pounds her head against a brickwall.

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Lady Angelica - 6/30/2005 2:47:57 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

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whew enough ok?


I wish it was. But I have a feeling we have not seen the end.

For the record, I would appreciate it if you refered to me as LadyAngelika and not girl or gal or whatever little nickname you want to come up with for me.

- LA

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I wish it was. But I have a feeling we have not seen the end.

For the record, I would appreciate it if you refered to me as LadyAngelika and not girl or gal or whatever little nickname you want to come up with for me.

- LA



how about i will think on it. don't get your hopes up though. i will see if i find it my heart, if you stop what you are doing? okay Lady A?

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RE: Dick and a Paycheck - 6/30/2005 4:57:41 AM   
LadyAngelika


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There's something sexy about a woman who gets up everyday and pounds her head against a brickwall.


See I turn 33 in a week... think this technique will help with wrinkle control?

- LA

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RE: Lady Angelika - 6/30/2005 5:00:04 AM   
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how about i will think on it. don't get your hopes up though. i will see if i find it my heart, if you stop what you are doing? okay Lady A?


All I was doing was giving you useful, helpful advice. That is all I've ever tried to do but it seems to fall on deaf ears. I have always however called you by your nick and that is all I ask back from you. It's a simple question of respect.

People on these boards who call me something other then LA, LadyA, LadyAngelika or Miss have developed a bond with me and therefore I am ok with it.

- LA

*edited because if you are going to change the subject line to replace it with my name, at the very least, spell my name correctly. LadyAngelika

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RE: kc692 - 6/30/2005 5:18:18 AM   
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i cannot believe ma'am you ladies do not know about these money dommes. wow.


I had heard the complaining about that myself but had no idea that it was as serious as they were saying... until yesterday. I was talking to a sub here on collarme and during the conversation he received and email from one.... he copied and pasted it to me... all I can say is WOW... UNBELIEVABLE!! He had never heard from her before, this was her first contact with him... I swear, I laughed until I cried then laughed again as I read it to my husband........ Yes, they are very real and very demanding... here are some exerps from the email, I can't post it all due to some personal info about the woman...

I read your profile, and you seem to be just the sort of slave I've been searching for, a man craves nothing more than to service a Goddess. I will bring you purpose and fulfillment. I will show you the way to freedom. I will give you meaning and purpose in serving me. Your lack of experience thus far only means that you will be a blank canvas to mold.

Financial servitude and tributes are not about robbing a submissive of his finances or being manipulative. It is a way in which a submissive exercises another means of submission. It is, yes, a tribute to a Mistress, a display of seriousness and giving intentions. While I've come across profiles that expressed distaste for the practice, I haven't found one that actually sited the merit in it. However, these women that seek merely to rob a man are, well, distasteful. This is something I would love to discuss with you further.

Read my profile, including my journal entry, and provide me with the information I requested. Also, send me your schedule and times that you can be online and your username. I will assign you an interview time for an online slave interview. If you do well, I will bless you with pictures of me and provide you terms for slave training.

Believe me -- if you prove yourself worthy, I will give you the joy of complete domination. I will fulfill your every fantasy as you serve Me in ALL the ways I demand.


Then I got to read her profile..... WOW

I don't believe that these types outnumber the ones that don't require a "tribute", I just believe they send out more mail.

Jewel

FYI, one of the bits of info she required was annual income.....

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RE: Dick & Paycheck - 6/30/2005 5:24:56 AM   
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I don't believe that these types outnumber the ones that don't require a "tribute", I just believe they send out more mail.


Exactly! Which makes it seem like there is more. I figure an intelligent man could have come to this conclusion on his own.

- LA

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RE: Dick and a Paycheck - 6/30/2005 5:25:44 AM   
sudja


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ORIGINAL: MaitresseEden
It is similar to all those emails Dommes get from other dominants telling them they are really just subs.



I believe. I believe.

The other night my Mistress and I were both logged in to an IRC chatroom while She was playing Pogo and I was doing some work. There were two or three little letter people in the channel. She was the only Big Letter Person. (Everybody has a shift key, eh?)

A self-proclaimed Domme wandered into the channel and PMd.... Her in a clear "come on" manner.

Then it happened again with another "capped" woman.

But what's worse - the women who put themselves out as Dominant but then say "But I am really submissive," or "Would love to submit to you," or the men who think every Domme is waiting for him, to drop for him?

I find the former to be more self protective, for whatever reason(s), and the latter to be as obnoxious as the straight man who tells a lesbians, "You just haven't met the right man yet," or "All you need is a good ^&^%."

sudja

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RE: Dick & Paycheck - 6/30/2005 7:19:11 AM   
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Exactly! Which makes it seem like there is more. I figure an intelligent man could have come to this conclusion on his own.

- LA



The key is "Intelligence". :)

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RE: Lady Angelika - 6/30/2005 12:13:06 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

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ORIGINAL: lonewolf05
how about i will think on it. don't get your hopes up though. i will see if i find it my heart, if you stop what you are doing? okay Lady A?


All I was doing was giving you useful, helpful advice. That is all I've ever tried to do but it seems to fall on deaf ears. I have always however called you by your nick and that is all I ask back from you. It's a simple question of respect.

People on these boards who call me something other then LA, LadyA, LadyAngelika or Miss have developed a bond with me and therefore I am ok with it.

- LA

*edited because if you are going to change the subject line to replace it with my name, at the very least, spell my name correctly. LadyAngelika



yes Ma'am---as You wish ....

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RE: Dick & Paycheck - 6/30/2005 3:32:55 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MaitresseEden

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Exactly! Which makes it seem like there is more. I figure an intelligent man could have come to this conclusion on his own.

- LA


The key is "Intelligence". :)


Indeed!

- LA


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RE: Dick & Paycheck - 7/5/2005 9:59:57 PM   
lonewolf05


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Exactly! Which makes it seem like there is more. I figure an intelligent man could have come to this conclusion on his own.

- LA

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ORIGINAL: MaitresseEden
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yeah yeah. well.. some of us are not all that experienced in some of these things in life.......so if "I" make mistakes,........"I" am personally sorry i am not part of YOUR world.
i never claimed to be one of the smart people. THEY are the asses that got this world into the mess it is in..........not me!

i have never found found where it pays to know too much. it only gets you in trouble....

so uh, excuse me if i am not part of the ones running around claiming they know it all.
ya know?


okay.
y'all take care........

the wolf.


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RE: Dick & Paycheck - 7/5/2005 10:56:05 PM   
MaitresseEden


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