GentleLady
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ORIGINAL: MaitresseEden well said.. and it is nice to see someone who instead of arguring for thier limitations, is actually working towards removing them!. I personally reject the notion of being incomplete without another. I persons my compliment me, but we as a society need to get past this notion of being incomplete without a significant other. It is not fair to anyone individual to bare the the burden of anothers happiness. One must be a "Me" before they can be a "we" Ms. Eden I could not agree more MaitresseEden. I was raised to believe that I needed another person in My life to be complete and that was so hard to unlearn. I have been much happier since I learned to be comfortable in My own skin. No person can satisfy all the needs of another person and no one should be expected to (in an ideal society). Gemeni...A person has so much more to bring to a relationship when the "need" is not driving them. I want someone to stay with Me because they choose to, not because they need to. Gentle lady
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