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how to punish a slave - 7/26/2007 3:14:57 PM   
mastersangelbaby


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Status: offline 		I am new to the site and the lifestyle. I have meet a Master and am quite happy with our online relationship until W/we have the chance to meet. I need help though. See Master gave me a task which i din't complete and lied about it to Him. It was a small lie and one that I am truely sorry about. He has said that i must find 15 different ways to punish someone online. Being new and never haveing a Master before, r/t or online, He has given me His permission to ask the Master here for ideas. How would You punish a slave that lied? Please if you would help me with ideas I would be greatful.
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RE: how to punish a slave - 7/26/2007 3:20:42 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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quote:

new to the site and the lifestyle. I have meet a Master and am quite happy with our online relationship until W/we have the chance to meet. I need help though. See Master gave me a task which i din't complete and lied about it to Him. It was a small lie and one that I am truely sorry about. He has said that i must find 15 different ways to punish someone online. Being new and never haveing a Master before, r/t or online, He has given me His permission to ask the Master here for ideas. How would You punish a slave that lied? Please if you would help

I'm sorry that you're so new and blinded that you don't realize how bad this makes your master look.

I wouldn't punish someone, I'd get to know why they lied to begin with and work on that weakness in the relationship.

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RE: how to punish a slave - 7/26/2007 3:27:08 PM   
slaveluci


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mastersangelbaby
I am new to the site and the lifestyle. I have meet a Master and am quite happy with our online relationship until W/we have the chance to meet. I need help though. See Master gave me a task which i din't complete and lied about it to Him. It was a small lie and one that I am truely sorry about. He has said that i must find 15 different ways to punish someone online. Being new and never haveing a Master before, r/t or online, He has given me His permission to ask the Master here for ideas. How would You punish a slave that lied? Please if you would help me with ideas I would be greatful.

I'm not a master but I feel like adding something here.  To me, it all depends on what he's trying to accomplish with said "punishment."  If lying to him is not a repeat behavior of yours and you truly are repentent, I would see this more as an opportunity for correction, not punishment.  Getting to the bottom of what stopped you from completing your assignment and why you then felt the need to deceive him would be the most appropriate step to take, in my opinion.  If he's really wanting to correct the behavior and do his best to insure it doesn't happen again, that's one thing.  If he simply wants a "reason" to give you hot, kinky, physical "punishment," that's a whole other approach.  Since he's having you go online to ask for suggestions for "punishments,"  though, that kind of answers that question. 

If "punishment" alone and not better discipline or correction is what he seeks, I would suggest he think those ideas up himself since he knows what would really be unpleasant or "punishing" for you and no one here does.  In addition, since no one here knows the exact nature of the infraction or the initial assignment, it's hard to come up with a "punishment to fit the crime," so to speak, and I think that is vital.  With every punishment comes the opportunity for correction and learning as well.  A "punishment" along the lines of the infraction makes good sense. 

I can't offer you a laundry list of "punishments" but I'm sure others will.  Any punishment aside, I hope you are able to avoid undone assignments and lying to him in the future.  Good luck............luci

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RE: how to punish a slave - 7/26/2007 3:28:38 PM   
Estring


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Status: offline 		Since this is an online relationship at this time, the most effective punishment would be no contact from your Master for a period of time of his choosing.

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RE: how to punish a slave - 7/26/2007 3:31:23 PM   
slaveluci


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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross
I'm sorry that you're so new and blinded that you don't realize how bad this makes your master look.
I wouldn't punish someone, I'd get to know why they lied to begin with and work on that weakness in the relationship.

.....Damn it, LA!  I thought just this once I was going to be the first poster to reply.  I was typing out my answer so diligently in those hopes.  I post it and then....then....you already slid a response in.  And, on top of that, basically said what I did only much shorter and first....aaarrrgghhhh.  Dang, you're good.....lol........luci

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RE: how to punish a slave - 7/26/2007 4:23:31 PM   
MasterMataeo


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Status: offline 		then i guess you better get looking ,,

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RE: how to punish a slave - 7/26/2007 4:26:48 PM   
BabyNyla


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Status: offline 		~sighs~ ... maybe your punishment should be to find a better Master ... who doesn't have to send his submissive off to figure out how he should do his job for him ... (oOoOoOo ...I am feeling not so nice today)

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RE: how to punish a slave - 7/26/2007 4:31:34 PM   
slaveish


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Status: offline 		Tell him he's lazy for not figuring this out by himself.

I'm sure he will come up with ~plenty~ of punishments for you then.

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RE: how to punish a slave - 7/26/2007 4:52:12 PM   
feastie


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Status: offline 		A conversation on honesty...

Master:  do not do that again.  Be honest with Me. That includes lies of omission, understand?
feastie:   yes Master.  i am sorry. please forgive this one her err.
Master: I merely ask you to remember your promise of honesty to Me in the future & not have Me remind you of this most    basic of concepts, understand?
feast:     yes Master                             
Master:  how do you feel about your children when you  have to remind them not to lie?
Master:  My pet, I love you
feast:     i am distressed because, although lying is a milestone in a child's development, it is important that they learn it is unacceptable. If they lie now, and i let them get by with it, then when they are older they will lie to me consistently and successfully, and i will not be able to control their behavior.
Master:  apply that thought to your training.
feast:      i understood, Master, as soon as i said it.
Master:  That is why I asked the question, Mine.

Simply said...punishment is not necessary. 



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RE: how to punish a slave - 7/26/2007 5:01:30 PM   
twistedkytten


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Status: offline 		it is situations like this, that make me realize how incredibly lucky i am to serve my Master.

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RE: how to punish a slave - 7/26/2007 5:01:44 PM   
imthatacheyouhav


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Status: offline 		I would have to agree with the notion that your master is lazy....I mean why don't you just punish yourself too after you do your masters research.

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RE: how to punish a slave - 7/26/2007 5:05:05 PM   
came4U


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Status: offline 		It worked, I feel punished just reading stuff sometimes.

14 more to go.

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RE: how to punish a slave - 7/26/2007 5:08:58 PM   
earthycouple


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You need to find a master who feels that adults need positive reinforcement and to find out why we behave the way we do about things vs. punishing people like we are pups who peed on the carpet or 10 year old children who stole from the corner store. 

I suggest, as punishment, you stay with this loser. That should do it.

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RE: how to punish a slave - 7/26/2007 5:43:57 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		Luci- Sorry chica, it will happen.  You've had great threads.

came4u- nice one!

Earthy- well said, but remember plenty of newbies not only act less capable and intelligent than a 10 year old, but want to be treated as such

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RE: how to punish a slave - 7/26/2007 5:50:33 PM   
KnightofMists


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quote:

ORIGINAL: slaveluci

quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross
I'm sorry that you're so new and blinded that you don't realize how bad this makes your master look.
I wouldn't punish someone, I'd get to know why they lied to begin with and work on that weakness in the relationship.

.....Damn it, LA!  I thought just this once I was going to be the first poster to reply.  I was typing out my answer so diligently in those hopes.  I post it and then....then....you already slid a response in.  And, on top of that, basically said what I did only much shorter and first....aaarrrgghhhh.  Dang, you're good.....lol........luci


Don't worry..... LA moved to Texas now.. and thou it is taking abit to rub in... In time.. LA will get Long-winded and take paragraphs to say what can be said it one sentence... Texas will rub off on her... just give it time. 

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RE: how to punish a slave - 7/26/2007 5:52:19 PM   
sweetnurseBBW


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

quote:

new to the site and the lifestyle. I have meet a Master and am quite happy with our online relationship until W/we have the chance to meet. I need help though. See Master gave me a task which i din't complete and lied about it to Him. It was a small lie and one that I am truely sorry about. He has said that i must find 15 different ways to punish someone online. Being new and never haveing a Master before, r/t or online, He has given me His permission to ask the Master here for ideas. How would You punish a slave that lied? Please if you would help

I'm sorry that you're so new and blinded that you don't realize how bad this makes your master look.

I wouldn't punish someone, I'd get to know why they lied to begin with and work on that weakness in the relationship.


What she said. The whoe thing just screams not right!

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RE: how to punish a slave - 7/26/2007 7:19:58 PM   
Rockwell


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Status: offline 		Maybe sending you here to ask a master is like having you write on a chalkboard "I will not lie"
1,000 times after school?
Punishment in itself.

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RE: how to punish a slave - 7/26/2007 7:28:31 PM   
mastersangelbaby


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Status: offline 		Thank you to those who offered advice and to those who had rude and unhelpful comments. Bite me. My Master is not lazy and yes asking here is part of the punishment. It is not called for to be rude and hateful.

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RE: how to punish a slave - 7/26/2007 7:28:49 PM   
sleazybutterfly


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Status: offline 		I want to know why when all of these subs come around asking how they should be punished...it feels like we are the ones getting punished?
 
Tell him to do his own damn job and if he can't come up with a punishment for you talking to him like that, to please, please not tell you to come here looking for suggestions.
 
(in a mood, sorry)

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RE: how to punish a slave - 7/26/2007 7:31:57 PM   
sleazybutterfly


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Status: offline 		Okay, okay... I give.
 
Take a flyswatter and smack yourself on the ass ten times, each time repeating that you are a horrid submissive for not telling your master the truth.  After that put yourself to bed without dinner, and no tv.
 
(I know I put those xanax around here someplace, dammit)

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