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Masters? Would you consider a sex addict as a submissive? - 7/28/2007 2:19:55 PM   
MzMia


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Status: offline 		Okay, I just read the thread about the Dominant woman that is pissed off,
because a female slave approached her indicating she wanted a sexual relationship.
 
Okay, Masters would this be a problem for YOU?

Seriously, would you consider a submissive that really was a sex addict?
If she was a great submissive over all, but she had, well that little problem?
 
I know it would be a tough job, but someone would need to take her in, and look
after her.

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RE: Masters? Would you consider a sex addict as a submi... - 7/28/2007 2:24:21 PM   
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RE: Masters? Would you consider a sex addict as a submi... - 7/28/2007 2:29:27 PM   
MzMia


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Status: offline 		You are making light of what is a serious medical condition!

Sex addiction is real!

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RE: Masters? Would you consider a sex addict as a submi... - 7/28/2007 2:33:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		I would consider her, it would be an interesting mix to have her be submissive and yet begging. *S*

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RE: Masters? Would you consider a sex addict as a submi... - 7/28/2007 2:38:11 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MzMia

Okay, I just read the thread about the Dominant woman that is pissed off,
because a female slave approached her indicating she wanted a sexual relationship.
 
Okay, Masters would this be a problem for YOU?

Seriously, would you consider a submissive that really was a sex addict?
If she was a great submissive over all, but she had, well that little problem?
 
I know it would be a tough job, but someone would need to take her in, and look
after her.


Many of those I've played with in my past and my current slave like sex and like sex a lot. I like sex too, so no it wouldn't be a problem for me.

Though I can also play with out some elements of sex but to me BDSM is still a sexual energy.

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RE: Masters? Would you consider a sex addict as a submi... - 7/28/2007 2:42:49 PM   
MzMia


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Status: offline 		Ahhh Dark Daddy!
There is a lot of sexual energy, but what if she has TOO much sexual energy?

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RE: Masters? Would you consider a sex addict as a submi... - 7/28/2007 2:44:01 PM   
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Ahhh Dark Daddy!
There is a lot of sexual energy, but what if she has TOO much sexual energy?

I guess I'd have to know what that means, if she needed it all the time.  If it interfered with our power exchange I am sure it'd be an issue.  If not and I wasn't in a sexual mood, there's always the magic wand, never leave home without it :)

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RE: Masters? Would you consider a sex addict as a submi... - 7/28/2007 2:50:52 PM   
MzMia


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Status: offline 		LOL, good answer!
 
I guess I am thinking nymphomaniac here.

Spot a Nymphomaniac Article on Maxim Online.

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RE: Masters? Would you consider a sex addict as a submi... - 7/28/2007 2:51:59 PM   
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Status: offline 		It is fine to be a sex addict to a specific person, I would think that a Dom would be thrilled to have a sub crave him all the time. But then I have been known to be wrong at times.

And if you are a sex addict without a partner, bring on the heavy artillery....

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RE: Masters? Would you consider a sex addict as a submi... - 7/28/2007 2:53:49 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MzMia

LOL, good answer!
 
I guess I am thinking nymphomaniac here.

Spot a Nymphomaniac Article on Maxim Online.

Thanks for that tip!

Now we need a article written thats says:
Spot A Nymphomaniac Who Also Submits!

I'd pay for that one!

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RE: Masters? Would you consider a sex addict as a submi... - 7/28/2007 2:56:08 PM   
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Status: offline 		Quite honestly, i never gave this too much thought.  Until right this second.  My first reaction/opinion is - i'm not sure how good of a submissive they could be.  Sure, they may be able to go through the motions of being submissive but wouldn't ultimately it be all about them?  Like a crack whore, for instance.

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RE: Masters? Would you consider a sex addict as a submi... - 7/28/2007 2:56:37 PM   
MzMia


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Status: offline 		Hummm, DarkDaddy, I think there are plenty around here.
You have many submissive women, with high sex drives.

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RE: Masters? Would you consider a sex addict as a submi... - 7/28/2007 2:59:29 PM   
MzMia


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Quite honestly, i never gave this too much thought.  Until right this second.  My first reaction/opinion is - i'm not sure how good of a submissive they could be.  Sure, they may be able to go through the motions of being submissive but wouldn't ultimately it be all about them?  Like a crack whore, for instance.


Thank you TRICIA, welcome to the world of the Female Dominants!

Can you imagine the male sex addicts that are on here claiming to be submissive, just
so they can get their rocks off?  **And yes, many that approach me are so desperate they act
like "crack whores".

Well, the shoe can be on the other foot, I just wonder how the Masters deal with it.
I am sure there are PLENTY of women that claim to be submissive, but really just want to be sexual submissives AND are
nymphomaniacs to boot!

Kind of hard to have a real longterm or lasting M/s or D/s relationship, when all they really WANT to submit to are "bedroom" activities, kink and play time!
HARD to get them to cook, wash, or clean I bet!
 

< Message edited by MzMia -- 7/28/2007 3:09:06 PM >

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RE: Masters? Would you consider a sex addict as a submi... - 7/28/2007 3:02:14 PM   
DarkDaddyZ


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Status: offline 		I don't think I've ever asked a potential partner if she was a sex addict. I ask sexual questions though and of course she's gotta be raunchy.  I have my "interests" in certain sexual play when it comes to partners ( for example that she likes fisting etc).  An old friend told me if she likes fistings she likes to do it a lot!

In my experience I'd say that's probably true.

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RE: Masters? Would you consider a sex addict as a submi... - 7/28/2007 3:06:14 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MzMia

Seriously, would you consider a submissive that really was a sex addict?
If she was a great submissive over all, but she had, well that little problem?
 
I know it would be a tough job, but someone would need to take her in, and look
after her.


Some will and some won't. Some will while not understanding how frustrating that condition actually is to have, and how easily it can destroy a relationship.

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RE: Masters? Would you consider a sex addict as a submi... - 7/28/2007 3:13:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		Dear MzMia, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
For my own personal tastes, I would not be attracted to a slave/submissive if their main focus was getting their sexual greed satisfied.  Like any addiction, you're not talking and or dealing with the person but, just the addiction as it becomes the driving force--not the person themselves.  Even the motives/intent behind behaviors and attitudes are skewed because its addition driven.  And, I do not wish to master something that has more power--the addiction.
 
Why and how a person submits to another person in a relationship is very important.  I don't wish a relationship with drugs, alcohol, gambling --and or sex.
 
Just some thoughts.
 
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs
 

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RE: Masters? Would you consider a sex addict as a submi... - 7/28/2007 3:13:44 PM   
CutieMouse


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Status: offline 		Random bit of knowledge (going by memory here)...

Nymphomania is a somewhat "invented" psychological/medical condition, coined in the late 19th century. Women who  experienced orgasm/sexual desire, then went to their doctors to find out "what was wrong with them", were often diagnosed with nymphomania. "Treatment" ranged from drug therapy, to "office visits" (forced orgasm under medical conditions), to lobodomy. Interstingly, around the same time period, the phrase sataryism was also coined; however, it wasn't considered to be nearly as "dangerous" a condition as nymphomania, and brushed off as a "boys will be boys" wink wink, nudge nudge sort of thing.

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RE: Masters? Would you consider a sex addict as a submi... - 7/28/2007 4:46:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		I would think having a submissive that is a sex addict would be fun in the short term.
But not realistic in the long term.
As it has been mentioned, addictions of any kind take away from a relationship with
another person.

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RE: Masters? Would you consider a sex addict as a submi... - 7/28/2007 4:58:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		I think it would be on a case-by-case basis ... addiction in most any form is seldom healthy, there are so many possible variables involved in any given situation ... speaking as a (clean & sober for 20+ years) drug addict, I know the depths and depravities of addiction. I know that had I continued My path, it would have led to My ultimate demise. It would be a fair analogy to compare it with other addictions, sexual as well. I know it sounds a bit like "wanting your cake and eating it too", but all joking aside, it ultimately depends upon the Master.

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RE: Masters? Would you consider a sex addict as a submi... - 7/28/2007 6:29:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		If you read that idiotic link you will be directed to a "survey" that in my experience shows women who will be anything but sexual.  Women who talk about it quite often are the ones who are least interested, at least in the vanilla world.  It is the quite ones who don't have to talk about it that are the hot numbers, the ones who dance naked on the bar tops drunk are the ones who are the LEAST liberated.

Of course, it is in Maxim so we can't expect anything but stupidity regarding women or sex anyway.

For the record, my woman is a nympho and I wouldn't have it any other way.

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