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RE: To be a slave you must suffer, who the hell made th... - 8/2/2007 6:03:53 PM

MadRabbit

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See this is where picking a compatable Master comes in handy, he would never do such things which is one of the reasons I took his collar to begin with, so this would never be an issue or something he would do, just like I wouldnt pick a Master who thought it ok to cut an arm off. if he would do such things I would no longer be with him because we would not be compatable. One of the reasons I want to do anything for him is because he wont have me do things that would harm or truely upset me...

ms

Yes, finding a compatible partner is a good thing.

However, I can meet a potential slave and provide a slave contract that is very specific and detailed regarding what I want and desire and require RIGHT NOW at this time.

What I may want, desire, and require might be absolutely perfect for this slave.

The problem though is human beings have a habit of growing and changing.

The notion that "finding compatible partners" solves everything is a flawed absolute.

I bet I could find a lot of slaves who want to serve, because I order them to watch Buffy the Vampire Slave all day long in silk robes and slippers. But I am not looking for a slave who is my slave because I order them to watch Buffy the Vampire Slave all day long in silk robes and slippers. I am looking for someone who just desires to be my slave and is willing to grow, change and conform to me as my slave.

Finnally...

Your final statement is a contradiction. You are not willing to do anything for him. You are willing to do anything that doesnt harm you or upset you.

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RE: To be a slave you must suffer, who the hell made th... - 8/2/2007 6:12:01 PM

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I want you to Dominate me but let me tell you how I want you to do it. Is that the way it goes in your world ms?

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RE: To be a slave you must suffer, who the hell made th... - 8/2/2007 6:16:23 PM

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The problem though is human beings have a habit of growing and changing.

The notion that "finding compatible partners" solves everything is a flawed absolute.

How can I have the sig line I do and not applaud this! So very well said and, from my perspective and experience, so very true.

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RE: To be a slave you must suffer, who the hell made th... - 8/2/2007 6:20:35 PM

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I know I'm gonna regret this

, but here goes....

MagiksSlave,

Perhaps you just don't understand how dismissive and even insulting your words are to some people here. You may not understand the feelings or the relationship dynamics, but that doesn't make them any less valid than your feelings and your relationship.

Wouldn't you be offended or at least perturbed if one of us started a thread about how lazy and uninspiring masters are who never challenge their slaves or push them out of their comfort zones? Especially if you posted in that thread explaining your and your masters relationship dynamic and feelings - only to have someone pop up and say that your master is immature and weak for not pushing you out of your comfort zone, etc?

There are ways to post questions if one is genuinely interested in learning about someone elses viewpoints or relationships without dismissing them or insulting them in the process. You could have posted, "Because my relationship with master doesn't involve what I consider to be suffering, could those of you who do want or need suffering in your relationships share the reasons and feeling behind it?"

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RE: To be a slave you must suffer, who the hell made th... - 8/2/2007 6:41:53 PM

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I have been reading some of this thread (although admittedly not all, so I apologize if I am being redundant). I haven't seen anyone answering the actual question: who the hell made this rule?!

There is a rule? I haven't heard of this rule.

Personally, I'm a sadist. In my search for a submissive/slave, I seek someone who is either a masochist, or at least derives pleasure and fulfillment from pleasing me by satisfying my sadistic nature. In fact, the later is preferred. However, if it is not consentual, then it is not a relationship, it is abuse.

I have encountered many slaves who are not into pain, and who don't want to experience pain. Some are simply into service, either domestic or sexual. This is what negotiation is for. I don't believe any one should be expected to suffer beyond what they consent to, and if someone consents to something they are not willing to follow through with, then they are simply not being honest, and they can get themselves into a situation they may regret.

Bottom line: there is no rule, only personal preference, and everyone is entitled to their own choices.

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RE: To be a slave you must suffer, who the hell made th... - 8/2/2007 6:46:21 PM

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ORIGINAL: BRNaughtyAngel

Wouldn't you be offended or at least perturbed if one of us started a thread about how lazy and uninspiring masters are who never challenge their slaves or push them out of their comfort zones?

Why should she be offended or perturbed... everyone knows that a Master that doesn't challenge their slaves or push them are lazy and uninspiring........

GEEEEEEEZZZZZZZZZ I thought Everyone knew this one!!! Oh well.. hard to get everyone in line!!! but in time they will all follow the Messiah!

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RE: To be a slave you must suffer, who the hell made th... - 8/2/2007 6:52:24 PM

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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

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ORIGINAL: BRNaughtyAngel

Wouldn't you be offended or at least perturbed if one of us started a thread about how lazy and uninspiring masters are who never challenge their slaves or push them out of their comfort zones?

Why should she be offended or perturbed... everyone knows that a Master that doesn't challenge their slaves or push them are lazy and uninspiring........

GEEEEEEEZZZZZZZZZ I thought Everyone knew this one!!! Oh well.. hard to get everyone in line!!! but in time they will all follow the Messiah!

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RE: To be a slave you must suffer, who the hell made th... - 8/2/2007 6:53:18 PM

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RE: To be a slave you must suffer, who the hell made th... - 8/2/2007 6:55:08 PM

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Origninal EatMeDrinkMe

I want you to Dominate me but let me tell you how I want you to do it. Is that the way it goes in your world ms?

Yes this is it exactly ((rolls her eyes))

OK look just like the other thread was the other persons views on the way he like his relationships to be this was my view.. sorry if some of my wording put a bee in anyones bonet, It wasnt how I ment it and it came across wrong, could we maybe move on??

ms who really hates shareing a PC

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RE: To be a slave you must suffer, who the hell made th... - 8/2/2007 7:02:52 PM

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My apologies if these last few pages of us correcting your horribly erroneous posts and viewpoints has aggrivated you.

We'll just all "move along" now since your tired of being proven wrong.

At least now, you hopefully have some comprehensive of the degree of suffering you have put me threw by having to read your posts to get to the replies by Kyra and Archer I wanted to read.

Have you no soul?

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RE: To be a slave you must suffer, who the hell made th... - 8/2/2007 7:09:13 PM

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ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave

[OK look just like the other thread was the other persons views on the way he like his relationships to be this was my view.. sorry if some of my working put a bee in anyones bonet, could we maybe move on??

mmmmmmmmm well... I do agree that the other person was express his view on how he likes his relationship.

In this thread However, It is more about your judgement of others that choose this particular aspect in their relationship and very little about your own relationship preferences.

and as far as could we move on..... well that depends if you have learned anything and/or what you have actually learned from the beatings you have taken in this thread due to your extremely close-mindedness and negative judgements of others that you know nothing about. Did you learn anything? To be honest... I not so sure you have. I believe you are just hoping that people will get off your back in this thread. Which they likely will. since enough has been said already. However, I would predict that the future will repeat itself.

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RE: To be a slave you must suffer, who the hell made th... - 8/2/2007 7:10:05 PM

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The fish keep giving me more rounds...

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RE: To be a slave you must suffer, who the hell made th... - 8/2/2007 7:10:26 PM

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ORIGINAL: MadRabbit

My apologies if these last few pages of us correcting your horribly erroneous posts and viewpoints has aggrivated you.

We'll just all "move along" now since your tired of being proven wrong.

At least now, you hopefully have some comprehensive of the degree of suffering you have put me threw by having to read your posts to get to the replies by Kyra and Archer I wanted to read.

Have you no soul?

You know you dont wana read my posts that little red hand in the corner of the screan works real well for that, As for beeing proved wrong, well its my opinion and it isnt wrong because opinions are just that opinions. My wording was bad and I understand that which I what I just said in my last post.

ms

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RE: To be a slave you must suffer, who the hell made th... - 8/2/2007 7:17:36 PM

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ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave

You know you dont wana read my posts that little red hand in the corner of the screan works real well for that, As for beeing proved wrong, well its my opinion and it isnt wrong because opinions are just that opinions.

Contrary to what you might think, opinions can be wrong. My Lord has tested me and he is not immature, so I have just proven your opinion wrong.

quote:

My wording was bad and I understand that which I what I just said in my last post, so if you dont like it at this point. Im so glad the three of you where brought together by trying to tear me apart, glad I could do that for all of you.

We were not tearing you apart. We were expressing our opinion on your negative judgments, assumptions and close minded behavior. We all stuck to the topic at hand. You just didn't like our opinions.

Knight's Kyra

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RE: To be a slave you must suffer, who the hell made th... - 8/2/2007 7:20:43 PM

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I will admit I was tearing her apart, but it wasnt because I just dont like her. There was a point to it.

Its actually a small tiny joy in my life when I get to tear threads like this apart.

She is just luckily Faramir didnt find this thread.

Figgerpainting...

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RE: To be a slave you must suffer, who the hell made th... - 8/2/2007 7:21:33 PM

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Im really not going to argue anymore, I didnt mean to come off as judgmental. if i did Im sorry and will pick my wording better in the future, but the only thing i am truely guilty off is wording things wrong which isnt anything that anyone els here hasnt done. Other then that bash on I will no longer partake in that part of this thread. You dont like what I have to say then block my posts its really simple.

Other then that Im really not in the mood for any of this.

ms

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RE: To be a slave you must suffer, who the hell made th... - 8/2/2007 7:31:11 PM

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ORIGINAL: MadRabbit

I will admit I was tearing her apart, but it wasnt because I just dont like her. There was a point to it.

My apologies then. I did not mean to speak for you *s*

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Its actually a small tiny joy in my life when I get to tear threads like this apart.

Is that a hint of sadism I see peaking out? *g*

Knight's Kyra

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RE: To be a slave you must suffer, who the hell made th... - 8/2/2007 7:33:49 PM

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I am so glad to see that you editted this statement

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My wording was bad and I understand that which I what I just said in my last post, so if you dont like it at this point. Im so glad the three of you where brought together by trying to tear me apart, glad I could do that for all of you.

to this

quote:

My wording was bad and I understand that which I what I just said in my last post.

You would be thinking much to high of yourself to think that your poor behavior would unite these three. I would say that they are united more by their intelligent open-minded attitudes than your poor behavior.

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RE: To be a slave you must suffer, who the hell made th... - 8/2/2007 7:42:56 PM

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Is that a hint of sadism I see peaking out? *g*

I'm not sure. I will have to do some interspection to find out if its my sadism or a growing bitter contempt for the forums.

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RE: To be a slave you must suffer, who the hell made th... - 8/2/2007 9:08:33 PM

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Using quick reply:

I don't consider anything he demands of me or uses me for to be suffering. Comfort zone or not, difficult or not, like it or not, the fact remains when he is done I'm still breathing, I'm OK, I still live in relative luxury with a man I adore and worship, there is food in the fridge, we have health insurance, the bills are never overdue, my kiddo gets the best of everything, R takes care of everything, when I leave the Island and to go to work, I work with homeless and mentally ill substance abusers..now they suffer, life for them is not cake and pie...seeing them puts it all in perspective.

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