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ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave

[I dont recall doing any thing if the sort, I refered to that thread because it most closley explained what I was talking about, I did read the entire thing but I wanted to provide a thread on the opposite view, you dont like it ok dont read my threads, you know that little X in the corner of the screen?? Use it!!! I wasnt trying to be judgmental I was simply giveing my opinion, NO where did I say anyone was stupid or bad for haveing a kink, in fact there are many posts here I made saying that it was a kink and that was fine but that it wasnt for me!!! Maybe you are the one that needs to read the entire thread. I am not close minded I just havent seen anything that has changed my mind and well I honestly dont think there is something that will, that doesnt mean Im saying people that like suffering or feel it is nessisery are stupid.  I never one time said that one time, I did say I think testing anothers word is immeture and I still do beleave that, but that is my opinion... Its how I feel, and if you are so up in arms about me feeling that way and saying so what makes you so much better for comeing here and attacking me on it, kinda the pot calling the kettle black....

ms

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ORIGINAL: Archer

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ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave

[I dont recall doing any thing if the sort, I refered to that thread because it most closley explained what I was talking about, I did read the entire thing but I wanted to provide a thread on the opposite view, you dont like it ok dont read my threads, you know that little X in the corner of the screen?? Use it!!! I wasnt trying to be judgmental I was simply giveing my opinion, NO where did I say anyone was stupid or bad for haveing a kink, in fact there are many posts here I made saying that it was a kink and that was fine but that it wasnt for me!!! Maybe you are the one that needs to read the entire thread. I am not close minded I just havent seen anything that has changed my mind and well I honestly dont think there is something that will, that doesnt mean Im saying people that like suffering or feel it is nessisery are stupid.  I never one time said that one time, I did say I think testing anothers word is immeture and I still do beleave that, but that is my opinion... Its how I feel, and if you are so up in arms about me feeling that way and saying so what makes you so much better for comeing here and attacking me on it, kinda the pot calling the kettle black....

ms

Isnt testing rather imature?? If testing is immature as you assert then those who require that knowledge be proven to them are imaature That is the exact evidence that you are being judgemental
I dont think it is apropriate it is manipulative and childish and there is no need for it.

Boiled down to the cruxt you are saying, as Mad Rabbit and I both are reading,

MY WAY is mature and honest, Their way is Childish and dishonest (manipulative)


Your statement: "honestly there is very little chance that anyone will make me think testing another persons word is anything more then a manipulative un trusting game..." Adds further to the judgement that those other people don't have trust and are game players.Again judgemental as hell. (and when several people not just one is telling you that the statement is in fact judgemental it's not time to drop into defense mode it's time to take another real objective look at your statements.) (also holds the idea that your mind is closed on the subject.

So in review Your way is trusting, and mature and anyone who might have the genuine personality that requires proof are just childish immature untrusting game players.
That is the way several folks have been trying through several ages to tell you you have been saying.

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 I am more then happy to have done anything for him

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ORIGINAL: kyraofMists

I didn't have to try and make you look like anything.  You said:

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 I am more then happy to have done anything for him

And yet those two threads demonstrate how inaccurate that statement is.  You were not more than happy to be left alone at a party and you were not more than happy to only give non sexual service for him.

But I guess "anything" means "as long as it is what I want and need".

More than one person has told you how negatively you are posting on this topic and how close minded you are being.  However, I have little doubt that you will steadfastly cling to "it's my opinion and I have a right!"

This is my opinion and guess what?  Through your own twisted logic, I have a right to express it.

Knight's Kyra

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ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave
I would do anything for him weather or not it makes me happy

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ORIGINAL: kyraofMists

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ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave
I would do anything for him weather or not it makes me happy

So you are willing to suffer and be put through tests if that is what he wants?

Or did you mean anything but that?

Knight's Kyra

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ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave
would never do such things which is one of the reasons I took his collar to begin with, so this would never be an issue or something he would do, just like I wouldnt pick a Master who thought it ok to cut an arm off. if he would do such things I would no longer be with him because we would not be compatable. One of the reasons I want to do anything for him is because he wont have me do things that would harm or truely upset me...

ms

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ORIGINAL: SusanofO

Aren't people who truly appreciate the sufferring of other's Sadists? If I got involved with a Sadist (and there are times I have actually contempleted doing it) I'd make sure I knew the were a Sadist before entering the relationship, 'cuz it's the kind of "major philosophy (or at least BDSM actvity) difference, at times, kind of like someone being "Poly or "Monogamous" that can (I beieve) really screw up a relationship if the two peoploe don't knw that about eachother before-hand.

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

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ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave
would never do such things which is one of the reasons I took his collar to begin with, so this would never be an issue or something he would do, just like I wouldnt pick a Master who thought it ok to cut an arm off. if he would do such things I would no longer be with him because we would not be compatable. One of the reasons I want to do anything for him is because he wont have me do things that would harm or truely upset me...

ms

What about the recent dilemma when he disappeared for a few days during his crisis of dominance?  Did he think that was going to make you happy?  He chose to do something that he KNEW would upset you.

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ORIGINAL: Wildfleurs
I don't think you have to be a Sadist to accept that suffering is a bypart of enslaving someone and to be willing to see them through that period of suffering to get your way and have your decision/will upheld.

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ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave
See this is where picking a compatable Master comes in handy, he would never do such things which is one of the reasons I took his collar to begin with, so this would never be an issue or something he would do, just like I wouldnt pick a Master who thought it ok to cut an arm off. if he would do such things I would no longer be with him because we would not be compatable. One of the reasons I want to do anything for him is because he wont have me do things that would harm or truely upset me...

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ORIGINAL: Archer
Scientific minds understand that concept well. Until the hypothisis is in fact tested it is just a hypothisis.
Funny how the idea of the scientific method is being considered imature and childish instead of enlightened.

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No that isnt what it boils down to, what it boils down to is you reading what you want to read into something, It wasnt how I ment it, i was giveing my opinion on it. I dont like testing and i wont be with someone who feels they need to test me. It is my opinion and Im entitled to it.

ms