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RE: Faking Orgasm - 4/26/2007 11:36:02 PM

imthatacheyouhav

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ORIGINAL: NakedOnMyChain

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ORIGINAL: Sinergy
I have only gotten my partner off during intercourse making use of other activities (fingers, power tools, etc) a couple of times, but since I love the hell out of going down on my partner, I figure we can each have our turn.
There is a performance anxiety aspect on trying to get my partner off while I am trying to get myself off which is a
bit unpleasant for me.

Probably sharing too much, but there you go.

Sinergy

I understand exactly. I've never like 69s too much for the same reason. Now I've shared too much and we're even. LOL.

i'm so glad i'm not alone....i MUCH prefer a "68" thats like a 69 but i owe ya one! ....LOL

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RE: Faking Orgasm - 4/27/2007 12:04:37 AM

Vendaval

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IMO, being able to relax and be sensual with your partner(s),
not rushing towards a goal, exploring each other's bodies
and relaxing with a warm bath, massage, some good wine,
etc goes a long way to lowering performance anxiety.
(Don't have too much of the wine or the man may not
be able to perform.)

Setting the mood with lighting and music also alters the mood
and lessens the tensions of everyday life. Fondling, watching
each other masturbate and assisting, using toys and experimenting
with tactile sensations, one person receiving oral attention without
having to respond in kind, etc. Use your minds and your imaginations
to turn yourselves on and connect with each other.

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael
Some people understand that sex isn't a sporting event and that finishing isn't always the goal. As a dominant, I have to take care of my partner who desires to ensure my pleasure. If I have cum to many times or withheld my own orgasm for too long, it just might not happen and sometimes I don't want the focus to be on my pleasure. It isn't something I would do long term and it isn't anything I would be doing with my partner.

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RE: Faking Orgasm - 4/27/2007 4:58:26 AM

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I'm a lucky gal in that I orgasm very easily once I decide in my mind that I want to come. And once I come the first time, the rest just follow easily. I'm able to come from just intercourse and I've come in the past from absolutely no physical stimulation at all other than my brain. I've learned to love the different kinds of orgasms that I have within the same session. Some are extremely intense and some are very mellow and flowing...but they're all good. I don't fake, but I also have no problem with saying that I don't want to come at that time. Sometimes I like to focus on him and having an orgasm isn't needed.

edited to add...I've also noticed that as I've gotten older, my ability to orgasm has gotten even easier. That may have something to do with being extremely comfortable with my body and my mind.

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