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ORIGINAL: beargonewild
Sorry for that icon I posted in response to your comment yesterday camille (on another thread) it was uncalled for.
returning to the scheduled topic of discussion.

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ORIGINAL: ThePrincessBych

lucy, How do you know how much experience I have? Id say nearly 11 yrs in San Fran as a lifestyle domme doesn't make me green or wet behind the ears...and I never said you weren't worthy of sex. I just said that "I did not have sex with my subs"...perhaps if you stopped and thought before you typed and stopped putting words in others mouths, then you wouldn't have so many people coming down on you. Id say at 33 yrs old, I AM grown up...and Im not the one, whining and throwing a tantrum on a message board....Maybe its your tone on here...I dont know, but you keep repeating yourself...over and over, so why not just do what you want and forget about this thread? and to the other poster...just because I dont have sex with my subs doesn't mean I need to get out more, I get out plenty lol. Im in a 24/7 relationship with an equal...that is why I dont have sex with subs,,...well actually I wouldn't anyway..but thats another story....

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ORIGINAL: came4U

where is lucy? in the sky with diamonds?

lucy, sorry if you misunderstood me, son.  Come out to play, sans drama with the 'you are right' routine.  I KNOW I am right lol.  I don't need to be reminded, so keep on trucking. Its your dime.

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ORIGINAL: lucyboy

I'm conceding, I'm wrong you are all right, I have failed to see the subtle nuances and haven't grasped the bigger picture.

I have made sweeping generalisations and tried to tar all Dommes with the same brush, I have been rude, insensitive, pumped up with pride and full of conciet.

I apologise profusely.

Dommes who ask for cash are well within their rights. I see clearly now.

I as a male sub should be pleased that she has even taken the time to write to me.

If I'm not happy with demands for cash I should never complain, I should hold my tongue and in the words of so many of you I should "move on" silently and say nothing.

Dommes are almost always right and if they want cash who am I a mere sub to argue?

Dommes deserve cash just for being Dommes, they put in so much more than any sub ever could (I just failed to realise the effort that goes into being a Domme) subs are usually just a selfish, drain on a Dommes time and energy, monetary compensation is surely a reasonable request.

Anyway if she wants it she should get it. Thats my new motto.

Infact I made the mistake of thinking that I was an equal and could criticise a Dommes behavior, silly me.

Dommes can criticise subs on forums, they have that right, if a sub is not obedient, or is selfish in anyway and a Domme chooses to air her veiws on a forum I (now I have seen the error of my ways) will whole heartedly agree with her.

There is nothing worse than a bad sub.

But for a sub to come on a bdsm forum whining about a Dommes behavior, is a bit pathetic and rude. I see now there is no comparison.

I apologise for my rude, upsetting, arrogant behavior.

I'm wrong

I have just sent her a bundle of cash in the post, I don't care if she replies I'm happy to know my money is going to a better place.

Oh just the thought of her hands touching my cash, it is some sort of connection. I touched that cash now she does. I'm so unworthy and so gratefull that she will accept my money.

I will never criticise a Domme again for as long as I live I thakyou all for teaching me the way of the world and putting me in my place.

Oh how liberated I feel

PS:PrincessBytch is so right, I thank her for taking me down a peg or two. Male subs are unworthy, incapaple, impudent, weak, pathetic and sexualy redundant beings who will never be seen as sexual beings or taken as a partner by any self respecting Domme.

I actually feel good now I have come to terms with my sexual redundacy, I can now commit to offering my domestic services and money to a Dominant woman without pretentions that are well above my station. Thankyou for liberating me PrincessBytch 

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ORIGINAL: MistressCass

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ORIGINAL: lucyboy

I'm conceding, I'm wrong you are all right, I have failed to see the subtle nuances and haven't grasped the bigger picture.

I have made sweeping generalisations and tried to tar all Dommes with the same brush, I have been rude, insensitive, pumped up with pride and full of conciet.

I apologise profusely.

Dommes who ask for cash are well within their rights. I see clearly now.

I as a male sub should be pleased that she has even taken the time to write to me.

If I'm not happy with demands for cash I should never complain, I should hold my tongue and in the words of so many of you I should "move on" silently and say nothing.

Dommes are almost always right and if they want cash who am I a mere sub to argue?

Dommes deserve cash just for being Dommes, they put in so much more than any sub ever could (I just failed to realise the effort that goes into being a Domme) subs are usually just a selfish, drain on a Dommes time and energy, monetary compensation is surely a reasonable request.

Anyway if she wants it she should get it. Thats my new motto.

Infact I made the mistake of thinking that I was an equal and could criticise a Dommes behavior, silly me.

Dommes can criticise subs on forums, they have that right, if a sub is not obedient, or is selfish in anyway and a Domme chooses to air her veiws on a forum I (now I have seen the error of my ways) will whole heartedly agree with her.

There is nothing worse than a bad sub.

But for a sub to come on a bdsm forum whining about a Dommes behavior, is a bit pathetic and rude. I see now there is no comparison.

I apologise for my rude, upsetting, arrogant behavior.

I'm wrong

I have just sent her a bundle of cash in the post, I don't care if she replies I'm happy to know my money is going to a better place.

Oh just the thought of her hands touching my cash, it is some sort of connection. I touched that cash now she does. I'm so unworthy and so gratefull that she will accept my money.

I will never criticise a Domme again for as long as I live I thakyou all for teaching me the way of the world and putting me in my place.

Oh how liberated I feel

PS:PrincessBytch is so right, I thank her for taking me down a peg or two. Male subs are unworthy, incapaple, impudent, weak, pathetic and sexualy redundant beings who will never be seen as sexual beings or taken as a partner by any self respecting Domme.

I actually feel good now I have come to terms with my sexual redundacy, I can now commit to offering my domestic services and money to a Dominant woman without pretentions that are well above my station. Thankyou for liberating me PrincessBytch 

I didn't read the whole tongue in cheek, insincere whine......but the bottom line is YOU DON"T GET IT......

Ok....that was enough of my time.....

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ORIGINAL: lucyboy

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ORIGINAL: MistressCass

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I didn't read the whole tongue in cheek, insincere whine......but the bottom line is YOU DON"T GET IT......

Ok....that was enough of my time.....

Lucyboy blows a raspberry at MistressCass. You're brief interlude in this conversation sure seems whingy, me thinks you are the queen of the whingers, you just don't know it I don't get what??

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ORIGINAL: earthycouple

MistressCass...

I don't get it, can you explain it again...typing slower, please? Thank you in advance

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ORIGINAL: MistressCass

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ORIGINAL: lucyboy

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ORIGINAL: MistressCass

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I didn't read the whole tongue in cheek, insincere whine......but the bottom line is YOU DON"T GET IT......

Ok....that was enough of my time.....

Lucyboy blows a raspberry at MistressCass. You're brief interlude in this conversation sure seems whingy, me thinks you are the queen of the whingers, you just don't know it I don't get what??

WHOOOO HOOOOO someone finally said something nasty to me.....ok....kinda nasty......see see.....I am a real Domme....I can piss subs off......oh wait.....oh never mind.....LOL

PS....you don't get that this topic has been over done in like sooooo many forums all over the net....and every time it comes up whoever subjects us to the conversation again gets bashed.......cuz there is no universal resolution.....If you don't want to send money, DELETE the email or block the profile.....it's just that easy.....Get it?

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ORIGINAL: lucyboy

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ORIGINAL: MistressCass

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ORIGINAL: lucyboy

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ORIGINAL: MistressCass

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I didn't read the whole tongue in cheek, insincere whine......but the bottom line is YOU DON"T GET IT......

Ok....that was enough of my time.....

Lucyboy blows a raspberry at MistressCass. You're brief interlude in this conversation sure seems whingy, me thinks you are the queen of the whingers, you just don't know it I don't get what??

WHOOOO HOOOOO someone finally said something nasty to me.....ok....kinda nasty......see see.....I am a real Domme....I can piss subs off......oh wait.....oh never mind.....LOL

PS....you don't get that this topic has been over done in like sooooo many forums all over the net....and every time it comes up whoever subjects us to the conversation again gets bashed.......cuz there is no universal resolution.....If you don't want to send money, DELETE the email or block the profile.....it's just that easy.....Get it?

Oh I see what you are all saying is this topic is kind of taboo and it is an unoficial no no to raise this subject in polite company because most people will defend a Dommes right to demand cash no matter what?

I understand now, why didn't anyone say so instead of going on about my tone?

PS:Why do people who raise this subject get bashed? Because you all find it boring or because it is a taboo subject? Please explain, I'm genuinly interested.

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ORIGINAL: came4U

lucy, c'mere n sit my lap and listen k?

no wigglin, I am not a Domme lol.

now, the point is why not just put in your profile that you will not give any tributes or gifts to a Femme and make that clear.  Problem solved.

now, be a good boy and get mamma a rope to tie your hands so you can't reach the keyboard.

gulps.