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RE: Proper Manners from a sub to a Dom/me. - 8/9/2007 2:58:42 PM   
Jeffff


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Status: offline 		I find it odd, that it takes this many pages to talk about manners. A persons, "role" has nothing to do with ommon courtesy. Good manners are simply that.

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RE: Proper Manners from a sub to a Dom/me. - 8/9/2007 3:01:50 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		I kinda think that might be the general consensus.........hense the babbling.....

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RE: Proper Manners from a sub to a Dom/me. - 8/9/2007 3:27:26 PM   
BossyShoeBitch


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quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy

Killing someone with kindness takes a whole lot of work....Sometimes it is simply easier and less painful for everyone involved if you just simply kill them.

OMG!  I thought I was the only one who was thinking that!
You just gotta love domiguy for those simple truths he tells.

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RE: Proper Manners from a sub to a Dom/me. - 8/9/2007 5:14:32 PM   
UR2Badored


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Status: offline 		Hey guys, I found a no-lip slave with proper manners to share with all the unsatisfied Tops on Cm..........for those who dont want the dynamics of a real person (that we will mendaciously call "fake" or "wannabes)..........The only problem is that this sub is VERY, very poultry um eh poly.

http://www.subservientchicken.com/   <--perfection awaits

Pardon  the ever redundant return of the chicken, but I just get a kick out of him.

< Message edited by UR2Badored -- 8/9/2007 5:40:05 PM >

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RE: Proper Manners from a sub to a Dom/me. - 8/9/2007 5:17:35 PM   
camille65


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ha ha ha ha ha!

edit/addition:
omg I typed in, chicken dance, chicken yoga then chicken sex hahahahahahaha. oooooooh I like this one!

< Message edited by camille65 -- 8/9/2007 5:20:11 PM >

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RE: Proper Manners from a sub to a Dom/me. - 8/9/2007 5:28:38 PM   
LATEXBABY64


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quote:

ORIGINAL: camille65



ha ha ha ha ha!

edit/addition:
omg I typed in, chicken dance, chicken yoga then chicken sex hahahahahahaha. oooooooh I like this one!


ok i have to ask what is chicken sex or do  i want to know lol

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RE: Proper Manners from a sub to a Dom/me. - 8/9/2007 5:33:44 PM   
camille65


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Status: offline 		Hmmm from Mz Manners to chicken sex.... all in one thread.

Go click (or is that cluck) on the link and type it in! I have to admit after watching the chicken for awhile I think I'm afraid of him. It. Him?

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RE: Proper Manners from a sub to a Dom/me. - 8/9/2007 5:34:37 PM   
AquaticSub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MissSCD

You do not have to submit to another Dom/me, but you should show respect for them as we do their sub/slaves.
 
Regards, MissSCD


Respect is earned. You, as a individual dominant or mistress, have done nothing to earn my respect. To give a blanket respect to anyone who bothered to put a capital D on dominant or tacked Master in front in their name would be disrespectful to those who have actually earned my respect.

I owe you nothing above the common curtsey that I give any old person on the street and depending on the behavior you demonstrate I may not give you that.

Even to consider what you say would be to disobey my owner, who has earned my respect and my loyalty, as he also feels that respect is earned. So... no fucking way lady.

Best wishes,
Aqua

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RE: Proper Manners from a sub to a Dom/me. - 8/9/2007 5:41:43 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MissSCD

There is no possible way to reason with idiots.  I have tried to do this with this site for a long time, and you all want to do is attack a simple statement. 
I do not care if you like me or not, but leave my slave out of it.  He has nothing to do with this.
You all need to check on your manners because most of you are some where in left field and I don't want to waste my time on a bunch of losers.

Regards, MissSCD


Your statement: I should respect just because you are a mistress.

My response: Why? What's so special about that? If you want me to respect you do something worth respecting. Anyone can wield a whip, nothing special about that. Anyone can humilate people. Nothing special about that. I respect a quite a few of the dominants on here but it has nothing to do with the fact that they are dominant.

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RE: Proper Manners from a sub to a Dom/me. - 8/9/2007 5:46:07 PM   
LATEXBABY64


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Status: offline 		this is like the chicken heart that ate ny or something

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RE: Proper Manners from a sub to a Dom/me. - 8/9/2007 7:01:55 PM   
Viridana


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MissSCD

There is no possible way to reason with idiots.  I have tried to do this with this site for a long time, and you all want to do is attack a simple statement. 
I do not care if you like me or not, but leave my slave out of it.  He has nothing to do with this.
You all need to check on your manners because most of you are some where in left field and I don't want to waste my time on a bunch of losers.

Regards, MissSCD


Thank you sincerely for calling me an idiot and a loser for asking you perfectly respectfully where switches are positioned in your manners category.

You obviously are the epitomy of courtesy and manners, to be praised and followed. Good luck to you and have a nice day.

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RE: Proper Manners from a sub to a Dom/me. - 8/9/2007 7:54:57 PM   
umisprite


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Status: offline 		I have total respect for the dude who makes that chicken do everything we tell him to do. Now there's a respectful piece of submissive poultry.

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RE: Proper Manners from a sub to a Dom/me. - 8/9/2007 8:19:51 PM   
domiguy


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quote:

ORIGINAL: UR2Badored

Hey guys, I found a no-lip slave with proper manners to share with all the unsatisfied Tops on Cm..........for those who dont want the dynamics of a real person (that we will mendaciously call "fake" or "wannabes)..........The only problem is that this sub is VERY, very poultry um eh poly.

http://www.subservientchicken.com/   <--perfection awaits

Pardon  the ever redundant return of the chicken, but I just get a kick out of him.


I told the chicken to "fuck off" ...he didn't like that too much...He shook his finger at me....lol.

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RE: Proper Manners from a sub to a Dom/me. - 8/9/2007 8:25:47 PM   
daddysliloneds


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Status: offline 		now that's funny; thanks for the laugh!


quote:

ORIGINAL: MissSCD

Greetings everyone:
 
I am curious.  From the very first day I started training with a Mentor, he taught me proper manners, and how I should act towards a Dom/me.  That was very important to him.  It is important to me now that I am a Mistress.
I cannot believe the conduct that goes on in the chat rooms here on CollarMe.   It is like the sub/slaves are downright abusive to a Dom/me at times, and that should not be allowed by a moderator, nor another Dom/me.
Sub/slaves please be aware that when you address a Dom/me to be polite and never curse at them.  This is very wrong.
You do not have to submit to another Dom/me, but you should show respect for them as we do their sub/slaves.
 
Regards, MissSCD

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RE: Proper Manners from a sub to a Dom/me. - 8/9/2007 8:29:17 PM   
MzStormD


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Status: offline 		ok that chicken cant be a "twue" subby, he only kneels on 1 knee!



MzStormD

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RE: Proper Manners from a sub to a Dom/me. - 8/9/2007 8:59:08 PM   
thetammyjo


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SmokingGun82

TammyJo,

Of course I understand why it would rub someone the wrong way... and it's something that, if I know someone is going to introduce themselves as Master Whatever, I can dutifully smile, shake their hand, and all that fun stuff. But if someone catches me offguard, or demands that I call them Master/Mistress... as one or two have... well, at that point it's a flat-out laugh.

And I'd expect others to do the same if I started introducing myself as Lord Master King Emperor Mike. :)



Trust me, I've been there and had to choke down the giggles myself.

I'm a sarcastic person (in case no one noticed) so I tend to do the raising eyebrows and cocking my head to one side pointedly response. If the person is insistent about a title then I might purposely and a bit more loudly than necessity just call them by their name myself when I feel it is all too silly. If don't work, I walk away. Lots of people in this world I don't need to be friends with everyone, do I?

I take my Ds and my SM seriously, I'm a huge consent freak and I bloody opinionated, but as I am with those things so are some folks with titles. I can only hope that they will accept general politeness from me and mine because we will be polite even if it means walking away rather than continue to offend but refusing to use title.

< Message edited by thetammyjo -- 8/9/2007 9:00:57 PM >

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RE: Proper Manners from a sub to a Dom/me. - 8/9/2007 9:28:43 PM   
umisprite


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MzStormD
ok that chicken cant be a "twue" subby, he only kneels on 1 knee!
MzStormD


Perhaps he misunderstood and thought you told him to genuflect?

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RE: Proper Manners from a sub to a Dom/me. - 8/10/2007 4:52:15 AM   
interestingtimes


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Status: offline 		I am a little puzzeled, manners are important and i have to problems with "sir" or "ma'am" ..tho some seem to preffer title's like goddess and such, im reluctant to use words like that...as to me it implies familiarity.
And I get annoyed <g> with terms like "pet" for subs esp in conversation with me..as unless I have a personel relationship with them, it's disrespectful as well...as I have a name as they do...


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RE: Proper Manners from a sub to a Dom/me. - 8/10/2007 5:05:10 AM   
AquaticSub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: umisprite

quote:

ORIGINAL: MzStormD
ok that chicken cant be a "twue" subby, he only kneels on 1 knee!
MzStormD


Perhaps he misunderstood and thought you told him to genuflect?


Tish tosh, don't you know? Twue subs never misunderstand orders because they are mind readers!

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Without my dominance you cannot submit. Without your submission I cannot dominate. You are my equal in this, though our roles are different.-Val

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RE: Proper Manners from a sub to a Dom/me. - 8/10/2007 7:28:32 AM   
Jeffff


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Status: offline 		 That was great...:), but I stll have trouble clicking the.."submit" button.......go figure lol

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