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RE: Proper Manners from a sub to a Dom/me. - 8/14/2007 4:16:18 AM

Twicehappy2x

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Respect is earned. You, as a individual dominant or mistress, have done nothing to earn my respect. To give a blanket respect to anyone who bothered to put a capital D on dominant or tacked Master in front in their name would be disrespectful to those who have actually earned my respect.

I owe you nothing above the common curtsey that I give any old person on the street and depending on the behavior you demonstrate I may not give you that.

Damn, i wish i had read this a few days ago.

We had company last week, a M/s couple that have been online friends with Jewel for quite a few years. They were very nice folks, pretty high protocal type though. But when i was joking about something stupid at which point the Dom part of the couple attempted to give me his best sideways evil "you, a slave, teasing me" dirty domly look. I almost lost it, it took all i could do not to just start laughing.

If i had seen this i may have repeated it too him instead.

Displaying common courtesy, well i am Southern so i always do. No i do not Sir and Ma'am anybody, it is always hon or something like that. In the south even the cops are just hon.

Anybody who visits here is treated kindly, fed well, kept comfortable. I am even one of those people who inquires about prospective company's special dietary needs, allergies to anything like soap, perfume etc so i can insure they have a comfortable visit.

But i give those titles to no one but my One/ones. And those evil domly looks are about as scary to me as those big bad ass biker looks(though i'll admit Scooter can give me some looks that make me cry). The fact that he required high protocal from his slave is fine but to expect me to act like her(quiet, not teasing for fear of giving offense, serving another domly type) well......Honestly i felt like i should have been wearing my favorite new tee shirt that reads "No, i am not drunk, i am always loud, friendly and clumsy" just so they knew what to expect.

< Message edited by Twicehappy2x -- 8/14/2007 5:10:06 AM >

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RE: Proper Manners from a sub to a Dom/me. - 8/14/2007 5:52:20 AM

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I wish we had a little counter we could look up to see how many people have blocked us....that would rather twink me some; I think, to see how big my number was.

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Lol I think my numbers might be bigger then your's. Remember I did go though that period pissing everyone off.

To the op. Your an absolute dickhead and thats putting in nicely. You do not own the world so only your direct submissive needs to suck up to you by calling you an offical name. The only people you need to suck upto is the mods in the chatrooms or on here ( I wub you mod11).

What makes you so good to be deserved to be called Miss or something like that? As far as i'm concerned your a fake domme as the real dommes would have enough respect for the submissives not to have them cal you miss etc when you do not own them. I guess were found another fake domme to go with the fake subs. Yay

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RE: Proper Manners from a sub to a Dom/me. - 8/14/2007 6:38:31 AM

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whatttt the topic?? can't read nuffin, i must have all of you blocked.

what all the fuss about?

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RE: Proper Manners from a sub to a Dom/me. - 8/14/2007 7:00:03 AM

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ORIGINAL: Twicehappy2x

The fact that he required high protocal from his slave is fine but to expect me to act like her(quiet, not teasing for fear of giving offense, serving another domly type) well......Honestly i felt like i should have been wearing my favorite new tee shirt that reads "No, i am not drunk, i am always loud, friendly and clumsy" just so they knew what to expect.

I need that shirt too. I haven't quite gotten the "dirty look" yet, fortunately.

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RE: Proper Manners from a sub to a Dom/me. - 8/14/2007 7:49:41 AM

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I need that shirt too. I haven't quite gotten the "dirty look" yet, fortunately.

Lol, Jewel's daughter picked it up for me in Florida, i'll have to ask her where she bought it from.

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RE: Proper Manners from a sub to a Dom/me. - 8/14/2007 3:12:22 PM

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Dear MissSCD, Ladies and Gentlemen,

Being a product of the 1950's, manners and or behaviors in private and or public was vastly different from what is considered as manners and or behaviors today.

That said, manners and behavior is a physical practice. I see it as practicing sitting to a formal dinner. If there aren't venues to where expectations of manners and behavior to be practiced; then it is easy to let things 'slip' if you will. My cousins' children are not as well mannered as my generation and, my parents had the same gripe with us as children. Perhaps the real problem is we're getting old and the newer generation is seen as lacking in so many ways.

Furthermore, as a human being in a sea of society, I have an understanding that I cannot control others but, I can control myself. I can only affect those around me by showing respect as well as giving respect--even to those who do not deserve it or want it. By behaving with kindness and great thought before one speaks or acts; I do find I can influence other's behaviors and manners because I give them a safe place to express them. Not everybody has had the advantages to attend formal dinners on a monthly basis, sometime more a month. It was hard at first but as I was exposed to formal dinners and teas in a normal basis--it became easier for me. The best kindness I can extend to those who haven't had experiences around good manners and or behavior--is to be a good example and inspire others to change on their own terms--not based on my 'say-so' alone.

Just some thoughts.

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RE: Proper Manners from a sub to a Dom/me. - 8/14/2007 3:43:31 PM

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Reminds me of the movie Annie
~in my best Carol Burnett outraged voice~
“Do I hear………laughter???”

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