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Looks or Personality? - 8/9/2007 1:41:38 PM   
BIllCT


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How many people have to have the person who looks like Marilyn Monroe or Rock Hudsn for a partner?
 
I think the hell with looks within reason now I mean of course, but, personality, a sense of humor, intelligence, and neat and clean is what I like.
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RE: Looks or Personality? - 8/9/2007 1:43:48 PM   
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Then go and find your happiness.  Everyone gets to have whatever standards they want to have- you have yours, now good luck finding it.


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RE: Looks or Personality? - 8/9/2007 1:44:44 PM   
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Looks or Personality?


Yes.

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RE: Looks or Personality? - 8/9/2007 1:46:33 PM   
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I go for personality too I’m so PC I am. Mind you I have built my house with small doors so that only thin women can get in the place.

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RE: Looks or Personality? - 8/9/2007 1:47:28 PM   
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I wanted it all.
I wouldn't settle.
Look where I am now...
 
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RE: Looks or Personality? - 8/9/2007 1:48:47 PM   
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I personally would look for someone a little more lively than them two, op.

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RE: Looks or Personality? - 8/9/2007 1:51:18 PM   
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More power to ya, man.

Myself, I recognize to what degree that I am shallow. If I am just flat out not attracted to someone... no amount of personality is going to change that.

Similarly, a bad attitude can make a very physically attractive outright repulsive to me, though I suppose that might be where gags come in handy.

Intelligence, personality, etc can turn someone that I would neither particularly notice or be repulsed by (just looking at them) into someone I find drool worthy.

It's all a matter of perspective and context I guess.

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RE: Looks or Personality? - 8/9/2007 1:51:25 PM   
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Why do people assume that if someone is really good looking then their personality is awful?  My goal in searching was to find the best looking person I could snag who had the personality that I liked.  Why is there a need to choose either/or when there are many out there who have both qualities.

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RE: Looks or Personality? - 8/9/2007 1:51:40 PM   
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Ya never know Ron.... 'alive' might not be his thang...
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RE: Looks or Personality? - 8/9/2007 2:02:20 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Aileen68

Why do people assume that if someone is really good looking then their personality is awful? 


Thats easy. Ans. If you are ugly you have to work more on your personality to get people to like you where as attractive people are liked from the outset by society and so take their personality for granted.

I submit to you the case of Joan Rivers who was once attractive lost that and now has her nasty vindictive personality to fall back on. QED bla bla.

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RE: Looks or Personality? - 8/9/2007 2:03:59 PM   
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Oh hell, I want it ALL!

Colour me bad.......


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RE: Looks or Personality? - 8/9/2007 2:04:08 PM   
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I disagree.  I know a lot of good looking people who are great people. 

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RE: Looks or Personality? - 8/9/2007 2:04:37 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

I wanted it all.
I wouldn't settle.
Look where I am now...
 
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Errm in the dark? I mean errrm in shaddows.

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RE: Looks or Personality? - 8/9/2007 2:08:45 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Aileen68

I disagree.  I know a lot of good looking people who are great people. 


You mean to tell me my in depth research and stereotyping is wrong? Bugger.

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RE: Looks or Personality? - 8/9/2007 2:10:04 PM   
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Hahahahaha

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RE: Looks or Personality? - 8/9/2007 2:10:14 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Aileen68

Why do people assume that if someone is really good looking then their personality is awful?  My goal in searching was to find the best looking person I could snag who had the personality that I liked.  Why is there a need to choose either/or when there are many out there who have both qualities.


Exactly. One can be a babe and have a personality that rocks . Even better: one can be a babe, have a personality that rocks AND be stupendously spiritually enlightened. Even even better: one can be all those things and rule at going down.

PS: sluurrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrp.

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RE: Looks or Personality? - 8/9/2007 2:15:29 PM   
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To the men....if a woman was ugly as a mud fence, but gave the best, deep-throating, cumsucking head you'd ever had, would you keep her? 

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RE: Looks or Personality? - 8/9/2007 2:21:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: windchymes

To the men....if a woman was ugly as a mud fence, but gave the best, deep-throating, cumsucking head you'd ever had, would you keep her


in the dark.

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RE: Looks or Personality? - 8/9/2007 2:22:37 PM   
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Heh.
Your new Domme:

sounds like Lauren Hutton looks like Betty White

or looks like Ava Gardner sounds like Fran Drescher.

I pick A. It's what hoods were made for.

As for the actual question I don't settle when it comes to getting it on with someone. Slaves can't be repulsive, but don't have to awaken my animal attraction to the same degree.


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RE: Looks or Personality? - 8/9/2007 2:59:23 PM   
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looks first personality later....for me at least. I lucked out too so :)

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