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Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 1:37:58 PM

MHOO314

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Ok, I find blowjobs to be very submissive acts ( NOTE: I am not demeaning those that do, it is an art and a talent to do it well...)-as a Domina, there is no way in hell I am going to suck cock, drink or lick cum--and if you think humiliation to you submissives is doing so, pfffttttt, My idea of humiliation is making you shoot off in a fish pond---so where did submissive males get the idea that Dominas give blowjobs to "control the boys"?? I cannot tell you how many petitions I have gotten that say, Mistress will, or Mommy will as a means of humiliation---one too many xxx mags guys.

Ladies??

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 1:40:02 PM

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I have not had any dare to ask me this.
Knock on wood, so far anyway.

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 1:42:08 PM

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I think its a matter of taste. you dont. thats fine for you. Madame "X" does. that is fine for her.

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 1:47:10 PM

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Some do.
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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 1:47:23 PM

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What I do with my submissive is my business.
That is not the issue here.
The issue is men off the internet approaching Dominant's as if they are
cheap whores.

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 1:49:36 PM

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"Behave yourself or I'll give you a blow job!"

Yeah, there's a threat. ::laughs:: No wonder there are so many threads with guys complaining they can't find a dom! It's not that there aren't enough dominants to go around.. it's that they all have TMJ!

Hope your back is all better, MHO and thanks for the giggles.

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 1:51:38 PM

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I don't get bombarded with that assumption.

I'm not morally opposed, just highly selective. I'd be just as pissed off by someone who decided my Dominant card gets pulled because I involved my mouth with some marital CBT action.

Maybe my outlook is informed by being bi - among queer women the butch/do-er who is not "done" is assigned the power role, often incorrectly, but...

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 1:54:33 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

"Behave yourself or I'll give you a blow job!"

I havent been behaving

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 1:55:22 PM

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Bita, this place gets crazier and crazier, but I enjoy it here.
I am sure the male Dominant's get asked this all the time also.
The more you read the posts here, you can understand why so many
women here are approached and treated so poorly.
I am sure a man emailing a Dominant asking if she gives blow jobs, is the
purrfect submissive!

< Message edited by LadyIce -- 8/18/2007 1:56:59 PM >

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 1:55:57 PM

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i think i am way off the point but just wanted to say that as a submissive i never actually enjoyed giving head...it was a chore that i did to the best of my ability becaused it pleased the one i was with...i never got into the cock crave that i had read about...until recently...since being with the One i am currently with i find that i think of it constantly...when i am with Him i cannot wait until He is in my mouth...i no longer find it a necessary duty but something i cannot get enough of...i cannot explain the change but it is something inside that has defionately been stirred up..again sorry for deverting from the original post

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 1:56:44 PM

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we aleardy had a thread on Ho s leagleized prositution lol

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 1:58:34 PM

LadyIce

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I needed a few laughs today.
Ho's make a line on the right.
I am waiting for the male Dominants to inform us how
often they get this request, from strange women.

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 1:59:01 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Phin

quote:

ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

"Behave yourself or I'll give you a blow job!"

I havent been behaving

Man, give a guy a straight line....

Celeste

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 1:59:09 PM

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quote:

so where did submissive males get the idea that Dominas give blowjobs to "control the boys"??

I don't give blowjobs to control anyone... Frankly I don't spank for that reason either. I give blowjobs to my male sub/slave because I enjoy a beautiful cock in my mouth. Ironically, the couple I've had intimate relationships with have been massively uncomfortable with it, and I've done it as an almost forced activity, because they say domina's don't, and no one tells me what I will or will not do to my property, lmao. M

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 1:59:57 PM

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I always come back to this topic lmao...................If it's a chore........i don't know.......I find it to be the most or one of the most intimate things to do, and not much experience, but I think it is a wonderful way to say "I accept all of you as you wish". Works for me! :)

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 2:01:46 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

Man, give a guy a straight line....

Celeste

I am just glad that you took it the way it was meant...

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 2:02:51 PM

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I'm sure that the male Dominants get their share of outlandish BS. And I'm also sure that the guys messaging femsubs to see if they blow are ideal Dominants.

Horny people on net come in all flavors. I no longer see it as an affront to my ladyhood, more a fact of the internets. Delete key rocks.

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 2:06:39 PM

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I'm seriously trying to wrap my brain around this because I've never heard of it before. Receiving blow jobs as a humiliation, I mean, it truly boggles my mind so I just went upstairs and asked Michael about it and he pointed out that submissive males with ED or some other sort of dysfunction might very well find that a blow job would be humiliating.

My bad and I apologize for my laughter and initial reaction. It was thoughtless.

Celeste

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 2:10:05 PM

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I think it really depends on how you look at it. If you see it as servicing someone by giving them an orgasm without having one yourself, it's submissive. If you see it as controlling another person by manipulating their body to the point of orgasm, it's dominant.

One of my ex's favorite things to do was tie me down to the bed, arms and legs spread, and go down on me until I went insane. He didn't see it as submissive at all - he had my body at his mercy and was controlling it like a marionette. And personally every time I go down on a guy and make him cum I feel like a goddess...because I am seductive, beautiful, and talented enough to bring him to orgasm using just my mouth. Even making a guy hard makes me feel hot.

If it's not something that you enjoy, don't do it, but an act itself is usually neutral - it's the perspective and context that matters. I mean come on, even flogging somebody could be considered a submissive act if a Dom/me tells their sub "Pick up that flogger you little slut and use it on me. Harder, bitch, are your biceps made of jello?"

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 2:16:29 PM

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Ok, I find blowjobs to be very submissive acts

I've never viewed that as a "submissive act", but more as mutual sexual pleasure. Been giving Hubby bjs for over 35 years, way before we discovered D/s.

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