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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 2:16:47 PM

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I have never thought about it as a controlling thing, only if he requests, well, am going to do my best :) :)

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 2:17:49 PM

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Female Dominant's sucking cocks?
This is better than a good fat thread!
I estimate this thread goes 10 pages.

#1 with a bullet!

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 2:18:40 PM

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I can understand being annoyed by wankers who write with specific scripts as to how they will be subjugated and humiliated...
I am equally baffled by dominas who think phucking or sucking their submissives is wrong/makes them not dominant. I won't ask because I know there are many ways to achieve what one desires, but for myself, if I had no major attraction to the specific acts of phucking/sucking cock, I would most definitely not be interested in dominating men. M

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 2:48:48 PM

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I can see how it can be seen as submissive but i can think of a number of ways it is a dominant act.

-If the sub is told he is not allowed to orgasm (used in chastity play a lot) or not allowed to before a time limit or he has given his domme one.

-Something in the dommes mouth like an ice cube or hot drink.

-If the sub knows that once he has come she will give it back to him.

-If it is something she wants and takes whenever she likes because its something she enjoys.

I cant see it ever being humiliating really though its more of a reward.

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 3:12:06 PM

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More and more I am considering a sexual relationship with a male submissive, and when I do, blowjobs will certainly be part of it. Because I like giving blow jobs. Whether they will be part of power exchange or just intimate play, I would involve them either way.
However, I can understand having a "sub" tell me that I will do them and when in a petitiion or other document would be a guarantee that they would NOT happen.

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 3:19:28 PM

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I see it more as another example of how people from the outside still have no clue what happens in these types of relationships but come into the dynamic believing it to be something they saw happen in a porno they watched once. I think everyone that starts out is guilty of this. I can't tell you how long I waited in my first submissive relationship where I finally gave up on waiting for the midget on the unicycle to show up during sex.

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 3:44:04 PM

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i wise woman once told me that a man can not give a woman any greater compliment then getting an errection...i guess this works on both the dominant and the submissive sides

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 4:13:26 PM

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wow ..the things one can learn reading the posts on CM.......I did not know that Domme/Mistress did not give head...bjs...
or thought of it as "below" their roles or too submissive an act....
very interesting..
if that is the case then it makes me think about :
Dominants that have no problem making their submissives cum by going down on her...never heard of one saying that was "too submissive an act" ..< altho granted> I havent talked to every dominant in the universe ..

and, personally, I do not feel or think that giving head is humiliating...or degrading....or requested ( actually more correctly I am given permission to) to do it in order to make me feel humiliated...its quite empowering for both of us, cum to think of it.........sorry..couldnt resist...

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 4:53:48 PM

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blowjobs are wonderful not matter what you want to call them.

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 4:58:54 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MHOO314

Ok, I find blowjobs to be very submissive acts ( NOTE: I am not demeaning those that do, it is an art and a talent to do it well...)-as a Domina, there is no way in hell I am going to suck cock, drink or lick cum--and if you think humiliation to you submissives is doing so, pfffttttt, My idea of humiliation is making you shoot off in a fish pond---so where did submissive males get the idea that Dominas give blowjobs to "control the boys"?? I cannot tell you how many petitions I have gotten that say, Mistress will, or Mommy will as a means of humiliation---one too many xxx mags guys.

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 5:08:02 PM

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When I get the "do you suck cock" emails, I reply "no, but you can if you like".

I have no interest in giving blow jobs for personal reasons, but if it tickles your pickle, go for it.

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 5:12:08 PM

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as i submissive i love to please my Dom in any way possible.
if after a long hard day at work, he desires a blow-job to help him relax;
i will do my best to please him.
i don't find it degrading or humiliating, to me it's always an honour to serve and please my Dom.

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 5:17:59 PM

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To Mistress Hathor

That is insulting to a Domina if a boy assumes he would be honored with oral sex. This slave could never expect Mistress to proform a service act unbelieable. I apologize for my brother submissives wrong ideas.

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 5:30:20 PM

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Uff Da!!!! Now I feel dirty.

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 5:31:05 PM

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Oh dear heavens.

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 5:35:37 PM

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I hear that - I do not mean to say anyone is doing anything wrong. I just would not assume a Domina owes me a BJ.

It is up to her.

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 6:04:08 PM

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well no one has ever had the audacity to ask me for a blowjob-I must admit performing the act gets me VERY excited, especially when I bite as hard as possible on the shaft, feeling my teeth only inches away and pull on his balls hard with my hands, yummy. I have seen my fair share of men get erect from giving oral sex to a woman, subs and Doms, so why not admit it excites us also? That act, the sucking of cock, is only for my sex slave and while he loves it, I think it may excite me even more. There are some subjects we should not overthink if they give us pleasure........

I am a porn addict-saw domina give a man a blow job while punching his balls- I HAD to try this and it was as fun as it looked!

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 6:14:02 PM

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MH,

i'm not understanding why it's such a bad thing to suck a guys cock, a person's "station" really doesn't have anything to do with it. I think it's personally a beautiful thing that can be shared romanticly or not, just think of the satisfaction you could get by teasing him forever and a day before you let him shoot off.

Ok I cant believe I just said that because that's not at all the way I talk but you get the point.

For me it's not necessarily about pleasing my Owner, it's about the satisfaction, and the need involved. So do you deny your sub sexual release, or do you allow him to release that "energy" in other sexual ways?

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 6:20:55 PM

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Girl,

blowjobs are just a normal sexual act that many gals, subs and nilla do because it validates their sexuality, now getting into mouthfucks, thats another story / grins

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 6:22:30 PM

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I don't think sucking cock is a degrading act.
It is the fact that some men approach women on here asking
if they give blow jobs.
It is disrespectful really whether they are Dominant or submissive.
It does not sound like they are looking for a Dominant or a submissive, they are
looking for a cock sucker.

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