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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 6:26:52 PM   
meticulousgirl


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Status: offline 		i happen to like sucking cock, as long as i know the guys hygene is above the top.

i dont see it as submissive, i just see it as something guys in general like to have done, it's like a need for them, and in many cases they are like little kids throwing a tantrum when they dont get it (in their own little way of course) we all know the saying guys think with their dicks......it's true and this is proof of it...lol

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RE: Honey, this Babe don't suck - 8/18/2007 6:28:55 PM   
sweetnurseBBW


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Status: offline 		Personally I don't find a sexual act itself as submissive or dominant. I think the context in which it is done it makes it submissive or dominant not the actual sexual act itself.

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RE: Honey, this Babe don't suck - 8/18/2007 6:31:30 PM   
meticulousgirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sweetnurseBBW

Personally I don't find a sexual act itself as submissive or dominant. I think the context in which it is done it makes it submissive or dominant not the actual sexual act itself.


That is a great point sweet....I agree 100%

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 7:07:51 PM   
feastie


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A blow job can be anything you want it to be.  It's all in the the approach to it, not the act itself.  To dismiss it as something that a dominant person should not do with a submissive partner is extremely limiting.  To be honest about the desire for having one, regardless of orientation, is an important and intimate admission for many people. 

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 7:12:42 PM   
LadyIce


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Status: offline 		I realize many people here are just typing to be typing.
But I will say it again, approaching anyone especially a woman on here,
and asking if she gives blowjobs is rude.

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 7:15:21 PM   
feastie


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Status: offline 		Agreed.  It is rude for someone to ask a female, regardless of orientation, whether she gives blow jobs.  Be that as it may, it wasn't the point of the OP.

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RE: Honey, this Babe don't suck - 8/18/2007 7:15:30 PM   
LATEXBABY64


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Status: offline 		talking about double standards if someone believes that sucking on  willie the one eye wonder worm is a submissive act that is their right. we all have things we believe is degrading or honorable.. as others have put in some of the other threads i tend to wonder about if they even know their selves and what they would or would not do see a lot of flippy floppy people on here shivers

kudos to the op for standing up for what she beleves

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 7:18:42 PM   
LadyIce


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MHOO314

Ok, I find blowjobs to be very submissive acts ( NOTE: I am not demeaning those that do, it is an art and a talent to do it well...)-as a Domina, there is no way in hell I am going to suck cock, drink or lick cum--and if you think humiliation to you submissives is doing so, pfffttttt,  My idea of humiliation is making you shoot off in a fish pond---so where did submissive males get the idea that Dominas give blowjobs to "control the boys"?? I cannot tell you how many petitions I have gotten that say, Mistress will, or Mommy will as a means of humiliation---one too many xxx mags guys.
 
Ladies??
 
 

so where did submissive males get the idea that Dominas give blowjobs to "control the boys"?? I cannot tell you how many petitions I have gotten that say, Mistress will, or Mommy will as a means of humiliation---one too many xxx mags guys.

That was part of the OP, thank you.
Did she not say she was getting petitions that ask if she will give blow jobs as a means of humiliation?
Did she not state that?


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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 7:28:23 PM   
NefertariReborn


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Status: offline 		IMHO giving head is neither dominant or submissive.  I DON'T think the Doms stand there all Domly and say no I'm not going to suck pussy because it's submissive.   Why do should Women have this problem with cock? 

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 7:56:51 PM   
SunNMoon


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Status: offline 		I’m the totally opposite. I can’t think of a sex act that I personally find more empowering, it just pushes me into super dominant overdrive (if there is such a thing lol). I also want to add, getting a request for it from my SO just boast my ego.

Now, I also don’t see it as a D/s related sex act (it’s been done by almost everyone under the sun). I don’t see a lot of the sex acts which are mentioned as involving D/s just from the sex part (anal play, strap ons ect). And I think someone already said it, that it’s the intension that matters when it comes to sex that make it a D/s action.

I hope my post is clear, I really shouldn’t be posting when I’m falling asleep. So I hope I didn’t misunderstand anything that I read.  

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 8:03:33 PM   
slaveluci


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quote:

ORIGINAL: xoxi
I think it really depends on how you look at it.  If you see it as servicing someone by giving them an orgasm without having one yourself, it's submissive.  If you see it as controlling another person by manipulating their body to the point of orgasm, it's dominant.

One of my ex's favorite things to do was tie me down to the bed, arms and legs spread, and go down on me until I went insane.  He didn't see it as submissive at all - he had my body at his mercy and was controlling it like a marionette.  And personally every time I go down on a guy and make him cum I feel like a goddess...because I am seductive, beautiful, and talented enough to bring him to orgasm using just my mouth.  Even making a guy hard makes me feel hot.

If it's not something that you enjoy, don't do it, but an act itself is usually neutral - it's the perspective and context that matters

.....absolutely.  Master is the same way.  He thinks it's probably not in the "Dom" manual that it's acceptable to go down on one's slave.  However, He couldn't care less.  Just as you say, He doesn't see it as submissive in the least.  He isn't "serving" me.  He's delighting in His property.  Let's be frank.  He loves eating pussy and there's none He loves better than the one He owns.  Those are His words.  I am never more easily controlled than when His face is in the place, so to speak.  "Controlling" me like a "marionette," as you say.  Beautiful image.  Same for your descriptions of using your mouth to give pleasure.  I just loved your reply.  It really summed up my thoughts as well.........luci

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 8:21:22 PM   
feastie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyIce

quote:

ORIGINAL: MHOO314

Ok, I find blowjobs to be very submissive acts ( NOTE: I am not demeaning those that do, it is an art and a talent to do it well...)-as a Domina, there is no way in hell I am going to suck cock, drink or lick cum--and if you think humiliation to you submissives is doing so, pfffttttt,  My idea of humiliation is making you shoot off in a fish pond---so where did submissive males get the idea that Dominas give blowjobs to "control the boys"?? I cannot tell you how many petitions I have gotten that say, Mistress will, or Mommy will as a means of humiliation---one too many xxx mags guys.
 
Ladies??
 
 

so where did submissive males get the idea that Dominas give blowjobs to "control the boys"?? I cannot tell you how many petitions I have gotten that say, Mistress will, or Mommy will as a means of humiliation---one too many xxx mags guys.

That was part of the OP, thank you.
Did she not say she was getting petitions that ask if she will give blow jobs as a means of humiliation?
Did she not state that?



That was one sentence in the whole OP and also the last sentence.  Grammar rules dictate that one's topic is usually the first sentence.  It serves to tell the reader what the paragraph will be about.  The remaining sentences of the paragraph are supporting sentences and should be about the main topic.  They should "belong".  Also, I'll point out that the title is not Honey, it's Rude of you to Ask this Babe to Suck Cock.  The title is Honey, this Babe Don't Suck Cock. 

Now, I don't know about you, but semantics and grammar lessons are not germane to the thread and constitute a hijack of it.  As such, and as I've stated my opinion on the topic presented, I don't feel I have anything else to add.

You may continue this little hijack on your own, if you feel that's what you need to do.  I, for one, have no need to further it.



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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 9:03:31 PM   
becca333


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quote:

ORIGINAL: cwytch

i think i am way off the point but just wanted to say that as a submissive i never actually enjoyed giving head...it was a chore that i did to the best of my ability becaused it pleased the one i was with...i never got into the cock crave that i had read about...until recently...since being with the One i am currently with i find that i think of it constantly...when i am with Him i cannot wait until He is in my mouth...i no longer find it a necessary duty but something i cannot get enough of...i cannot explain the change but it is something inside that has defionately been stirred up..again sorry for deverting from the original post


Totally my experience too!

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 9:17:21 PM   
SimplyMichael


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Status: offline 		What a teeny tiny world to live in where some sex acts are off limits becaue they might affect your status.  I do whatever the fuck I want to and it hasn't ever affected MY dominance. 

Frankly, I don't blame the "boys" for staying home!

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 9:22:40 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		The entire thread is laughable, of course, I am not going to walk up to anybody in the world and say, hey----before we get it on, do you do the tongue thang?

But if you don't, then you have two heads and I don't actually know what the quantum mechanics of you flying out the window is, because---you just ain't relevant  What is, just wouldn't mattter without you in it, and you wouldn't be. Fuckin' Serious.

Ron


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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 9:36:05 PM   
FullfigRIMaam


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ORIGINAL: Rockwell
That is insulting to a Domina if a boy assumes he would be honored with oral sex. This slave could never expect Mistress to proform a service act unbelieable. I apologize for my brother submissives wrong ideas.

In leather, zac
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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 9:36:21 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble
I'm seriously trying to wrap my brain around this because I've never heard of it before. Receiving blow jobs as a humiliation, I mean, it truly boggles my mind so I just went upstairs and asked Michael about it and he pointed out that submissive males with ED or some other sort of dysfunction might very well find that a blow job would be humiliating.

My bad and I apologize for my laughter and initial reaction. It was thoughtless.

Celeste

I'll also add that both males and females can find it very humiliating to be physically shown just how turned on they are and forced to express it- whether it's a finger shoved into a pussy and being told "Oh how wet you are!" or a few licks on a cock and "Oh you're already twitching!" it can be very effective in humiliation.

Not to mention the whole tease/denial aspect of it- knowing they want it really badly and making them beg for it or beg for you to stop so they don't cum without permission- all that fun stuff!

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 9:41:07 PM   
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What you want and don't want to do shouldn't originate from your title, it should orginate from your person. By your definition, a dominant who sucks cock is submissive, and I think that's an utterly preposterous assumption.

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 9:49:38 PM   
proudsub


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quote:

Agreed.  It is rude for someone to ask a female, regardless of orientation, whether she gives blow jobs.


Maybe rude in an introductory email/chat.  However if it something that is very important to a guy why not ask?  Maybe he doesn't want to become committed to someone who won't do it.

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RE: Honey, this Babe dont suck - 8/18/2007 11:39:49 PM   
captainblack


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quote:

ORIGINAL: feastie

Agreed. It is rude for someone to ask a female, regardless of orientation, whether she gives blow jobs. Be that as it may, it wasn't the point of the OP.


True....I prefer to ask the female:

"Do you spit or swallow?"

CB

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