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missturbation -> Slave for hire!! (8/25/2007 6:12:45 PM)
I'm going to be hired out soon and was wondering how those subs / slaves out there who have already done this felt about it? Did you enjoy it / hate it? Were you nervous, anxious etc etc? Also have any Doms / Dommes out there hired a slave / sub and if so did you enjoy it? Would you consider hiring your sub / slave out if you havent already?

Bobkgin -> RE: Slave for hire!! (8/25/2007 6:22:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: missturbation I'm going to be hired out soon and was wondering how those subs / slaves out there who have already done this felt about it? Did you enjoy it / hate it? Were you nervous, anxious etc etc? Also have any Doms / Dommes out there hired a slave / sub and if so did you enjoy it? Would you consider hiring your sub / slave out if you havent already? No. I would never hire out someone who had given herself to me. Nor would I hire anyone to perform for me. As for my feelings about this ... I think I'll just keep them to myself.

BossyShoeBitch -> RE: Slave for hire!! (8/25/2007 6:26:04 PM)
I have always been very curious how that works and how a Master/Mistress finds people to rent out his/her slave..

celticlord2112 -> RE: Slave for hire!! (8/25/2007 6:34:56 PM)
Having taking the time and trouble to pursue and possess....why would I be so cavalier as to pass it around? I could never "rent out" my slave. The very notion is quite abhorrent to me.

velvetears -> RE: Slave for hire!! (8/25/2007 6:36:14 PM)
i have no experience at all in this. my ex was very posessive and would not even let me play or scene with others, alone at any rate. i am curious as to what kind of service you are going to provide, i don't want to assume what it is. Also, will you keep the proceeds or will your dom? Maybe you will split it? Is this a fantasy of yours you and your dom are fulfilling - you sound excited :-)

MisPandora -> RE: Slave for hire!! (8/25/2007 7:00:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: missturbation I'm going to be hired out soon and was wondering how those subs / slaves out there who have already done this felt about it? Did you enjoy it / hate it? Were you nervous, anxious etc etc? Also have any Doms / Dommes out there hired a slave / sub and if so did you enjoy it? Would you consider hiring your sub / slave out if you havent already? Most of us are "hired out" to someone else. It's called a career.

domiguy -> RE: Slave for hire!! (8/25/2007 7:18:58 PM)
How exactly are you going to be hired out? What will be expected from you? It should shed some light on what exactly is the situation as well as hopefully provide some nice wanking material.

Padriag -> RE: Slave for hire!! (8/25/2007 7:33:02 PM)
Bit of a caveat/disclaimer, this is not a practice I personally care for... however... quote: ORIGINAL: missturbation I'm going to be hired out soon and was wondering how those subs / slaves out there who have already done this felt about it? Did you enjoy it / hate it? Were you nervous, anxious etc etc? Also have any Doms / Dommes out there hired a slave / sub and if so did you enjoy it? Would you consider hiring your sub / slave out if you havent already? I have know a few slaves who were involved in such situations on more than one occasion. Two in particular come to mind. The first was owned by a "master" who was not a particularly caring individual (piece of slime comes to my mind). He was fairly indiscriminate about whom he rented her to, or for what purpose, and as you might imagine her experiences were often not happy ones. For her it was traumatic and left her emotionally scarred. That's pretty much the worst case scenario. The second that comes to mind was part of a private group. She wasn't collared, but as a slave and group member she was looked after by another member of the group. She was rented or loaned to various members of the group, but never anyone outside that group. Additionally there were rules about how she could be used, there was a sort of dossier in which banned activities were listed (her "limits"), and so forth. The situation seemed to be pretty responsible and on the whole healthier. In her case, and as a self admitted slut, she enjoyed it and viewed it as a positive experience. Being able to please a variety of people with varying expectations was for her a point of pride, it made her feel more accomplished as a slave, in her ability to serve. That, in my view, is probably a best case scenario. The key pattern I see here seems to revolve around how "caring" and responsible the people (particularly those in positions of authority) happen to be. The more responsible they are, the more likely your experiences may be good ones... the less responsible they are, the more at risk you may be.

Bobkgin -> RE: Slave for hire!! (8/25/2007 7:38:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Padriag Bit of a caveat/disclaimer, this is not a practice I personally care for... however... ... the less responsible they are, the more at risk you may be. One of the (many) thoughts that came to mind while thinking about this is this: How likely is it that some guy who just paid money to rent a slave will actually stop what he's doing if his condom breaks (assuming he even uses one)? And that is probably the mildest thought I have on this topic.

CuriousLord -> RE: Slave for hire!! (8/25/2007 7:47:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: missturbation Would you consider hiring your sub / slave out if you havent already? No.

asubmissiveheart -> RE: Slave for hire!! (8/25/2007 7:48:32 PM)
I have heard of slaves for hire. I am curious, will you be required to have sex and sexual contact with the party or parties that hire you? Will there be a contract in place, that will prevent someone from seriously harming or injuring you? I hope you are careful with this and good luck.

MissMagnolia -> RE: Slave for hire!! (8/25/2007 7:50:02 PM)
That's a no for me too. I'm such a greedy girl.

Padriag -> RE: Slave for hire!! (8/25/2007 7:50:08 PM)
Would depend on the potential consequences as well as the character of the individual. In the first case I described the answer would have been not likely at all (and in most situations would not have used a condom at all). In the second case, where the girl was part of a group, that same group could impose consequences (such as being ejected from the group and losing access to all the girls who were available), which helped make good behavior more likely. Also, in the second case the group members were for the most part all friends, so there was an entirely different dynamic than the first case; where not only did the "renters" not care, neither did the "master" in question.

Bobkgin -> RE: Slave for hire!! (8/25/2007 7:51:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: asubmissiveheart I have heard of slaves for hire. I am curious, will you be required to have sex and sexual contact with the party or parties that hire you? Will there be a contract in place, that will prevent someone from seriously harming or injuring you? I hope you are careful with this and good luck. Chaperone? Armed Guard? Chastity belt without a key?

chathamvahere -> RE: Slave for hire!! (8/25/2007 7:51:52 PM)
We tend to agree we would never and (we mean never) loan her out, a person who gives herself to you should be cherished, cared for, and not loaned, it opens a whole new can of worms, what about stds ??? why risk that with someone you care about???? just our 2 cents :)

asubmissiveheart -> RE: Slave for hire!! (8/25/2007 8:05:29 PM)
missturbation posts the question, but she does not appear to be around to give any answers. Perhaps she will return.

proudsub -> RE: Slave for hire!! (8/25/2007 8:16:43 PM)
I would never consent to be rented out for money because since the renter is paying he may feel he can do whatever he pleases. The only way i would consent to being loaned out would be if it were a trusted friend of Hubby's or if Hubby were present during the play.

BoiJen -> RE: Slave for hire!! (8/25/2007 8:30:37 PM)
I'm thinkin some of the crazies here have taken over some people's minds. Renting out a slave can mean any number of things. What's negotiated between Owner and User is simply between them. If sex is involved so be it. To condemn someone because of that is a load of shit. Mainly because it isn't anyone else's business. Mostly what I see when slaves are loaned or rented out, I see chores. Lots of cleaning and lastly play. And I mean non-sex play. I've done chores for other's in Her Name. Because that's what I'm told to do. I've played with others for Her enjoyment. She likes a good show. I've been assigned hardcore house painting to do for Her friends and such. This is loaning my body and services out. How do I feel about it? I get greeted with a smile and food and a chance to kneel at Her feet and breathe and for that I am greatful. From Her perspective, She's proud of me and my abilities and services. She's essentially showing off what's Her's. And knowing that other people desire that is a thrill for Her. Finding use for that in Her life is a good thing. As for the crazy fuckers on the board freakin out over shit...well whatever.

Nottalking -> RE: Slave for hire!! (8/25/2007 8:32:16 PM)
Ok I'm a "vanilla" as this group calls my sexual preference. I was invited to read the post on here, to better understand this side of a person that I wanted to know. After a lot of reading of not only here, but on bondage.com and several other sites (spent the afternoon) there are many things I don't understand. One of them is why a person would subject themselves to pain to please someone. Now I wonder why a person would agree to "rent" themselves out as well.

domiguy -> RE: Slave for hire!! (8/25/2007 8:35:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BoiJen I'm thinkin some of the crazies here have taken over some people's minds. Renting out a slave can mean any number of things. What's negotiated between Owner and User is simply between them. If sex is involved so be it. To condemn someone because of that is a load of shit. Mainly because it isn't anyone else's business. Mostly what I see when slaves are loaned or rented out, I see chores. Lots of cleaning and lastly play. And I mean non-sex play. I've done chores for other's in Her Name. Because that's what I'm told to do. I've played with others for Her enjoyment. She likes a good show. I've been assigned hardcore house painting to do for Her friends and such. This is loaning my body and services out. How do I feel about it? I get greeted with a smile and food and a chance to kneel at Her feet and breathe and for that I am greatful. From Her perspective, She's proud of me and my abilities and services. She's essentially showing off what's Her's. And knowing that other people desire that is a thrill for Her. Finding use for that in Her life is a good thing. As for the crazy fuckers on the board freakin out over shit...well whatever. I whole heartedly agree....Even if it were to be sexual...People meet off of this site every single fucking day....Maybe she will use common sense...She seems like a pretty damn sharp cookie....Just because others can't imagine that they would do certain things it doesn't mean thay it can't or shouldn't be done.

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