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kyraofMists -> RE: Whiney Bitchy S-types- a vent (8/29/2007 6:06:56 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Damn, what was that great line Val Kilmer had in Tombstone about hypocrisy.........?


Is this the one you mean?

"It appears my hypocrisy knows no bounds." ~ Doc Holiday

Knight's Kyra




ChainsandFreedom -> RE: Whiney Bitchy S-types- a vent (8/29/2007 6:58:14 PM)

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When you make blanket statements about anybody even romotely questioning any aspect of domination for money, you come off to people as actually being insecure and hurt when people discuss the bussiness critically 


This is Madame Giselle- just to avoid any confusion.
Actually, darling, BoiJen is simply stating how annoying it is to hear people- especially those s-types who specifically bitch about their pay session or Dommes in general- continue to bitch about it especially in these forums and make no attempt to change their situation with their Dom/me from unhappy to content/happy. More like a comment on Free Will.

You've been a bad boy in these threads I see! I'll see you in bed...

-Madame Giselle, the better half aka
The One who can spell




MisPandora -> RE: Whiney Bitchy S-types- a vent (8/29/2007 7:30:27 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Elegant

standing up and applauding!

Boi Jen,
Will MissKittyBlack let you be stolen away?...grin



No disrespect intended to MsKitty, but I think this is the beginning of a really hot kidnapping.  What end would you like, Elegant? LOL




MisPandora -> RE: Whiney Bitchy S-types- a vent (8/29/2007 7:45:18 PM)

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ORIGINAL: mercmjm

I must say that that first post from boi is just a bunch of bs.  Now I understand if you are a professional domme, thats your bread and butter.  But if you are not professional, then I must say who the hell are you to charge someone 50 or a 100 bucks at the word hello.  Maybe I misunderstood what boi said, if so please tell me, but if I did not then I must say those domme's are partly what is ruining this lifestyle and they disgust me.

You missed the bus by a stop or ten.  Seriously.




MisPandora -> RE: Whiney Bitchy S-types- a vent (8/29/2007 7:58:24 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Bella1965

Oy vey. Let me explain something to you, since you seem to have gotten personal. You present a list of interests in your profile, not one of them vanilla. That screams "do-me" to anyone that's been into the scene for any extended period of time.

In the infamous words of the currently aired Geico commercial, "Uhhhh......WHAT?"

That makes no rational sense.  You're on a BDSM site.  Common sense would speak to the fact that you could expect to see people describe their own personal BDSM interests on the personals/profiles side of the BDSM site.  No shocker.  Since when is it required or a mark of experience that you post vanilla things in your profile?  I musta missed that prompt when I hit my 10 year mark a few years back...or does that only come when you're 30 and have 20 years of lifestyle experience and are partnered to an 'old guard master?'

And honest, I don't really want to read about anyone's bloody crochet project here.  If I wanted that, I'd go post to some garden club bulletin board. 




BoiJen -> RE: Whiney Bitchy S-types- a vent (8/30/2007 4:36:22 AM)

Ummm...so I asked specifically about being rented loaned or kidnapped last night and MsK said as long as you can make the day 4 more hrs long you Ladies cna hve me for 4 more hrs. She's got me way too busy recently. And She don't rent unless Her shit's taken care of. Her words not mine. When things slow down I'm sure arrangements can be made. Then again there's the matter of payment and duty assignment. Negotiation all that. Lol...like I negotiate. Anyways all that's in Her hands. So if you wanna send Her a petition go ahead...I'll forward it for ya. This is actually quite funny to me. I'm slightly embarassed I think




Bella1965 -> RE: Whiney Bitchy S-types- a vent (8/30/2007 8:59:48 AM)

G'morning all:


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ORIGINAL: MisPandora
That makes no rational sense.  You're on a BDSM site.  Common sense would speak to the fact that you could expect to see people describe their own personal BDSM interests on the personals/profiles side of the BDSM site.  No shocker.  Since when is it required or a mark of experience that you post vanilla things in your profile?  I musta missed that prompt when I hit my 10 year mark a few years back...or does that only come when you're 30 and have 20 years of lifestyle experience and are partnered to an 'old guard master?'


Makes perfect sense. You're here already. That alone indicates an interest in alternative activities. Listing vanilla activities in your profile gives someone else common ground to share with you outside of the scene. Is this a marker of experience? To a degree, yes. Many of the people I know that have been around the block a few times tend to gravitate towards relationships rather than play partners. It's not "required".

Most of the complaints I hear/see on that topic center around a lack of "other" information in a profile. Frankly, if someone lists nothing but fetishes? When I was searching, I would've passed them right by.

Personally, I don't care if someone is here just to satisfy their fetishes. What does irk me is when they try subterfuge and cover it up with the guise of being submissive and not providing anything remotely resembling servitude. Honesty is always best. I'll admire a person for being up front.

As to the last reference? You must be talking about your experience, considering I'm a dominant and make no mention of any of those numbers in my own profile.


Stay safe, play nice, & share your toys w/ others...


[:D]


Bella




chiaThePet -> RE: Whiney Bitchy S-types- a vent (8/30/2007 10:15:04 AM)

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ORIGINAL: BoiJen

She don't rent unless Her shit's taken care of. Her words not mine. When things slow down I'm sure arrangements can be made. Then again there's the matter of payment and duty assignment. Negotiation all that. Lol...like I negotiate. Anyways all that's in Her hands. So if you wanna send Her a petition go ahead...I'll forward it for ya.


Interesting, we've come full circle in a matter of sorts, the ProDommes now
charging the ProDommes, but nobody has whined about that yet, so i'll just
view it as an acceptable presentation. (yes i know, BoiJen advanced such
in a jestful method of introduction so don't get Your corsets in a bind)

i've enjoyed this thread, because although it deals with a serious issue, the
general flow has been upbeat and lighthearted, my favorite state of mind.
It is however, as has been pointed out in concrete replies, a whine about
whiners whinning. Though i will fight to the near-death to defend anyone's
right to do such here at the lovely collarme hive. It is what it is, no matter
the "cute as a button" OPinions put forth which garnered the expected
group hug we all knew would come. OPinions are simply that, no matter
from whence or where they might arise, whether or not we can relate,
whether or not the OPinions walk in our shoes or are on the outside
looking in. They are what make the Forums, Forums, though discussion
rather than lecture always seems to propel a more satisfying conclusion.

Here, BoiJen offers her advice along with her critizism, though it will hardly
settle the issue for those whom experience such and question it in the
Forums. Yes, we have choices, make them for God's sake. We all have
moments when we see someone hold a hot flame to their emotional
and physical well being, and then complain that it hurts when they do it.
And we all think the same thing, "Don't do it then". We must remember
however, that many of us don't wake up one day and profess to know
all there is to know about our journey here. We will question, we will
stumble, we will try to be good for the sake of ourselves, and we should
never be discounted for raising our voices, no matter how grand the
stand addressing such may be. BoiJen has that right, and the other
whiners have that right also, irregardless of the fact that history just
seems to keep repeating itself. We are a whole lot different, we are
a whole lot the same. Talk about it, talk about it, talk about.......it.

i think we see OPinions concerning those issues BoiJen raises here,
not so much as an afterthought from being burned, all the time, but as
a query of why individuals find the issues so prevelent to begin with. It
just becomes hard to distinguish between the temper tantrum childlike
reaction and the sincere need to know when we simply see the title
addressing the issues once again, advanced, just...one...more...time.
Each of us has our issues and our way of dealing with such, some
bring them here seeking a sincere understanding, and some bring
a huff and puff attitude and vomit their wails onto everyone's screens.
Each will be dealt with accordingly, as it gives us all a pause or cause.

BoiJen you're "cute as a button" i must agree, and you advance yourself
in that "i tell it like it is" (don't we all) presentation that i dearly love. But,
i find the whole "fuckin", "fuck", "friggin", "bullshit", "shit" diatribe doesn't
do you justice as a "boi", it simply makes you sound "man-dicapped".
Just my opinion you understand, don't go changing to try and please me.

All that said, (i heard that and i know who you are), the REAL reason
i came here today was the selfish and self-centered promotion of my
new fall line of Feminine Deodorant products, "Autumn Breeze".
i figured with such an exquisite gathering of Females here in the midst
of such a spledid rendition of a "Women Rule Waltz", it would be a
most opportune occasion to hock them and avoid the whole door to
door "is your Mommy home, and is She fresh as an Autumn Breeze?" 

For you see, you can give her a short haircut, you can dress her in jeans
and a tee shirt, you can tether a strap-on to her, you can put a mouth on
her like a sweaty lockerroom rendezvous, you can call her a boi,
but underneath it all, she is still a female with a vuluptuous vagina, and
that, along with every other issue here, must be lovingly addressed.

Besides, BoiJen is right, "stirring shit" can be fun, after all is said and done.

chia* (the pet)  




ocilla -> RE: Whiney Bitchy S-types- a vent (8/30/2007 12:50:24 PM)

Ooooo chia ,ya jumped right in the middle of the pot, I'd say, and then did a swirling, whirling dervish dance.  And I am so sure you will have fun with it....btw - you are cute as a button too.




BoiJen -> RE: Whiney Bitchy S-types- a vent (8/30/2007 3:19:17 PM)

Wonderful I love it! 




petdave -> RE: Whiney Bitchy S-types- a vent (8/30/2007 3:53:53 PM)

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ORIGINAL: chiaThePet
All that said, (i heard that and i know who you are), the REAL reason
i came here today was the selfish and self-centered promotion of my
new fall line of Feminine Deodorant products, "Autumn Breeze".
i figured with such an exquisite gathering of Females here in the midst
of such a spledid rendition of a "Women Rule Waltz", it would be a
most opportune occasion to hock them and avoid the whole door to
door "is your Mommy home, and is She fresh as an Autumn Breeze?" 

For you see, you can give her a short haircut, you can dress her in jeans
and a tee shirt, you can tether a strap-on to her, you can put a mouth on
her like a sweaty lockerroom rendezvous, you can call her a boi,
but underneath it all, she is still a female with a vuluptuous vagina, and
that, along with every other issue here, must be lovingly addressed.


i'm sold! Every woman i know is getting a can (tube? box? capsule? pad?) for Christmas this year [:)]




adoracat -> RE: Whiney Bitchy S-types- a vent (8/30/2007 6:17:48 PM)

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ORIGINAL: BoiJen

Ummm...so I asked specifically about being rented loaned or kidnapped last night and MsK said as long as you can make the day 4 more hrs long you Ladies cna hve me for 4 more hrs. She's got me way too busy recently. And She don't rent unless Her shit's taken care of. Her words not mine. When things slow down I'm sure arrangements can be made. Then again there's the matter of payment and duty assignment. Negotiation all that. Lol...like I negotiate. Anyways all that's in Her hands. So if you wanna send Her a petition go ahead...I'll forward it for ya. This is actually quite funny to me. I'm slightly embarassed I think


jen...as one submissive to one servant....

you're cute, and smart, and witty, and smart-assed, quick with a comeback.....whats not to want to have around?

hugs if you want 'em,
kitten, who is grinning




MisPandora -> RE: Whiney Bitchy S-types- a vent (8/30/2007 6:54:57 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Bella1965
quote:

ORIGINAL: MisPandora
I musta missed that prompt when I hit my 10 year mark a few years back...or does that only come when you're 30 and have 20 years of lifestyle experience and are partnered to an 'old guard master?'

As to the last reference? You must be talking about your experience, considering I'm a dominant and make no mention of any of those numbers in my own profile.


Cute.  You failed to grasp the snark against folks here on CM who claim that sort of thing.  My reputation in the community speaks for itself. 




hardbodysub -> RE: Whiney Bitchy S-types- a vent (9/1/2007 8:03:33 AM)

I just want to say that, even though I don't agree wholly with BoiJen, she's entitled to vent without being jumped on, particularly since she included "Vent" in the title of the topic.

Obviously, she struck a chord with a lot of people who agree wholeheartedly with her, as well as many who don't.

I sometimes post a contrary post when I see what seems to be too many people jumping on the bandwagon in support of a statement that I think isn't quite right; I feel the need to bring light to the opposing viewpoint, so people don't get the impression that everyone agrees. I hope that my comments weren't viewed as flames or personal attacks of any kind.




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