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RE: I was just told - 8/31/2007 8:22:12 AM   
domiguy


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RE: I was just told - 8/31/2007 8:23:12 AM   
Aileen68


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RE: I was just told - 8/31/2007 8:25:27 AM   
domiguy


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Status: offline 		Well obviously, he had the same meal that he does everynight...He feeds on the self esteem issues of women....He can suck them right out of you like that big dude in "The Green Mile"  .....Then he poos out flies....Poor lil' bunny.

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RE: I was just told - 8/31/2007 8:27:36 AM   
Aileen68


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RE: I was just told - 8/31/2007 8:33:03 AM   
Satyr6406


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Status: offline 		I don't know if my opinion will be on point because I could never, honestly, claim to be in the BDSM lifestyle. However, I can claim to be in the D/s lifestyle and, from where I sit, being in love is synonymous with either submission or dominance.
 
In order for a lady to submit to me, she needs to trust in me; she needs to have FAITH in me. She needs to believe that I will care for her needs and wants, even better than she would, left to her own devices.
 
On the other hand, I like to think that I am kind, considerate, loving, caring, nurturing person and I tend to be that way (to some degree) with everyone but, I need to find a lady that i deserving of the depth of that, before I give it, that deeply.
 
 
 
 
 
Peace and comfort,
 
 
 
 
 
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RE: I was just told - 8/31/2007 10:10:01 AM   
e01n


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ORIGINAL: slave4umastr:
I was just told, quite angrily actually, that a master should never love his slave, and that love has NO place in this lifestyle. I've always imagined when I find the right master, that I would love him, but I also thought that he would love me too, although we would both express our love in very different ways. But what I want to know is, do most people think like this really? That love has no place in M/s, or was it just a bad experience?
WTF!

Even if I completely objectify you, there's still love. I mean, I just cried last night when I told someone about my car being defiled by someone... And it wasn't even that great of a car.

Sounds like someone's just trying to be all drama and shyte... total bullshit.

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RE: I was just told - 8/31/2007 11:30:32 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Aileen68

Which would be funnier?  To have the little bunny fluffy tail sticking out of bob's butt or the bunny head?


~gets the mental image~  ewwwwwwwwww!!!    Thanks, Aileen...

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RE: I was just told - 8/31/2007 12:11:37 PM   
SexiSubbi


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Status: offline 		I felt truly special having the love of my former Master. We actually began having great conversations about BDSM, which later evolved into his guidance and training as i explored my submissiveness (is that a word?). Of course our respect grew and as we played together the strength and power we shared grew into love. I was honoured to have been his slave for over 9 years and to have a devoted Master as Gud Master. I know it was love because upon his death, my heart was broken. Now, a 1-1/2 years later...i can now speak of His love for me and proud to share that with You. Yes, there can be love between a Dom and sub. Others have expressed it more eloquently than i, but nonetheless, i wanted to express my thoughts. Be well! 

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RE: I was just told - 8/31/2007 12:51:51 PM   
slaveluci


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ORIGINAL: slave4umastr
I was just told, quite angrily actually, that a master should never love his slave, and that love has NO place in this lifestyle.....what I want to know is, do most people think like this really? That love has no place in M/s.....

It never ceases to amaze me how some people think they know exactly how everyone's relationship should operate.  Give me a break.  Only an arrogant, ignorant jerk would presume to say a master should NEVER love a slave and love has NO place in M/s.  If they don't want love or can't find it, that's fine.  But they can keep their ignorant opinions off of my relationship, puhleez...........luci

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RE: I was just told - 8/31/2007 1:05:44 PM   
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ORIGINAL: slave4umastr
But what I want to know is, do most people think like this really? That love has no place in M/s, or was it just a bad experience?


I can't speak for most people, just me.  Without love, relationships of any kind are pointless.


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RE: I was just told - 8/31/2007 1:43:35 PM   
bh


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Status: offline 		This is probably more telling of him, not being able to love. Chalk it up to a mismatch and keep looking ! Congrats on finding the forums, you will learn a lot here..keep reading too!

bh

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RE: I was just told - 8/31/2007 2:39:56 PM   
Master96


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ORIGINAL: slave4umastr

I was just told, quite angrily actually, that a master should never love his slave, and that love has NO place in this lifestyle. I've always imagined when I find the right master, that I would love him, but I also thought that he would love me too, although we would both express our love in very different ways. But what I want to know is, do most people think like this really? That love has no place in M/s, or was it just a bad experience?

What????? That person told you this angrily? Did s/he generalize this? If so, who on earth s/he is to tell anyone what to do and not to do?

I want to love my slave! I don't care what that person says angrily or not! My partner being my slave doesn't make her less human. She deserves my love, respect and being honored. I want my partner to be my slave out of love to me.

I want to tell that person calmly : Please don't share your thoughts angrily!

Edited to add: Yes slave4master. No one can tell you what to imagine...... and how to live.

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RE: I was just told - 8/31/2007 2:40:57 PM   
WinsomeDefiance


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ORIGINAL: slave4umastr

I was just told, quite angrily actually, that a master should never love his slave, and that love has NO place in this lifestyle. I've always imagined when I find the right master, that I would love him, but I also thought that he would love me too, although we would both express our love in very different ways. But what I want to know is, do most people think like this really? That love has no place in M/s, or was it just a bad experience? 


Forget the absolutes that people scream at you.  Take your ideal dreams, temper them with common sense, define for yourself that which is right for you, and then open yourself up to the opportunities of finding someone like minded. 

As for me. When and if love ever finds me, I like to think it will have a place in my heart, my life and my Lifestyle.


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RE: I was just told - 8/31/2007 2:59:07 PM   
krikket


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Status: offline 		i'm another one who doesn't believe in "absolutes" although there's probably an exception to that rule (like all rules) that i can't remember now..lol. 

Speaking strictly for myself, i believe there different kinds of love, but the kind that can exist between a Master/Dom and a sub/slave is truly special and unique.  It goes beyond the romantic love to a kind of intimacy and trust that doesn't come into our lives easily or often.  Oh, i can be a bottom, and have enjoyed it quite a bit, but...that's not all i'm capable of --- not what need to offer if i ever find that kind of love and trust again.  Years ago i promised myself i wouldn't settle again for a relationship in which i wasn't high on my partner's list of priorities if i was even on it.   i don't need to be told he loves me over and over, but his caring and trusting and growing together, "knowing" he will have our best interests in his heart and actions -- all that says "i love you" far better than the words ever could.  Basically i need someone who "does" and not just "talks", but that's just me.  We all have an idea, i think, of what we need, want, hope to find, and the "trick" is finding someone who's close to that ideal. 

Imho, the guy who told you that is either insecure or arrogant (and maybe both..lol), and while it's not up to us to say (not that will stop many of us..lol) it sounds to me like you're better off without him.

Welcome to the boards and to CM ... it's a wonderful place to be. :)

warmly,
jimini


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RE: I was just told - 8/31/2007 3:03:11 PM   
krikket


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ORIGINAL: domiguy

No bunnies were harmed in the making of this post...Save for the ones rammed up Bob's hiney...they suffered immensely before thankfully expiring.


Ok, i don't often do this..but...someone's gotta...

ewwwwwwwie..

poor little bunnies...

cheers,
jimini



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RE: I was just told - 8/31/2007 8:02:59 PM   
Durus


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Status: offline 		I think it's important to note that for some people love is a completely alien concept. They measure peoples worth by their usefullness. I've only run across a couple of true sociapaths...but they are out there. The individual mentioned sounds like a candidate.

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RE: I was just told - 8/31/2007 8:11:35 PM   
RRafe


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ORIGINAL: Durus

I think it's important to note that for some people love is a completely alien concept. They measure peoples worth by their usefullness. I've only run across a couple of true sociapaths...but they are out there. The individual mentioned sounds like a candidate.


Interesting. Would the totally selfless slave mentioned in another thread here be an ideal match for such a person?

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RE: I was just told - 8/31/2007 8:17:57 PM   
curiouspet55


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Status: offline 		While it is possible to have submissive desires without love, I personally need a D/s relationship where love is involved. For me to completely submit, I need to fully trust and respect the individual - these things, for me, come out of friendship and deep caring, and ultimately love.

Respectfully,

cp55

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RE: I was just told - 8/31/2007 8:29:07 PM   
phoenixsub999


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Status: offline 		Bah! I hate it when people try to tell me what to do. What's right for them, isn't necessarily what is right for me. I often find that those who try to foist their views upon you and try to make you feel like an idiot are insecure control freaks.

That said, without love, without a connection, it's just an empty exercise.

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RE: I was just told - 8/31/2007 8:29:27 PM   
RRafe


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Status: offline 		The wierd thing, is that not all love looks like it. At least, not in the mainstream sense.

Passions flow through humans in myriad ways-try not to judge too harshly, that you cannot see them as you wish them to be.

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