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RE: What's more important? - 9/21/2007 9:19:51 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		No. I would not take it. Sexuality is very important in a long term relationship me to. I have no interest in being in a relationship where my sexual needs were not addressed. Then again I'm not into the whole Dom submissive thing. I am into bdsm and kinky play and generally a good time had by all.
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ORIGINAL: sublizzie

If you could have a relationship where there was pure D/s with no sexuality involved, but a lot of emotional attachment, would you take it?

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RE: What's more important? - 9/21/2007 9:34:24 PM   
ProlificNeeds


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Status: offline 		If my sexual needs could be filled in some way, or if I was free to find a sexual realtionship as well. Yes. The relationship, if good enough, if it made me happy, would certainly be worth a few compromises on my own part.

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RE: What's more important? - 9/21/2007 9:48:55 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		If I ever went to a pro domme, it would not be for the purpose of going home and fantasizing about the experince while having sex. And secondly you can not speak for why EVERY dominant does orgasm denial, it's not always about subs want sex, oh I'll deny them. They ALL EVERY diffrent dominant has their own reasons.
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ORIGINAL: imtempting

Its a simple fact of life everyone wants sex. Its why domme's and doms do orgasm denial etc. They know the sub wants it so they withold it untill they want to allow it.

Its why people pay to go to pro dommes for so that when they get home they can either have sex with their other or play with themselves thinking of it.


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RE: What's more important? - 9/21/2007 9:51:55 PM   
RRafe


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ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss

If I ever went to a pro domme, it would not be for the purpose of going home and fantasizing about the experince while having sex. And secondly you can not speak for why EVERY dominant does orgasm denial, it's not always about subs want sex, oh I'll deny them. They ALL EVERY diffrent dominant has their own reasons.
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ORIGINAL: imtempting

Its a simple fact of life everyone wants sex. Its why domme's and doms do orgasm denial etc. They know the sub wants it so they withold it untill they want to allow it.

Its why people pay to go to pro dommes for so that when they get home they can either have sex with their other or play with themselves thinking of it.




It's like they have tunnel vision. They just don't get that there can be kinky sex without someone playing overlord.

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RE: What's more important? - 9/21/2007 10:18:59 PM   
MstrssScarlet


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Status: offline 		I've had a collared submissive for over two years now and there is no sex involved.  We get along great as friends and enjoy spending time with each other with no sexual tension.  He is extremely service oriented.  HOWEVER, it's understood that he is allowed a sexual outlet at any time without asking permission from me.  Otherwise I feel I would be taking something very important away from him.
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RE: What's more important? - 9/21/2007 10:20:57 PM   
BabyNyla


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Status: offline 		When I married my daddy I was a virgin ... so I have had many years of D/s without sex ... and I loved all of it.

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RE: What's more important? - 9/22/2007 9:02:57 PM   
laurell3


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Status: offline 		Wait when you (meaning the posters that responded this way, not just the prior post) say "no sex" you don't mean it wasn't sexual at all do you?  Not judging, clarifying, please don't interpret it that way.
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RE: What's more important? - 9/23/2007 2:45:34 AM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		laurell I've done bdsm play that was not sexual at all, he came he spanked me flogged me, we decided when play time was over hugged and he left. that's rather limiting though for me cause sometimes I am horny and want to be stimulated to orgsm.

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RE: What's more important? - 9/23/2007 7:50:59 AM   
spankmepink11


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ORIGINAL: sublizzie

If you could have a relationship where there was pure D/s with no sexuality involved, but a lot of emotional attachment, would you take it?


Neither is more important for me...but both are absolutely necessary.

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RE: What's more important? - 9/23/2007 10:17:52 AM   
sublizzie


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ORIGINAL: laurell3

Wait when you (meaning the posters that responded this way, not just the prior post) say "no sex" you don't mean it wasn't sexual at all do you?  Not judging, clarifying, please don't interpret it that way.
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I've done scenes where there was nothing sexual about them at all...just pure D/s.

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