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RE: Master has no balls.... - 9/8/2007 8:56:37 AM   
Cumslt4U


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Status: offline 		I might have been harsh with my earlier statement but I was just calling it like I saw it. I know you are new, but you can get your point across and be respectful at the same time. Just because you call yourself "fiesty," it does not give you the right in act such a manner. Any man should kick you to the curb for saying such things about him, vanilla or not. If he read any of this, I would not expect even a goodbye. I would not speak to my Dom or anyone vanilla in such a manner. Your name calling is juvenile and childish. My prediction is that your fiesty(c***) behavior is going to keep you looking for a long time.

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RE: Master has no balls.... - 9/8/2007 9:13:00 AM   
domiguy


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Status: offline 		And now... the undisputed heavyweight Dom, The master psychic and love machine....It's Domiguy and welcome all to the "Domiguy Show." (Domiguy walks out as the studio audience shouts "Domi" over and over again..simultaneously)  Hi, I'm Domiguy and welcome to the show...

Today we have fifi on the program who is having Dom problems...So without further adieu, here's fifi...

(fifi walks out on the stage, wagging her index finger and doing the "head shake") "You don't know me! You all don't know shit about me! You don't know how I roll!.....Fuck you!!!" 

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RE: Master has no balls.... - 9/8/2007 9:26:50 AM   
divi


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Status: offline 		Damn Domibabe.  That show still on?  It's amazing the shit people watch.  I thought it was replaced with
" trick my trailer "

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RE: Master has no balls.... - 9/8/2007 9:27:17 AM   
MastersDomain


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Status: offline 		My Master is incredible, is able to be stern and serious  and real, yet warm at times, i was on as vunerable one and met nothing but phonies for years, met him 10 months ago and will never be release.......heis the answer to my prayers,   i am seeking an additional  just  to please im more......SLAVE Maryanne

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RE: Master has no balls.... - 9/9/2007 2:55:14 AM   
princess74


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Joined: 2/3/2006
Status: offline 		fifi

I read your posts and also felt the emotion behind the words.It is true on here a *newbie* can be at a loss to which is the correct behaviour? what is the right protocol? Best advice is recall the quote " To each their own" It is each individuals right to feel,express and experience what they wish to do....Only you can decide what is right in your heart.It takes two to talk it only takes one from the relationship to refuse to talk and destroy any good feeling thru childish behaviour....

As for online etc We all come here to talk,relax,experience other peoples points of view,to discuss and take on board other cultures,lifestyles etc.....So for Me any friends I make here I treat no differently then friends I can see/touch for real o/s the pc! We are all human beings at the end of the day

fifi only you have the power to either walk away and rebuild confidence and find a good Dom or accept His behaviour and feel a doormat.......

Princess

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RE: Master has no balls.... - 9/9/2007 3:18:06 AM   
MstrSkyWoIf


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Estring

He is not ignoring you. He probably has at least one other cyber relationship going, and it's probably going better than the one with you. While you wait around for him to pay attention to you, he is happily paying attention to someone else. How long will you be a chump? 


This I have found is the case whenever someone is ignoring calls on a regular basses. To my way of thinking, I have a cell phone and it is always on. I do this so if my sub needs me I am always available when I am not with her in person.... End of story.

The only time a call would be ignored is if I told her as punishment I will not be speaking with you until ? and then I would give her a time. If she called before then she would get voice mail. If she calls any other time and I don't answer you can bet I am busy and will call back as soon as I can ( in most cases within a few min but not more then an Hr). To me the title Dom or Master does not mean unaccountable for my actions.

< Message edited by MstrSkyWoIf -- 9/9/2007 3:26:16 AM >

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RE: Master has no balls.... - 9/9/2007 7:16:57 AM   
LeatherBentOne


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quote:

ORIGINAL: fifi

Yeah it would be funny if it was a joke. But I'm sick and tired of being treated like a doormat. Yes I'm fiesty deal with it. I love being submissive, I love pleasing people (yes a general term, family, friends, lovers etc) I will do anything I can to make everyone elses live fun,easier, enjoyable.

But I will not take being ignored for no reason, I will not take trying to talk to 'someone' who refuses to join in and just signs out. How do you work through problems when the other person just keeps on running away?

And before all you masters out there jump down my throat, as far as I'm aware I'm not being punished. So I count this kind of behaviour as down right rude and disrespectful. Funny how if it was a submissive acting like this they would be punished, but when its a dom, a submissive has to take it as part of the kinky lifestyle. I'm sorry, NO! Manners and treatment of human beings does not stop just because your a Dom.

God! if you can't tell already, I'm seriously angry. How do I get past this and communicate with this person, when they just continually shut down? I've explained how I felt in an email, in a nice, controlled, way. (Not like I am now-yeah I have anger issues I hear you bellow!) I do all that is asked of me, and get nothing in return, just empty promises. I have no problem doing these things either, but I draw the line when for the x's amounts of time I do everything that is asked of me, and what is promised in return never, ever materialises.

Whats a girl to do with master like this?





This happened to me but in real time during the few years I subbed to better understand the other side of the exchange.  I was ignored for 4 months in real time and my needs werent being met.  To make a long story short, I expressed my feelings in an adult manner and gentle voice, after being granted to speak my mind and heart.  The responses (2-5 words) screamed selfishness, little desire to communicate/express emotions or validate my concerns.  And, I spoke only of my needs and concerns, not my wants and desires.

I ended up leaving, and still speak to this person 3-4 times weekly by phone after about 8 years since the relationship ended.  I understand now what happened then,
and communication is much better on the other person's part.  I didnt want to have to leave 8 years ago, but I needed to leave for my own protection.

Best of Luck and feel free to email me if you need to talk.

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RE: Master has no balls.... - 9/9/2007 7:23:28 AM   
Username412


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Status: offline 		Delete the effin twit!   Not worth your time!  and for those of you that say she needs an ass beating?  were you mentally abused as a child?  She is a human being, right up on the same plateau as you!  Wake up!

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RE: Master has no balls.... - 9/9/2007 7:44:22 AM   
kyraofMists


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Username412

Delete the effin twit!   Not worth your time!  and for those of you that say she needs an ass beating?  were you mentally abused as a child?  She is a human being, right up on the same plateau as you!  Wake up!


You might want to read all her posts before you decide that he is the twit who doesn't deserve her.  I think this one says a lot about what may or may not be going on.

Knight's Kyra

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RE: Master has no balls.... - 9/9/2007 7:51:36 AM   
ISODaddy4BBW


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Joined: 9/5/2007
Status: offline 		Sounds like someone took the bratty sub role to far and just needs a big spanking and a dark cage for awhile.  That is IF she can find someone to stand her ass long enough to complete any of that.

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RE: Master has no balls.... - 9/12/2007 11:46:30 AM   
SirCache


Posts: 159
Joined: 3/26/2005
Status: offline 		A master is someone who takes care of those who serve him.  He is there to communicate, give direction, establish order, and ensure the care for his submissives and slaves.  A man who does none of these things is simply not your master.  Communication can be hard sometimes, I'll agree.  But it's the backbone of any relationship whether it is BDSM or not.

I'd have to say it's time to write to him, establish the reasons why, and then walk away.  I'm sorry to hear your experience has come to such an ending.

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RE: Master has no balls.... - 9/14/2007 2:28:09 AM   
glassdoll


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Joined: 4/24/2005
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quote:

ORIGINAL: fifi

Yeah it would be funny if it was a joke. But I'm sick and tired of being treated like a doormat. Yes I'm fiesty deal with it. I love being submissive, I love pleasing people (yes a general term, family, friends, lovers etc) I will do anything I can to make everyone elses live fun,easier, enjoyable.

But I will not take being ignored for no reason, I will not take trying to talk to 'someone' who refuses to join in and just signs out. How do you work through problems when the other person just keeps on running away?

And before all you masters out there jump down my throat, as far as I'm aware I'm not being punished. So I count this kind of behaviour as down right rude and disrespectful. Funny how if it was a submissive acting like this they would be punished, but when its a dom, a submissive has to take it as part of the kinky lifestyle. I'm sorry, NO! Manners and treatment of human beings does not stop just because your a Dom.

God! if you can't tell already, I'm seriously angry. How do I get past this and communicate with this person, when they just continually shut down? I've explained how I felt in an email, in a nice, controlled, way. (Not like I am now-yeah I have anger issues I hear you bellow!) I do all that is asked of me, and get nothing in return, just empty promises. I have no problem doing these things either, but I draw the line when for the x's amounts of time I do everything that is asked of me, and what is promised in return never, ever materialises.

Whats a girl to do with master like this?




      Baby , It's  mind game.  Depends on the type of person you are but either say it straight up or play the game back. Do what he does to do , just worse. However, broken promises and no give-n-take are a sign of failure in the future. Be forewarned. muah. best to you. GlassDoll

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RE: Master has no balls.... - 9/15/2007 9:50:17 AM   
Domwolf1


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Status: offline 		Sound like fifi is in real conflict

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RE: Master has no balls.... - 9/15/2007 9:56:46 AM   
Domwolf1


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Status: offline 		fifi do you know what you really want in a MASTER, or do you want to keep crying about it.

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RE: Master has no balls.... - 9/15/2007 10:10:23 AM   
Absolutemaster


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Domwolf1

Sound like fifi is in real conflict



LOOKS like fifi has fled...

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