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MistressPav -> RE: are there dommes who would like a harem of male slave? (12/11/2007 3:42:11 PM)

I got only ONE set of nerves.....I can only deal with ONE man at a time.  [:@]






EarthGoddess52 -> RE: are there dommes who would like a harem of male slave? (12/11/2007 5:15:44 PM)

Sexually, it makes much more sense for one woman to have a harem of many men since women are usually multiorgasmic and men have to wait awhile (sometimes a LONG while) before having intercourse again.

I think it is unrealistic to think that one person could saisfy all of another's needs, desires, fetishes, etc., so a harem of several slaves of various sexual orientations makes perfect sense




MystressDream -> RE: are there dommes who would like a harem of male slave? (12/11/2007 6:20:42 PM)

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ORIGINAL: EarthGoddess52

Sexually, it makes much more sense for one woman to have a harem of many men since women are usually multiorgasmic and men have to wait awhile (sometimes a LONG while) before having intercourse again.

I think it is unrealistic to think that one person could saisfy all of another's needs, desires, fetishes, etc., so a harem of several slaves of various sexual orientations makes perfect sense



Hmmmm.... well, THIS woman only want ONE man in her life.  I concur with MistressPav.... Dealing with one man is enough for me.  <grin>
 
I also seek someone who can fulfill all my needs... but, the non-sexual ones more than anything.  But then, I don't think of the lifestyle I lead as about sex... sex is just a wonderful fringe benefit if the relationship is serious.
 
I guess it's what makes the world go around... <smile>
 
I would be thrilled to find just ONE slave who meets my criteria.  So many times I have wished I was bi... lol




KindLadyGrey -> RE: are there dommes who would like a harem of male slave? (12/11/2007 11:04:40 PM)

It's one of the things on my TO-DO list as soon as I am ridiculously wealthy enough to support such a thing.





slavekal -> RE: are there dommes who would like a harem of male slave? (12/12/2007 4:45:05 AM)

Maybe I am looking at this the wrong way, but if a lady has a harem of slaves, couldn't they easily support her financially?




thetammyjo -> RE: are there dommes who would like a harem of male slave? (12/12/2007 5:10:17 AM)


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ORIGINAL: slavekal

Maybe I am looking at this the wrong way, but if a lady has a harem of slaves, couldn't they easily support her financially?


It depends on how one views the role of the harem.

Traditionally harems simply isolate women from the world for the exclusive use of one man. They were an economic drain outside of the fact that most members represented political ties to other nobles around the world. Few members of a harem would be out right slaves, most would be concubines or wives, rank more dependent on the position of her father and family and her number/gender of children than simply the lord's whim.

But there is no reason that we as a community couldn't use the term differently -- we do it all the time after all changing terms that denote mental illness or criminal or no longer socially acceptable into erotic ones.

So for me, when I personally use "harem" I simply mean having more than one slave at a time who exclusively serves me and no other dominant or top except as casual fun upon my permission or order. In this case, everyone must contribute to the household in some concrete fashion and not merely practicing dance or gossiping with other harem members or plotting ways to undermine another member's position.




Kirren -> RE: are there dommes who would like a harem of male slave? (12/12/2007 5:33:34 AM)

I would LOVE to have a harem. BUT...there would have to be some modifications to the original terms as Tammy and others have stated.

1) They boys would all have to be in chastity, unless I released them.
2) they would all have to work and maintain their own living expenses.
3) They would all have to get along.
4) they would all have to live in their own house. As I too have children and DCFS and the ex would frown profusely over this.

I think it could be done, and I know I for one would love to walk into a room and have 5 or 6 boys waiting to do any thing and everything for Me.

But as MystressDream has said, and makes a valid point in saying, this life style is NOT all about sex. Its about the mental control, its also about the bonds and friendship that come with the sub/slave. There has to be more than physical attraction.





dominapain -> RE: are there dommes who would like a harem of male slave? (12/12/2007 5:38:39 AM)

id love a house full of boys so one can heal and i can beat others




MistressPav -> RE: are there dommes who would like a harem of male slave? (12/12/2007 4:45:29 PM)

Ah, the more I think about it.......I have to admit, it MIGHT be fun, but there would have to be rules and regulations in place to ensure my sanity.
I agree with the poster that said men have to wait to have another orgasm.

Hrmmmm.....I'm thinking bukkake, bukkake! 
My all male harem could coat my little female sub in cum; the slut would have her hair coated in "conditioner", her skin coated in "moisturizer".
That's it!  I would have a male harem only if there were enough men to produce for me a vat of cum that I can roll my subs in whenever I choose.





KarenElizabeth -> RE: are there dommes who would like a harem of male slave? (12/12/2007 5:12:04 PM)

I will have a harem of male slaves, Especially when I move with my best friend Jennie to Florida.. We'll need a lot of things done moving into a new home!




ShaktiSama -> RE: are there dommes who would like a harem of male slave? (12/12/2007 6:53:50 PM)

Yes, I suppose if you modify the "harem" concept so that the men involved are able to leave the house and work to support themselves and me.  [:D]  It takes money to house so many boys and provide them with all it takes to keep them healthy and happy, much less to maintain their skills and training.  Gym fees and gear, much less room and board, for a harm of submissive warriors = financial ruin!

But a supa-sexy idea nonetheless.  I'd make an excellent feudal chieftainess. 




PsyVamp -> RE: are there dommes who would like a harem of male slave? (12/12/2007 7:41:38 PM)

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ORIGINAL: RumpusParable

quote:

ORIGINAL: jimheath

just curious. does the idea appeal to anyone?


Am coming into this one late...

Ideally, perfect world?  Yes. 
It's not really available in reality, though, at least not my ideal version.



The idea is fantastic, yes yes yes yes yes...   logistically speaking?  I don't have the room :(




SkyBlueSt1 -> RE: are there dommes who would like a harem of male slave? (12/12/2007 7:46:15 PM)

Absolutely, positively, most definately.




xALadyX -> RE: are there dommes who would like a harem of male slave? (12/12/2007 8:26:49 PM)

Most definately with a bit of modification .. it could prove very delightful indeed. 

ALady




forluvofmaria -> RE: are there dommes who would like a harem of male slave? (12/12/2007 8:48:58 PM)

A harem No, but a very poly household of sub and slaves? Oh yes that is My goal. I have been fortunate in those of whom I chose to serve understood right up front...I will have My desires Met. Having recently moved to be with My sweet slut bill, and now just this evening having met with one that will not live with U/us but will serve beside of bill....Again One must chose wisely...I am bi and still seeking for the sub/slave female to join bill and I. So many players so few that are real....Given a choice and the amount of wealth to support said household I would have several.....The work would be worth it...Smiles...




GoddessTeaze -> RE: are there dommes who would like a harem of male slave? (12/13/2007 5:45:52 AM)

When I reincarnate,
I will become a Sealion,
I learned today that they have a harem
with 13 wifes *EG*
[:D]

B good

GoddezzT`




TheInstrument -> RE: are there dommes who would like a harem of male slave? (12/13/2007 8:46:03 PM)


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ORIGINAL: MistressPav

Ah, the more I think about it.......I have to admit, it MIGHT be fun, but there would have to be rules and regulations in place to ensure my sanity.



Uh, where do I sign up now?




undergroundsea -> RE: are there dommes who would like a harem of male slave? (12/13/2007 10:20:02 PM)

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ORIGINAL: TheInstrument


That is a clever name and a clever way to say that you want to be played.

;-)

Cheers,

Sea




TheInstrument -> RE: are there dommes who would like a harem of male slave? (12/14/2007 12:23:39 PM)



I call dibs on the alpha-male-slave position, of course :)




thetammyjo -> RE: are there dommes who would like a harem of male slave? (12/14/2007 12:52:56 PM)


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ORIGINAL: TheInstrument



I call dibs on the alpha-male-slave position, of course :)


Darn!
Fox all ready has that position in my household.




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