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Is Poly a groing Segment of the Path - 9/17/2007 5:31:41 PM   
CelticPrince


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Status: offline 		This has been a subject of my personal pondering for some time now, but over the last few months, I see more and more submissives trolling for another submissive to join with them in serving their "Masters"

Most of the time, they do so under the direction of their "One".

What be your thoughts on the subject?

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RE: Is Poly a groing Segment of the Path - 9/17/2007 6:00:01 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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It happens more now than 20 years ago I think, but not more than 5 years ago.

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RE: Is Poly a groing Segment of the Path - 9/17/2007 6:42:23 PM   
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That if we were looking for another girl to help me serve Valyraen, I think I should be talking with them from step one. If I can't get along with them, they don't have a chance of joining me in serving him after all.

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RE: Is Poly a groing Segment of the Path - 9/17/2007 7:01:10 PM   
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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

My only thought?

That if we were looking for another girl to help me serve Valyraen, I think I should be talking with them from step one. If I can't get along with them, they don't have a chance of joining me in serving him after all.


here here!  I completely agree!

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RE: Is Poly a groing Segment of the Path - 9/17/2007 7:46:05 PM   
xoxi


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Status: offline 		Ugh.  I've noticed it quite a bit online too.  And I even have poly/swinging as a hard limit in my profile!  I think a lot of guys online are drawn to this simply because they think "Wow sex whenever I want, and I get two or three chicks too? And they can't complain because they're submissive? Fuck yes."  The growth of internet communities probably has a lot to do with that although I think Lucky is right in saying no more than 5 years ago.  I wasn't online here 5 years ago though so I can't say for sure...I did however get tied up 5 years ago :P  And he didn't try to get me a "sister" or any of that crap.

No disrespect for poly people, but I really hope this doesn't become the "norm" for D/s relationships simply because the D thinks s/he can do it so s/he should do it..  I just want one man, and I want to be his only girlfriend and eventually wife.  No other bitches need apply.

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RE: Is Poly a groing Segment of the Path - 9/17/2007 8:34:26 PM   
RRafe


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Status: offline 		It's happened for a long time. It just pisses mono people off enough to remember it. Especially the losers who can't even get one partner.

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RE: Is Poly a groing Segment of the Path - 9/17/2007 8:42:21 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

This has been a subject of my personal pondering for some time now, but over the last few months, I see more and more submissives trolling for another submissive to join with them in serving their "Masters"

Most of the time, they do so under the direction of their "One".

What be your thoughts on the subject?

CP


To be honest, I kind of don't get it. In my mind, the chemistry needs to work from the top down, not from the bottom up. I feel his power, but that doesn't mean that someone else will. It just seems backwards to me. If he finds a submissive and they feel his power, he can work things out as he deems fit between the three or more of us. If I find a submissive and they don't feel his power, then I've wasted my time, their time and his time. With time being both finite and uncertain, that just doesn't seem to be a good use of what little I may have in my life and his.

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RE: Is Poly a groing Segment of the Path - 9/17/2007 9:24:57 PM   
sapphirepleasure


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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

To be honest, I kind of don't get it. In my mind, the chemistry needs to work from the top down, not from the bottom up. I feel his power, but that doesn't mean that someone else will. It just seems backwards to me. If he finds a submissive and they feel his power, he can work things out as he deems fit between the three or more of us. If I find a submissive and they don't feel his power, then I've wasted my time, their time and his time. With time being both finite and uncertain, that just doesn't seem to be a good use of what little I may have in my life and his.

Celeste


I recently experienced this situation, except that his slave was not trolling for him but when she and I became friends, she introduced me to him, he was looking for another and he started pursuing me.  I made the assumption that since she is such a wonderful slave and so happy with him, that he must be a wonderful Master, and that I would be happy with him, too.  While he's apparently just what she needs, it was a horrible experience for me.  I never felt that connection and found him to be harsh, controlling, rude and generally crushing to my spirit.  It ended very badly and at least for the time being, she and I are not even able to be friends. 

So while I agree that it's important for slaves to get along, I think you're right that the primary connection (and submission) has to be between the Master and each of his slaves.  If that's not there, it just won't work, no matter how much I adore and respect his other slave.

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RE: Is Ploy a goring Segment of the Path - 9/17/2007 9:29:51 PM   
LATEXBABY64


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Status: offline 		It is a power trip for Dom's Dommes and that also that some get their needs met from many. sounds to splintered to me. the human mind is vast. if you can not master one how can you master many and. i mean well inside and out.
we are not cattle or monkeys but some would have us believe that shrugs oh well . I just have more value then another one in the heard

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RE: Is Ploy a goring Segment of the Path - 9/17/2007 9:53:14 PM   
RRafe


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RE: Is Poly a groing Segment of the Path - 9/18/2007 3:37:49 AM   
Twicehappy2x


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ORIGINAL: xoxi

I think a lot of guys online are drawn to this simply because they think "Wow sex whenever I want, and I get two or three chicks too? And they can't complain because they're submissive? Fuck yes." 


Silly boys...
 
Wait until the reality of three women with PMS, out of chocolate, and the fourth going through menopause smacks them in the face. That'll learn them!

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RE: Is Poly a groing Segment of the Path - 9/18/2007 3:39:03 AM   
xoxi


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Status: offline 		Muahahahahahaha it's *almost* enough to make me go poly for a month 

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RE: Is Poly a groing Segment of the Path - 9/18/2007 3:43:24 AM   
Stephann


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"have you ever actually had four cunts under your roof at once?"

< Message edited by Stephann -- 9/18/2007 3:47:40 AM >

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RE: Is Poly a groing Segment of the Path - 9/18/2007 3:47:40 AM   
xoxi


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Status: offline 		I love it!

I know a couple poly/open people...one of them was allllllllll about it until he and his wife brought another girl in.  Then it was LJ posts about "jesus fucking christ I thought one of them was bad! All you people who think this is a total fantasy - stop."

I don't know....the poly thing didn't seem to work well for him in general.  The biggest problem with men is they get so caught up with playing with their new toys that they forget they have old ones.  And when the old toys have feelings, things get messy.

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RE: Is Poly a groing Segment of the Path - 9/18/2007 3:48:45 AM   
Stephann


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Status: offline 		btw shoshi, I left a gift for you in the poly section.

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RE: Is Poly a groing Segment of the Path - 9/18/2007 3:48:58 AM   
Twicehappy2x


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ORIGINAL: Stephann

As Ron once said,

"have you ever actually had three cunts under your roof at once?"

 
Lmao.....At one point in time there were actually seven women living with my Master long gone, plus our ums, two of which were teenagers.
 
He once said to somebody at work " I am leaving early to stop at the store, i need Snickers, M+M's and Milky Ways. You know i wish there was even one weekend a month when somebody in my house was not crabby!" 
 
I'm sure the guy he was talking to felt really bad for him you know.

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RE: Is Poly a groing Segment of the Path - 9/18/2007 3:51:32 AM   
Stephann


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Status: offline 		No offense intended; but I'd think that after a few months, it would be only one weekend a month that he needed to arm himself with surplus Halloween defenses.  Something about cycles and pheromones...

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RE: Is Poly a groing Segment of the Path - 9/18/2007 4:00:37 AM   
Twicehappy2x


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ORIGINAL: Stephann

No offense intended; but I'd think that after a few months, it would be only one weekend a month that he needed to arm himself with surplus Halloween defenses.  Something about cycles and pheromones...

 
Lol, does not always work that way unfortunately. Then add in the fact that i was a bartender in a strip club and 5 of those girls were dancers constantly exposed to other women as well.
 
The ones who shared a room(i had a six bedroom house not counting our room) did tend to coincide but that was about it. Lol, he was always very good about buying the chocolate, smart man.
 
Scooter only has to contend with Jewel and i and he does it very well, she is menopausal and i have PMS from hell but he manages just fine.
 
He has the routine down pat, buy Jewel M+M's in the 2lb bags and pet her when she cries at commercials, eat out and leave twice alone in her room on those days .
 
But i think a lot of guys who are only looking at the fantasy part of having two or more women would be totally confused when that time of the month rolled around and he was faced with a pair of suddenly homicidal women.

< Message edited by Twicehappy2x -- 9/18/2007 4:02:31 AM >

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RE: Is Poly a groing Segment of the Path - 9/18/2007 4:04:04 AM   
Stephann


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Status: offline 		I fully intend to ensure that there is zero chocolate in my home for a good solid ten days each month.

Sadist that I am.

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RE: Is Poly a groing Segment of the Path - 9/18/2007 4:05:41 AM   
Twicehappy2x


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ORIGINAL: Stephann

I fully intend to ensure that there is zero chocolate in my home for a good solid ten days each month.

Sadist that I am.

 
Got a closet you are planning to lock them in huh?
 
Lmao.....
 
 

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