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hardbodysub -> RE: to submit or not to submit, that is my question (9/21/2007 1:02:01 PM)
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Steamy, your OP made a valid point in a humorous way, was no more racist or politially incorrect than Carlos Mencia, and absolutely did not invite the shallow knee-jerk attacks that it received.
I agree with you. I'm soooooooo tired of reading "it's all about service", "true submissive", "service-oriented", yada, yada, yada, where the explanation is that the sub should care about nothing at all except providing service. If that's all the sub cares about, then it doesn't even matter who he/she serves. Your comment about the interaction between the people was right on target, in my opinion.
As a dom, I wouldn't want a sub who's so into service that she doesn't care who she serves. I'd want her to be more into the relationship with me than with the act of serving. As a sub, I also wouldn't want to serve just anybody; but I could be a very devoted servant to the right woman.
It's ridiculous how so many people here have chips on their shoulders, are so quick to take offense even where it's obviously not implied, jumping to conclusions about virtually everything, and making disparaging remarks that are completely unrelated to the OP.
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