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RE: too strong to be a slave? - 10/5/2007 1:01:50 PM

Owner4SexSlave

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Let's think about this from the opposite extreme for a moment.

What if I want a slave that's so stupid, I have to teach her how to give a blow job all over again ever time she goes to give me one. I want a slave so stupid, I end up punishing her and cropping her ass daily for not remember WTF she should do. I want a slave that is so stupid, she can't remember the rules. I want a slave that's so stupid she'd let a Bugler fuck her and clean out the house and forget what the Hell happened. I want a slave that's so stupid, she has to think about what to call me before I hear Sir or Master come from her lips.

Come on here, is there an IQ test for slaves vs. submissives? What the highest score somebody is allowed to become a slave? 60-70? Some people could not deal with a slave with a 100+ from the sounds things at times.

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RE: too strong to be a slave? - 10/6/2007 7:06:57 PM

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I usually admire slaves for their forces and strenght of mind and heart. I couldnt think of them in any other way then strong. Giving yourself in such a way...wow. *shudders*

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RE: too strong to be a slave? - 10/6/2007 10:28:08 PM

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Hey why stop at strength ...

Too weak to be a submissive? Too damaged to be a submissive? Too fat to be a submissive? Too skinny to be a submissive? Too wild to be a submissive? Too crazy to be a submissive? Too aggressive to be a submissive? Too progressive to be a submissive? Too stubborn to be a submissive? Too atheletic to be a submissive? Too disabled to be a submissive? Too happy to be a submissive? Too depressed to be a submissive? Too tall? Too short? Too medicated? Too moody? Too hormonal? Too old? Too young? Too pretty? Too ugly? Too vunerable? Too bitchy? Too blokey? Too extreme? Too healthy? Too unhealthy? Too smart? Too stupid? Too masculin? Too feminine? Too individual? To compliant? Too loud? Too independant? Too dependant? Too fucked up? Too stable?

Who decides this? or more over who do you allow to decide this?

ME!!!!
I am the final judge of who I am ... I am the one who looks at me everyday of my life ... ultimately I am the one who has to account to me for judgement ... and untill I stand face to face with God that is how it will remain.

Other people are entiled to their opinion of me as I am of them but whether I take that opinion onboard or dismiss it is entirely up to me ... my judgement. Whether I allow that opinion to hurt me or disempower me is also my decission, and we are all human and require a certain amount of reassurance, but we should seek it from those who know us, care for us and not from people who are of no real concern to our day to day lives, espeacially from those who could have their own agendas that have nothing to do with our wellbeing.

I also believe that the right partner for me will think I am the most perfect submissive in the world for Him/Her because I will feel the same way about that person. As we look at each other we will both see the potential for the life long partner we seek. Anything that needs tinkering will come about as the growth and changes that are the natural course for people who commit to and work at a long term relationship.

It has taken a long long time for me to realise that it is me who has control over who I am ... not my past, not my partner, and certainly not some unknown face at a keyboard somewhere.

I say I am submissive and if that does not meet someone's expectations ... it does not make me any more or less submissive ... it just means it is not them I am meant to submit too.

Just my two cents worth

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RE: too strong to be a slave? - 10/6/2007 11:05:04 PM

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In my opinion, anytime someone makes such a generalization, using the word, "Most", they want to sound like they know what they're talking about when they really haven't got a clue. Where is the latest national poll, of people who are involved in M/s relationships, asking about their views on slaves? i haven't seen that one. Even asking the people on this board what their views are, is still not going to give a broad enough sampling to back-up that kind of statement. So, take out the word, 'most', and simply say that some people.......etc., etc.

But, why would anyone want to own something that is "weak" rather than "strong", unless they are just feeling sorry for it and taking it in out of pity? Would anyone choose to own a weak horse, instead of a strong one? Maybe, some would but, "Most"? i don't think so.

i, for one, work very hard for my Master. He relies on me and my strengths for many different functions and He wanted to own me because of my abilities not because of my weaknesses, although He took me knowing and accepting those, as well. He works with me to help me become stronger and to reduce or minimize my weaknesses. He appreciates my current abilities and capabilities to be even stronger and more skilled than i am. He values my strengths and considers me to be an asset to His life, not something that can be easily disposed of or replaced.

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ORIGINAL: Treasure3
Tonight I was told that I am in the minority, that MOST people accross the country and around the world would vehemently disagree with the idea of a strong slave, that the majority of people expect a slave to be basically a mindless, spineless creature who blindly follows her Master simply because she is a slave. Is this the case? Is the majority opinion in the BDSM community that a strong woman can never be a slave? If so, why?

I hope I have been able to explain my question clearly. I am looking forward to reading the opinions of others.

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