Collarspace Discussion Forums


Home  Login  Search 

RE: Do we romanticize slavery?


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> RE: Do we romanticize slavery? Page: <<   < prev  1 [2] 3 4 5   next >   >>
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
RE: Do we romanticize slavery? - 10/7/2007 8:42:25 AM   
RaynaSub


Posts: 185
Joined: 9/3/2006
Status: offline
Many people romanticize and have no real idea of what real slavery IS.
Especially non-consensual real-life slavery.
I minored in history in college, and from reading many of these threads,
many people have no clue what real slavery is like.

(in reply to dcnovice)
Profile   Post #: 21
RE: Do we romanticize slavery? - 10/7/2007 9:11:42 AM   
OsideGirl


Posts: 14441
Joined: 7/1/2005
From: United States
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: dcnovice
Do our easy use of the word slave, our iconization of slave collars, and our interest (from whatever angle) in dominance and submission blind us to the true horrors of slavery? Are we forgetting that consensual slavery is the exception rather than the rule? Does anyone else feel discomfort at sharing language and symbols with one of the great evils of human history?
This is precisely why I refuse to label myself as a slave. I saw the faces of the 12 years old girls that had been smuggled over the border and forced into prostitution on a news story. Matter of fact, they had been found just a couple of miles from where I used to live.

By calling myself a slave, I feel I'm belittling what they've been through.

_____________________________

Give a girl the right shoes and she will conquer the world. ~ Marilyn Monroe

The Accelerated Velocity of Terminological Inexactitude

(in reply to dcnovice)
Profile   Post #: 22
RE: Do we romanticize slavery? - 10/7/2007 9:16:06 AM   
Lashra


Posts: 4900
Joined: 2/9/2006
Status: offline
Yes we do and I believe that is why many times when someone enters into a slavery role, consensually of course, that they are sometimes very disappointed. Where are the lovely silks and the handsome/beautiful rich Master/Mistress that will give the slave everything that they want. What is with all the chores? Rarely do you see a dirty slave in books/movies from toiling all day long unless the slave is on a plantation in early America. The Master/Mistress almost always falls in love with the slave in books, but in real life that is not always the case.

I do not think that ALL slaves live under this disillusionment, but for quite a few, I would say yes that they do.

~Lashra


_____________________________

“We can never judge the lives of others, because each person knows only their own pain and renunciation. It's one thing to feel that you are on the right path, but it's another to think that yours is the only path.”






(in reply to dcnovice)
Profile   Post #: 23
RE: Do we romanticize slavery? - 10/7/2007 9:17:58 AM   
leatherette


Posts: 255
Status: offline
I agree with what oside girl said above -THANKS - and thats a very gracious ending. Bless you and all....

No labels fit.

I do not equate what we do here in general with what would be known as "true" slavery, such as in the old south.

(in reply to OsideGirl)
Profile   Post #: 24
RE: Do we romanticize slavery? - 10/7/2007 9:19:17 AM   
RaynaSub


Posts: 185
Joined: 9/3/2006
Status: offline
I agree with you Bobbi.
Many terms are used in this lifestyle, that do not fit the
dictionary definitions.

(in reply to OsideGirl)
Profile   Post #: 25
RE: Do we romanticize slavery? - 10/7/2007 9:19:45 AM   
slaveluci


Posts: 4294
Joined: 3/2/2007
From: Little Rock, AR
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: came4U

the term SLAVE: Very FEW women have the ultimate experience of being a true slave.  It is, I am pretty sure, a real and dangerous event. Yet, mostly the ones who claim to be qualified as the ultimate slave material would be the first to complain if kidnapped by a stranger to be used and abused (even if he is good-looking).  I dislike the mis-use of the terminology of 'slave' in this concept. So, you ARE a slave but to someone you 'chose' ? ohh I get it now.  NOT

I don't understand your reasoning here at all.  Yes I am a "slave" and to someone with whom I mutually "chose" to enter an M/s relationship with.  Be realistic.  I have never heard many (if any) "slaves" speak of being a slave in the sense of what we are thinking of historically here.  To me being Master's slave means many things, mostly that I am in total submission to Him and His desires and that He controls me and all I do.  It doesn't mean I'm worked in the cotton fields all day and sold on an auction block.  It's a figure of speech, not a term that means I'm in the exact same role as the slaves were here in America before slavery ended.  They are two different sets of circumstances and I believe that's pretty obvious.  My being called slave is not a misuse of the term.  It's using the word "slave" to describe a much different set of circumstances.  One in which I am in submission and controlled but by my initial consent, not because I was captured against my will and forced into slavery.  "Consensual slavery" is a modern-day term we use and some of us live within such a dynamic.  Just because you don't get it doesn't make it wrong or invalid.
quote:

If you are smart enought to be reading this on a computer...you are not a slave.  A slave wouldn't be near a computer exept to dust it like it were an old betamax player because obviously your Master doesn't get out much either. How dare we toss the word 'slave' around like it is a good thing. It is not lighthearted word to be used as play. Get a grip.  Slaves aren't online 5-7 hrs/day.  Do something productive. A true slave would use a computer to do her/his Master's work..not as an outlet for your self-esteem. A slaves only self-worth is what she is told to have-to be given or taken at any time. NOT 'brb honey, I am finishing this email'

And there you have it "slaves."  You are not what you identify as because someone outside your relationship can't understand.  Number one, no one has ever carved into stone that a slave isn't "smart."  That's just a ridiculous statement.  Secondly, many of us "slaves" use a computer for more than sitting on it 5-7 hours a day sending email or reading CM.  Some of us actually us it to make our Master's money.  That's a very "slavey" thing to do.  I think you are the one who needs to "get a grip."  You are single-handedly attempting to dismiss the relationship dynamics of many, many people all because you can't wrap your mind around what works for them.  I don't toss the word "slave" around lightheartedly because I have a grasp on the concept that historical slavery and the slavery dynamic I live in are two very different concepts.  I get it, thousands of others get it, see if you can, ok?  As far as doing something "productive," you have no idea what I or any other "slave" does.  I work full-time helping lots of people, bring a fat paycheck home to Master, keep house, please and serve Him excellently, and many other things.  Again, you have spoken on something you have zero clue about and made many assumptions in error. You have your own ideas about a slaves "self-worth" and that's cool.  I have mine as well.  You've spelled yours out now please read mine.  I have intrinsic self-worth that I have always had.  Master didn't give it to me or tell me what it is.  He enhances it.  You obviously don't have any intimate knowledge of the relationships deemed "consensual slavery."  I would suggest you go to your computer and use it as an outlet (not for self-esteem) but for learning something.  The Slave Register or any of Tanos' sites discuss Internal Enslavement, Consensual Slavery and the like.  Take a peek, eh?..............luci




_____________________________

To choose a good book, look in an inquisitor’s prohibited list. ~John Aikin

(in reply to came4U)
Profile   Post #: 26
RE: Do we romanticize slavery? - 10/7/2007 9:22:48 AM   
OsideGirl


Posts: 14441
Joined: 7/1/2005
From: United States
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

The slavery which existed in the US 200+ years ago is not what today's BDSM is about.
Slavery still exists in this country.

I'm concerned about the use of the word to denote what we do. Slavery is an ugly thing. I feel that what we do, isn't. To me it's same as saying it's okay to use the "N" word, as long as you mean it in the rap sense. 



_____________________________

Give a girl the right shoes and she will conquer the world. ~ Marilyn Monroe

The Accelerated Velocity of Terminological Inexactitude

(in reply to BitaTruble)
Profile   Post #: 27
RE: Do we romanticize slavery? - 10/7/2007 9:24:58 AM   
slaveluci


Posts: 4294
Joined: 3/2/2007
From: Little Rock, AR
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: thetammyjo
However I also believe that there is nothing wrong with taking ideas from others and from the past and using them to make a dynamic that works for everyone. So romanticizing and borrowing is great for your fun today, just don't confuse that with history or reality or try to force your ideas onto others who can't consent in my strong opinion.

Wonderfully stated, Tammyjo.  I think most of us are very capable of not confusing what we consider an M/s dynamic with the brutalities of historical slavery as we know it.  Building a relationship within that dynamic is beautiful.  I have never been under any delusion that I am a slave as many (nonconsensual) victims throughout history were.  Two very, very different ideas that I think most of us are very aware of.  Great point................luci

_____________________________

To choose a good book, look in an inquisitor’s prohibited list. ~John Aikin

(in reply to thetammyjo)
Profile   Post #: 28
RE: Do we romanticize slavery? - 10/7/2007 9:27:22 AM   
HisCompletely


Posts: 53
Joined: 10/1/2007
Status: offline
I do not romanticize slavery, due to the fact that I consider myself comfortable in my own skin as submissive with slave qualities.  I do not romanticize either one, I go by who I am comfortable being, which is true to myself.

(in reply to SteelofUtah)
Profile   Post #: 29
RE: Do we romanticize slavery? - 10/7/2007 9:32:27 AM   
slaveluci


Posts: 4294
Joined: 3/2/2007
From: Little Rock, AR
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: RaynaSub

Many people romanticize and have no real idea of what real slavery IS.
Especially non-consensual real-life slavery.
I minored in history in college, and from reading many of these threads,
many people have no clue what real slavery is like.

I have a couple college degrees as well and will bet I've studied just as much about slavery throughout history as you have.  Is is so hard for people to understand that when those of us who say we are "slaves" use that term, that we (or at least I) don't mean it in the exact same sense?  I mean, lighten up folks.  I think most people on earth would agree that nonconsensual slavery such as that  throughout history is wrong, bad, or any other negative term.  Well, except for those on the other thread who are the ones really romanticizing it.  The ones of us who realistically know what historical slavery involved would hopefully never deign to say that is how we live.  We know that is simply not true (at least for most of us).

When we (Master and I) use the term, we apply it to the dynamic we have which I described up above in an earlier post.  It doesn't mean that He captured me against my will, imprisoned me against my will, and thinks nothing of me except the money He can sell me for or the sweat He can bring to my brow from unending, hellish work.  It means totally different things which I honestly believe everyone here knows.  Don't be so literal guys.  You know the dynamic of which I speak and you know it's not that of an 1800's plantation owner and a field slave.  Stretch your imagination a little and understand what the terms mean within the modern-day concept of "consensual slavery."  It's a very valid dynamic and usage of the words "master" and "slave" mean vastly different things that what historically was meant................luci

_____________________________

To choose a good book, look in an inquisitor’s prohibited list. ~John Aikin

(in reply to RaynaSub)
Profile   Post #: 30
RE: Do we romanticize slavery? - 10/7/2007 9:38:03 AM   
RaynaSub


Posts: 185
Joined: 9/3/2006
Status: offline
I agree with what you are saying luci.
I just see both sides of the argument here.
Discussion is great and that is why I am here.

(in reply to slaveluci)
Profile   Post #: 31
RE: Do we romanticize slavery? - 10/7/2007 9:39:26 AM   
slaveluci


Posts: 4294
Joined: 3/2/2007
From: Little Rock, AR
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl
This is precisely why I refuse to label myself as a slave. I saw the faces of the 12 years old girls that had been smuggled over the border and forced into prostitution on a news story. Matter of fact, they had been found just a couple of miles from where I used to live.

By calling myself a slave, I feel I'm belittling what they've been through.

OsideGirl,
If you really think that all those of us who use the term "slave" to refer to our role in our relationship uphold real slavery such as what you just detailed that is sad.  By calling myself a slave, I am not belitting anyone.  By calling myself a slave, I am not upholding any such treatment of anyone.  Why couldn't we go so far as to say that allowing ourselves to be beaten, whipped, hurt, etc. is belitting to all battered women.  It's terrible what they go through NONCONSENSUALLYso we shouldn't go throught it CONSENSUALLY because it's making a mockery of what they endure.  That is exactly the same as what you are saying.  You are saying that because some people are made into slaves without their consent, that calling oneself a "slave" consensually belittles them.  Well, it's exactly the same with what I just wrote.  Because some women are hurt physically without their consent, then it belittles all of them for me or anyone else to be hurt physically by our own consent, right?  One of these ideas is as silly as the other, in my opinion...........luci



_____________________________

To choose a good book, look in an inquisitor’s prohibited list. ~John Aikin

(in reply to OsideGirl)
Profile   Post #: 32
RE: Do we romanticize slavery? - 10/7/2007 9:47:57 AM   
slaveluci


Posts: 4294
Joined: 3/2/2007
From: Little Rock, AR
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: RaynaSub

I agree with what you are saying luci.
I just see both sides of the argument here.
Discussion is great and that is why I am here.

I can see the point of the OP's question but I really think some are taking it a bit too literally.  The terms used in consensual slavery arrangements do not in any way pretend to exactly mirror the roles of historical slaves and masters.  Identifying as a "slave" does not mean that I in anyway accept or encourage the brutality and criminality of historical OR modern-day slavers.  Insinuating that those called "slaves" here in anyway do accept or encourage that is character assassination.  I, as much as anyone alive, oppose such horrors committed upon nonconsensual individuals.  Comparing the two uses of "slave" is like comparing apples and oranges.  Two very, very different usages of the word in my opinion.  Discussion is great and I enjoy it.  But I feel a bit unfairly portrayed as someone who does use the term "slave."  I hope no one sincerely believes that using it means I think I am in anyway in the same boat as the nonconsensual victims of slavery throughout history and today....................luci

_____________________________

To choose a good book, look in an inquisitor’s prohibited list. ~John Aikin

(in reply to RaynaSub)
Profile   Post #: 33
RE: Do we romanticize slavery? - 10/7/2007 10:08:22 AM   
domiguy


Posts: 12952
Joined: 5/2/2006
Status: offline
God, I love a thread like this....Terminology out here is bandied about as if it has some sort of worth.....The word "Slave" doesn't mean shit in the world of bdsm....But people will cling to it like their lives depend on it.....But then they have to add on all of the modifying statements to justify the use of the word to pertain to themselves and pretty soon the word has lost all of it's meaning......It's similar to starting out in using the word "train" in trying to describe your car.

quote:

BitaTruble
You're able to separate the horrific racist based slavery from modern BDSM and I think that's a good thing. Today's BDSM is about empowerment and growth, not oppression and there is a chasm so large which separate the two that they're not even on the same plain of existance.


This is actually really funny....It's a shame, but I think you were trying to be serious.

_____________________________



(in reply to slaveluci)
Profile   Post #: 34
RE: Do we romanticize slavery? - 10/7/2007 10:11:10 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


Posts: 19224
Joined: 10/25/2005
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: LivingInSin
I understand your stance on this. I, too have a little girl that I'm trying to raise the best I can. I'm not a feminist in the least. However, I think womens rights have been taken to extremes. When I told a lady last week that I don't work so that I can care for my children, she asked me what type of message I was sending to my daughter?

I don't think it's that they have beentaken to extremes- simply that one set of extremes has been replaced with another.

quote:

I am not a supporter of womens rights. I destest the fact that women are now feeling "forced" to work outside the home due to femi-nazis.

Doesn't that mean you support a woman's right to NOT work outside the home?

If someone raped your daughter, would you want her to be able to do something about it legally?  That's a right for women.

If your daughter got hurt in her house as an adult, would you want her to be able to walk out in public wearing a tshirt and jeans and drive herself to the hospital to get some care without fear of being beaten as a shameless whore?  That's a right for women.

Like most people it sounds like you want what most of kinky people want- ALL rights for women to choose WHATEVER life they find works best for them.

_____________________________

Find stable partners, not a stable of partners.

"Sometimes my whore logic gets all fuzzy"- Californication

(in reply to LivingInSin)
Profile   Post #: 35
RE: Do we romanticize slavery? - 10/7/2007 10:17:57 AM   
MySweetSubmssive


Posts: 1139
Joined: 2/7/2006
From: Lehigh Valley, PA
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: LivingInSin

I destest the fact that women are now feeling "forced" to work outside the home due to femi-nazis.


If women are forced to work outside the home, it has to do with the shrinking value of wages and the necessity to have two incomes in the household, and not femi-nazis [sic].

Are you really equating feminists with a political group that killed 6 million people?

MSS

_____________________________

"Oh, James, you're such a cunning linguist."

--Miss Moneypenny

(in reply to LivingInSin)
Profile   Post #: 36
RE: Do we romanticize slavery? - 10/7/2007 10:19:39 AM   
slaveluci


Posts: 4294
Joined: 3/2/2007
From: Little Rock, AR
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy
God, I love a thread like this....Terminology out here is bandied about as if it has some sort of worth.....The word "Slave" doesn't mean shit in the world of bdsm....But people will cling to it like their lives depend on it.....But then they have to add on all of the modifying statements to justify the use of the word to pertain to themselves and pretty soon the word has lost all of it's meaning......It's similar to starting out in using the word "train" in trying to describe your car

Afternoon Domiguy,
I happen to agree with you about how worthless most of the terminology is.  It's because everyone has their own ideas of what each term means.  I don't cling to the term "slave," to be honest, though I know some do.  Master doesn't even call me "slave" most of the time (as a name).  It's more so that we identify with the M/s dynamic, not that He uses the name "slave" for me.  As I mentioned, our dynamic is "consensual slavery" and it's something lots of bdsm people identify with.  There's nothing wrong with it.

What bothered me about this particular question/issue is not that the word "slave" is so important to me but the idea that, simply because I do use it, that apparently means to some that I somehow envision that I live a life anywhere similar to a historical slave or a nonconsensual one of modern-times.  That's simply not the case.  In my day to day life, Master and I don't hang onto the word "slave" as something we must use to feel that is what our dynamic is.  The only time the term really comes up much is here on the forums where I use it to distinguish what my role is within WIITWD and within my particular relationship.  Take away all the terminology and it doesn't change a thing.  Things still are what they are.  It simply makes it easier to communicate around here...............luci   




_____________________________

To choose a good book, look in an inquisitor’s prohibited list. ~John Aikin

(in reply to domiguy)
Profile   Post #: 37
RE: Do we romanticize slavery? - 10/7/2007 10:20:50 AM   
Nosathro


Posts: 3319
Joined: 9/25/2005
From: Orange County, California
Status: offline
greetings
Yes I do think in general slavery is romanticized.  After all look at the many books on the subject, not just Gor or The Story of O or the Anne Rice novels.  This notion is as I believe brings some to this lifestyle.  I will also agree that there is a dark reality on slaverly, in its many forms,  in this world and this slavery does do alot of harm.  I feel that those in this lifestyle for the most part reconize the difference.
 
I wish you well
 
Nosathro

_____________________________

"The love of a slave girl is the deepest and most profound love that any woman can give a man. Love makes a woman a man's slave, and the wholeness of that love requires that she be, in truth, his slave." Magicians of Gor, page 31

(in reply to LuckyAlbatross)
Profile   Post #: 38
RE: Do we romanticize slavery? - 10/7/2007 10:23:20 AM   
slaverosebeauty


Posts: 1941
Joined: 12/12/2004
From: Cali
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: dcnovice
..... Thirty-six precent of poll respondents said that they believed in nonconsensual slavery. ....


That doesn't surprise me, I have talked with some Gor fantatics over the years; one person {word used very loosly} to this day will stick in my mind at how 'out there' some people can be in this case, in regards to Gor.  He told me that IF I became pregnant and was put on bedrest, he would replace me for that duration an I would be kept in a cage, and that my child would be raised with the 'correct mindset' that men ARE superior to women and that without men, women would not survive; that the 'anti-slavery movement' was an illusion and that their is NO such thing as 'consensual slavery;' that once yuo agree to be a slave, you cease to have any rights. I won't go into what I said, lets put it this way, that troll was put in his place and I have not seen him or his pictures on here since then.

quote:


Looking at a few slavery-related threads, I came across some interesting observations: Slavery might not seem so bad if we did it Roman style rather than American style. Nature approves of slavery. It's a shame we can't have legal ownership of another person here in the U.S. We might be able to update the institution of slavery to make it work for modern times.


So what you are saying is that you WANT oppression, and you want people to be treated like objects, humuliated and dehuminized?!  The Romans use to pit slaves against eachother and they would fight to the death, they would be taken from their families; they could also murder your children if you did not obey.  Yep, lets go back to THAT.
 
Amendment 13 - Slavery Abolished. Ratified 12/6/1865. History
1. Neither slavery nor involuntary servitude, except as a punishment for crime whereof the party shall have been duly convicted, shall exist within the United States, or any place subject to their jurisdiction.
2. Congress shall have power to enforce this article by appropriate legislation.
 
Last time I checked, THAT was still the law.
 
Ownership is romantcized, not slavery.  

quote:


Do our easy use of the word slave, our iconization of slave collars, and our interest (from whatever angle) in dominance and submission blind us to the true horrors of slavery?


For me, a slave collar is equal to a wedding ring, it a bond, hense why I have NEVER been collared; I have been with masters in the past, but never married or collared by them; I set the bar higher.  Those who have received or given multiple collars are the ones that take away from what it means and what it symbolizes.

quote:


Are we forgetting that consensual slavery is the exception rather than the rule?


Consensual slavery is LAW.  NON-consencual slavery is illegal in the US adn in other parts of they world.

[quote
Does anyone else feel discomfort at sharing language and symbols with one of the great evils of human history?


Evil is what we make it, and if we do not learn from it, then it repeates.  I see no discomfort in symbols; symbols ONLY have meaning beause WE put meaning and significance behind them . To one person a cross is just a cross, to another its a sybmol of deep faith.  To one a collar is just a piece of jewlery, to another [like myself] its a sign of commitment and trust and love and devotion.

_____________________________

http://slaverosebeauty.livejournal.com/

"Friends live on in our hearts, regardless if they are here or not."

(in reply to dcnovice)
Profile   Post #: 39
RE: Do we romanticize slavery? - 10/7/2007 10:34:09 AM   
LordODiscipline


Posts: 995
Joined: 6/28/2004
Status: offline
I believe that we define slavery in a completely different way than the traditional time honored means.

We do this to avoid the stigma, to distance ourselves from that epoch/travesty, to allow for the fantasy to permeate where the reality would taint, and to ensure that the entirety is 'allowable' under the constraints of the sub-culture and society on the whole... despite the shock value many people gain from the revelation.

We do (indeed) romanticize it (whether it is people on CM or in real life congregations and groups)...

Many people declare they have "slaves" and then speak about how they are placed on the pedestal of chivalric silliness (figuratively of course, as the otherwise is fun only until they fall and then, do remember 'I told you so').

The thing is - with the advent of the internet, the colloquial usage for a created subculture has people declaring themselves "slaves" when in reality there is very little difference between them and the average woman on the street except a fanciful dalliance with a reality which allows them solace from an otherwise boring existence...

To state otherwise is to seek exceptions where they do not exist.

LA: While I agree to a great extent with what you are saying (historical revisionists are generally unrealistic utopians with a backward look), we cannot dismiss all people stating such as they are generally speaking of specifics, rather than the panoramic reality.

There is always something to be said for specific attributes being culled from history with an eye toward them as ideals - but, your cautionary is right on target.

Specific to Gor and other very stylized stated extremes of maintaining control in a relationship -

I have yet to meet real life persons who live in 'non-consensual slavery' without exceptional and multitudinous codicils being utilized to justify the statement.

Often all you have to do is speak to the other partner about their life in order to understand how the entire thing is being skewed to appear 'hard core', but in reality it is about equal with any other modern BDSM coupling as possible - for it to be otherwise would require too much personal, public, and societal sacrifice... and, (after all) no one wants to give up <insert the things here>.

And, when they make such declarations, and you decide to pull "that thread of logic" the individual will state that they are not public, not talking about it any more, will not meet others, etc.... and, therefore unable to prove their statements (pretty slick internet maneuver).

The facts remain:
1. Talk is cheap 
2. 'Living it' remains definitively an internet pipe dream to most reputedly 'hard-core' practitioners.

~J



_____________________________

"Anyone who thinks they're important is usually just a pompous moron who can't deal with his or her own pathetic insignificance and the fact that what they do is meaningless and inconsequential."
William Thomas

(in reply to dcnovice)
Profile   Post #: 40
Page:   <<   < prev  1 [2] 3 4 5   next >   >>
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> RE: Do we romanticize slavery? Page: <<   < prev  1 [2] 3 4 5   next >   >>
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.078