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Jinger -> RE: Ask me anything (10/18/2007 7:25:11 AM)
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ORIGINAL: laurell3
When he first started this I thought to myself sarcastically what's this skinny 19 yr old guy going to tell these people, and I have to say, I was wrong and I'm impressed. Jinger's funny, positive and well-written.
oh yeah...question...(shakes the magic8ball....) Jinger will my current relationship interest work out?
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hen he first started this I thought to myself sarcastically what's this skinny 19 yr old guy going to tell these people, and I have to say, I was wrong and I'm impressed. Jinger's funny, positive and well-written. oh yeah...question...(shakes the magic8ball....) Jinger will my current relationship interest work out?
< Message edited by laurell3 -- 10/17/2007 9:27:54 PM >
I keep tellin em I knows everything, but they don't want to listen! Still trying to figure out if the "don't ask me anything" is an open mockery of what I'm doing. Not quite sure yet.
I get the vibe that my experience and knowledge is being invalidated because of my age, but maybe I'm just overreacting to the title of the thread.
I digress.
All relationships end one way or another. Hate to sound like a pessimist but if someone doesn't break up with someone else then it's either someone moves away, or till death do you part...etc etc.
On the one hand, nobody likes to be lonely, and sex is really awesome. On the other hand, I think way too much emphasis is being put on the "need" to have a boyfriend or girlfriend. There are millions of people out there, and ultimately...boys are just boys. Nothing too special about us, generally speaking. There's always plenty more where that came from.
But to answer your question...
First off, how big is his penis? Ha ha. Just kidding...
I haven't seen your relationship so it's hard for me to say. But if you worry that your relationship is going to end...then maybe it is. But don't get all panicy and actually ask stuff like "do you still like me? Are we okay? Am I still pretty?" That'll only put him on the defense.
I recommend what I said previously on the mother/daughter issue. Observe your relationship, stand back and analyze. Only this time don't be objective, if the relationship isn't making you happy either change it or get out. People think of themselves as too sensitive or emotional when really they're just being in tune with their feelings. So if you're worried? Then you're likely worried for a good reason, don't pass off your gut instincts for mere insecurity. And don't settle for nothing but the state where you are not worried at all.
...UNLESS of course you ALWAYS worry about relationships. If you constantly worry no matter what then that's more your own personal problem than the relationship itself. There are such things as people who worry too much, I am one of those people. If you're like me then you just have to work on relaxing, being mellow and allowing yourself to calm the fuck down.
Let me know, aye?
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