Collarspace Discussion Forums


Home  Login  Search 

RE: No Limits slavery


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> RE: No Limits slavery Page: <<   < prev  2 3 4 [5] 6   next >   >>
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
RE: No Limits slavery - 11/3/2007 4:36:07 AM   
mydestiny2043


Posts: 714
Joined: 10/15/2005
From: Southern California
Status: offline 		thank you for the response annabelle,perhaps I did take it more personal than I should have.Especially since I just looked at the clock and see it's 4:30 in the morning and I haven't been to bed yet.I think I'm going to call it a night and give my brain cells rest and then try and get a new prospective on it tomorrow. 

_____________________________

Fate determines who will come into your life...................
You decide who stays,and who goes !!!!

(in reply to hisannabelle)
Profile   Post #: 81
RE: No Limits slavery - 11/3/2007 4:52:20 AM   
mydestiny2043


Posts: 714
Joined: 10/15/2005
From: Southern California
Status: offline 		Please except my apology,I actually took your post as an extention of wildflowers post and thought you were criticizing me .It's way past my bedtime and I really must not be thinking straight..........


_____________________________

Fate determines who will come into your life...................
You decide who stays,and who goes !!!!

(in reply to DMFParadox)
Profile   Post #: 82
RE: No Limits slavery - 11/3/2007 6:51:52 AM   
velvetears


Posts: 2933
Joined: 6/19/2006
Status: offline 		No limits slavery - the gift that keeps on giving.... just like the energizer bunny... keeps going and going and going............

_____________________________

Religion is for people who are scared of hell, Spirituality is for people who have been there

(in reply to mydestiny2043)
Profile   Post #: 83
RE: No Limits slavery - 11/3/2007 9:02:26 AM   
kitttty


Posts: 494
Joined: 10/10/2007
Status: offline 		UM's- what does this mean?
K9, etc.- sure. might even enjoy it.
Excrement consumption.- i guess, sure.
Incest.- but no one in my family wants a sexual relationship with me. but if they did, its probably a hard limit. Well, i guess i have a few cousins...

i highly doubt the Master would ever ask me to engage in any of these things. probably for the best being that two of them are felonies.

(in reply to hisannabelle)
Profile   Post #: 84
RE: No Limits slavery - 11/3/2007 9:07:42 AM   
MadRabbit


Posts: 3460
Joined: 8/9/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: RRafe

quote:

ORIGINAL: kitttty

Some people have a psychological preference to think themselves in a no limits relationship because it makes the slavery more real. I don't really have a preference one way or the other but the Master likes the no limits deal. I don't automatically do everything he tells me to, but I dont use the words 'limits' or 'safeword' when expressing reluctance. But Im thinking that if I started screaming safeword then the Master would stop what he was doing. Don't know. I guess I like not knowing. If I dont want to do something then I have long discussions over the issue and sometimes the task is modified or cancelled.

Obviously you cant be willing to do anything and everything for an owner just because. Even if you actually did have no limits of your own and were perfectly willng to let your owner disembowel you, everyone should have limits about what they are willing to do to another person. You cant go kidnap a child and kill him because your master told you to. But I think a lot of people want to feel 100% owned and they want to bask in the completeness of no limit slavery. So, there are mental tricks you can play on yourself to contstruct the illusion.


Precisely. And there are also tricks that the owner plays to foster that feeling. A lot of girls get really excited by the idea that they have a guy who will Just do what he feels like with them. They don;t want to set limits on the fun that this makes possible-knowing that he is probably smart enough-and cares enough not to do actual harm.

You can survive having your ass caned black and blue.

You can survive being forced to fill your diapers at the mall.

You can even survive being forced to BEG to have things like this done to you.

But what the regard of some women can't survive-is having a Top who will say-"ok, you get to tell me what to do."

Because that is not what submission means to them.


*claps*

_____________________________

Advice for New Dominants
The Unpolitically Correct Lifestyle Definitions

Obama is NOT the Messiah! He's just a VERY NAUGHTY BOY

(in reply to RRafe)
Profile   Post #: 85
RE: No Limits slavery - 11/3/2007 11:15:49 AM   
hisannabelle


Posts: 1992
Joined: 12/3/2006
From: Tallahassee, FL, USA
Status: offline 		greetings rrafe,

been there, done that, got the t-shirt. i wouldn't be able to handle a complete change in the dynamic of our relationship (meaning i'm on top all the time) all that well because to him that would mean he no longer owns me, but i can and have topped. i do it mostly because he enjoys it.

respectfully,
annabelle.

< Message edited by hisannabelle -- 11/3/2007 11:18:51 AM >

_____________________________

a'ishah (the artist formerly known as annabelle)
i have the kind of beauty that moves...

(in reply to MadRabbit)
Profile   Post #: 86
RE: No Limits slavery - 11/3/2007 12:22:21 PM   
MuscleCuteClever


Posts: 61
Joined: 9/12/2007
Status: offline 		STOP!!!

http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=gzyFmilkd80


Ok carry on.....


(in reply to mydestiny2043)
Profile   Post #: 87
RE: No Limits slavery - 11/3/2007 2:38:03 PM   
RRafe


Posts: 2060
Joined: 8/29/2007
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: hisannabelle

greetings rrafe,

been there, done that, got the t-shirt. i wouldn't be able to handle a complete change in the dynamic of our relationship (meaning i'm on top all the time) all that well because to him that would mean he no longer owns me, but i can and have topped. i do it mostly because he enjoys it.

respectfully,
annabelle.


I never liked vanilla women, and thier constant battle to sieze control. My prefference was always for some clearly stated limits and structure-not tit for tat game playing.

I didn't come to an alternate lifestyle to explore new frontiers in vanilla conformity.

_____________________________

I seem to be some wierd combination of Ren and Stimpy

(in reply to hisannabelle)
Profile   Post #: 88
RE: No Limits slavery - 11/3/2007 3:13:02 PM   
hisannabelle


Posts: 1992
Joined: 12/3/2006
From: Tallahassee, FL, USA
Status: offline 		greetings rrafe,

i don't understand what that has to do with what i said.

annabelle.


_____________________________

a'ishah (the artist formerly known as annabelle)
i have the kind of beauty that moves...

(in reply to RRafe)
Profile   Post #: 89
RE: No Limits slavery - 11/3/2007 3:20:07 PM   
Wildfleurs


Posts: 1650
Joined: 9/24/2004
From: Connecticut
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: mydestiny2043

    Hello Wildflower,and thanks for your responce,but I don't agree not all people are the same,and since I am the person who started this thread I know personally what my motivations were,nor have I written anywhere that I'm out to prove anything to anyone.I'm not sure if you've read the entire thread or if you're generalizing based on threads you've read in the past..


I'm a little late in responding, sometimes I'm bad about following a thread after I've posted to it.  But I'm actually confused - I'm saying that every person is different and so I think its impossible in any thread (including no limits threads) to be able to say how everyone else does or should work.  Are you disagreeing with that or agreeing (I honestly can't tell)?  But either way yes, I had read the entire thread before responding.

quote:


What I find interesting is that you're basically doing the same thing that upsets you about this thread." 1) People seem to have a yen to prove others wrong.  To prove that they must have limits.  And I find thats more telling about the person that feels the need to prove themselves right and make their way the universal way for everyone." 3) They always go to several pages.  Which again, I think speaks volumes about some people.


I have no idea what you are talking about since my post didn't single anyone out nor was it about proving anyone wrong about anything.

quote:


I don't know why  you use these boards,but I  do know why I do and what my motivations are,and that's to learn and hopefully grow.But please by all means if I have ever said anything close to what you say "people like me are trying to do by making posts such as mine"Show it to me as I will not only owe you an apology but will be happy in giving it to you.I wish you well in your journey.


My thoughts were really a reaction to all of the posts I had read, not really specifically to yours.  I don't know what your motivations are, however I do know thats posts reveal things about people and when people post defensively about a topic in the spirit of trying to show how right they are and how obviously everyone must do it X way, it tells a lot about them.  Thats all I was saying.

C~


_____________________________

"Just because you've always done it that way doesn't mean it's not incredibly stupid." -despair.com

~~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~
The heart of it all - http://www.wildfleurs.com
~~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~

(in reply to mydestiny2043)
Profile   Post #: 90
RE: No Limits slavery - 11/3/2007 6:54:10 PM   
mydestiny2043


Posts: 714
Joined: 10/15/2005
From: Southern California
Status: offline 		I don't know what your motivations are, however I do know thats posts reveal things about people and when people post defensively about a topic in the spirit of trying to show how right they are and how obviously everyone must do it X way, it tells a lot about them.  Thats all I was saying.
Well I guess we do agree on one thing,posts do infact reveal things about people,I know exactly what you said and how you meant it,and I'm just going to leave with the knowledge that neither of us is changing our views on that fact.


_____________________________

Fate determines who will come into your life...................
You decide who stays,and who goes !!!!

(in reply to Wildfleurs)
Profile   Post #: 91
RE: No Limits slavery - 11/3/2007 7:05:16 PM   
ownedgirlie


Posts: 9184
Joined: 2/5/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: kitttty

UM's- what does this mean?
K9, etc.- sure. might even enjoy it.
Excrement consumption.- i guess, sure.
Incest.- but no one in my family wants a sexual relationship with me. but if they did, its probably a hard limit. Well, i guess i have a few cousins...

i highly doubt the Master would ever ask me to engage in any of these things. probably for the best being that two of them are felonies.


UM's = "Unmentionables"  - a word used in these forums to refer to those not of legal age. 

Of the above list - 3 out of four of them have either been done or are in the works for me.  People should not assume everyone shares their boundaries.

Now where's that damned chainsaw....

(in reply to kitttty)
Profile   Post #: 92
RE: No Limits slavery - 11/3/2007 7:11:41 PM   
lilprincess25


Posts: 28
Joined: 8/29/2005
Status: offline 		i have to say there can never truly be somone who has 'no limits' least i think that.  i mean we all have something we wouldn't be caught dead doing, or just have an intense fear of somthing. i think the only people who say they don't have limits are mostlikly newbies to the lifestyle who don't really know much about BDSM.  those are the ones we as veteran's in this lifestyle must protect from those who will abuse that lack of knowledge and darken the life we all love and enjoy.

sorry for the soap box if it sounds like i had one.  kinda was in that situation once when i was a newbie.

(in reply to mydestiny2043)
Profile   Post #: 93
RE: No Limits slavery - 11/3/2007 7:13:05 PM   
LaMspeach


Posts: 794
Joined: 12/4/2004
From: Philadelphia area, PA
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie
Now where's that damned chainsaw....


Damn girlie, havent we taught you anything .  Last week you were a rug, now your telling everyone about the chainsaw under your bed. Pretty soon everyone is going start talking about how insane you are.  

_____________________________

peach ~ LordandMasters devoted alpha slave
"Only when the year has grown cold does one know that the pine and cypress are the last to wither"



(in reply to ownedgirlie)
Profile   Post #: 94
RE: No Limits slavery - 11/3/2007 7:18:04 PM   
ownedgirlie


Posts: 9184
Joined: 2/5/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: LaMspeach

quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie
Now where's that damned chainsaw....


Damn girlie, havent we taught you anything .  Last week you were a rug, now your telling everyone about the chainsaw under your bed. Pretty soon everyone is going start talking about how insane you are.  


LOL I know, peachie, I am criminally insane so lock your doors at night and protect the newbies from me!! 

(in reply to LaMspeach)
Profile   Post #: 95
RE: No Limits slavery - 11/3/2007 7:18:41 PM   
kitttty


Posts: 494
Joined: 10/10/2007
Status: offline
quote:

UM's = "Unmentionables" - a word used in these forums to refer to those not of legal age.


Are we talking 17 or 7? 17 is fine- well, if it were not a crime.

I have one major limit, which realistically can affect my relationships- the Dom must want our relationship to last forever. If he gives me the impression that he wants to marry me, then I will fuck my cousin and his dog. If he gives me the impression that he is opposed to marrying me, I would not even give him a blow job.

(in reply to LaMspeach)
Profile   Post #: 96
RE: No Limits slavery - 11/3/2007 7:25:25 PM   
ownedgirlie


Posts: 9184
Joined: 2/5/2006
Status: offline 		kitttty - we can't name younger ages or animals on these forums.  It's against TOS.  Your post may get pulled, just fyi to you. :)

(in reply to kitttty)
Profile   Post #: 97
RE: No Limits slavery - 11/3/2007 7:25:27 PM   
susie


Posts: 1699
Joined: 11/21/2004
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: kitttty

quote:

UM's = "Unmentionables" - a word used in these forums to refer to those not of legal age.


Are we talking 17 or 7? 17 is fine- well, if it were not a crime.

I have one major limit, which realistically can affect my relationships- the Dom must want our relationship to last forever. If he gives me the impression that he wants to marry me, then I will fuck my cousin and his dog. If he gives me the impression that he is opposed to marrying me, I would not even give him a blow job.


Hate to break it to you but nothing lasts for ever. So basically all a Dom has to do is say "I want to marry you" and you will do anything he wants. Then he just walks away. You have a lot to learn about life and relationships.

(in reply to kitttty)
Profile   Post #: 98
RE: No Limits slavery - 11/3/2007 7:34:28 PM   
kitttty


Posts: 494
Joined: 10/10/2007
Status: offline
quote:

So basically all a Dom has to do is say "I want to marry you" and you will do anything he wants. Then he just walks away. You have a lot to learn about life and relationships.


He doesn't actually have to stay- I might not actually even want him to in the end. He just has to convince me that he wants to own me forever- it's a psychological neccesity for me.

I do want my current Master to marry me and own me forever though. I sincerely mean that.

(in reply to susie)
Profile   Post #: 99
RE: No Limits slavery - 11/3/2007 7:48:01 PM   
RRafe


Posts: 2060
Joined: 8/29/2007
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: RRafe

quote:

ORIGINAL: hisannabelle

greetings rrafe,

been there, done that, got the t-shirt. i wouldn't be able to handle a complete change in the dynamic of our relationship (meaning i'm on top all the time) all that well because to him that would mean he no longer owns me, but i can and have topped. i do it mostly because he enjoys it.

respectfully,
annabelle.


I never liked vanilla women, and thier constant battle to sieze control. My prefference was always for some clearly stated limits and structure-not tit for tat game playing.

I didn't come to an alternate lifestyle to explore new frontiers in vanilla conformity.


It means I emphasize with your owner.

_____________________________

I seem to be some wierd combination of Ren and Stimpy

(in reply to RRafe)
Profile   Post #: 100
Page:   <<   < prev  2 3 4 [5] 6   next >   >>
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> RE: No Limits slavery Page: <<   < prev  2 3 4 [5] 6   next >   >>
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.094