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RE: Energy people - 10/30/2007 6:47:18 PM   
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ORIGINAL: mistoferin

I used to believe that we feed off of each other's energy but something that KnightofMists said has me rethinking it just a bit. He said that the two people (and even others in attendance can contribute to) create an energy together that they feed from. This makes more sense to me because if indeed we fed directly from each other, the weaker of the two would end up empty. As a submissive and a masochist, I know that I feel very empowered after a good scene, and I don't believe that I would feel that if the sadist was feeding directly off my energy rather than feeding off of the energy we create together.


Greetings erin,
Greetings RRafe,

It is my belief that all energy already exists - we cannot create more - we can only alter it's charge. Altering energy so that there is more positive energy than negative (and these terms are subjective) creates the energy "high" so many of us experience even if we have other names for it.
 
One Dominant i serve, is able to feel the energy i put out when we play, even though i am not intentionally doing so. Like RRafe said in an earlier post, it primarily manifests in my hands...which to me is not surprising as my Sifu, who is also my Reiki Master,  placed reiki power symbols in my palms when i was "attuned". But when one looks back thru history, the palms of the hands have always been recievers and givers of energy as are the soles of the feet~
 
In energy work, my Sifu explained it as "harmony and balance" with another's energy, yin/yang if you will indulge a taoist term.
 
There are such things as Energy vampires, and they may have been discused in a prior post.  Many do not realize they are nor steal energy intentionally. But because i have become more sensitive to energy in the work i do, i can pick them out and gauge how much energy i will allow them to take and when to pull back. i know this can sound abit far out...but it is what i believe thru my own personal experiences~
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RE: Energy people - 10/30/2007 7:04:51 PM   
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As a side note LA,
they shouldn't even try to feed on you without your permission.

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RE: Energy people - 10/30/2007 9:51:51 PM   
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Absolutely my intimacy is based on my energy. Sex is my direct path to the divine. Vampirism is a way that I feed. An energy exchange in a scene is more bonding that just about anything I can think of.

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RE: Energy people - 10/30/2007 10:07:04 PM   
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ORIGINAL: PsyVamp
As a side note LA,
they shouldn't even try to feed on you without your permission.

-Psy

Well people shouldn't rape physically either, doesn't stop a lot of people.

Vampires can be the worst in terms of thinking they are "above" or "outside" the realm of ethics and morals, specially as it's nearly impossible to impose immediate direct negative consequences on their actions (if the victim even is aware) unless you know what you're doing.

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RE: Energy people - 10/30/2007 10:32:18 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: mistoferin

I used to believe that we feed off of each other's energy but something that KnightofMists said has me rethinking it just a bit. He said that the two people (and even others in attendance can contribute to) create an energy together that they feed from. This makes more sense to me because if indeed we fed directly from each other, the weaker of the two would end up empty. As a submissive and a masochist, I know that I feel very empowered after a good scene, and I don't believe that I would feel that if the sadist was feeding directly off my energy rather than feeding off of the energy we create together.


Hi Erin,

It's a good theory but not at all true in my case.  We transfer energy back and forth.  One thing my Master enjoys doing is sapping all my energy from me until I am laying there unable to even lift my head, and then he fills me with his energy which elevates me and has my flying.  Sometimes he feels really tired the next day as a result, but he says usually he gets more energy from me than he actually loses. 

I agree that two people can indeed create a shared energy together, which, when Master and I do that is remarkably awesome.  But that does not mean they can't transfer it back and forth, either.  Energy can be manipulated, it just takes practice.

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RE: Energy people - 10/30/2007 10:56:16 PM   
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does anyone remember the movie scanners. OK there are forces that are good and bad around us spirit energy they are called. We all resonate at a certain freq. When put on a spectra scope you can see it. the body dose have s certain amount of voltage to it. So it is only normal that we can harness that power to do things.
spiritual tunning is very hard and complex. Unless your a monk with years of experience. It would be hard to do. THis is for those who call them selves energy vampires be careful what you tap into some of us have the ability to do things beyond the norm.

       um i hope uncle sam is not reading these boards. I do not want end up as a black box experiment Lol any how.  some people have the gift of premonition. some people are healers. some people are manipulators these are dangerous by the way. Some are inventors can design things in their head at the speed of light. Mozart could compose things in his head before he put them on paper.  Those that are mind readers it is like everyone shouting at once in your head totally sucks can drive you in sane. people who are good have taken years to focus. and being intune with your partner is cool. You know if they are cheating or lieing with out them saying a thing rofl
some mysteries need to stay just that I have said to much..You figure it out  

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RE: Energy people - 10/30/2007 10:59:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64

does anyone remember the movie scanners. OK there are forces that are good and bad around us spirit energy they are called. We all resonate at a certain freq. When put on a spectra scope you can see it. the body dose have s certain amount of voltage to it. So it is only normal that we can harness that power to do things.
spiritual tunning is very hard and complex. Unless your a monk with years of experience. It would be hard to do. THis is for those who call them selves energy vampires be careful what you tap into some of us have the ability to do things beyond the norm.

      um i hope uncle sam is not reading these boards. I do not want end up as a black box experiment Lol any how.  some people have the gift of premonition. some people are healers. some people are manipulators these are dangerous by the way. Some are inventors can design things in their head at the speed of light. Mozart could compose things in his head before he put them on paper.  Those that are mind readers it is like everyone shouting at once in your head totally sucks can drive you in sane. people who are good have taken years to focus. and being intune with your partner is cool. You know if they are cheating or lieing with out them saying a thing rofl
some mysteries need to stay just that I have said to much..You figure it out  
 

You really are a nut job.

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RE: Energy people - 10/30/2007 11:01:16 PM   
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Thank you I try my best lol 

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RE: Energy people - 10/30/2007 11:08:50 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64
some people have the gift of premonition.



No they don't.

quote:

ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64
some people are healers.


Unless you mean "doctors" then again no, they aren't.

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ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64
Those that are mind readers it is like everyone shouting at once in your head totally sucks can drive you in sane.


No one can read minds.

To repeat- no one can predict the future, no one can dowse, no one can heal with a touch, no one can "manipulate your chakra," and no one can read minds. If you can do any of these things, please, go get your million bucks from the Randi Foundation. If you don't need/want the money, seriously, there are about a million worthy charities that could use it.

Until and unless someone offers scientific evidence that any of these things exist, they're just the mental masturbation of the easily amused.


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RE: Energy people - 10/30/2007 11:21:10 PM   
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Absa-fuckin-lutely.

I consider myself an amplifier in a high-gain circuit. I savor and drink in every drop of vitality the girl is radiating, and feed it back to her amplified, raising her up higher, more vital, vibrant, radiant, and feeding back to me, and so on.

That's how it works.


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RE: Energy people - 10/30/2007 11:48:49 PM   
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I have to agree in part, but keep in mind that every interaction is an exchange of one energy form or another.. I find so much of our interactions are very high energy He is incredibly intense.. His presence alone is enough to create this nervousness unless given service oriented tasks to do for Him.. every moment with Him is intimate ...

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RE: Energy people - 10/31/2007 1:00:23 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SmokingGun82

quote:

ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64
some people have the gift of premonition.



No they don't.

quote:

ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64
some people are healers.


Unless you mean "doctors" then again no, they aren't.

quote:

ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64
Those that are mind readers it is like everyone shouting at once in your head totally sucks can drive you in sane.


No one can read minds.

To repeat- no one can predict the future, no one can dowse, no one can heal with a touch, no one can "manipulate your chakra," and no one can read minds. If you can do any of these things, please, go get your million bucks from the Randi Foundation. If you don't need/want the money, seriously, there are about a million worthy charities that could use it.

Until and unless someone offers scientific evidence that any of these things exist, they're just the mental masturbation of the easily amused.



Don't start that nonsense again PLEASE.

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RE: Energy people - 10/31/2007 1:05:01 AM   
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Is your intimacy based on your energy?


The best concept I know for it is Chi or Ki (depends on origin).
I was once very into Akido and still work with Ki breathing.
I believe wherever we focus our Chi (mind...body awareness) is where it will be focused.

Within us, without us. In us, in another, as a power exchange. By method of mind or body. Yummy.

With this knowledge, anything I participate in which is a power over, or a fuck over is unethical.

Simple really.

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RE: Energy people - 10/31/2007 3:38:03 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: SmokingGun82

quote:

ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64
some people have the gift of premonition.



No they don't.

quote:

ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64
some people are healers.


Unless you mean "doctors" then again no, they aren't.

quote:

ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64
Those that are mind readers it is like everyone shouting at once in your head totally sucks can drive you in sane.


No one can read minds.

To repeat- no one can predict the future, no one can dowse, no one can heal with a touch, no one can "manipulate your chakra," and no one can read minds. If you can do any of these things, please, go get your million bucks from the Randi Foundation. If you don't need/want the money, seriously, there are about a million worthy charities that could use it.

Until and unless someone offers scientific evidence that any of these things exist, they're just the mental masturbation of the easily amused.



{no one can heal with a touch, }
....or perhaps your idea of what "healing with a touch" is, has been skewed by the teleevangelists you see on tv...?
 
....and I have no scientific proof to offer you about what happens sometimes when I am working, and the energy flow is so strong from my hands that it creates a healing change in the body, muscles, pain level, malady in the person I am touching.
No proof, but it happens.
it doesn't happen with everyone I work with, and it is more ramdom than predicatable....but it happens.
 
Do I lay my hands on someone and then yell " you are healed" and they walk away from me healed?  NOPE. 
 
 Don't even call myself "a healer"...  But I have seen my hands create relief in people in severe pain.
 
 I have watched children profoundly disabled by muscular disease, atrophied bodies, balled up fists and feet of  near-drowning victims, relax and unfurl because of my hands and my use of reflexology and positive thought and energy transfer.
 
I am usually paired with the children who are most profoundly unable to communicate their feelings ( emotional and physical) because I can "feel" ( or sense if it makes you less uncomfortable to think of it that way ) what and where they are feeling pain/discomfort. 
I convey this information to the doctors I work with and then  modern medicine dr's do the healing..or curing.
Sometimes, while my hands are gently assessing what and where the pain is>  it disappears..  sometimes for a short time ( hours...days..weeks)  sometimes permanently.
 
Can I produce a degree that says I can do this?
Can I explain exactly what happens, or why sometimes it happens and sometimes it doesn't ?  no
 
but the doctors I work with don't seem to focus on the "how or why" I can accomplish this....the proof they need is in what they have seen happen..
nor do the parents of the children who can once again see abilities and possibilities in a body that was once in a vegatative, non-reactive state.
 
Smoking
I understand your feeling that just because someone says "they can or do"  > doesn't make it true/so.
 
But, just because YOU say " no one can or does"  doesn't make that true/so either.
 
Closed eyes limit your sight,
but a closed mind limits ones possibilities to learn.
When we stop learning, we stop growing, evolving and thriving.
 

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

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RE: Energy people - 10/31/2007 5:28:45 AM   
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In threads/subjects like this, I often see people trying to bash the main concept - here, of energy transfer and such. How's 'bout this: we let people believe what they believe and try not to make it into a mocking contest?

If you don't share these energy beliefs, no matter how far-out they may sound, then there's nothing saying you have to change that. Belittling someone else's convictions only serves to make the aggressor feel better for a moment at the detriment of someone else.

I have my own beliefs on energy transfer, Reiki, and the like. They're my opinions and beliefs, stemming from my own experiences. That in no way makes them "right" or "wrong" - they are my interpretation. If it works for me, and it works for them, what's the big deal?

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RE: Energy people - 10/31/2007 6:52:21 AM   
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oh well you do not understand lol ok what ever not my problem have a nice day

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RE: Energy people - 10/31/2007 6:58:58 AM   
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they use psychic detectives to solve crimes with. this is been documented  shrugs
i do not care what someone believes or not. It does not bother me either way.
just wish them well yep works for me :) 

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RE: Energy people - 10/31/2007 7:11:11 AM   
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I am a little confused also - Is the energy you describe you actually just making a connection? If your hands are getting hot during a scene are you not just getting turned on? Heart beating faster, sweating etc. It seems to me you are re-interpreting some normal 'scene' reactions into something else - for you it is called energy. That's fine - but it seems to me to get interpretted at an almost paranormal level, whilst it all could be explained in other ways.

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RE: Energy people - 10/31/2007 9:33:29 AM   
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Un zips to see if I have a presumtious dick. By the way is that good or bad?

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RE: Energy people - 10/31/2007 9:55:24 AM   
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Master and I look at the energy exchanged between us as the two half's of a yin yang sort of effect that we've seekd till we met.
We both seem to feed off each other's energy and we balance each other.
It's when He's Dominating, and I'm submitting the circuit's complete and the circle of our relationship begins to spin as it's designed to.
suzanne

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