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ORIGINAL: MrSpectacular

I am a little confused also - Is the energy you describe you actually just making a connection? If your hands are getting hot during a scene are you not just getting turned on? Heart beating faster, sweating etc. It seems to me you are re-interpreting some normal 'scene' reactions into something else - for you it is called energy. That's fine - but it seems to me to get interpretted at an almost paranormal level, whilst it all could be explained in other ways.

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ORIGINAL: mistoferin

I used to believe that we feed off of each other's energy but something that KnightofMists said has me rethinking it just a bit. He said that the two people (and even others in attendance can contribute to) create an energy together that they feed from. This makes more sense to me because if indeed we fed directly from each other, the weaker of the two would end up empty. As a submissive and a masochist, I know that I feel very empowered after a good scene, and I don't believe that I would feel that if the sadist was feeding directly off my energy rather than feeding off of the energy we create together.

i'm with mist of erin on this one

Haven't read your erotica (hint) but i personally think of you as fluffy dom not evil dom, in a good way of course

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ORIGINAL: missturbation

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ORIGINAL: mistoferin

I used to believe that we feed off of each other's energy but something that KnightofMists said has me rethinking it just a bit. He said that the two people (and even others in attendance can contribute to) create an energy together that they feed from. This makes more sense to me because if indeed we fed directly from each other, the weaker of the two would end up empty. As a submissive and a masochist, I know that I feel very empowered after a good scene, and I don't believe that I would feel that if the sadist was feeding directly off my energy rather than feeding off of the energy we create together.

i'm with mist of erin on this one
 
Those of you who have read some of my rather extreme erotica, may have wondered " Why is this fellow so evil in his methodology?"
Haven't read your erotica (hint) but i personally think of you as fluffy dom not evil dom, in a good way of course

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ORIGINAL: SmokingGun82

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ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64
some people have the gift of premonition.

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ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64
some people are healers.

Unless you mean "doctors" then again no, they aren't.

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ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64
Those that are mind readers it is like everyone shouting at once in your head totally sucks can drive you in sane.

No one can read minds.

To repeat- no one can predict the future, no one can dowse, no one can heal with a touch, no one can "manipulate your chakra," and no one can read minds. If you can do any of these things, please, go get your million bucks from the Randi Foundation. If you don't need/want the money, seriously, there are about a million worthy charities that could use it.

Until and unless someone offers scientific evidence that any of these things exist, they're just the mental masturbation of the easily amused.

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ORIGINAL: RRafe
Is your intimacy based on your energy?

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ORIGINAL: chellekitty

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ORIGINAL: RRafe
Is your intimacy based on your energy?

clarification please...what do you mean by intimacy...because i am not sure that is the word you are looking to use exactly, because of its broad meaning:
1.the state of being intimate. 2.a close, familiar, and usually affectionate or loving personal relationship with another person or group. 3.a close association with or detailed knowledge or deep understanding of a place, subject, period of history, etc.: an intimacy with Japan. 4.an act or expression serving as a token of familiarity, affection, or the like: to allow the intimacy of using first names. 5.an amorously familiar act; liberty. 6.sexual intercourse. 7.the quality of being comfortable, warm, or familiar: the intimacy of the room. 8.privacy, esp. as suitable to the telling of a secret: in the intimacy of his studio.
i believe only 3, and perhaps 7 and 8 are not relevant... and i am intimate with my mother....and i am intimate with my pastor at church....but not in the way that you are referencing....and i am really not trying to be difficult, it's just....i could write for days on the subject (i kind of did on the psychic thread)...and i am trying to figure out what you are wanting to know more about...

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ORIGINAL: RRafe
The baselines feeling and connections you have with a person you care for,and spend time with. In a sexual and romantic manner.

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

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ORIGINAL: PsyVamp
As a side note LA,
they shouldn't even try to feed on you without your permission.

-Psy

Well people shouldn't rape physically either, doesn't stop a lot of people.

Vampires can be the worst in terms of thinking they are "above" or "outside" the realm of ethics and morals, specially as it's nearly impossible to impose immediate direct negative consequences on their actions (if the victim even is aware) unless you know what you're doing.

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ORIGINAL: PsyVamp

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

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ORIGINAL: PsyVamp
As a side note LA,
they shouldn't even try to feed on you without your permission.

-Psy

Well people shouldn't rape physically either, doesn't stop a lot of people.

Vampires can be the worst in terms of thinking they are "above" or "outside" the realm of ethics and morals, specially as it's nearly impossible to impose immediate direct negative consequences on their actions (if the victim even is aware) unless you know what you're doing.

Some can you are absolutely correct... I choose not to associate with such...immature people.  And they will continue to act like that unless someone takes them to task.  I think a lot of people are unaware...disbelief can be wonderful cover for them.

I hope you have had some positive experiences...not all of us are jerks

Psy  

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ORIGINAL: RRafe

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ORIGINAL: PsyVamp

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

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ORIGINAL: PsyVamp
As a side note LA,
they shouldn't even try to feed on you without your permission.

-Psy

Well people shouldn't rape physically either, doesn't stop a lot of people.

Vampires can be the worst in terms of thinking they are "above" or "outside" the realm of ethics and morals, specially as it's nearly impossible to impose immediate direct negative consequences on their actions (if the victim even is aware) unless you know what you're doing.

Some can you are absolutely correct... I choose not to associate with such...immature people.  And they will continue to act like that unless someone takes them to task.  I think a lot of people are unaware...disbelief can be wonderful cover for them.

I hope you have had some positive experiences...not all of us are jerks

Psy  

It's also stupid to try and take energy from people you don't know, it can make you sick.

Ever been in the presence of someone who just creeped you out?

made you shudder, even when they didn't do anything?

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ORIGINAL: RRafe

I'll think about some more-when you come ascross to me as a bitch,I lose interest in being nice.

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I know that there have been times that I just gave up that sort of thing to my image of the divine.

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ORIGINAL: chellekitty

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ORIGINAL: RRafe

I'll think about some more-when you come ascross to me as a bitch,I lose interest in being nice.

i'm assuming that was a general you and not a specific you....?

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross
But it's still all happening- all those levels. Somehow an electrical impulse becomes a "thought." That doesn't make thoughts paranormal, it just means we've accepted them as normal.

Feeling energy/connection from someone is really as normal as having thoughts, and not at all a big deal in terms of comparison to other things.

But just like breathing, if it's not there, you miss it really fast.

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

It's also stupid to try and take energy from someone who not only knows exactly what/how it's going on, but CAN impose those immediate direct physical consequences on their dick presumptuous asses.  You know, just like vampires get surprised by the cute blonde Buffy...

As for "is it energy/paranormal or is it just normal"?  That is an excellent question!  I am the FIRST one to try and say "This isn't a big deal!"  One thing to remember that energy is energy- your heart beating is electrical impulses, the thoughts you have are electical impulses surging through physical cells in your body.  Sweat happens due to chemical reactions in the body which manifest into biological ones.

The deeper you get into biology, the more it becomes chemistry.  The deeper you get into chemistry, the more it becomes physics.  The deeper you get into physics, the more it becomes quantum physics and that's just some freaky fucked up shit.

But it's still all happening- all those levels.  Somehow an electrical impulse becomes a "thought."  That doesn't make thoughts paranormal, it just means we've accepted them as normal.

Feeling energy/connection from someone is really as normal as having thoughts, and not at all a big deal in terms of comparison to other things. 

But just like breathing, if it's not there, you miss it really fast.

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ORIGINAL: RRafe
If you feel you can diss me-you can find someone else to talk to.