Why Can't Guys Get Away With This?

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SirDominic -> Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 12:46:02 PM)
This is the profile for a Domme, name not important, nor even relevant as I picked it at random from the very many that are similar to it. Any man who attempted such a profile would be shot down in flames, and would certainly never get a woman to respond positively. Yet there are numerous female Doms who use this approach, with, I assume success. Can you say double standard?!?!?!?!? I am Superior to you in every way! If I own you as a slave you can consider yourself fortunate. I am greedy and self-important, I care only for myself and nothing for you! I only have sex with women, NOT MEN! I am only interested in men who have credit cards and see it as their duty to become enslaved by me, to spoil me, worship me. Be warned, there is a very tough selection process! I admit it, I'm envious. lol.

CalifChick -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 12:49:23 PM)
Okay, that's it. I need to change my profile. Taking notes.... "credit card required." [;)] Sharon

BitaTruble -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 12:53:04 PM)
Supply and demand, Sir D.. supply and demand. ;) Celeste

Assman4u -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 12:55:57 PM)
Female Domme's are much different in their profiles than males. I discovered this looking for a Domme to help me with my sub, who moved away. You are right a male dom could never get away with it!!!

MistressSophia -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 12:59:30 PM)
Dominic, I 'm not sure what you see as the problem? The Domme clearly states what her desires are..No BS No sugar coating it.. If you state clearly, someone is ready to bitch. if you sugar coat it they are full of crap..After all she is speaking about a slave. not a husband , b/f mate or lover.. Seemed pretty correct. So I ask again where is the problem?. Oh wait... no BJ'S! got it......

ctrlaltdelete -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 12:59:50 PM)
Because it requires two slots to operate like that: 1) one through which to swipe the credit card and 2) a second where you insert the oversized-ego-chip. Alas, men can only offer one slot!

toservez -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 1:07:25 PM)
I think you are making a false assumption that a person who wrote that profile will ever get a person to be ok with what she wrote. Sure she will get messages from men hoping she is not true to her word and/or in cyber fantasy responding to the tone but finding out this person just wants their credit card number gets them exposed for what they are, a scammer.

MasterShibari -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 1:10:32 PM)
Its all a matter of supply and demand. Online, the male subs outnumber practically every other group combined. Lets the Dommes be a hell of a lot more demanding then us poor Doms. Plus, there are a lot of guys out there who fantasize about financial servitude, not a huge fantasey among women. Not saying it doesn't exist, but its not usually there. By demanding financial servitude, shes cutting down her optiosn severely, and it is possible that she won't find anyone here. But she still might. M. Shibari

bipolarber -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 1:10:46 PM)
I'm not so sure she IS getting away with it, frankly. We'd have to check with her to see if she gets many responses... (she might get some on the lesbian playmate side.... but I don't think there'd be too many responses from guys just wanting to blow their paychecks and getting zilch back... (Wait, is she hot? If she's hot, all bets are off.) :)

TotalState -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 1:17:38 PM)
Bet you 20 bucks she never gets any non-online action.

MystressDream -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 1:22:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SirDominic This is the profile for a Domme, name not important, nor even relevant as I picked it at random from the very many that are similar to it. Any man who attempted such a profile would be shot down in flames, and would certainly never get a woman to respond positively. Yet there are numerous female Doms who use this approach, with, I assume success. Can you say double standard?!?!?!?!? I am Superior to you in every way! If I own you as a slave you can consider yourself fortunate. I am greedy and self-important, I care only for myself and nothing for you! I only have sex with women, NOT MEN! I am only interested in men who have credit cards and see it as their duty to become enslaved by me, to spoil me, worship me. Be warned, there is a very tough selection process! I admit it, I'm envious. lol. These kinds of profiles amaze me also....... However, if they hook up with all the men who email me and want financial domination only, then they have it made in the shade. LOL Are there men out there who SAY all they want it to turn over their paychecks with nothing in return?? Oh yes..... many..... Would they actually do it? I have no idea. I'm thinking I should contact her and see how that is working for her. LOLOL And, I will restate my opinion..... Many men will pay for anything... Most women won't. Many men look for instant gratification.... Most women look for much much more. PLEASE NOTE the use of "many" and "most" before you think to flame me for that comment!! <grin>

LotusSong -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 1:25:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SirDominic This is the profile for a Domme, name not important, nor even relevant as I picked it at random from the very many that are similar to it. Any man who attempted such a profile would be shot down in flames, and would certainly never get a woman to respond positively. Yet there are numerous female Doms who use this approach, with, I assume success. Can you say double standard?!?!?!?!? I am Superior to you in every way! If I own you as a slave you can consider yourself fortunate. I am greedy and self-important, I care only for myself and nothing for you! I only have sex with women, NOT MEN! I am only interested in men who have credit cards and see it as their duty to become enslaved by me, to spoil me, worship me. Be warned, there is a very tough selection process! I admit it, I'm envious. lol. Don't suppose too much unless you actually see her mailbox contents :) I'd create a bogus profile along the same vein and see what you get if I really wanted to know. It'll probably be full of more insults than accolades and you will see the "type" that this attracts. (damn.. I told my Mom to take that off her profile but noOOOOOOOOoooooooooooooo!)

ctrlaltdelete -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 1:28:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TotalState Bet you 20 bucks she never gets any non-online action. Only take cash in those bets...someone's credit card might be over its limit!

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 1:29:09 PM)
I get a giggle out of the fem dom profiles that say YOU MEN ARE AS WORRRRRMS give me your paycheck and fuck off! I get a boggle out of the male dom profiles that say they are looking for a 24/7 sex slave who will submit to any sort of abuse without complaint and put dinner on the table besides. They are out there, in droves. Doofs are on all sides.

LotusSong -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 1:36:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus I get a giggle out of the fem dom profiles that say YOU MEN ARE AS WORRRRRMS give me your paycheck and fuck off! I get a boggle out of the male dom profiles that say they are looking for a 24/7 sex slave who will submit to any sort of abuse without complaint and put dinner on the table besides. They are out there, in droves. Doofs are on all sides. (double damn..now Dad's at it again!)

Mellissande -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 1:37:43 PM)
LS, you must one AWESOME family lol

LotusSong -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 1:39:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Mellissande LS, you must one AWESOME family lol .... please don't ask me about my granny.... (LOL)

Mellissande -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 1:39:58 PM)
lol so long as you don't ask about my uncles we'll be fine lol edited because I can't type whort carp odtay lol

slimcontroller -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 1:40:28 PM)
quote: there is a very tough selection process! One assumes a rigorous investigation of the available credit limit. But the point is surely that this is not a 'level playing field'. There is, I think, a huge differance between male and female submissives and this is not only in terms of supply and demand. Slimc

chiaThePet -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 1:40:59 PM)
Who says they don't? Mistress Chia*

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