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Shawn1066 -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 2:57:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SirDominic This is the profile for a Domme, name not important, nor even relevant as I picked it at random from the very many that are similar to it. Any man who attempted such a profile would be shot down in flames, and would certainly never get a woman to respond positively. Yet there are numerous female Doms who use this approach, with, I assume success. Can you say double standard?!?!?!?!? I am Superior to you in every way! If I own you as a slave you can consider yourself fortunate. I am greedy and self-important, I care only for myself and nothing for you! I only have sex with women, NOT MEN! I am only interested in men who have credit cards and see it as their duty to become enslaved by me, to spoil me, worship me. Be warned, there is a very tough selection process! I admit it, I'm envious. lol. I dunno, I see Doms get away with a lot of stupid crap too. Mostly they're just get by on being WAY more creepy than most Dommes. Generally, I believe if you refer to yourself as a Dominant, regardless of gender...you have a lot more leeway of being stupid and still having people take you semi-seriously. Then again, there's stupid, overly needy male submissives who demand to be dominated, and over emotional female submissives. Perhaps people are just a little stupid in general, and it's not based on ones sex, dominance, or submission. I dunno. :-p

RRafe -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 2:57:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MsBearlee Now now, RRafe...I realize you proudly say you are not a sadist; but some of us ARE. Surely you didn't mean to sound so condescending or judgmental? Tell me it ain't so... Perhaps you don't understand us...but you are usually better than this. Sadistically yours, Beverly I understand completely. I'm playing devils advocate today-do you have good reasons for what you do? Or do you do them to fit in?

Stephann -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 3:00:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Padriag quote: ORIGINAL: LotusSong The one weakness a man will always have... is his lust. I wouldn't be so certain of that. I'm certain charlotte and Tigrita would consider that a strength... [:D]

MsBearlee -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 3:00:43 PM)
Pardon me? Damn, you ARE on a roll! Have fun, kiddo B

KnightofMists -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 3:05:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: toservez I think you are making a false assumption that a person who wrote that profile will ever get a person to be ok with what she wrote. Sure she will get messages from men hoping she is not true to her word and/or in cyber fantasy responding to the tone but finding out this person just wants their credit card number gets them exposed for what they are, a scammer. I don't think it's a False Assumption... I believe it to be possible that this person or person like them (Female or Male) will get another person that will jump into this type of relationship.... Of course... the odds of it happening is rather rare.. and even rarer for Males in my opinion... but it can and does happen. However.. thou their seems to more than a few males that will be used for their credit cards... there is equal number of women that will be used for their bodies. But I suspect such individuals are getting something in return for the use they give.

missturbation -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 3:08:41 PM)
quote: there is equal number of women that will be used for their bodies. You can use mine anytime [;)] quote: But I suspect such individuals are getting something in return for the use they give. Boy would i !!!!!!!!! [:)] *fans self*

KnightofMists -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 3:12:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MystressDream And, I will restate my opinion..... Many men will pay for anything... Most women won't. Many men look for instant gratification.... Most women look for much much more. It is these typical silly negative generalization cause me seldom to meet a Female Dominant that I can respect.

KnightofMists -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 3:14:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: missturbation Boy would i !!!!!!!!! [:)] *fans self* mmmmmmmm and just what is it that you looking to receive with giving such use EG

RRafe -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 3:14:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KnightofMists quote: ORIGINAL: MystressDream And, I will restate my opinion..... Many men will pay for anything... Most women won't. Many men look for instant gratification.... Most women look for much much more. It is these typical silly negative generalization cause me seldom to meet a Female Dominant that I can respect. Or why a few I met in my local scene were totally flabbergasted when they wanted to play domination games with me, and I fell over laughing. After all, EVERY man should want to submit to someone so wonderful, eh?

missturbation -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 3:17:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KnightofMists quote: ORIGINAL: missturbation Boy would i !!!!!!!!! [:)] *fans self* mmmmmmmm and just what is it that you looking to receive with giving such use EG Just a little of your time, conversation and sadisticness of course !! [:)]

missturbation -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 3:20:17 PM)
{quote} Rrafe. After all, EVERY man should want to buy someone so wonderful lots and lots of shoes, eh? [/quote] Why yes Rrafe they should want to buy me shoes [:D] Sorry cudna help myself.

RRafe -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 3:21:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: missturbation {quote} Rrafe. After all, EVERY man should want to buy someone so wonderful lots and lots of shoes, eh? Why yes Rrafe they should want to buy me shoes [:D] Sorry cudna help myself. SHOOOEEESSSSSS........must have more SHOESSSSSSSS[:D]

KnightofMists -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 3:21:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RRafe . After all, EVERY man should want to submit to someone so wonderful, eh? On many occassions ... Dominants (Male or Female) often are projecting and and over-compensating for some sort of insecurity in their interactions with others. Most of us are dealing with or come across situations of insecurties... the very strongest of those learn to not make their insecurity the issue for others to deal with. Being insecure is not the black plague... it's how one deals with the insecurites they face that can denote it as negative or not.

Lashra -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 3:21:48 PM)
I can't see anyone wanting to reply to a profile like that. I am sure though the person behind it has gotten their share of grief messages from people who have viewed it. I mean look at all the ProDomme bashing threads that there are, I can only imagine the messages this person gets.[&:] Though they are out to make a buck and are not interested in a "relationship" so I doubt that they care what people think of it unless its a sub looking for a ProDomme. If thats the case then this type of ad is exactly what that sub maybe seeking. I'd be interested in seeing what would happen if a ProDom tried this type of ad, would he get the same sort of threads as the ProDomme? I bet he would. ~Lashra

LaTigresse -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 3:22:45 PM)
I will settle for that lifetime supply of GOOD dark chocolate, thank you very much. Edited to add..... Also a good way to deal with those insecurities, especially paired with a glass or two of port.[:D]

KnightofMists -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 3:23:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: missturbation Just a little of your time, conversation and sadisticness of course !! [:)] mmmmmmmmmm well that depends on how you answer this question... Do you think I have sweet eyes?

RRafe -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 3:27:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KnightofMists quote: ORIGINAL: RRafe . After all, EVERY man should want to submit to someone so wonderful, eh? On many occassions ... Dominants (Male or Female) often are projecting and and over-compensating for some sort of insecurity in their interactions with others. Most of us are dealing with or come across situations of insecurties... the very strongest of those learn to not make their insecurity the issue for others to deal with. Being insecure is not the black plague... it's how one deals with the insecurites they face that can denote it as negative or not. The way to start is to admit that you have them, and learn why that is. I submit to work, to being social, to my governement. There are a lot of places that I serve. Sexually, is not one of them. That happens to be the place where I enjoy having the upper hand. When I could admit that,I stopped worrying about being "powerful." And the insecurity over it went away. I have power over myself-and if a girl wants me to have a little over her-that's fine. If it comes, that will be great-if not, I still have a life to live. It makes things very simple.

KnightofMists -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 3:28:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Padriag ..... You have to love the ones with photos of them kneeling naked or nearly so, or stretched out on a rug or a bed... I wonder if they realize just how submissive they look. That is because you are looking at them from the Perspective of a Dominant hetro sexual male. I suspect if a person was looking through the perspective of a Submissive hetro sexual male the view point would be somewhat different.

kyraofMists -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 3:29:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse I will settle for that lifetime supply of GOOD dark chocolate, thank you very much. mmmmm Cote d'Or Black of Black. I still have a lot. He didn't eat them all while we were on vacation. I am willing to share... if he is willing eg They just smell so good!! Knight's Kyra

LDRandAstarte -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 3:31:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus I get a giggle out of the fem dom profiles that say YOU MEN ARE AS WORRRRRMS give me your paycheck and fuck off! I get a boggle out of the male dom profiles that say they are looking for a 24/7 sex slave who will submit to any sort of abuse without complaint and put dinner on the table besides. They are out there, in droves. Doofs are on all sides. Yes, but contrary to how you may feel about it, I would bet that there are far more woman who would actually accept that arrangement then there are men, who would actually accept the former.

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