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CuriousLord -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 1:42:58 PM)

I think it's just a cultural norm.  Girls can get away with being bratty.  After all, a bratty girl can be cute, right?  What do we think of bratty boys, though?

So, I think two things help Domme's get away with it:
-male sub's are more desperate (due to low ratio of Domme's)
-A Domme doesn't have to be respectable in the same way that a Dom generally has to.  She can get away with being childish and demanding.  (I'm sure you've seen plenty of "loli Domme" profiles)




Rover -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 1:51:03 PM)

Perhaps the fact that she can get away with it is what makes her superior?
 
John




Padriag -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 1:52:22 PM)

I get a kick out of some of these "domme" profiles.  You have to love the ones with photos of them kneeling naked or nearly so, or stretched out on a rug or a bed... I wonder if they realize just how submissive they look.  The 18 yr old "dommes" posing in such pics while proclaiming their experience and how they just want money slaves are my personal favorites.  I'm waiting for one to pose on a leash.

I do think its more than just supply and demand, and agree some of it is cultural.  I don't worry with it much, however, not my kink anyway. 




LaTigresse -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 1:52:59 PM)

It's not my thing but I just look at it and think "okayyyyy, whatever floats your boat!"

The sad thing to me, is that there are guys that will go for it.




LotusSong -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 1:56:19 PM)

The one weakness a man will always have... is his lust.

I'd better add an example for clarification before this gets taken as a flame (because it's not)
I'm referring to things such as Clinton and Monica.. it just about brought him down from the highest seat in the country..   Female spies are use it against a male dignitary to get info..like that.




Padriag -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 2:00:53 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LotusSong

The one weakness a man will always have... is his lust.

I wouldn't be so certain of that.




RRafe -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 2:00:59 PM)

How much is a drop of water worth in the desert?




lateralist1 -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 2:01:19 PM)

 
Have you ever thought that financial submission is the purest form of submission?
We all get pleasure in different ways.
I'm dominant but I get pleasure out of ironing shirts lol
Most fem subs would probably get pleasure from buying a present for their Dom.
It's exactly the same.
Lets face it we are probably talking about men who wouldn't even notice how much had been taken.
And a woman who might be very very unhappy.
There must be a few men who like women enough to want to make them all happy but they don't have time because they are too busy making money.
Just a thought I have no idea really.





LaTigresse -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 2:10:27 PM)

I bet The Donald pays some serious credit cards bills to keep Melania happy.




Sunao -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 2:14:22 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: lateralist1


Have you ever thought that financial submission is the purest form of submission?
We all get pleasure in different ways.
I'm dominant but I get pleasure out of ironing shirts lol
Most fem subs would probably get pleasure from buying a present for their Dom.
It's exactly the same.
Lets face it we are probably talking about men who wouldn't even notice how much had been taken.
And a woman who might be very very unhappy.
There must be a few men who like women enough to want to make them all happy but they don't have time because they are too busy making money.
Just a thought I have no idea really.





Theres also the chance that a few men that want to make women happy and have all the time in the world just no cash.




AbbadonPrime -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 2:15:21 PM)

But you are ALL wrong.  An Alpha Male can get away with anything he wants. 
We just know how to carry ourselves and how to pull it off. 
It's not the kind of that can be taught or even told to another, It is inate.
Part of our being, and that's why we are the way we are...

AbbadonPrime




Prinsexx -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 2:22:30 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SirDominic

This is the profile for a Domme, name not important, nor even relevant as I picked it at random from the very many that are similar to it. Any man who attempted such a profile would be shot down in flames, and would certainly never get a woman to respond positively. Yet there are numerous female Doms who use this approach, with, I assume success. Can you say double standard?!?!?!?!?

I am Superior to you in every way!
If I own you as a slave you can consider yourself fortunate. I am greedy and self-important, I care only for myself and nothing for you!
I only have sex with women, NOT MEN! I am only interested in men who have credit cards and see it as their duty to become enslaved by me, to spoil me, worship me. Be warned, there is a very tough selection process!


I admit it, I'm envious. lol.

Are you serious...... is a relatively increased response rate really worth transgendering?




ctrlaltdelete -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 2:23:32 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: AbbadonPrime

But you are ALL wrong.  An Alpha Male can get away with anything he wants. 
We just know how to carry ourselves and how to pull it off. 
Part of our being, and that's why we are the way we are...

AbbadonPrime


I hope that was a majestic "we" - cause I didn't sign a proxy!




lateralist1 -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 2:25:35 PM)

That kind of man probably has more chance of actually making at least one woman happy.
Only very unhappy people would rather have someones money than their time.
Or very very poor ones of course.




LaTigresse -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 2:34:46 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: AbbadonPrime

But you are ALL wrong.  An Alpha Male can get away with anything he wants. 
We just know how to carry ourselves and how to pull it off. 
It's not the kind of that can be taught or even told to another, It is inate.
Part of our being, and that's why we are the way we are...

AbbadonPrime


Until, of course, said alpha male, meets said judge that says "I don't give a rat's ass how alpha you are, your going to the big house buster!"

NO ONE, can get away with anything they want. Regardless of how important they think they are, in their happy little world.




Vanatru -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 2:40:30 PM)

Tigresse, of course AP may have said it in jest.




LaTigresse -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 2:44:57 PM)

Oui, there is always that..........possibility.




RRafe -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 2:47:44 PM)

To like, get a reaction, the way sadists like to do?

So they can laugh? Lookit lookit-I pulled a string, and it DANCED for me"[:D]




MsBearlee -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 2:55:24 PM)

 
Now now, RRafe...I realize you proudly say you are not a sadist; but some of us ARE.  Surely you didn't mean to sound so condescending or judgmental?  Tell me it ain't so...
 
Perhaps you don't understand us...but you are usually better than this.
 
Sadistically yours,
Beverly




MsBearlee -> RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? (11/7/2007 2:56:34 PM)

 
...and on that note, I'll suggest the Domina can get away with that because women are smarter than men...and only men would fall for it.
 
...and then, I'd run like hell; giggling all the way.
 
B




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